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"Your asking this on a swinging site because?" Probably they may have met on this swinging site!  | |||
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"Imagine you met a lady and you adore her because of her personality. She is also an attractive woman. You develop feelings towards her and you communicate that with her. She admits that she has the same feelings towards you. Well, it looks like a happy ending! But no, one day she turns around and starts questioning your integrity. She thinks you are playing her. She doesnt believe your feelings towards her are genuine. You try to convince her, the reason why you chose her over anyone else. But she is not having a bar of it. Your feelings towards are genuine and you adore her. What would you do? Asking for a friend! "Just ask her to marry you be faithful and honest happy ending  | |||
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"Imagine you met a lady and you adore her because of her personality. She is also an attractive woman. You develop feelings towards her and you communicate that with her. She admits that she has the same feelings towards you. Well, it looks like a happy ending! But no, one day she turns around and starts questioning your integrity. She thinks you are playing her. She doesnt believe your feelings towards her are genuine. You try to convince her, the reason why you chose her over anyone else. But she is not having a bar of it. Your feelings towards are genuine and you adore her. What would you do? Asking for a friend!
Just ask her to marry you be faithful and honest happy ending "What if she doesn't trust you?  | |||
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"Imagine you met a lady and you adore her because of her personality. She is also an attractive woman. You develop feelings towards her and you communicate that with her. She admits that she has the same feelings towards you. Well, it looks like a happy ending! But no, one day she turns around and starts questioning your integrity. She thinks you are playing her. She doesnt believe your feelings towards her are genuine. You try to convince her, the reason why you chose her over anyone else. But she is not having a bar of it. Your feelings towards are genuine and you adore her. What would you do? Asking for a friend!
Just ask her to marry you be faithful and honest happy ending
What if she doesn't trust you? "Then prove your self to her if you are trustworthy it will show  | |||
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"Imagine you met a lady and you adore her because of her personality. She is also an attractive woman. You develop feelings towards her and you communicate that with her. She admits that she has the same feelings towards you. Well, it looks like a happy ending! But no, one day she turns around and starts questioning your integrity. She thinks you are playing her. She doesnt believe your feelings towards her are genuine. You try to convince her, the reason why you chose her over anyone else. But she is not having a bar of it. Your feelings towards are genuine and you adore her. What would you do? Asking for a friend!
Just ask her to marry you be faithful and honest happy ending
What if she doesn't trust you?
Then prove your self to her if you are trustworthy it will show "How would you do that?  | |||
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"Imagine you met a lady and you adore her because of her personality. She is also an attractive woman. You develop feelings towards her and you communicate that with her. She admits that she has the same feelings towards you. Well, it looks like a happy ending! But no, one day she turns around and starts questioning your integrity. She thinks you are playing her. She doesnt believe your feelings towards her are genuine. You try to convince her, the reason why you chose her over anyone else. But she is not having a bar of it. Your feelings towards are genuine and you adore her. What would you do? Asking for a friend!
Just ask her to marry you be faithful and honest happy ending
What if she doesn't trust you?
Then prove your self to her if you are trustworthy it will show
How would you do that? "Ask her why she feels the way she does and ask what could you do to gain her trust. | |||
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"Imagine you met a lady and you adore her because of her personality. She is also an attractive woman. You develop feelings towards her and you communicate that with her. She admits that she has the same feelings towards you. Well, it looks like a happy ending! But no, one day she turns around and starts questioning your integrity. She thinks you are playing her. She doesnt believe your feelings towards her are genuine. You try to convince her, the reason why you chose her over anyone else. But she is not having a bar of it. Your feelings towards are genuine and you adore her. What would you do? Asking for a friend!
Just ask her to marry you be faithful and honest happy ending
What if she doesn't trust you?
Then prove your self to her if you are trustworthy it will show
How would you do that? "Well if she's in here and see's you in here she might be put off how would I do it I'm trustworthy so I'd be OK but I'm not looking so.... | |||
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"Imagine you met a lady and you adore her because of her personality. She is also an attractive woman. You develop feelings towards her and you communicate that with her. She admits that she has the same feelings towards you. Well, it looks like a happy ending! But no, one day she turns around and starts questioning your integrity. She thinks you are playing her. She doesnt believe your feelings towards her are genuine. You try to convince her, the reason why you chose her over anyone else. But she is not having a bar of it. Your feelings towards are genuine and you adore her. What would you do? Asking for a friend!
Just ask her to marry you be faithful and honest happy ending
What if she doesn't trust you?
Then prove your self to her if you are trustworthy it will show
How would you do that?
Well if she's in here and see's you in here she might be put off how would I do it I'm trustworthy so I'd be OK but I'm not looking so...."*on * on | |||
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"Imagine you met a lady and you adore her because of her personality. She is also an attractive woman. You develop feelings towards her and you communicate that with her. She admits that she has the same feelings towards you. Well, it looks like a happy ending! But no, one day she turns around and starts questioning your integrity. She thinks you are playing her. She doesnt believe your feelings towards her are genuine. You try to convince her, the reason why you chose her over anyone else. But she is not having a bar of it. Your feelings towards are genuine and you adore her. What would you do? Asking for a friend!
Just ask her to marry you be faithful and honest happy ending
What if she doesn't trust you?
Then prove your self to her if you are trustworthy it will show
How would you do that?
Ask her why she feels the way she does and ask what could you do to gain her trust. "You can't do anything to change that. It's her past experiences that has shaped her current belief. She may have self doubts and she is thinking why would this guy pick her when there are lot of other attractive women around! | |||
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"Imagine you met a lady and you adore her because of her personality. She is also an attractive woman. You develop feelings towards her and you communicate that with her. She admits that she has the same feelings towards you. Well, it looks like a happy ending! But no, one day she turns around and starts questioning your integrity. She thinks you are playing her. She doesnt believe your feelings towards her are genuine. You try to convince her, the reason why you chose her over anyone else. But she is not having a bar of it. Your feelings towards are genuine and you adore her. What would you do? Asking for a friend!
Just ask her to marry you be faithful and honest happy ending
What if she doesn't trust you?
Then prove your self to her if you are trustworthy it will show
How would you do that?
Well if she's in here and see's you in here she might be put off how would I do it I'm trustworthy so I'd be OK but I'm not looking so...."I am asking for a friend, you see!  | |||
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"Imagine you met a lady and you adore her because of her personality. She is also an attractive woman. You develop feelings towards her and you communicate that with her. She admits that she has the same feelings towards you. Well, it looks like a happy ending! But no, one day she turns around and starts questioning your integrity. She thinks you are playing her. She doesnt believe your feelings towards her are genuine. You try to convince her, the reason why you chose her over anyone else. But she is not having a bar of it. Your feelings towards are genuine and you adore her. What would you do? Asking for a friend!
Just ask her to marry you be faithful and honest happy ending
What if she doesn't trust you?
Then prove your self to her if you are trustworthy it will show
How would you do that?
Ask her why she feels the way she does and ask what could you do to gain her trust.
You can't do anything to change that. It's her past experiences that has shaped her current belief. She may have self doubts and she is thinking why would this guy pick her when there are lot of other attractive women around!"And other attractive men for her also go ask her. | |||
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"Imagine you met a lady and you adore her because of her personality. She is also an attractive woman. You develop feelings towards her and you communicate that with her. She admits that she has the same feelings towards you. Well, it looks like a happy ending! But no, one day she turns around and starts questioning your integrity. She thinks you are playing her. She doesnt believe your feelings towards her are genuine. You try to convince her, the reason why you chose her over anyone else. But she is not having a bar of it. Your feelings towards are genuine and you adore her. What would you do? Asking for a friend!
Just ask her to marry you be faithful and honest happy ending
What if she doesn't trust you?
Then prove your self to her if you are trustworthy it will show
How would you do that?
Well if she's in here and see's you in here she might be put off how would I do it I'm trustworthy so I'd be OK but I'm not looking so....
I am asking for a friend, you see! "Yeah yourself. | |||
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"Imagine you met a lady and you adore her because of her personality. She is also an attractive woman. You develop feelings towards her and you communicate that with her. She admits that she has the same feelings towards you. Well, it looks like a happy ending! But no, one day she turns around and starts questioning your integrity. She thinks you are playing her. She doesnt believe your feelings towards her are genuine. You try to convince her, the reason why you chose her over anyone else. But she is not having a bar of it. Your feelings towards are genuine and you adore her. What would you do? Asking for a friend!
Just ask her to marry you be faithful and honest happy ending
What if she doesn't trust you?
Then prove your self to her if you are trustworthy it will show
How would you do that?
Ask her why she feels the way she does and ask what could you do to gain her trust.
You can't do anything to change that. It's her past experiences that has shaped her current belief. She may have self doubts and she is thinking why would this guy pick her when there are lot of other attractive women around!
And other attractive men for her also go ask her."My friend is not worried about other men. I believe he can stand on his own! | |||
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"Imagine you met a lady and you adore her because of her personality. She is also an attractive woman. You develop feelings towards her and you communicate that with her. She admits that she has the same feelings towards you. Well, it looks like a happy ending! But no, one day she turns around and starts questioning your integrity. She thinks you are playing her. She doesnt believe your feelings towards her are genuine. You try to convince her, the reason why you chose her over anyone else. But she is not having a bar of it. Your feelings towards are genuine and you adore her. What would you do? Asking for a friend!
Just ask her to marry you be faithful and honest happy ending
What if she doesn't trust you?
Then prove your self to her if you are trustworthy it will show
How would you do that?
Well if she's in here and see's you in here she might be put off how would I do it I'm trustworthy so I'd be OK but I'm not looking so....
I am asking for a friend, you see!
