FabSwingers.com forum: Jealous

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This is aimed at couples, how can you watch your partner shag someone else and not get jealous? Maybe I'm too sensitive

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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City

You seemed fine with it last week when I was balls deep in Mrs Gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get jealous of anyone lucky enough to shag me.

Lucky bastard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You seemed fine with it last week when I was balls deep in Mrs Gorgeous "

Yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s only sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There is no Mrs Gorgeous

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By *urple-roseWoman
over a year ago

Stoke

It’s about sharing the experience & it’s damn hot watching my man fuck another woman

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I don't fuck men so dick gets to watch me do ladies, so all is good

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I dunno I just don't. He loves me, having sex with others doesn't change that.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"This is aimed at couples, how can you watch your partner shag someone else and not get jealous? Maybe I'm too sensitive"

You enjoy watching them have pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you get jealous if you’re misses used a dildo

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I just dont and neither does my husband. Maybe its because it's just sex.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"It’s about sharing the experience & it’s damn hot watching my man fuck another woman

This.

It's a mutual erotic and fun experience.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I find it a turn on watching my partner pleasure another woman. I get to go home with him and have him all the time, it’s just rude not to share. No jealousy as it’s just sex. It’s me he loves.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Swinging for us is about mutual pleasure. Seeing each other is a turn on. Sex with others is just a physical act, without an emotional attachment. What we have between ourselves is true love, something incredibly deep and intense. We trust each other 100% and have such a strong bond. We have no need to feel jealous at all.

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

Compersion

It's hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because there's nothing to be jealous over and it's hot as fuck seeing him enjoy himself with a sexy lady who's enjoying it as much as he is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We Iove watching each other, it’s very hot and sexy. We don’t get jealous it’s just a shared experience. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm defo too sensitive and jealous

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

"I get jealous of anyone lucky enough to shag me.

Lucky bastard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is no Mrs Gorgeous"

Not really any reason to be jealous then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was completely against the thought of having a partner who sleeps with others before I joined this site.

Now the thought of it turns me on. So I guess this makes me a wanna be cuckold lol.

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

"We Iove watching each other, it’s very hot and sexy. We don’t get jealous it’s just a shared experience. X "

lucky man x

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I'm defo too sensitive and jealous

It’s not for everyone x

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I was completely against the thought of having a partner who sleeps with others before I joined this site.

Now the thought of it turns me on. So I guess this makes me a wanna be cuckold lol.

Or stag and hot wife?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There is no Mrs Gorgeous

Not really any reason to be jealous then."

I just said I knew I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is aimed at couples, how can you watch your partner shag someone else and not get jealous? Maybe I'm too sensitive"

swinging is about wife swap with consent read history on it if you get time might learn something like I did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was completely against the thought of having a partner who sleeps with others before I joined this site.

Now the thought of it turns me on. So I guess this makes me a wanna be cuckold lol.

Or stag and hot wife? "

I'm not sure what the difference is

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just think I'm too insecure prob think shell find him better

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"This is aimed at couples, how can you watch your partner shag someone else and not get jealous? Maybe I'm too sensitive"

What first attracted you to Fabswingers?

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By *urple-roseWoman
over a year ago

Stoke

"Just think I'm too insecure prob think shell find him better

Well then you need to work on your insecurities then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was completely against the thought of having a partner who sleeps with others before I joined this site.

Now the thought of it turns me on. So I guess this makes me a wanna be cuckold lol.

Or stag and hot wife?

I'm not sure what the difference is"

Cuckold is more about humiliation and withholding sex

Stag and vixen is when the guy actively encourages his partner to sleep with other people, no humiliation involved.

I'm sure there's other definitions but that loosely sums it up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is aimed at couples, how can you watch your partner shag someone else and not get jealous? Maybe I'm too sensitive"

how can single guys shag one after the other

how do single women same thing

and how do you watch your veris as you get laid by one after the other same thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just think I'm too insecure prob think shell find him better

Well then you need to work on your insecurities then"

Amen sister

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This is aimed at couples, how can you watch your partner shag someone else and not get jealous? Maybe I'm too sensitive

What first attracted you to Fabswingers?"

Shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is no Mrs Gorgeous

Not really any reason to be jealous then.

I just said I knew I would "

I think I’d be the same.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"This is aimed at couples, how can you watch your partner shag someone else and not get jealous? Maybe I'm too sensitive

What first attracted you to Fabswingers?

Shag "

At least you're honest.

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By *rallyFixated1Man
over a year ago

tipton

I'm defo too sensitive and jealous

You’re probably on the wrong website then tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was completely against the thought of having a partner who sleeps with others before I joined this site.

Now the thought of it turns me on. So I guess this makes me a wanna be cuckold lol.

Or stag and hot wife?

I'm not sure what the difference is

Cuckold is more about humiliation and withholding sex

Stag and vixen is when the guy actively encourages his partner to sleep with other people, no humiliation involved.

