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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why are most of you ladies that are over 40 on here won't meet or talk to anyone under you're age?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Free will...I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every time I've tried it it's been a mistake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m 41 and often meet people in their 30’s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every time I've tried it it's been a mistake. "

Can i ask why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m 41 and often meet people in their 30’s "

I just turned 30...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Every time I've tried it it's been a mistake. "

As in what mistake?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are both 56 and are only looking for playmates of an age which is much younger than us.

35,000 fabbers and each one different with different choices and kinks.

Tony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is just a number

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m 41 and often meet people in their 30’s "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every time I've tried it it's been a mistake.

Can i ask why?"

I don't really want to rubbish anyone I've met. I'm not sure it's necessarily them, I think it's me. I think sexually I just respond to older, very alpha men. When I said a mistake I meant for us both, not just me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Age is just a number"

Good old saying. Someone people don't agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every time I've tried it it's been a mistake.

Can i ask why?

I don't really want to rubbish anyone I've met. I'm not sure it's necessarily them, I think it's me. I think sexually I just respond to older, very alpha men. When I said a mistake I meant for us both, not just me. "

Makes sense. Each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age is just a number

Good old saying. Someone people don't agree "

It isn't. That's just something people say because they don't want to take no for an answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age is just a number

Good old saying. Someone people don't agree

It isn't. That's just something people say because they don't want to take no for an answer. "

Shots fired

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age is just a number

Good old saying. Someone people don't agree

It isn't. That's just something people say because they don't want to take no for an answer. "

Yeah I don’t think age is just a number.

31 year old me is very different to 21 year old me. And I’m sure 50 year old me won’t want to be meeting the people I met when I was 21..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Age is just a number

Good old saying. Someone people don't agree

It isn't. That's just something people say because they don't want to take no for an answer. "

You can look at it in that way but what if it was genuine. You wouldn't be able to say it is or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age is just a number

Good old saying. Someone people don't agree

It isn't. That's just something people say because they don't want to take no for an answer.

Shots fired "

Giggle, well its not, is it there's all kinds of factors to do with experience, expectations, desires, dreams, cultural references, shared memories. I'm not saying people of different ages can't be compatible. But to say it's just a number is flippant and inaccurate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age is just a number

Good old saying. Someone people don't agree

It isn't. That's just something people say because they don't want to take no for an answer.

You can look at it in that way but what if it was genuine. You wouldn't be able to say it is or not "

Untrue i meant it, i judge the person not their age. I've met some very immature 40+ and lovely 20-30.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age is just a number

Good old saying. Someone people don't agree

It isn't. That's just something people say because they don't want to take no for an answer.

You can look at it in that way but what if it was genuine. You wouldn't be able to say it is or not

Untrue i meant it, i judge the person not their age. I've met some very immature 40+ and lovely 20-30."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older women are on another level of sexy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age is just a number

Good old saying. Someone people don't agree

It isn't. That's just something people say because they don't want to take no for an answer.

You can look at it in that way but what if it was genuine. You wouldn't be able to say it is or not

Untrue i meant it, i judge the person not their age. I've met some very immature 40+ and lovely 20-30."

Yeah I didn't word it very well. You're right in that some men in their fifties are less mature than some in their twenties. I've never met anyone under forty who was immature as such or unpleasant. It just didn't work for me. I don't judge them, I just don't wanna fuck them. You have my share

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age is just a number

Good old saying. Someone people don't agree

It isn't. That's just something people say because they don't want to take no for an answer.

Yeah I don’t think age is just a number.

31 year old me is very different to 21 year old me. And I’m sure 50 year old me won’t want to be meeting the people I met when I was 21.."

After ending my marriage i felt guilty because i was still attracted to 25-35 but that soon went. Now i don't worry about age at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age is just a number

Good old saying. Someone people don't agree

It isn't. That's just something people say because they don't want to take no for an answer.

You can look at it in that way but what if it was genuine. You wouldn't be able to say it is or not

Untrue i meant it, i judge the person not their age. I've met some very immature 40+ and lovely 20-30."

Agreed. I normally meet older men but my current meet is 27 and he's more switched on than some men on here who are ten, twenty odd years than he is.