Yeah yourself."TG, this why I say you pick on me!  | |||
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"Imagine you met a lady and you adore her because of her personality. She is also an attractive woman. You develop feelings towards her and you communicate that with her. She admits that she has the same feelings towards you. Well, it looks like a happy ending! But no, one day she turns around and starts questioning your integrity. She thinks you are playing her. She doesnt believe your feelings towards her are genuine. You try to convince her, the reason why you chose her over anyone else. But she is not having a bar of it. Your feelings towards are genuine and you adore her. What would you do? Asking for a friend!
Just ask her to marry you be faithful and honest happy ending
What if she doesn't trust you?
Then prove your self to her if you are trustworthy it will show
How would you do that?
Ask her why she feels the way she does and ask what could you do to gain her trust.
You can't do anything to change that. It's her past experiences that has shaped her current belief. She may have self doubts and she is thinking why would this guy pick her when there are lot of other attractive women around!
And other attractive men for her also go ask her.
My friend is not worried about other men. I believe he can stand on his own!"That's your answers then Good luck. | |||
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"Imagine you met a lady and you adore her because of her personality. She is also an attractive woman. You develop feelings towards her and you communicate that with her. She admits that she has the same feelings towards you. Well, it looks like a happy ending! But no, one day she turns around and starts questioning your integrity. She thinks you are playing her. She doesnt believe your feelings towards her are genuine. You try to convince her, the reason why you chose her over anyone else. But she is not having a bar of it. Your feelings towards are genuine and you adore her. What would you do? Asking for a friend!
Just ask her to marry you be faithful and honest happy ending
What if she doesn't trust you?
Then prove your self to her if you are trustworthy it will show
How would you do that?
Well if she's in here and see's you in here she might be put off how would I do it I'm trustworthy so I'd be OK but I'm not looking so....
I am asking for a friend, you see!
Yeah yourself.
TG, this why I say you pick on me! "I'm _asmeen I'm helping you | |||
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"Imagine you met a lady and you adore her because of her personality. She is also an attractive woman. You develop feelings towards her and you communicate that with her. She admits that she has the same feelings towards you. Well, it looks like a happy ending! But no, one day she turns around and starts questioning your integrity. She thinks you are playing her. She doesnt believe your feelings towards her are genuine. You try to convince her, the reason why you chose her over anyone else. But she is not having a bar of it. Your feelings towards are genuine and you adore her. What would you do? Asking for a friend!
Just ask her to marry you be faithful and honest happy ending
What if she doesn't trust you?
Then prove your self to her if you are trustworthy it will show
How would you do that?
Ask her why she feels the way she does and ask what could you do to gain her trust.
You can't do anything to change that. It's her past experiences that has shaped her current belief. She may have self doubts and she is thinking why would this guy pick her when there are lot of other attractive women around!
And other attractive men for her also go ask her.
My friend is not worried about other men. I believe he can stand on his own!
That's your answers then
Good luck."There was no answer! You just washed your hands off! | |||
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"Imagine you met a lady and you adore her because of her personality. She is also an attractive woman. You develop feelings towards her and you communicate that with her. She admits that she has the same feelings towards you. Well, it looks like a happy ending! But no, one day she turns around and starts questioning your integrity. She thinks you are playing her. She doesnt believe your feelings towards her are genuine. You try to convince her, the reason why you chose her over anyone else. But she is not having a bar of it. Your feelings towards are genuine and you adore her. What would you do? Asking for a friend!
Just ask her to marry you be faithful and honest happy ending
What if she doesn't trust you?
Then prove your self to her if you are trustworthy it will show
How would you do that?
Ask her why she feels the way she does and ask what could you do to gain her trust.
You can't do anything to change that. It's her past experiences that has shaped her current belief. She may have self doubts and she is thinking why would this guy pick her when there are lot of other attractive women around!
And other attractive men for her also go ask her.
My friend is not worried about other men. I believe he can stand on his own!
That's your answers then
Good luck.
There was no answer! You just washed your hands off! "Sit her down tell her the truth if it's fate it will happen x | |||
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"Imagine you met a lady and you adore her because of her personality. She is also an attractive woman. You develop feelings towards her and you communicate that with her. She admits that she has the same feelings towards you. Well, it looks like a happy ending! But no, one day she turns around and starts questioning your integrity. She thinks you are playing her. She doesnt believe your feelings towards her are genuine. You try to convince her, the reason why you chose her over anyone else. But she is not having a bar of it. Your feelings towards are genuine and you adore her. What would you do? Asking for a friend!
Just ask her to marry you be faithful and honest happy ending
What if she doesn't trust you?
Then prove your self to her if you are trustworthy it will show
How would you do that?
Ask her why she feels the way she does and ask what could you do to gain her trust.
You can't do anything to change that. It's her past experiences that has shaped her current belief. She may have self doubts and she is thinking why would this guy pick her when there are lot of other attractive women around!
And other attractive men for her also go ask her.
My friend is not worried about other men. I believe he can stand on his own!
That's your answers then
Good luck.
There was no answer! You just washed your hands off!
Sit her down tell her the truth if it's fate it will happen x"She is not having a bar of it! So what do you do? | |||
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"Just send Freya a faf message and be done with it OP "Lol..Its not Freya. She is a good friend. I wouldn't date her or she wouldn't date me!  | |||
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"Imagine you met a lady and you adore her because of her personality. She is also an attractive woman. You develop feelings towards her and you communicate that with her. She admits that she has the same feelings towards you. Well, it looks like a happy ending! But no, one day she turns around and starts questioning your integrity. She thinks you are playing her. She doesnt believe your feelings towards her are genuine. You try to convince her, the reason why you chose her over anyone else. But she is not having a bar of it. Your feelings towards are genuine and you adore her. What would you do? Asking for a friend!
Just ask her to marry you be faithful and honest happy ending
What if she doesn't trust you?
Then prove your self to her if you are trustworthy it will show
How would you do that?
Ask her why she feels the way she does and ask what could you do to gain her trust.
You can't do anything to change that. It's her past experiences that has shaped her current belief. She may have self doubts and she is thinking why would this guy pick her when there are lot of other attractive women around!
And other attractive men for her also go ask her.
My friend is not worried about other men. I believe he can stand on his own!
That's your answers then
Good luck.
There was no answer! You just washed your hands off!
Sit her down tell her the truth if it's fate it will happen x
She is not having a bar of it! So what do you do?"Don't say I pick on you i don't its banter so act your age also you want my advice email me don't go attention seeking. | |||
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"Just send Freya a faf message and be done with it OP
Lol..Its not Freya. She is a good friend. I wouldn't date her or she wouldn't date me! "Thought you were asking for a friend??? | |||
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"Imagine you met a lady and you adore her because of her personality. She is also an attractive woman. You develop feelings towards her and you communicate that with her. She admits that she has the same feelings towards you. Well, it looks like a happy ending! But no, one day she turns around and starts questioning your integrity. She thinks you are playing her. She doesnt believe your feelings towards her are genuine. You try to convince her, the reason why you chose her over anyone else. But she is not having a bar of it. Your feelings towards are genuine and you adore her. What would you do? Asking for a friend!
Just ask her to marry you be faithful and honest happy ending
What if she doesn't trust you?
Then prove your self to her if you are trustworthy it will show
How would you do that?
Ask her why she feels the way she does and ask what could you do to gain her trust.
You can't do anything to change that. It's her past experiences that has shaped her current belief. She may have self doubts and she is thinking why would this guy pick her when there are lot of other attractive women around!
And other attractive men for her also go ask her.
My friend is not worried about other men. I believe he can stand on his own!
That's your answers then
Good luck.
There was no answer! You just washed your hands off!
Sit her down tell her the truth if it's fate it will happen x
She is not having a bar of it! So what do you do?
Don't say I pick on you i don't its banter so act your age also you want my advice email me don't go attention seeking."There you are picking on me again! I am just asking some advice for a friend! | |||
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"Imagine you met a lady and you adore her because of her personality. She is also an attractive woman. You develop feelings towards her and you communicate that with her. She admits that she has the same feelings towards you. Well, it looks like a happy ending! But no, one day she turns around and starts questioning your integrity. She thinks you are playing her. She doesnt believe your feelings towards her are genuine. You try to convince her, the reason why you chose her over anyone else. But she is not having a bar of it. Your feelings towards are genuine and you adore her. What would you do? Asking for a friend!
Just ask her to marry you be faithful and honest happy ending
What if she doesn't trust you?
Then prove your self to her if you are trustworthy it will show
How would you do that?
Ask her why she feels the way she does and ask what could you do to gain her trust.
You can't do anything to change that. It's her past experiences that has shaped her current belief. She may have self doubts and she is thinking why would this guy pick her when there are lot of other attractive women around!
And other attractive men for her also go ask her.
My friend is not worried about other men. I believe he can stand on his own!
That's your answers then
Good luck.
There was no answer! You just washed your hands off!
Sit her down tell her the truth if it's fate it will happen x
She is not having a bar of it! So what do you do?
Don't say I pick on you i don't its banter so act your age also you want my advice email me don't go attention seeking.
There you are picking on me again! I am just asking some advice for a friend! " | |||
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"having a new fab profile isn’t going to make her think she is the special one" Ouch! | |||
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"Imagine you met a lady and you adore her because of her personality. She is also an attractive woman. You develop feelings towards her and you communicate that with her. She admits that she has the same feelings towards you. Well, it looks like a happy ending! But no, one day she turns around and starts questioning your integrity. She thinks you are playing her. She doesnt believe your feelings towards her are genuine. You try to convince her, the reason why you chose her over anyone else. But she is not having a bar of it. Your feelings towards are genuine and you adore her. What would you do? Asking for a friend!
