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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any other single guys find it tough on here we aren't all weirdos and strange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most, if not all, single guys have a hard time on here. There’s a bazillion of us for every woman/couple

Those of us who are weird and strange face a tougher time

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By *uciferLingerieMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"Most, if not all, single guys have a hard time on here. There’s a bazillion of us for every woman/couple

Those of us who are weird and strange face a tougher time "

True! Finding people into a guy in lingerie is hard!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I'm finding it very tough on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you not read the posts on here every single day you get the same post. I am a single guy there's 1000s of the bloody posts on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you not read the posts on here every single day you get the same post. I am a single guy there's 1000s of the bloody posts on here"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Statistics is a Bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any other single guys find it tough on here we aren't all weirdos and strange "

I know I thought of everything, I was getting nowhere, I had to get married to prove to people on here I wasn't wierd. I'm just so glad she can hold down a decent conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately OP, your probably right. The 90% single guys on here make it more difficult for the 10%. When we set our account to allow guys to message we are bombarded with one line (often one word) messages that show a complete lack of thought or effort and show they haven’t even bothered to read our profile. So after a while it can give one a negative view of the single guys on here.

A huge proportion of guys on here seem to think by joining the site they have a right to have sex with others. The shock that some guys seem to have when we delete their messages, entitlement.

Keep trying though and I’m sure you will have some success. In our humble opinion a good opening message will be tailored directly to the recipient not a generic cut and paste. It will include some face pics and perhaps one of the guy dressed for a night out so showing us an idea of the person.

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"Any other single guys find it tough on here we aren't all weirdos and strange "

Speak for yourself!!

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"Any other single guys find it tough on here we aren't all weirdos and strange "

Speak for yourself, I'm weird and strange.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"Any other single guys find it tough on here we aren't all weirdos and strange

Speak for yourself!! "

Snap

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Yes, there's lots of weird, strange, stupid, crass, vulgar, idiotic people on this site.

Yes, I get sick of the awful messages they send.

But, what it does do, is make the decent guys stand out.

Once in a while, you'll get a message, that makes you go 'Wow'

It's worth battling through a sea of oddballs to find that 1 shiny diamond

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

No mate I paddle my own canoe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a guy that has had single profiles on here before I’ll admit that when you send a well thought out message to someone only for it to be deleted without being read, yes at times it can get frustrating.

But I never really got the whole ‘it’s so hard for single guys’ thing. Not because I was crazy successful but just because I realised to take everything with a pinch of salt. Someone not messaging back on here isn’t like someone blanking you in real life. There is any number of reasons someone might not read your message or reply, the key is not to take it personally.

But yeah, not being a weirdo does help!

Beast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, there's lots of weird, strange, stupid, crass, vulgar, idiotic people on this site.

Yes, I get sick of the awful messages they send.

But, what it does do, is make the decent guys stand out.

Once in a while, you'll get a message, that makes you go 'Wow'

It's worth battling through a sea of oddballs to find that 1 shiny diamond"

Totally agree, it does make the good uns shine brighter

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place


"Any other single guys find it tough on here we aren't all weirdos and strange "

Speak for yourself, I embrace my inner weirdo!

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By *empsey and hotpieceMan
over a year ago

North west


"Any other single guys find it tough on here we aren't all weirdos and strange "

Remember, it’s a swingers site.

I’ve been shot down before for saying this, but I stand by my opinion that a single person, isn’t a swinger. Singles of course play an important part in the swinging culture , but unfortunately, single guys are the most prominent on here, so it follows they will have the biggest struggle.

So many single guys think it will be easy to get nsa sex here, it’s not, you have to sell yourself, get out in the real world and mingle and network, think of fab as a tool to do that.

We get so many messages from single guys who obviously haven’t read our profile, and that’s what you’re up against unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A single person isn't a swinger?

Not heard that before.

Been fortunate to meet some charming sexy "single" men on here. Also quite partial to the quirky and weird.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Yes, there's lots of weird, strange, stupid, crass, vulgar, idiotic people on this site.

Yes, I get sick of the awful messages they send.

But, what it does do, is make the decent guys stand out.

Once in a while, you'll get a message, that makes you go 'Wow'

It's worth battling through a sea of oddballs to find that 1 shiny diamond"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any other single guys find it tough on here we aren't all weirdos and strange

Remember, it’s a swingers site.

I’ve been shot down before for saying this, but I stand by my opinion that a single person, isn’t a swinger. Singles of course play an important part in the swinging culture , but unfortunately, single guys are the most prominent on here, so it follows they will have the biggest struggle.

So many single guys think it will be easy to get nsa sex here, it’s not, you have to sell yourself, get out in the real world and mingle and network, think of fab as a tool to do that.

We get so many messages from single guys who obviously haven’t read our profile, and that’s what you’re up against unfortunately.

"

Never really thought about that but I suppose yes that’s true isn’t it. A swinger is someone in a couple surely. How can a single person swing ? I’d say a single looking to ‘swing’ is really best described as someone part of the lifestyle

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By *empsey and hotpieceMan
over a year ago

North west


"A single person isn't a swinger?

Not heard that before.

"

By definition, no

The term swinger, is a couple who have sex with other people other than their partner.

However, the term “swinger “ has slowly morphed into a different meaning, singles have adopted it.

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