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By *rungeguyMan
over a year ago

leeds

They don’t talk regardless lol

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I had a bad chat up experience in my 30’s by a younger guy in a nightclub. He basically cornered me and just schmoozed me. Put me off.

I like to be “handled” a certain way (not talking physically) and i’m yet to meet a younger guy who gives me the impression he could (or indeed would want to) handle me that way. I can’t explain it very well, but basically i can be hard work and i need a man who can deal with that without me walking all over him.

It all makes sense in my head!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I had a bad chat up experience in my 30’s by a younger guy in a nightclub. He basically cornered me and just schmoozed me. Put me off.

I like to be “handled” a certain way (not talking physically) and i’m yet to meet a younger guy who gives me the impression he could (or indeed would want to) handle me that way. I can’t explain it very well, but basically i can be hard work and i need a man who can deal with that without me walking all over him.

It all makes sense in my head!

"

What is this sort of way though? Interested to hear more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They don’t talk regardless lol"
probably because you dont have a pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They don’t talk regardless lolprobably because you dont have a pic"

I don’t know how lads who don’t have a face pic or just there cock, think it’s going to pull all the ladies ha ffs!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Flipping the thread on its head and speaking as a man in his mid 50's, I would never meet anyone in their 20's or 30's.

It's got nothing to do with experience or maturity but simply due to having daughters of that age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every time I've tried it it's been a mistake. "
except when we met outside Chicago's that time next to moon on the square and we walked to up all night and you bought me a kebab.... Oh wait that was a dream loooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They don’t talk regardless lolprobably because you dont have a pic"
must be a thing to be up and from Northampton on this thread.

This site takes time. And it's painstaking at times. Women have the monopoly and choice that's just how it is.

It's like women that on only want black guys (or only white) you won't change their mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Flipping the thread on its head and speaking as a man in his mid 50's, I would never meet anyone in their 20's or 30's.

It's got nothing to do with experience or maturity but simply due to having daughters of that age. "

There's this too. I'm distinctly uncomfortable with the idea of meeting someone the same age as my partners kids. Or closer to my son's age than mine. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with it, there isn't. Just feels wrong for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are most of you ladies that are over 40 on here won't meet or talk to anyone under you're age? "
because i like older men

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Not all women over 40 won’t talk or meet someone younger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Older women are on another level of sexy! "

Absolutely!!

I only ever meet guys younger than me BUT they have to have a certain level of maturity. I love a connection, a spark.

Pestering me for videos and pics is not gonna cut it.

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….

I seem to have bad luck with younger men.... they seem to be very imature, so I stay clear!

Maybe one day I maybe surprised!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They don’t talk regardless lolprobably because you dont have a pic

I don’t know how lads who don’t have a face pic or just there cock, think it’s going to pull all the ladies ha ffs!"

Yes, op this

Or maybe OP they don't fancy you

Or you don't appeal to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are most of you ladies that are over 40 on here won't meet or talk to anyone under you're age? "

I am 45 and the most of my playmates have been 35 and under.

I find younger guys a lot more respectful than guys my own age tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age is just a number

Good old saying. Someone people don't agree

It isn't. That's just something people say because they don't want to take no for an answer. "

Omg this ^^^ it indicates if someone has problems with the age they are too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are most of you ladies that are over 40 on here won't meet or talk to anyone under you're age? "

Really ???

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock


"Flipping the thread on its head and speaking as a man in his mid 50's, I would never meet anyone in their 20's or 30's.

It's got nothing to do with experience or maturity but simply due to having daughters of that age.

There's this too. I'm distinctly uncomfortable with the idea of meeting someone the same age as my partners kids. Or closer to my son's age than mine. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with it, there isn't. Just feels wrong for me. "

The same for us. Maturity does count for any age, but having a 26 and 19 year old sons, would make me feel awkward meeting men around similar ages.

J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve met younger than me, it’s been great.

For me, age is just a number, it’s about the connection.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

It's their perogative bud, nobody has to do anything they dont want to do.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Don’t tend to look at the age not ageist lol just meet who we are attracted to and who we click with

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why are most of you ladies that are over 40 on here won't meet or talk to anyone under you're age?