Just ask her to marry you be faithful and honest happy ending
What if she doesn't trust you?
Then prove your self to her if you are trustworthy it will show
How would you do that?
Ask her why she feels the way she does and ask what could you do to gain her trust.
You can't do anything to change that. It's her past experiences that has shaped her current belief. She may have self doubts and she is thinking why would this guy pick her when there are lot of other attractive women around!
And other attractive men for her also go ask her.
My friend is not worried about other men. I believe he can stand on his own!
That's your answers then
Good luck.
There was no answer! You just washed your hands off!
Sit her down tell her the truth if it's fate it will happen x
She is not having a bar of it! So what do you do?
Don't say I pick on you i don't its banter so act your age also you want my advice email me don't go attention seeking.
There you are picking on me again! I am just asking some advice for a friend! "I see you | |||
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"Imagine you met a lady and you adore her because of her personality. She is also an attractive woman. You develop feelings towards her and you communicate that with her. She admits that she has the same feelings towards you. Well, it looks like a happy ending! But no, one day she turns around and starts questioning your integrity. She thinks you are playing her. She doesnt believe your feelings towards her are genuine. You try to convince her, the reason why you chose her over anyone else. But she is not having a bar of it. Your feelings towards are genuine and you adore her. What would you do? Asking for a friend!
Just ask her to marry you be faithful and honest happy ending
What if she doesn't trust you?
Then prove your self to her if you are trustworthy it will show
How would you do that?
Ask her why she feels the way she does and ask what could you do to gain her trust.
You can't do anything to change that. It's her past experiences that has shaped her current belief. She may have self doubts and she is thinking why would this guy pick her when there are lot of other attractive women around!
And other attractive men for her also go ask her.
My friend is not worried about other men. I believe he can stand on his own!
That's your answers then
Good luck.
There was no answer! You just washed your hands off!
Sit her down tell her the truth if it's fate it will happen x
She is not having a bar of it! So what do you do?"Move on. | |||
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"Imagine you met a lady and you adore her because of her personality. She is also an attractive woman. You develop feelings towards her and you communicate that with her. She admits that she has the same feelings towards you. Well, it looks like a happy ending! But no, one day she turns around and starts questioning your integrity. She thinks you are playing her. She doesnt believe your feelings towards her are genuine. You try to convince her, the reason why you chose her over anyone else. But she is not having a bar of it. Your feelings towards are genuine and you adore her. What would you do? Asking for a friend!
Just ask her to marry you be faithful and honest happy ending
What if she doesn't trust you?
Then prove your self to her if you are trustworthy it will show
How would you do that?
Ask her why she feels the way she does and ask what could you do to gain her trust.
You can't do anything to change that. It's her past experiences that has shaped her current belief. She may have self doubts and she is thinking why would this guy pick her when there are lot of other attractive women around!
And other attractive men for her also go ask her.
My friend is not worried about other men. I believe he can stand on his own!
That's your answers then
Good luck.
There was no answer! You just washed your hands off!
Sit her down tell her the truth if it's fate it will happen x
She is not having a bar of it! So what do you do?
Don't say I pick on you i don't its banter so act your age also you want my advice email me don't go attention seeking.
There you are picking on me again! I am just asking some advice for a friend!
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"Imagine you met a lady and you adore her because of her personality. She is also an attractive woman. You develop feelings towards her and you communicate that with her. She admits that she has the same feelings towards you. Well, it looks like a happy ending! But no, one day she turns around and starts questioning your integrity. She thinks you are playing her. She doesnt believe your feelings towards her are genuine. You try to convince her, the reason why you chose her over anyone else. But she is not having a bar of it. Your feelings towards are genuine and you adore her. What would you do? Asking for a friend!
Just ask her to marry you be faithful and honest happy ending
What if she doesn't trust you?
Then prove your self to her if you are trustworthy it will show
How would you do that?
Ask her why she feels the way she does and ask what could you do to gain her trust.
You can't do anything to change that. It's her past experiences that has shaped her current belief. She may have self doubts and she is thinking why would this guy pick her when there are lot of other attractive women around!
And other attractive men for her also go ask her.
My friend is not worried about other men. I believe he can stand on his own!
That's your answers then
Good luck.
There was no answer! You just washed your hands off!
Sit her down tell her the truth if it's fate it will happen x
She is not having a bar of it! So what do you do?
Don't say I pick on you i don't its banter so act your age also you want my advice email me don't go attention seeking.
There you are picking on me again! I am just asking some advice for a friend!
You know I am just pulling your leg! "My long leg already knew. | |||
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"She’s learnt to be untrusting so she just needs to unlearn that and find a new way of processing her own/other peoples feelings. You need to speak with her, work out what exactly her triggers are, and work out how you can ease her mind whilst challenging her perception of relationships. For her, not trusting someone may be normal, she just needs to find a new normal " How do you do that? She is not even intrested in meeting to talk about it! | |||
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"Imagine you met a lady and you adore her because of her personality. She is also an attractive woman. You develop feelings towards her and you communicate that with her. She admits that she has the same feelings towards you. Well, it looks like a happy ending! But no, one day she turns around and starts questioning your integrity. She thinks you are playing her. She doesnt believe your feelings towards her are genuine. You try to convince her, the reason why you chose her over anyone else. But she is not having a bar of it. Your feelings towards are genuine and you adore her. What would you do? Asking for a friend!
Just ask her to marry you be faithful and honest happy ending
What if she doesn't trust you?
Then prove your self to her if you are trustworthy it will show
How would you do that?
Ask her why she feels the way she does and ask what could you do to gain her trust.
You can't do anything to change that. It's her past experiences that has shaped her current belief. She may have self doubts and she is thinking why would this guy pick her when there are lot of other attractive women around!
And other attractive men for her also go ask her.
My friend is not worried about other men. I believe he can stand on his own!
That's your answers then
Good luck.
There was no answer! You just washed your hands off!
Sit her down tell her the truth if it's fate it will happen x
She is not having a bar of it! So what do you do?
Don't say I pick on you i don't its banter so act your age also you want my advice email me don't go attention seeking.
There you are picking on me again! I am just asking some advice for a friend!
You know I am just pulling your leg!
My long leg already knew."And you still pick on me. I am the only guy who talks to you on the forums, risking potential meets with all these beautiful women out there. And you still hurt my feelings! | |||
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"She’s learnt to be untrusting so she just needs to unlearn that and find a new way of processing her own/other peoples feelings. You need to speak with her, work out what exactly her triggers are, and work out how you can ease her mind whilst challenging her perception of relationships. For her, not trusting someone may be normal, she just needs to find a new normal How do you do that? She is not even intrested in meeting to talk about it!" Then she’s made her feelings very clear that she doesn’t want to see your friend. He may need to graciously accept that and move on. | |||
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"Imagine you met a lady and you adore her because of her personality. She is also an attractive woman. You develop feelings towards her and you communicate that with her. She admits that she has the same feelings towards you. Well, it looks like a happy ending! But no, one day she turns around and starts questioning your integrity. She thinks you are playing her. She doesnt believe your feelings towards her are genuine. You try to convince her, the reason why you chose her over anyone else. But she is not having a bar of it. Your feelings towards are genuine and you adore her. What would you do? Asking for a friend!
Just ask her to marry you be faithful and honest happy ending
What if she doesn't trust you?
Then prove your self to her if you are trustworthy it will show
How would you do that?
Ask her why she feels the way she does and ask what could you do to gain her trust.
You can't do anything to change that. It's her past experiences that has shaped her current belief. She may have self doubts and she is thinking why would this guy pick her when there are lot of other attractive women around!
And other attractive men for her also go ask her.
My friend is not worried about other men. I believe he can stand on his own!
That's your answers then
Good luck.
There was no answer! You just washed your hands off!
Sit her down tell her the truth if it's fate it will happen x
She is not having a bar of it! So what do you do?
Don't say I pick on you i don't its banter so act your age also you want my advice email me don't go attention seeking.
There you are picking on me again! I am just asking some advice for a friend!
You know I am just pulling your leg!
My long leg already knew.
And you still pick on me. I am the only guy who talks to you on the forums, risking potential meets with all these beautiful women out there. And you still hurt my feelings! "Eh??? Many guys talk to me on forums now your just being rude don't try it. | |||
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"She’s learnt to be untrusting so she just needs to unlearn that and find a new way of processing her own/other peoples feelings. You need to speak with her, work out what exactly her triggers are, and work out how you can ease her mind whilst challenging her perception of relationships. For her, not trusting someone may be normal, she just needs to find a new normal How do you do that? She is not even intrested in meeting to talk about it! Then she’s made her feelings very clear that she doesn’t want to see your friend. He may need to graciously accept that and move on. " Bbbbb but but but, my friend is a lovely bloke!  He adores her.. | |||
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"Imagine you met a lady and you adore her because of her personality. She is also an attractive woman. You develop feelings towards her and you communicate that with her. She admits that she has the same feelings towards you. Well, it looks like a happy ending! But no, one day she turns around and starts questioning your integrity. She thinks you are playing her. She doesnt believe your feelings towards her are genuine. You try to convince her, the reason why you chose her over anyone else. But she is not having a bar of it. Your feelings towards are genuine and you adore her. What would you do? Asking for a friend!
Just ask her to marry you be faithful and honest happy ending
What if she doesn't trust you?
Then prove your self to her if you are trustworthy it will show
How would you do that?
Ask her why she feels the way she does and ask what could you do to gain her trust.
You can't do anything to change that. It's her past experiences that has shaped her current belief. She may have self doubts and she is thinking why would this guy pick her when there are lot of other attractive women around!
And other attractive men for her also go ask her.
My friend is not worried about other men. I believe he can stand on his own!