I'm sure there's other definitions but that loosely sums it up."

I like the idea of a bit of both. I'm a staghold

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"This is aimed at couples, how can you watch your partner shag someone else and not get jealous? Maybe I'm too sensitive

What first attracted you to Fabswingers?

Shag "
he’s reasonably cool but it was the opportunities for sex with varying persons that attracted me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This is aimed at couples, how can you watch your partner shag someone else and not get jealous? Maybe I'm too sensitive

how can single guys shag one after the other

how do single women same thing

and how do you watch your veris as you get laid by one after the other same thing"

Riiiiiight

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There is no Mrs Gorgeous

Not really any reason to be jealous then.

I just said I knew I would

I think I’d be the same."

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was part of a couple jealousy never came into it... just enjoyed the fun!

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

"This is aimed at couples, how can you watch your partner shag someone else and not get jealous? Maybe I'm too sensitive

What first attracted you to Fabswingers?

Shag he’s reasonably cool but it was the opportunities for sex with varying persons that attracted me.

That made me chuckle

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm defo too sensitive and jealous

You’re probably on the wrong website then tbh

Maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all seriousness, I don’t think I could watch my partner fuck someone else either.

It’s not for everyone! No judgement to the people who do enjoy it, I envy the security they have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn’t. Don’t think it’s me being sensitive. Just not my thing. Couldn’t think of anything worse. Don’t worry too much it’s not compulsory.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another non swinger not getting swinging. On fabswingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is no Mrs Gorgeous

Not really any reason to be jealous then.

I just said I knew I would "

Never really know until you try, so they say!

Ehat about if your partner eas watching you with soneone else, would that turn you on?

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"It’s only sex "

This

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"This is aimed at couples, how can you watch your partner shag someone else and not get jealous? Maybe I'm too sensitive"

maybe its just not your thing. Its not compulsory

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Another non swinger not getting swinging. On fabswingers.

I came here to say this

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In all seriousness, I don’t think I could watch my partner fuck someone else either.

It’s not for everyone! No judgement to the people who do enjoy it, I envy the security they have."

Exactly if you do it then good for you nothing wrong with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was completely against the thought of having a partner who sleeps with others before I joined this site.

Now the thought of it turns me on. So I guess this makes me a wanna be cuckold lol.

Or stag and hot wife?

I'm not sure what the difference is

Cuckold is more about humiliation and withholding sex

Stag and vixen is when the guy actively encourages his partner to sleep with other people, no humiliation involved.

I'm sure there's other definitions but that loosely sums it up.

I like the idea of a bit of both. I'm a staghold

Probably more cuckold then.

From what I understand the stag gets satisfaction and pride knowing other men want his partner and encourages her to enjoy herself, but doesn't want or enjoy the humiliation part that a cuck would.

Cucks enjoy the humiliation of their partners fucking who they want while denying the cuck any intimacy and having their faces rubbed in it so to speak. Quite possibly literally aswell.

But as I said, there are many interpretations and every one who plays that way will have their own rules and way of playing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Another non swinger not getting swinging. On fabswingers.

Another negative person, on fab swinger's? I'm shook

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This is aimed at couples, how can you watch your partner shag someone else and not get jealous? Maybe I'm too sensitive

maybe its just not your thing. Its not compulsory"

No I'm not knocking it I'm simply asking a fucking question

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"This is aimed at couples, how can you watch your partner shag someone else and not get jealous? Maybe I'm too sensitive

What first attracted you to Fabswingers?

Shag he’s reasonably cool but it was the opportunities for sex with varying persons that attracted me.

That made me chuckle

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you should see my socks....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There is no Mrs Gorgeous

Not really any reason to be jealous then.

I just said I knew I would

Never really know until you try, so they say!

Ehat about if your partner eas watching you with soneone else, would that turn you on?"

Ain't got a partner mate and no it wouldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another non swinger not getting swinging. On fabswingers.

Another negative person, on fab swinger's? I'm shook "

Not at all. But I wouldn't go on a forum for fishing and question what they get out of it. Yet it seems acceptable on here.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"This is aimed at couples, how can you watch your partner shag someone else and not get jealous? Maybe I'm too sensitive

maybe its just not your thing. Its not compulsory

No I'm not knocking it I'm simply asking a fucking question"

and I'm answering it. Don't swear at me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another non swinger not getting swinging. On fabswingers.

Another negative person, on fab swinger's? I'm shook "

As has been said on many threads before. People are free to use this site as they see fit provided it doesnt break site rules!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with a little healthy discussion...

There’s plenty of non swingers on fab swingers and I reckon the site must be better for it.

It takes all sorts to make an orgy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another non swinger not getting swinging. On fabswingers.