Really ??? "

Must just be me then

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

Some do mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I seem to have bad luck with younger men.... they seem to be very imature, so I stay clear!

Maybe one day I maybe surprised!!! "

I'm prob 1 of the most laid back lads as all that immature crap is hassle and pointless.

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By *uilder506Man
over a year ago

bognor


"Why are most of you ladies that are over 40 on here won't meet or talk to anyone under you're age? "

And over 40s is the best age for a woman in my opinion

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Men complain that when they're over 40 they're outside most people's age ranges and now you're saying women under 40 won't meet younger men. So according to the men of fab, women over 40 don't meet any men .

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

I must say that they know what they want

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why are most of you ladies that are over 40 on here won't meet or talk to anyone under you're age?

And over 40s is the best age for a woman in my opinion "

Yes likewise pal

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Why send a boy to do a mans job lol....

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

It doesn't mean that we are young

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve only ever met people younger than me

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

I prefer men my age or older. We have more in common in terms of life experience I guess.

The bottom end of my age bracket is 30 because much younger than that & I could technically be their mother which I would not be comfortable with.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Flipping the thread on its head and speaking as a man in his mid 50's, I would never meet anyone in their 20's or 30's.

It's got nothing to do with experience or maturity but simply due to having daughters of that age. "

As a woman in my 20s I think that's totally fair and why I'm uncomfortable with it the opposite way. The outrage I've had from saying I don't want to meet men over 50 is rather funny though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Men complain that when they're over 40 they're outside most people's age ranges and now you're saying women under 40 won't meet younger men. So according to the men of fab, women over 40 don't meet any men ."

I'm not saying women under 40?? I can image you ladies do get some proper idiots that are young talking utter rubbish in you're inbox and maybe all think oh here another young lad talking crap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I just don't understand why a young guy wants to meet and older woman

I know I would rather meet the 30yr old me over the 43yrs old me

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Men complain that when they're over 40 they're outside most people's age ranges and now you're saying women under 40 won't meet younger men. So according to the men of fab, women over 40 don't meet any men .

I'm not saying women under 40?? I can image you ladies do get some proper idiots that are young talking utter rubbish in you're inbox and maybe all think oh here another young lad talking crap"

Sorry I meant over 40.

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

I'm not a young man..feel like it sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought 40 was the new 30?

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

40 is the best

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because I just don't understand why a young guy wants to meet and older woman

I know I would rather meet the 30yr old me over the 43yrs old me "

I'll be honest it's just after speaking to a few women and hearing the old saying naughty 40s. They tend to know a bit more and don't mess about. Plus they said the sex drive all of sudden when hitting 40 kicked in and they couldn't get enough. I know it probably different for all women though

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I seem to attract those that are younger all my life. I do have a lower age limit but I choose whether I break that limit, the times I have I haven’t regretted it.

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

I am starting my 40's next year I set my age range for filters higher than my age.

The majority of my friends are much older than I and that's been true since I was a teen.

I find older people hot, always have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give me a try...you wont be disappointed;-);-)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Give me a try...you wont be disappointed;-);-)"

Sorry dude don't bat that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because I just don't understand why a young guy wants to meet and older woman

I know I would rather meet the 30yr old me over the 43yrs old me "

I don’t understand it either. At all! I get messages from men in their twenties! Why?? look at all the sexy young women about. I really don’t understand it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are most of you ladies that are over 40 on here won't meet or talk to anyone under you're age? "

The wine tastes better as it ages I guess!

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

I meet guys younger n never had a a problem so what’s going wrong for u OP?!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Because I just don't understand why a young guy wants to meet and older woman

I know I would rather meet the 30yr old me over the 43yrs old me

I don’t understand it either. At all! I get messages from men in their twenties! Why?? look at all the sexy young women about. I really don’t understand it. "

Agree with this, gorgeous women of their own age all around

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

It's true age is just a number you can get a young guy with an old head on his shoulders.....it's all about the connection

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Because I just don't understand why a young guy wants to meet and older woman

I know I would rather meet the 30yr old me over the 43yrs old me

I don’t understand it either. At all! I get messages from men in their twenties! Why?? look at all the sexy young women about. I really don’t understand it.