That's your answers then
Good luck.
There was no answer! You just washed your hands off!
Sit her down tell her the truth if it's fate it will happen x
She is not having a bar of it! So what do you do?
Don't say I pick on you i don't its banter so act your age also you want my advice email me don't go attention seeking.
There you are picking on me again! I am just asking some advice for a friend!
You know I am just pulling your leg!
My long leg already knew.
And you still pick on me. I am the only guy who talks to you on the forums, risking potential meets with all these beautiful women out there. And you still hurt my feelings!
Eh???
Many guys talk to me on forums now your just being rude don't try it."What??? Me being rude! | |||
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"Imagine you met a lady and you adore her because of her personality. She is also an attractive woman. You develop feelings towards her and you communicate that with her. She admits that she has the same feelings towards you. Well, it looks like a happy ending! But no, one day she turns around and starts questioning your integrity. She thinks you are playing her. She doesnt believe your feelings towards her are genuine. You try to convince her, the reason why you chose her over anyone else. But she is not having a bar of it. Your feelings towards are genuine and you adore her. What would you do? Asking for a friend!
Just ask her to marry you be faithful and honest happy ending
What if she doesn't trust you?
Then prove your self to her if you are trustworthy it will show
How would you do that?
Ask her why she feels the way she does and ask what could you do to gain her trust.
You can't do anything to change that. It's her past experiences that has shaped her current belief. She may have self doubts and she is thinking why would this guy pick her when there are lot of other attractive women around!
And other attractive men for her also go ask her.
My friend is not worried about other men. I believe he can stand on his own!
That's your answers then
Good luck.
There was no answer! You just washed your hands off!
Sit her down tell her the truth if it's fate it will happen x
She is not having a bar of it! So what do you do?
Don't say I pick on you i don't its banter so act your age also you want my advice email me don't go attention seeking.
There you are picking on me again! I am just asking some advice for a friend!
You know I am just pulling your leg!
My long leg already knew.
And you still pick on me. I am the only guy who talks to you on the forums, risking potential meets with all these beautiful women out there. And you still hurt my feelings!
Eh???
Many guys talk to me on forums now your just being rude don't try it.
What??? Me being rude! "Yeah very. | |||
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"Imagine you met a lady and you adore her because of her personality. She is also an attractive woman. You develop feelings towards her and you communicate that with her. She admits that she has the same feelings towards you. Well, it looks like a happy ending! But no, one day she turns around and starts questioning your integrity. She thinks you are playing her. She doesnt believe your feelings towards her are genuine. You try to convince her, the reason why you chose her over anyone else. But she is not having a bar of it. Your feelings towards are genuine and you adore her. What would you do? Asking for a friend!
Just ask her to marry you be faithful and honest happy ending
What if she doesn't trust you?
Then prove your self to her if you are trustworthy it will show
How would you do that?
Ask her why she feels the way she does and ask what could you do to gain her trust.
You can't do anything to change that. It's her past experiences that has shaped her current belief. She may have self doubts and she is thinking why would this guy pick her when there are lot of other attractive women around!
And other attractive men for her also go ask her.
My friend is not worried about other men. I believe he can stand on his own!
That's your answers then
Good luck.
There was no answer! You just washed your hands off!
Sit her down tell her the truth if it's fate it will happen x
She is not having a bar of it! So what do you do?
Don't say I pick on you i don't its banter so act your age also you want my advice email me don't go attention seeking.
There you are picking on me again! I am just asking some advice for a friend!
You know I am just pulling your leg!
My long leg already knew.
And you still pick on me. I am the only guy who talks to you on the forums, risking potential meets with all these beautiful women out there. And you still hurt my feelings!
Eh???
Many guys talk to me on forums now your just being rude don't try it.
What??? Me being rude!
Yeah very."I am sorry. I take that back. Will you forgive me? On a serious note, I dont care a f*@# what other ppl think. I talk to whoever I want, whenever I want and however I want. So are we all good? Are we still friends? | |||
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"Imagine you met a lady and you adore her because of her personality. She is also an attractive woman. You develop feelings towards her and you communicate that with her. She admits that she has the same feelings towards you. Well, it looks like a happy ending! But no, one day she turns around and starts questioning your integrity. She thinks you are playing her. She doesnt believe your feelings towards her are genuine. You try to convince her, the reason why you chose her over anyone else. But she is not having a bar of it. Your feelings towards are genuine and you adore her. What would you do? Asking for a friend!
Just ask her to marry you be faithful and honest happy ending
What if she doesn't trust you?
Then prove your self to her if you are trustworthy it will show
How would you do that?
Ask her why she feels the way she does and ask what could you do to gain her trust.
You can't do anything to change that. It's her past experiences that has shaped her current belief. She may have self doubts and she is thinking why would this guy pick her when there are lot of other attractive women around!
And other attractive men for her also go ask her.
My friend is not worried about other men. I believe he can stand on his own!
That's your answers then
Good luck.
There was no answer! You just washed your hands off!
Sit her down tell her the truth if it's fate it will happen x
She is not having a bar of it! So what do you do?
Don't say I pick on you i don't its banter so act your age also you want my advice email me don't go attention seeking.
There you are picking on me again! I am just asking some advice for a friend!
You know I am just pulling your leg!
My long leg already knew.
And you still pick on me. I am the only guy who talks to you on the forums, risking potential meets with all these beautiful women out there. And you still hurt my feelings!
Eh???
Many guys talk to me on forums now your just being rude don't try it.
What??? Me being rude!
Yeah very.
I am sorry. I take that back. Will you forgive me?
On a serious note, I dont care a f*@# what other ppl think. I talk to whoever I want, whenever I want and however I want.
So are we all good? Are we still friends? "No. | |||
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"She’s learnt to be untrusting so she just needs to unlearn that and find a new way of processing her own/other peoples feelings. You need to speak with her, work out what exactly her triggers are, and work out how you can ease her mind whilst challenging her perception of relationships. For her, not trusting someone may be normal, she just needs to find a new normal How do you do that? She is not even intrested in meeting to talk about it! Then she’s made her feelings very clear that she doesn’t want to see your friend. He may need to graciously accept that and move on. Bbbbb but but but, my friend is a lovely bloke! He adores her.."I’m sure he is! Sadly she obviously doesn’t think that way. | |||
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"Imagine you met a lady and you adore her because of her personality. She is also an attractive woman. You develop feelings towards her and you communicate that with her. She admits that she has the same feelings towards you. Well, it looks like a happy ending! But no, one day she turns around and starts questioning your integrity. She thinks you are playing her. She doesnt believe your feelings towards her are genuine. You try to convince her, the reason why you chose her over anyone else. But she is not having a bar of it. Your feelings towards are genuine and you adore her. What would you do? Asking for a friend!
Just ask her to marry you be faithful and honest happy ending
What if she doesn't trust you?
Then prove your self to her if you are trustworthy it will show
How would you do that?
Ask her why she feels the way she does and ask what could you do to gain her trust.
You can't do anything to change that. It's her past experiences that has shaped her current belief. She may have self doubts and she is thinking why would this guy pick her when there are lot of other attractive women around!
And other attractive men for her also go ask her.
My friend is not worried about other men. I believe he can stand on his own!
That's your answers then
Good luck.
There was no answer! You just washed your hands off!
Sit her down tell her the truth if it's fate it will happen x
She is not having a bar of it! So what do you do?
Don't say I pick on you i don't its banter so act your age also you want my advice email me don't go attention seeking.
There you are picking on me again! I am just asking some advice for a friend!
You know I am just pulling your leg!
My long leg already knew.
And you still pick on me. I am the only guy who talks to you on the forums, risking potential meets with all these beautiful women out there. And you still hurt my feelings!
Eh???
Many guys talk to me on forums now your just being rude don't try it.
What??? Me being rude!
Yeah very.
I am sorry. I take that back. Will you forgive me?
On a serious note, I dont care a f*@# what other ppl think. I talk to whoever I want, whenever I want and however I want.
So are we all good? Are we still friends?
No."How do we sort this out so we could be mates again? | |||
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"She’s learnt to be untrusting so she just needs to unlearn that and find a new way of processing her own/other peoples feelings. You need to speak with her, work out what exactly her triggers are, and work out how you can ease her mind whilst challenging her perception of relationships. For her, not trusting someone may be normal, she just needs to find a new normal How do you do that? She is not even intrested in meeting to talk about it! Then she’s made her feelings very clear that she doesn’t want to see your friend. He may need to graciously accept that and move on. Bbbbb but but but, my friend is a lovely bloke! He adores her..
I’m sure he is! Sadly she obviously doesn’t think that way. "Women, you cannot live with them. You cannot live without them! | |||
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"Imagine you met a lady and you adore her because of her personality. She is also an attractive woman. You develop feelings towards her and you communicate that with her. She admits that she has the same feelings towards you. Well, it looks like a happy ending! But no, one day she turns around and starts questioning your integrity. She thinks you are playing her. She doesnt believe your feelings towards her are genuine. You try to convince her, the reason why you chose her over anyone else. But she is not having a bar of it. Your feelings towards are genuine and you adore her. What would you do? Asking for a friend!
Just ask her to marry you be faithful and honest happy ending
What if she doesn't trust you?
Then prove your self to her if you are trustworthy it will show
How would you do that?
Ask her why she feels the way she does and ask what could you do to gain her trust.
You can't do anything to change that. It's her past experiences that has shaped her current belief. She may have self doubts and she is thinking why would this guy pick her when there are lot of other attractive women around!
And other attractive men for her also go ask her.
My friend is not worried about other men. I believe he can stand on his own!
That's your answers then
Good luck.
There was no answer! You just washed your hands off!
