FabSwingers.com forum: gifts

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How do you feel about being given gifts on meets?? Flowers, wine, lingerie or sex toys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been given one..... but my FB and i exchange birthday/christmas/valentines gifts, also got him to bring me a pint of milk last week, does that count?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"How do you feel about being given gifts on meets?? Flowers, wine, lingerie or sex toys."

Chance would be a fine thing!

Seriously though, I'm not bothered. Wine would be nice (cos we can share it) but anything else would make me think they expect something in return.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

A bottle of wine to share would be ok, and I have sometimes taken flowers when Ive gone to meet couples at their home... but other than that its a no from me

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By *Sensual40Man
over a year ago

South Woodford

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"A bottle of wine to share would be ok, and I have sometimes taken flowers when Ive gone to meet couples at their home... but other than that its a no from me"
Im with Jezebel on this one, could be misconstrued also

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By *Sensual40Man
over a year ago

South Woodford

I'd enjoy giving but there is so much emotional connotations attached to the gift....

But I could put a bow round my cock and offer it as a pressie. Would that count? Lol

"How do you feel about being given gifts on meets?? Flowers, wine, lingerie or sex toys."

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Ive been given a couple of kinky items from people that I know well and im fine with that,its never been anything that ive seen as too personal and its never anything thats ever expected

Champagne is always welcome though

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

It may just be me, my preference even, but the gift of used panties after the event will always be appreciated.

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

ps from that day, not from the bottom of the washing basket.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

ps from that day, not from the bottom of the washing basket. "

haha

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"A bottle of wine to share would be ok, and I have sometimes taken flowers when Ive gone to meet couples at their home... but other than that its a no from meIm with Jezebel on this one, could be misconstrued also"

I tend to find couples bring wine and flowers... and I don't mind that. I think it would be a bit odd for a single guy to bring flowers. Having said that I think more couples have bought me underwear as a gift than guys have.

When guys have given me sex toys and underwear, it tends to be more to satisfy their little kinks because they want a woman to wear it or to use it, rather than bought just as a gift.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

ps from that day, not from the bottom of the washing basket. "

There's just no pleasing some people

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

ps from that day, not from the bottom of the washing basket. "
do they come back washed and ironed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So the choccy's you bought me (ones i dont like i might add

) was not you secretly wanting to take me to bed a ravish me then!!!!!!!!

GUTTED

Kat

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

So the choccy's you bought me (ones i dont like i might add

) was not you secretly wanting to take me to bed a ravish me then!!!!!!!!

GUTTED

Kat"
lol...hasnt kev eaten em yet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So the choccy's you bought me (ones i dont like i might add

) was not you secretly wanting to take me to bed a ravish me then!!!!!!!!

GUTTED

Katlol...hasnt kev eaten em yet?

Dont think they lasted 24 hours tbh, greedy git he is!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

So the choccy's you bought me (ones i dont like i might add

) was not you secretly wanting to take me to bed a ravish me then!!!!!!!!

GUTTED

Katlol...hasnt kev eaten em yet?

Dont think they lasted 24 hours tbh, greedy git he is!"
lmao....

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

ps from that day, not from the bottom of the washing basket. do they come back washed and ironed

oh yeah, unless the breeze takes them off down the road

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

I've taken chocolate to share.

I've also lost 6kg in weight this month.

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

I've taken chocolate to share.

I've also lost 6kg in weight this month.

"
thats why i ate it all

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

At the risk of being slushy and/or tight, is hot sex and a great memory sufficient?

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

At the risk of being slushy and/or tight, is hot sex and a great memory sufficient?"

Nope, pinot if prefer white, rioja if red, good dark chocolate, carnations rather than roses (prefer a guy's prick) and if you really wanna get on my good side, a we vibe 3g remote

****all these items can be found in Bargain Booze, Tesco or LoveHoney****

(other supermarkets, drink emporiums and sextoy sites are available......)

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I'd be wary of getting lingerie as it has to fit.

I have in rare occasions been given chocs and flowers. From a stranger they're nice but, to me, are meaningless other than as a 'hostess' gift.

Wine is lovely as long as I don't have to drive (champagne or prosecco please) but that's cos we can share it.

As far as toys are concerned I have a wishlist on lovehoney... (whistles and tries to look nonchalant)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most men i meet are to tight to give me anything. have been given flowers, chocolates and 3 bottles of vodka before though which was nice. when i was on a dating site i did have the ocasional few drinks bought me at the pub and a couple of meals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the risk of being slushy and/or tight, is hot sex and a great memory sufficient?"

only if he is very young and very fit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i did used to see a man who gave me some vintage nightys.i looked at them on ebay, they arent cheap.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ive had a guy bring me flowers and wine.. did find it a little odd.

Recieved a few messages from guys offering to send me toys and lingerie.. as daft as it might sound id never be able to wear or use it without thinking of that person and wouldnt want that to happen.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

But I could put a bow round my cock and offer it as a pressie. Would that count? Lol

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Just themselves washed, ready for fun and a load of stamina will do for me

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I have taken wine and flowers and choccys, but that was after a chat and a bit of a wind up in the chat room where she was having a bt of a tease about it being close to valentines day.

i said i would bring wine anyway, so she said and flowers for valentines, and so i laughed and said i suppose you want choccys too which amused her.

when i turned up with all three her face was a picture and it was worth it for the smile.

nothing wanted in return for those, we both knew what was going to happen, flowers or no flowers.

suppose it depends on the peoplethe time and the circumstances. (much like everything else in swinging).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive had a guy bring me flowers and wine.. did find it a little odd.

Recieved a few messages from guys offering to send me toys and lingerie.. as daft as it might sound id never be able to wear or use it without thinking of that person and wouldnt want that to happen. "

its because your young and pretty, make the most of it. i only wear my funny old nightys when i meet someone, so am certainly not thinking of the chap who gave them to me.

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