Agree with this, gorgeous women of their own age all around "

I concur... don’t get it... but I’ll take it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get loads of meets with over 40s mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I meet guys younger n never had a a problem so what’s going wrong for u OP?!"

Who knows. Just get blanked fullstop. Not like I'm in boxing saying I'd love to ruin you or some crap like that as who wants to read that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Give me a try...you wont be disappointed;-);-)

Sorry dude don't bat that way "

Haha thank god.. I'd be in trouble right now if you did. It wasnt aimed at you tbh. That was me standing up on the table, screeming. I'm over here ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the ladies I met here were around 47 yrs of age. And I am a few yrs younger than them. So I don't think it is to do with the age. You may have to dig deeper if you really want to find out!

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

I don't think that you ladies get what we are saying on here.we like older ladies

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Because I just don't understand why a young guy wants to meet and older woman

I know I would rather meet the 30yr old me over the 43yrs old me

I don’t understand it either. At all! I get messages from men in their twenties! Why?? look at all the sexy young women about. I really don’t understand it.

Agree with this, gorgeous women of their own age all around

I concur... don’t get it... but I’ll take it.. "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meet guys younger n never had a a problem so what’s going wrong for u OP?!

Who knows. Just get blanked fullstop. Not like I'm in boxing saying I'd love to ruin you or some crap like that as who wants to read that. "

It's nothing to do with how you talk or how polite you are... they will reply if and when they are ready... just keep on the radar and your time will come... patients my friends. That's all it takes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Give me a try...you wont be disappointed;-);-)

Sorry dude don't bat that way

Haha thank god.. I'd be in trouble right now if you did. It wasnt aimed at you tbh. That was me standing up on the table, screeming. I'm over here ladies "

Hahah I knew straight away but for a laugh sent it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I meet guys younger n never had a a problem so what’s going wrong for u OP?!

Who knows. Just get blanked fullstop. Not like I'm in boxing saying I'd love to ruin you or some crap like that as who wants to read that.

It's nothing to do with how you talk or how polite you are... they will reply if and when they are ready... just keep on the radar and your time will come... patients my friends. That's all it takes "

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I will happily meet sexy ladies younger than me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I much prefer older women. I always have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to pretend I have been seduced by a grisled old professor. It doesn't work if he is all young and sprightly.

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

It doesn't really matter to be honest with you ladies you are all very nice and sexy ladies in my mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because I just don't understand why a young guy wants to meet and older woman

I know I would rather meet the 30yr old me over the 43yrs old me

I'll be honest it's just after speaking to a few women and hearing the old saying naughty 40s. They tend to know a bit more and don't mess about. Plus they said the sex drive all of sudden when hitting 40 kicked in and they couldn't get enough. I know it probably different for all women though "

Personally I would rather meet a man my own age who is actually attracted to me, than meet a young guy who is meeting me because he thinks I can teach him a thing or two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met younger men.

It depends on the person not on the age.

I wouldn't go younger than 30 though I wouldn't feel comfortable with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meet guys younger n never had a a problem so what’s going wrong for u OP?!

Who knows. Just get blanked fullstop. Not like I'm in boxing saying I'd love to ruin you or some crap like that as who wants to read that.

It's nothing to do with how you talk or how polite you are... they will reply if and when they are ready... just keep on the radar and your time will come... patients my friends. That's all it takes "

I would disagree. It may be to do with how much effort you put into your first message. Read their profile, take down notes if you need to and create something where your real personality will come across.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mathematical equation

40+ = confident

-40 = cocky more than confident

Cocky+confident = o fun

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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago

Coventry


"Why are most of you ladies that are over 40 on here won't meet or talk to anyone under you're age? "

Its not about not replying to younger. In general terms we just prefer club meets. But adverse to younger men but there's a limit as less than half ur age feels wrong

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because I just don't understand why a young guy wants to meet and older woman

I know I would rather meet the 30yr old me over the 43yrs old me

I'll be honest it's just after speaking to a few women and hearing the old saying naughty 40s. They tend to know a bit more and don't mess about. Plus they said the sex drive all of sudden when hitting 40 kicked in and they couldn't get enough. I know it probably different for all women though

Personally I would rather meet a man my own age who is actually attracted to me, than meet a young guy who is meeting me because he thinks I can teach him a thing or two "

Yeah sorry that comes across clearly as that's all I want. Obviously not just any over 40 I have to find them attractive and laid back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mathematical equation

40+ = confident

-40 = cocky more than confident

Cocky+confident = o fun "

I like you!