Sit her down tell her the truth if it's fate it will happen x
She is not having a bar of it! So what do you do?
Don't say I pick on you i don't its banter so act your age also you want my advice email me don't go attention seeking.
There you are picking on me again! I am just asking some advice for a friend!
You know I am just pulling your leg!
My long leg already knew.
And you still pick on me. I am the only guy who talks to you on the forums, risking potential meets with all these beautiful women out there. And you still hurt my feelings!
Eh???
Many guys talk to me on forums now your just being rude don't try it.
What??? Me being rude!
Yeah very.
I am sorry. I take that back. Will you forgive me?
On a serious note, I dont care a f*@# what other ppl think. I talk to whoever I want, whenever I want and however I want.
So are we all good? Are we still friends?
No.
How do we sort this out so we could be mates again? "We don't | |||
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"Imagine you met a lady and you adore her because of her personality. She is also an attractive woman. You develop feelings towards her and you communicate that with her. She admits that she has the same feelings towards you. Well, it looks like a happy ending! But no, one day she turns around and starts questioning your integrity. She thinks you are playing her. She doesnt believe your feelings towards her are genuine. You try to convince her, the reason why you chose her over anyone else. But she is not having a bar of it. Your feelings towards are genuine and you adore her. What would you do? Asking for a friend!
Just ask her to marry you be faithful and honest happy ending
What if she doesn't trust you?
Then prove your self to her if you are trustworthy it will show
How would you do that?
Ask her why she feels the way she does and ask what could you do to gain her trust.
You can't do anything to change that. It's her past experiences that has shaped her current belief. She may have self doubts and she is thinking why would this guy pick her when there are lot of other attractive women around!
And other attractive men for her also go ask her.
My friend is not worried about other men. I believe he can stand on his own!
That's your answers then
Good luck.
There was no answer! You just washed your hands off!
Sit her down tell her the truth if it's fate it will happen x
She is not having a bar of it! So what do you do?
Don't say I pick on you i don't its banter so act your age also you want my advice email me don't go attention seeking.
There you are picking on me again! I am just asking some advice for a friend!
You know I am just pulling your leg!
My long leg already knew.
And you still pick on me. I am the only guy who talks to you on the forums, risking potential meets with all these beautiful women out there. And you still hurt my feelings!
Eh???
Many guys talk to me on forums now your just being rude don't try it.
What??? Me being rude!
Yeah very.
I am sorry. I take that back. Will you forgive me?
On a serious note, I dont care a f*@# what other ppl think. I talk to whoever I want, whenever I want and however I want.
So are we all good? Are we still friends?
No.
How do we sort this out so we could be mates again?
We don't "I just repeated what you put on your last thread! | |||
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"Imagine you met a lady and you adore her because of her personality. She is also an attractive woman. You develop feelings towards her and you communicate that with her. She admits that she has the same feelings towards you. Well, it looks like a happy ending! But no, one day she turns around and starts questioning your integrity. She thinks you are playing her. She doesnt believe your feelings towards her are genuine. You try to convince her, the reason why you chose her over anyone else. But she is not having a bar of it. Your feelings towards are genuine and you adore her. What would you do? Asking for a friend!
Just ask her to marry you be faithful and honest happy ending
What if she doesn't trust you?
Then prove your self to her if you are trustworthy it will show
How would you do that?
Ask her why she feels the way she does and ask what could you do to gain her trust.
You can't do anything to change that. It's her past experiences that has shaped her current belief. She may have self doubts and she is thinking why would this guy pick her when there are lot of other attractive women around!
And other attractive men for her also go ask her.
My friend is not worried about other men. I believe he can stand on his own!
That's your answers then
Good luck.
There was no answer! You just washed your hands off!
Sit her down tell her the truth if it's fate it will happen x
She is not having a bar of it! So what do you do?
Don't say I pick on you i don't its banter so act your age also you want my advice email me don't go attention seeking.
There you are picking on me again! I am just asking some advice for a friend!
You know I am just pulling your leg!
My long leg already knew.
And you still pick on me. I am the only guy who talks to you on the forums, risking potential meets with all these beautiful women out there. And you still hurt my feelings!
Eh???
Many guys talk to me on forums now your just being rude don't try it.
What??? Me being rude!
Yeah very.
I am sorry. I take that back. Will you forgive me?
On a serious note, I dont care a f*@# what other ppl think. I talk to whoever I want, whenever I want and however I want.
So are we all good? Are we still friends?
No.
How do we sort this out so we could be mates again?
We don't
I just repeated what you put on your last thread! "I know plenty of guys talk to me on forums what I meant is lots ask me out who are shy or whatever maybe married or just snakey | |||
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"Imagine you met a lady and you adore her because of her personality. She is also an attractive woman. You develop feelings towards her and you communicate that with her. She admits that she has the same feelings towards you. Well, it looks like a happy ending! But no, one day she turns around and starts questioning your integrity. She thinks you are playing her. She doesnt believe your feelings towards her are genuine. You try to convince her, the reason why you chose her over anyone else. But she is not having a bar of it. Your feelings towards are genuine and you adore her. What would you do? Asking for a friend!
Just ask her to marry you be faithful and honest happy ending
What if she doesn't trust you?
Then prove your self to her if you are trustworthy it will show
How would you do that?
Ask her why she feels the way she does and ask what could you do to gain her trust.
You can't do anything to change that. It's her past experiences that has shaped her current belief. She may have self doubts and she is thinking why would this guy pick her when there are lot of other attractive women around!
And other attractive men for her also go ask her.
My friend is not worried about other men. I believe he can stand on his own!
That's your answers then
Good luck.
There was no answer! You just washed your hands off!
Sit her down tell her the truth if it's fate it will happen x
She is not having a bar of it! So what do you do?
Don't say I pick on you i don't its banter so act your age also you want my advice email me don't go attention seeking.
There you are picking on me again! I am just asking some advice for a friend!
You know I am just pulling your leg!
My long leg already knew.
And you still pick on me. I am the only guy who talks to you on the forums, risking potential meets with all these beautiful women out there. And you still hurt my feelings!
Eh???
Many guys talk to me on forums now your just being rude don't try it.
What??? Me being rude!
Yeah very.
I am sorry. I take that back. Will you forgive me?
On a serious note, I dont care a f*@# what other ppl think. I talk to whoever I want, whenever I want and however I want.
So are we all good? Are we still friends?
No.
How do we sort this out so we could be mates again?
We don't
I just repeated what you put on your last thread!
I know plenty of guys talk to me on forums what I meant is lots ask me out who are shy or whatever maybe married or just snakey"I get it now!  | |||
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"Imagine you met a lady and you adore her because of her personality. She is also an attractive woman. You develop feelings towards her and you communicate that with her. She admits that she has the same feelings towards you. Well, it looks like a happy ending! But no, one day she turns around and starts questioning your integrity. She thinks you are playing her. She doesnt believe your feelings towards her are genuine. You try to convince her, the reason why you chose her over anyone else. But she is not having a bar of it. Your feelings towards are genuine and you adore her. What would you do? Asking for a friend!
Just ask her to marry you be faithful and honest happy ending
What if she doesn't trust you?
Then prove your self to her if you are trustworthy it will show
How would you do that?
Ask her why she feels the way she does and ask what could you do to gain her trust.
You can't do anything to change that. It's her past experiences that has shaped her current belief. She may have self doubts and she is thinking why would this guy pick her when there are lot of other attractive women around!
And other attractive men for her also go ask her.
My friend is not worried about other men. I believe he can stand on his own!
That's your answers then
Good luck.
There was no answer! You just washed your hands off!
Sit her down tell her the truth if it's fate it will happen x
She is not having a bar of it! So what do you do?
Don't say I pick on you i don't its banter so act your age also you want my advice email me don't go attention seeking.
There you are picking on me again! I am just asking some advice for a friend!
You know I am just pulling your leg!
My long leg already knew.
And you still pick on me. I am the only guy who talks to you on the forums, risking potential meets with all these beautiful women out there. And you still hurt my feelings!
Eh???
Many guys talk to me on forums now your just being rude don't try it.
What??? Me being rude!
Yeah very.
I am sorry. I take that back. Will you forgive me?
On a serious note, I dont care a f*@# what other ppl think. I talk to whoever I want, whenever I want and however I want.
So are we all good? Are we still friends?
No.
How do we sort this out so we could be mates again?
We don't
I just repeated what you put on your last thread!
I know plenty of guys talk to me on forums what I meant is lots ask me out who are shy or whatever maybe married or just snakey
I get it now! " | |||
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"doesnt matter what your 'friend' does he will never convince her the problem is with her and how she views herself (unworthy of being loved) she needs to work on herself (counselling - womens centre are great for this) & her self esteem and learn that she is good enough despite her history " | |||
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"Move on. Her past experiences will continue to haunt her and trust will always be an issue for her. Plenty more fish......" So "damaged" women don't deserve to be loved and proved wrong? I've been with my partner for over 2 years now and my insecurities still haunt me from time to time and he's great and understands it because he knows what it is like to be on the receiving end of being lied to and cheated on. I'm glad there are people like OP who are trying to make things work despite things not going just smoothly. Good luck OP, give her a time and space and I'm sure she'll get there eventually | |||
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"Move on. Her past experiences will continue to haunt her and trust will always be an issue for her. Plenty more fish...... So "damaged" women don't deserve to be loved and proved wrong? I've been with my partner for over 2 years now and my insecurities still haunt me from time to time and he's great and understands it because he knows what it is like to be on the receiving end of being lied to and cheated on. I'm glad there are people like OP who are trying to make things work despite things not going just smoothly. Good luck OP, give her a time and space and I'm sure she'll get there eventually " I was in your fellas place for six years, tried to get my partner over her insecurities, self doubt etc. I obviously did a good job because she fucked off with someone else
So to the OP I’d say walk away unless of course she’s right to be insecure @ untrusting?