Have we met before cause you look like my future girlfriend!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mathematical equation

40+ = confident

-40 = cocky more than confident

Cocky+confident = o fun

I like you!

Have we met before cause you look like my future girlfriend! "

You must be an accountant too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've met younger men.

It depends on the person not on the age.

I wouldn't go younger than 30 though I wouldn't feel comfortable with it."

That's fair enough

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

So you ladies like the same age as you or older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you ladies like the same age as you or older "

No. I prefer younger but not too young. I like someone who can keep up with me. Hard to find

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mathematical equation

40+ = confident

-40 = cocky more than confident

Cocky+confident = o fun

I like you!

Have we met before cause you look like my future girlfriend!

You must be an accountant too "

I am not. But I do love my numbers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you ladies like the same age as you or older

No. I prefer younger but not too young. I like someone who can keep up with me. Hard to find "

Look nowhere! Here I am!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you ladies like the same age as you or older

No. I prefer younger but not too young. I like someone who can keep up with me. Hard to find

Look nowhere! Here I am! "

. Thanks but I finally found one lol

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Flipping the thread on its head and speaking as a man in his mid 50's, I would never meet anyone in their 20's or 30's.

It's got nothing to do with experience or maturity but simply due to having daughters of that age. "

This is where everyone is different though. Our kids are under twelve so the fact our gf is thirty two doesn’t bother me in the slightest.

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mathematical equation

40+ = confident

-40 = cocky more than confident

Cocky+confident = o fun

I like you!

Have we met before cause you look like my future girlfriend!

You must be an accountant too "

My accountant and I dont see eye to eye though. He tells me what to do with my money, when I am the one paying him!

But if you were an accountant, I am ready to change my opinions about accountants in general!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think that you ladies get what we are saying on here.we like older ladies "

No, we get it. What we're saying is WE DON'T like younger men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you ladies like the same age as you or older

No. I prefer younger but not too young. I like someone who can keep up with me. Hard to find

Look nowhere! Here I am!

. Thanks but I finally found one lol "

What do they say, good guys end up last!

Is there a waiting list?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because I just don't understand why a young guy wants to meet and older woman

I know I would rather meet the 30yr old me over the 43yrs old me

I'll be honest it's just after speaking to a few women and hearing the old saying naughty 40s. They tend to know a bit more and don't mess about. Plus they said the sex drive all of sudden when hitting 40 kicked in and they couldn't get enough. I know it probably different for all women though

Personally I would rather meet a man my own age who is actually attracted to me, than meet a young guy who is meeting me because he thinks I can teach him a thing or two "

I want someone with his own set of tricks who can teach ME.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you ladies like the same age as you or older

No. I prefer younger but not too young. I like someone who can keep up with me. Hard to find

Look nowhere! Here I am!

. Thanks but I finally found one lol

What do they say, good guys end up last!

Is there a waiting list? "

Haha I’ll put you on the reserve list in case he ever gets a headache

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

That's ok then and any of you ladies fancy a chat with me then about the age gap deference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because I just don't understand why a young guy wants to meet and older woman

I know I would rather meet the 30yr old me over the 43yrs old me

I'll be honest it's just after speaking to a few women and hearing the old saying naughty 40s. They tend to know a bit more and don't mess about. Plus they said the sex drive all of sudden when hitting 40 kicked in and they couldn't get enough. I know it probably different for all women though

Personally I would rather meet a man my own age who is actually attracted to me, than meet a young guy who is meeting me because he thinks I can teach him a thing or two

I want someone with his own set of tricks who can teach ME. "

Trick or treat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you ladies like the same age as you or older

No. I prefer younger but not too young. I like someone who can keep up with me. Hard to find

Look nowhere! Here I am!

. Thanks but I finally found one lol

What do they say, good guys end up last!

Is there a waiting list?

Haha I’ll put you on the reserve list in case he ever gets a headache "

Head as in above the neck 'head' or any other head? I am a bit worried now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you ladies like the same age as you or older

No. I prefer younger but not too young. I like someone who can keep up with me. Hard to find

Look nowhere! Here I am!

. Thanks but I finally found one lol

What do they say, good guys end up last!

Is there a waiting list?

Haha I’ll put you on the reserve list in case he ever gets a headache

Head as in above the neck 'head' or any other head? I am a bit worried now! "

I meant a not up for it headache

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you ladies like the same age as you or older

No. I prefer younger but not too young. I like someone who can keep up with me. Hard to find

Look nowhere! Here I am!

. Thanks but I finally found one lol

What do they say, good guys end up last!

Is there a waiting list?

Haha I’ll put you on the reserve list in case he ever gets a headache

Head as in above the neck 'head' or any other head? I am a bit worried now!

I meant a not up for it headache "

You won have that problem with me. It's a money back guarantee!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you ladies like the same age as you or older

No. I prefer younger but not too young. I like someone who can keep up with me. Hard to find

Look nowhere! Here I am!

. Thanks but I finally found one lol

What do they say, good guys end up last!

Is there a waiting list?

Haha I’ll put you on the reserve list in case he ever gets a headache

Head as in above the neck 'head' or any other head? I am a bit worried now!

I meant a not up for it headache

You won have that problem with me. It's a money back guarantee! "

Won't*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are most of you ladies that are over 40 on here won't meet or talk to anyone under you're age? "

I feel your pain, these younger women dont meet or talk to anyone over their age either

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By *aughtyandhandsomeMan
over a year ago

button moon


"So you ladies like the same age as you or older

No. I prefer younger but not too young. I like someone who can keep up with me. Hard to find

Look nowhere! Here I am!

. Thanks but I finally found one lol

What do they say, good guys end up last!

Is there a waiting list?

Haha I’ll put you on the reserve list in case he ever gets a headache

Head as in above the neck 'head' or any other head? I am a bit worried now!

I meant a not up for it headache "

I don't get many headaches darling you know that!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you ladies like the same age as you or older

No. I prefer younger but not too young. I like someone who can keep up with me. Hard to find "

^This^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm seriously thinking of lowering my age preferences

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"I'm seriously thinking of lowering my age preferences"

please do...

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By *lint-EverhardMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap


"I'm seriously thinking of lowering my age preferences"

You go girl. XX

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

I meet younger guys. Lots of women do. I prefer them a lot of the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were chatting recently about this topic. Up until very recently my (her) preference was for younger men but I seem to find myself more attracted to men closer to my own age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm seriously thinking of lowering my age preferences

please do... "

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

Mature ladies for me

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By *uffnmuffCouple
over a year ago

London

I Mrs muff is over 40 and often look for men in their 30s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I Mrs muff is over 40 and often look for men in their 30s. "

Would she look at me please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had shit sex with an over 40...its always been pure pleasure and filth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are most of you ladies that are over 40 on here won't meet or talk to anyone under you're age? "

Wrong!

I usually meet/talk to 30 somethings in my area

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By *ecrets4everCouple
over a year ago

X

I’ve played with men between the ages of 21-63.

Nothing to do with age. Just who I connected with at the time.

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By *oandsteCouple
over a year ago

northside

I have always loved women who are older than me, I think it is because my first sexual experience was with a mature lady . But if you connect with someone age doesn't matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you may be talking tosh there OP! I haven't met with anyone my age or over... Infact it has been extremely rare that I have met anyone over 35

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By *inateaseWoman
over a year ago

ANTRIM

I personally find that guys under 40 can be quite immature

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Just my 2p worth - age has nothing to do with it.

Younger or older - if she's crazy enough to laugh at my jokes and likes to be treated as a lady - then it's a good start.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

It's not just about age even though 40 plus is my preference. If you don't tick all the other boxes and we are not on the same page then age is irrelevant.

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