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"Funny how all the men say move on ... There got to be something that happened for her to not want to talk it over Maybe if u find that out u might get better answers " No all the men didn't say move on. | |||
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"having a new fab profile isn’t going to make her think she is the special one I must say you are gorgeous. Have we ever flirted before? "No thankfully | |||
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"There are a few questions that I have regarding 'your friend' and this situation so it's hard to give anything beyond a vague answer. I do find the wording of some of your posts and your OP a little curious though; You can't convince someone to trust you, just as I'm sure they didn't just suddenly change their minds. You also can try to assure someone of your feelings but theyre just words. I'm just wondering if the issue here is actions vs words. None of the things you're saying can be told to someone, they have to be shown and proved over time. If your words are saying one thing and your actions another, then the lady was correct. " | |||
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"Speaking for myself, if a man i’d met on here declared undying devotion within a short time i’d be concerned. I might be an amazing lady, but it takes a while to chip through the many layers of my armour to get to my true feelings. So in the meantime, while said guy is chipping away, i’d be watching him and his behaviour on here. If he was a forum fella and flirting it up with everyone then i’d be concerned. I know folk say flirting is only flirting, but flirting is ONLY flirting to those who flirt. To those that don’t flirt, it’s kind of a torture to watch someone you’re interested in do, especially if you’re both on the forums. So yes, that would play up my trust issues, because if you do that in front of me what are you doing in PM? And you can reassure someone as much as you like, but if your actions don’t match your words then it’s all for naught. A woman (this one anyway) likes to feel like the only woman in the world for said man - not one of many. And imagine if said woman had broken a few layers off and had allowed you in, and now feels doubt that you’re genuine in your intentions, imagine how horrible that must make her feel? " Absolutely this | |||
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"Imagine you met a lady and you adore her because of her personality. She is also an attractive woman. You develop feelings towards her and you communicate that with her. She admits that she has the same feelings towards you. Well, it looks like a happy ending! But no, one day she turns around and starts questioning your integrity. She thinks you are playing her. She doesnt believe your feelings towards her are genuine. You try to convince her, the reason why you chose her over anyone else. But she is not having a bar of it. Your feelings towards are genuine and you adore her. What would you do? Asking for a friend! "Sounds like she has trust issues Ask her why she is acting this way | |||
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"Speaking for myself, if a man i’d met on here declared undying devotion within a short time i’d be concerned. I might be an amazing lady, but it takes a while to chip through the many layers of my armour to get to my true feelings. So in the meantime, while said guy is chipping away, i’d be watching him and his behaviour on here. If he was a forum fella and flirting it up with everyone then i’d be concerned. I know folk say flirting is only flirting, but flirting is ONLY flirting to those who flirt. To those that don’t flirt, it’s kind of a torture to watch someone you’re interested in do, especially if you’re both on the forums. So yes, that would play up my trust issues, because if you do that in front of me what are you doing in PM? And you can reassure someone as much as you like, but if your actions don’t match your words then it’s all for naught. A woman (this one anyway) likes to feel like the only woman in the world for said man - not one of many. And imagine if said woman had broken a few layers off and had allowed you in, and now feels doubt that you’re genuine in your intentions, imagine how horrible that must make her feel? Honesty and communication between you both is needed to work through it, if you think each other is worth it. This is all waffle, i know, and probably one sided but it’s all i’ve got this early on a Sunday "Exactly this Op | |||
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"Imagine you met a lady and you adore her because of her personality. She is also an attractive woman. You develop feelings towards her and you communicate that with her. She admits that she has the same feelings towards you. Well, it looks like a happy ending! But no, one day she turns around and starts questioning your integrity. She thinks you are playing her. She doesnt believe your feelings towards her are genuine. You try to convince her, the reason why you chose her over anyone else. But she is not having a bar of it. Your feelings towards are genuine and you adore her. What would you do? Asking for a friend!
Just ask her to marry you be faithful and honest happy ending
What if she doesn't trust you?
Then prove your self to her if you are trustworthy it will show
How would you do that?
Ask her why she feels the way she does and ask what could you do to gain her trust.
You can't do anything to change that. It's her past experiences that has shaped her current belief. She may have self doubts and she is thinking why would this guy pick her when there are lot of other attractive women around!"Then she comes with baggage If you want to regain her trust Work with her not against her Give her space and time If she can't trust you after that she will never trust you Work at it Stick by her Love her But don't smother her | |||
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"Speaking for myself, if a man i’d met on here declared undying devotion within a short time i’d be concerned. I might be an amazing lady, but it takes a while to chip through the many layers of my armour to get to my true feelings. So in the meantime, while said guy is chipping away, i’d be watching him and his behaviour on here. If he was a forum fella and flirting it up with everyone then i’d be concerned. I know folk say flirting is only flirting, but flirting is ONLY flirting to those who flirt. To those that don’t flirt, it’s kind of a torture to watch someone you’re interested in do, especially if you’re both on the forums. So yes, that would play up my trust issues, because if you do that in front of me what are you doing in PM? And you can reassure someone as much as you like, but if your actions don’t match your words then it’s all for naught. A woman (this one anyway) likes to feel like the only woman in the world for said man - not one of many. And imagine if said woman had broken a few layers off and had allowed you in, and now feels doubt that you’re genuine in your intentions, imagine how horrible that must make her feel? Honesty and communication between you both is needed to work through it, if you think each other is worth it. This is all waffle, i know, and probably one sided but it’s all i’ve got this early on a Sunday "Nailed it | |||
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"It's kind of upsetting/scary how many people shout "run a mile" "her past will never let her move forward" etc and it seems to me this is why there are so many failed relationships and unhappy people about! Whatever happened to working at things? Working things out? Compromise? If she is indeed as wonderful as you make her sound then I would have thought it would be a real shame if your "friend" just gave up, ran off and binned her for lack of gumption and effort " Because why work on something when it's easier to say 'next please?' Or perhaps they have their own challenges and dont need to deal with someone else baggage. I agree with you though. Its a bit like in this meme comparing relationships to damaged material goods..about how people used to repair broken things in old days, now we just replace them. Not all of us. Didnt mean to generalise. But you get my drift I hope. | |||
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"It's kind of upsetting/scary how many people shout "run a mile" "her past will never let her move forward" etc and it seems to me this is why there are so many failed relationships and unhappy people about! Whatever happened to working at things? Working things out? Compromise? If she is indeed as wonderful as you make her sound then I would have thought it would be a real shame if your "friend" just gave up, ran off and binned her for lack of gumption and effort Because why work on something when it's easier to say 'next please?' Or perhaps they have their own challenges and dont need to deal with someone else baggage. I agree with you though. Its a bit like in this meme comparing relationships to damaged material goods..about how people used to repair broken things in old days, now we just replace them. Not all of us. Didnt mean to generalise. But you get my drift I hope. " Agree totally ^^^ | |||
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"There are two sides to every story and posting this on the forums where she's going to see it and all of the comments doesn't come across to me as a caring action OP. In this situation then look to your own actions, if you're telling her one thing but doing another, then she has every reason to mistrust you. If you're posting threads like this where she can read them then that's pretty distasteful, especially given your thread yesterday about Freya. " Agreed. | |||
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"Thank you for all your valuable feedback. I really appreciate it. A couple of months ago I stumbled my way into fabswingers under the profile named Tantric Spirit. The idea of having a NSA relationship with ladies across the continent sounded exactly what I needed. I am a businessman who have a small multi national business and that involves a bit of travelling. In the first few weeks I managed to get a few meets and soon realised that I was not looking for a NSA but more of a companionship. While being the usual myself flirting around the forums, I bumped into the lady I was talking about. We connected and we talked. I was looking forward to meeting her while I was in the UK during Christmas. Then we had some challenges and we decided to move on. I closed my fab account in pursuit of finding someone from the vanilla world. Easier said than done! I decided to come back on fab and just have fun flirting with the ladies. And I did that. But my flirting stops in the public forums. I have had PM's from different ladies I have flirted with, but I never encouraged a conversation in private with them. So my fliting was just tongue and cheek and there were no other intentions from my part. I am not here to justify myself, as I dont think I need to. I have no idea what our future holds, but would love to meet her and chat face to face. That would be a great start! "See...harmless flirt | |||
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"There are two sides to every story and posting this on the forums where she's going to see it and all of the comments doesn't come across to me as a caring action OP. In this situation then look to your own actions, if you're telling her one thing but doing another, then she has every reason to mistrust you. If you're posting threads like this where she can read them then that's pretty distasteful, especially given your thread yesterday about Freya. He can’t help it, I think he’s just a harmless forum flirt "If she is upset by the contradictions then yes it is harmful. Also harmful to her having the car crash of emotion played out on the forum | |||
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"There are two sides to every story and posting this on the forums where she's going to see it and all of the comments doesn't come across to me as a caring action OP. In this situation then look to your own actions, if you're telling her one thing but doing another, then she has every reason to mistrust you. If you're posting threads like this where she can read them then that's pretty distasteful, especially given your thread yesterday about Freya. He can’t help it, I think he’s just a harmless forum flirt
If she is upset by the contradictions then yes it is harmful.
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"There are two sides to every story and posting this on the forums where she's going to see it and all of the comments doesn't come across to me as a caring action OP. In this situation then look to your own actions, if you're telling her one thing but doing another, then she has every reason to mistrust you. If you're posting threads like this where she can read them then that's pretty distasteful, especially given your thread yesterday about Freya. He can’t help it, I think he’s just a harmless forum flirt
If she is upset by the contradictions then yes it is harmful.
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"There are two sides to every story and posting this on the forums where she's going to see it and all of the comments doesn't come across to me as a caring action OP. In this situation then look to your own actions, if you're telling her one thing but doing another, then she has every reason to mistrust you. If you're posting threads like this where she can read them then that's pretty distasteful, especially given your thread yesterday about Freya. He can’t help it, I think he’s just a harmless forum flirt
If she is upset by the contradictions then yes it is harmful.
Also harmful to her having the car crash of emotion played out on the forum
Maybe he’s just trying to reconnect with said lady "Thanks Cheeky. | |||
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"There are two sides to every story and posting this on the forums where she's going to see it and all of the comments doesn't come across to me as a caring action OP. In this situation then look to your own actions, if you're telling her one thing but doing another, then she has every reason to mistrust you. If you're posting threads like this where she can read them then that's pretty distasteful, especially given your thread yesterday about Freya. He can’t help it, I think he’s just a harmless forum flirt
If she is upset by the contradictions then yes it is harmful.
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Maybe he’s just trying to reconnect with said lady
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"There are two sides to every story and posting this on the forums where she's going to see it and all of the comments doesn't come across to me as a caring action OP. In this situation then look to your own actions, if you're telling her one thing but doing another, then she has every reason to mistrust you. If you're posting threads like this where she can read them then that's pretty distasteful, especially given your thread yesterday about Freya. " We may have to agree to disagree on that. I see Freya as a good friend who I can have a great banter with. We have chatted on my last profile. Nothing sexual about it. | |||
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"There are two sides to every story and posting this on the forums where she's going to see it and all of the comments doesn't come across to me as a caring action OP. In this situation then look to your own actions, if you're telling her one thing but doing another, then she has every reason to mistrust you. If you're posting threads like this where she can read them then that's pretty distasteful, especially given your thread yesterday about Freya. We may have to agree to disagree on that. I see Freya as a good friend who I can have a great banter with. We have chatted on my last profile. Nothing sexual about it. " I think you have to look at it from others perspective as well as your own. You may be 'harmlessly flirting' with people but some don't see flirting as harmless and using the forums as a way to attract attention in this way rarely goes well. If your intent was good, I'd say that none of this went as you intended | |||
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"There are two sides to every story and posting this on the forums where she's going to see it and all of the comments doesn't come across to me as a caring action OP. In this situation then look to your own actions, if you're telling her one thing but doing another, then she has every reason to mistrust you. If you're posting threads like this where she can read them then that's pretty distasteful, especially given your thread yesterday about Freya. We may have to agree to disagree on that. I see Freya as a good friend who I can have a great banter with. We have chatted on my last profile. Nothing sexual about it. I think you have to look at it from others perspective as well as your own. You may be 'harmlessly flirting' with people but some don't see flirting as harmless and using the forums as a way to attract attention in this way rarely goes well. If your intent was good, I'd say that none of this went as you intended " You are quite right. This post was not intended to upset her or hurt her. Just used this thread as a feedback. I can now see where she is coming from. Even if nothing happens, I am sure that we will remain as great friends for years to come and one day laugh about this whole debacle. | |||
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"Thank you for all your valuable feedback. I really appreciate it. A couple of months ago I stumbled my way into fabswingers under the profile named Tantric Spirit. The idea of having a NSA relationship with ladies across the continent sounded exactly what I needed. I am a businessman who have a small multi national business and that involves a bit of travelling. In the first few weeks I managed to get a few meets and soon realised that I was not looking for a NSA but more of a companionship. While being the usual myself flirting around the forums, I bumped into the lady I was talking about. We connected and we talked. I was looking forward to meeting her while I was in the UK during Christmas. Then we had some challenges and we decided to move on. I closed my fab account in pursuit of finding someone from the vanilla world. Easier said than done! I decided to come back on fab and just have fun flirting with the ladies. And I did that. But my flirting stops in the public forums. I have had PM's from different ladies I have flirted with, but I never encouraged a conversation in private with them. So my fliting was just tongue and cheek and there were no other intentions from my part. I am not here to justify myself, as I dont think I need to. I have no idea what our future holds, but would love to meet her and chat face to face. That would be a great start! ""My flirting stops at the public forums"...not what you say on your profile, you say you're happy to meet. Even if this new this only for coffee, it's a coffee to may lead to a kiss. I call bullshit. | |||
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"Run a mile! If she’s this this bananas at this stage of the relationship then she’ll only get more mental further down the line. Leg it. Comments like this is why single guys have such a hard time getting accepted on here. How about you taking the effort of filling your profile, than blaming others or scoring cheap points?" Touch a nerve did I? I used to have a full and detailed profile, but after a dozen messages asking for information that was in the profile, so obviously the person asking the question hadn't bothered to read it, I thought what's the point. | |||
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"There are two sides to every story and posting this on the forums where she's going to see it and all of the comments doesn't come across to me as a caring action OP. In this situation then look to your own actions, if you're telling her one thing but doing another, then she has every reason to mistrust you. If you're posting threads like this where she can read them then that's pretty distasteful, especially given your thread yesterday about Freya. We may have to agree to disagree on that. I see Freya as a good friend who I can have a great banter with. We have chatted on my last profile. Nothing sexual about it. I think you have to look at it from others perspective as well as your own. You may be 'harmlessly flirting' with people but some don't see flirting as harmless and using the forums as a way to attract attention in this way rarely goes well. If your intent was good, I'd say that none of this went as you intended You are quite right. This post was not intended to upset her or hurt her. Just used this thread as a feedback. I can now see where she is coming from. Even if nothing happens, I am sure that we will remain as great friends for years to come and one day laugh about this whole debacle." Also while this thread is unfolding there are posts on another thread (Fantasy) inviting another woman out for lunch in Sydney,binnocent as your intentions may be you can see how that is perceived surely? | |||
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"There are two sides to every story and posting this on the forums where she's going to see it and all of the comments doesn't come across to me as a caring action OP. In this situation then look to your own actions, if you're telling her one thing but doing another, then she has every reason to mistrust you. If you're posting threads like this where she can read them then that's pretty distasteful, especially given your thread yesterday about Freya. We may have to agree to disagree on that. I see Freya as a good friend who I can have a great banter with. We have chatted on my last profile. Nothing sexual about it. I think you have to look at it from others perspective as well as your own. You may be 'harmlessly flirting' with people but some don't see flirting as harmless and using the forums as a way to attract attention in this way rarely goes well. If your intent was good, I'd say that none of this went as you intended You are quite right. This post was not intended to upset her or hurt her. Just used this thread as a feedback. I can now see where she is coming from. Even if nothing happens, I am sure that we will remain as great friends for years to come and one day laugh about this whole debacle. Also while this thread is unfolding there are posts on another thread (Fantasy) inviting another woman out for lunch in Sydney,binnocent as your intentions may be you can see how that is perceived surely? " Fair point. I am sure you will find a lot more if you tried harder! | |||
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"There are two sides to every story and posting this on the forums where she's going to see it and all of the comments doesn't come across to me as a caring action OP. In this situation then look to your own actions, if you're telling her one thing but doing another, then she has every reason to mistrust you. If you're posting threads like this where she can read them then that's pretty distasteful, especially given your thread yesterday about Freya. We may have to agree to disagree on that. I see Freya as a good friend who I can have a great banter with. We have chatted on my last profile. Nothing sexual about it. I think you have to look at it from others perspective as well as your own. You may be 'harmlessly flirting' with people but some don't see flirting as harmless and using the forums as a way to attract attention in this way rarely goes well. If your intent was good, I'd say that none of this went as you intended You are quite right. This post was not intended to upset her or hurt her. Just used this thread as a feedback. I can now see where she is coming from. Even if nothing happens, I am sure that we will remain as great friends for years to come and one day laugh about this whole debacle. Also while this thread is unfolding there are posts on another thread (Fantasy) inviting another woman out for lunch in Sydney,binnocent as your intentions may be you can see how that is perceived surely? " I have met seven women in person so far. Happy for you to get in touch with them and see what did our social meets lead to. I am sure a couple may each out to you! | |||
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"There are two sides to every story and posting this on the forums where she's going to see it and all of the comments doesn't come across to me as a caring action OP. In this situation then look to your own actions, if you're telling her one thing but doing another, then she has every reason to mistrust you. If you're posting threads like this where she can read them then that's pretty distasteful, especially given your thread yesterday about Freya. We may have to agree to disagree on that. I see Freya as a good friend who I can have a great banter with. We have chatted on my last profile. Nothing sexual about it. I think you have to look at it from others perspective as well as your own. You may be 'harmlessly flirting' with people but some don't see flirting as harmless and using the forums as a way to attract attention in this way rarely goes well. If your intent was good, I'd say that none of this went as you intended You are quite right. This post was not intended to upset her or hurt her. Just used this thread as a feedback. I can now see where she is coming from. Even if nothing happens, I am sure that we will remain as great friends for years to come and one day laugh about this whole debacle. Also while this thread is unfolding there are posts on another thread (Fantasy) inviting another woman out for lunch in Sydney,binnocent as your intentions may be you can see how that is perceived surely? Fair point. I am sure you will find a lot more if you tried harder! "I am sure I would, but it was only what I came across while browsing. I percieve it as a bit of a juxtaposition. | |||
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"OP...enough faffing around already. Ask her out for a hot chocolate, and actualy talk with her." This | |||
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"OP...enough faffing around already. Ask her out for a hot chocolate, and actualy talk with her." Thanks Lisa. We are doing that. | |||
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"OP...enough faffing around already. Ask her out for a hot chocolate, and actualy talk with her. Thanks Lisa. We are doing that. "Good. | |||
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"OP...enough faffing around already. Ask her out for a hot chocolate, and actualy talk with her. Thanks Lisa. We are doing that. "Are we?  | |||
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"OP...enough faffing around already. Ask her out for a hot chocolate, and actualy talk with her. Thanks Lisa. We are doing that. "As in the royal ‘we’? | |||
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"She’s learnt to be untrusting so she just needs to unlearn that and find a new way of processing her own/other peoples feelings. You need to speak with her, work out what exactly her triggers are, and work out how you can ease her mind whilst challenging her perception of relationships. For her, not trusting someone may be normal, she just needs to find a new normal " This. Will take time and patience and probably some frustration. The more you understand they "why" she is the way she is, well, the easier it will be to not take things personally P | |||
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"She’s learnt to be untrusting so she just needs to unlearn that and find a new way of processing her own/other peoples feelings. You need to speak with her, work out what exactly her triggers are, and work out how you can ease her mind whilst challenging her perception of relationships. For her, not trusting someone may be normal, she just needs to find a new normal This. Will take time and patience and probably some frustration. The more you understand they "why" she is the way she is, well, the easier it will be to not take things personally P" Flip side of the coin here, your friend could, by pushing - even if it's gently or not so gently (by thread starting) her into thinking she's right not to trust. Instead of showing he can be trusted, it's showing that he can publicly "get to her" and that can feel really unsafe and claustrophobic. P | |||
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" Flip side of the coin here, your friend could, by pushing - even if it's gently or not so gently (by thread starting) her into thinking she's right not to trust. Instead of showing he can be trusted, it's showing that he can publicly "get to her" and that can feel really unsafe and claustrophobic. P" Exactly that and not helped by arranging lunch dates with other women whilst this thread is active, regardless of intention it is contradictory | |||
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"Err yeah I came here to raise the point others already have ... why not start by not inviting out other women... "Aaargh, come back! | |||
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Aaargh, come back! "Who was that | |||
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Aaargh, come back!
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"Err yeah I came here to raise the point others already have ... why not start by not inviting out other women...
Aaargh, come back!
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"Actions speak louder than words in my books. If you are as trustworthy as you say, " These two statements are a bit at odds | |||
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Are we? "I meant I am talking to her. | |||
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Just ask her to marry you be faithful and honest happy ending
What if she doesn't trust you?
Then prove your self to her if you are trustworthy it will show
How would you do that?
Well if she's in here and see's you in here she might be put off how would I do it I'm trustworthy so I'd be OK but I'm not looking so....
I am asking for a friend, you see! "Its really you that's asking not a friend so cut the balls and talk sense | |||
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No woman are interested in me diamond so don't make a diff "Rubbish n you know itv | |||
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"Imagine you met a lady and you adore her because of her personality. She is also an attractive woman. You develop feelings towards her and you communicate that with her. She admits that she has the same feelings towards you. Well, it looks like a happy ending! But no, one day she turns around and starts questioning your integrity. She thinks you are playing her. She doesnt believe your feelings towards her are genuine. You try to convince her, the reason why you chose her over anyone else. But she is not having a bar of it. Your feelings towards are genuine and you adore her. What would you do? Asking for a friend!
Just ask her to marry you be faithful and honest happy ending
What if she doesn't trust you?
Then prove your self to her if you are trustworthy it will show
How would you do that?
Well if she's in here and see's you in here she might be put off how would I do it I'm trustworthy so I'd be OK but I'm not looking so....
I am asking for a friend, you see!
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"Err yeah I came here to raise the point others already have ... why not start by not inviting out other women... "This is not an exclusive site Nor a dating site It has been known for people to get married etc from here I can shag a pile of carpet and no one should bat an eyelid Some folk are possessive far too quick on here Trust isn't earnt its given from the off Shit happens Trust lost Regaining trust takes time If you want a relationship join the circus of sites out there | |||
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"Err yeah I came here to raise the point others already have ... why not start by not inviting out other women...
This is not an exclusive site
Nor a dating site
It has been known for people to get married etc from here
I can shag a pile of carpet and no one should bat an eyelid
Some folk are possessive far too quick on here
Trust isn't earnt its given from the off
Shit happens
Trust lost
Regaining trust takes time
If you want a relationship join the circus of sites out there "I was looking for closure before I move on from here totally. I just wanted some answers and feedback. Sometimes there is no point in flogging a dead horse. | |||
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"having a new fab profile isn’t going to make her think she is the special one Ouch! " | |||
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"Err yeah I came here to raise the point others already have ... why not start by not inviting out other women...
This is not an exclusive site
Nor a dating site
It has been known for people to get married etc from here
I can shag a pile of carpet and no one should bat an eyelid
Some folk are possessive far too quick on here
Trust isn't earnt its given from the off
Shit happens
Trust lost
Regaining trust takes time
If you want a relationship join the circus of sites out there
I was looking for closure before I move on from here totally. I just wanted some answers and feedback. Sometimes there is no point in flogging a dead horse."Get yourself a beer or something and just wallow Put it to bed now People have been helpful here Its almost Christmas and | |||
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"Let’s have a drink and a Christmas party now "That's what I was thinking I got the naughty hat n festive flirt apron on. | |||
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"Err yeah I came here to raise the point others already have ... why not start by not inviting out other women...
This is not an exclusive site
Nor a dating site
It has been known for people to get married etc from here
I can shag a pile of carpet and no one should bat an eyelid
Some folk are possessive far too quick on here
Trust isn't earnt its given from the off
Shit happens
Trust lost
Regaining trust takes time
If you want a relationship join the circus of sites out there
I was looking for closure before I move on from here totally. I just wanted some answers and feedback. Sometimes there is no point in flogging a dead horse.
Get yourself a beer or something and just wallow
Put it to bed now
People have been helpful here
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Just ask her to marry you be faithful and honest happy ending
What if she doesn't trust you?
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"Imagine you met a lady and you adore her because of her personality. She is also an attractive woman. You develop feelings towards her and you communicate that with her. She admits that she has the same feelings towards you. Well, it looks like a happy ending! But no, one day she turns around and starts questioning your integrity. She thinks you are playing her. She doesnt believe your feelings towards her are genuine. You try to convince her, the reason why you chose her over anyone else. But she is not having a bar of it. Your feelings towards are genuine and you adore her. What would you do? Asking for a friend!
Just ask her to marry you be faithful and honest happy ending
What if she doesn't trust you?
Then prove your self to her if you are trustworthy it will show
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"Imagine you met a lady and you adore her because of her personality. She is also an attractive woman. You develop feelings towards her and you communicate that with her. She admits that she has the same feelings towards you. Well, it looks like a happy ending! But no, one day she turns around and starts questioning your integrity. She thinks you are playing her. She doesnt believe your feelings towards her are genuine. You try to convince her, the reason why you chose her over anyone else. But she is not having a bar of it. Your feelings towards are genuine and you adore her. What would you do? Asking for a friend! "Honestly I would tell him to move on I know that's harder than said done but to be honest it would be best for the both of them | |||
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"Oh birthday boy... HAPPY BIRTHDAY FROM US ALL "Thanks. By Australia/NZ time it is today. But now being in London I am still 7 and half hrs younger. | |||
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Honestly I would tell him to move on I know that's harder than said done but to be honest it would be best for the both of them"By the way the so called 'friend' is me. That is what I did initially. But it was very important to have a closure before I completely moved on. I don't like to look back and think 'what if I had done that. | |||
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"I know man it’s a horrible feeling having that I know from personal experience but if she doesn’t see that you are loyal to her then she will just keep thinking that you’re not no matter how many times you have proven it. I know the feeling sucks but honestly moving on is the best option you will look back and say she wasn’t right for you. Having her constantly doubting you isn’t good for you or for her. " Thanks mate. I really appreciate your advice! | |||
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"I know man it’s a horrible feeling having that I know from personal experience but if she doesn’t see that you are loyal to her then she will just keep thinking that you’re not no matter how many times you have proven it. I know the feeling sucks but honestly moving on is the best option you will look back and say she wasn’t right for you. Having her constantly doubting you isn’t good for you or for her. " He is talking about me Enough of public ridicule. I can see now there people laughing at my expense
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"I know man it’s a horrible feeling having that I know from personal experience but if she doesn’t see that you are loyal to her then she will just keep thinking that you’re not no matter how many times you have proven it. I know the feeling sucks but honestly moving on is the best option you will look back and say she wasn’t right for you. Having her constantly doubting you isn’t good for you or for her. He is talking about me Enough of public ridicule. I can see now there people laughing at my expense
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"I know man it’s a horrible feeling having that I know from personal experience but if she doesn’t see that you are loyal to her then she will just keep thinking that you’re not no matter how many times you have proven it. I know the feeling sucks but honestly moving on is the best option you will look back and say she wasn’t right for you. Having her constantly doubting you isn’t good for you or for her. He is talking about me Enough of public ridicule. I can see now there people laughing at my expense
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"I know man it’s a horrible feeling having that I know from personal experience but if she doesn’t see that you are loyal to her then she will just keep thinking that you’re not no matter how many times you have proven it. I know the feeling sucks but honestly moving on is the best option you will look back and say she wasn’t right for you. Having her constantly doubting you isn’t good for you or for her. He is talking about me Enough of public ridicule. I can see now there people laughing at my expense
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"I know man it’s a horrible feeling having that I know from personal experience but if she doesn’t see that you are loyal to her then she will just keep thinking that you’re not no matter how many times you have proven it. I know the feeling sucks but honestly moving on is the best option you will look back and say she wasn’t right for you. Having her constantly doubting you isn’t good for you or for her. He is talking about me Enough of public ridicule. I can see now there people laughing at my expense
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