How is that not getting swinging? Just because some don’t want to watch partners having sex with others? Why doesn’t Clem want you fucking other white men? He’s admitted to me in the past he hates the thought of you having sex with other white guys. You have your way of doing things on here so don’t look down on people who do things differently.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’m always very grateful to couples who swing for a) showing me their bits and bobs and b) letting me join them for sex and c) allow me to have a whoop of glee on the way home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another non swinger not getting swinging. On fabswingers.

Another negative person, on fab swinger's? I'm shook

As has been said on many threads before. People are free to use this site as they see fit provided it doesnt break site rules!

I'm all for that.

I don't really get why they have to question the lifestyle of the very people the site was aimed at though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing wrong with a little healthy discussion...

There’s plenty of non swingers on fab swingers and I reckon the site must be better for it.

It takes all sorts to make an orgy!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another non swinger not getting swinging. On fabswingers.

Oh get off your high horse. You know nothing of my relationship if that's your take on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not in a couple, but watching a regular meet of mine fuck someone else would turn me on.

I'd LOVE a front row view of watching him fuck someone else the way he fucks me.

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

It's like porn with my favourite person as the main star. It means nothing to him. It's just a bit of fun.

Watching a girl get too close, calling him pet names and wanting to cuddle up.... Now that makes me jealous!

He's mine. They can use him but he's mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another non swinger not getting swinging. On fabswingers.

Oh get off your high horse. You know nothing of my relationship if that's your take on it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another non swinger not getting swinging. On fabswingers.

Oh get off your high horse. You know nothing of my relationship if that's your take on it. "

No high horse here. Just pointing out we all use this site in different ways and there is no wrong or right way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone said only couples are defined as swingers. Is this true?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Another non swinger not getting swinging. On fabswingers.

Another negative person, on fab swinger's? I'm shook

Not at all. But I wouldn't go on a forum for fishing and question what they get out of it. Yet it seems acceptable on here. "

Fishing for what and where did I question what people got our of it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another non swinger not getting swinging. On fabswingers.

Oh get off your high horse. You know nothing of my relationship if that's your take on it.

No high horse here. Just pointing out we all use this site in different ways and there is no wrong or right way

Yes and you'll see I'm all for that. What I object to is people not getting what the whole site is meant to be about and having a little respect for that,

regardless of what they actually use it for. Understand?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s a perfectly acceptable question to be fair, especially on this site. I’ve never understood how someone can get off on watching someone they love fucking other people. I know that personally, it isn't and never will be for me but through people explaining it all on these threads I do get why they do it and accept everyone’s different.

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By *ouanna JoWoman
over a year ago

A little village

"I think it’s a perfectly acceptable question to be fair, especially on this site. I’ve never understood how someone can get off on watching someone they love fucking other people. I know that personally, it isn't and never will be for me but through people explaining it all on these threads I do get why they do it and accept everyone’s different. "

I have to agree - I read it as someone just trying to understand more about the lifestyle rather than insulting those who partake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another non swinger not getting swinging. On fabswingers.

Oh get off your high horse. You know nothing of my relationship if that's your take on it.

No high horse here. Just pointing out we all use this site in different ways and there is no wrong or right way

Yes and you'll see I'm all for that. What I object to is people not getting what the whole site is meant to be about and having a little respect for that,

regardless of what they actually use it for. Understand?"

Yes I do understand. My point was even couples have certain stipulations regarding swinging.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Jealousy is an emotion caused by fear, insecurity and inadequacy - thankfully neither of us suffer from any of those.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jealousy is an emotion caused by fear, insecurity and inadequacy - thankfully neither of us suffer from any of those. "

I think jealousy is the wrong word to use in this situation. I imagine there’s more couples in the world who’d rather not see their loved one with with someone else than couples that would. I don’t think that makes them all insecure and inadequate.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"Jealousy is an emotion caused by fear, insecurity and inadequacy - thankfully neither of us suffer from any of those.

I was referring to the OP regarding jealousy, not saying that those that don't want to share their loved ones are necessarily jealous.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Another non swinger not getting swinging. On fabswingers.

Oh get off your high horse. You know nothing of my relationship if that's your take on it.

No high horse here. Just pointing out we all use this site in different ways and there is no wrong or right way

Yes and you'll see I'm all for that. What I object to is people not getting what the whole site is meant to be about and having a little respect for that,

regardless of what they actually use it for. Understand?"

Where have I been disrespectful to people? It's a question

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes exactly I haven't once been disrespectful about people who do it it's a question, don't know why they are getting defensive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jealousy is an emotion caused by fear, insecurity and inadequacy - thankfully neither of us suffer from any of those.

I was referring to the OP regarding jealousy, not saying that those that don't want to share their loved ones are necessarily jealous."

Yes I agree. I think jealousy was perhaps the wrong word to use.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is aimed at couples, how can you watch your partner shag someone else and not get jealous? Maybe I'm too sensitive"

It's really easy when that is what you're into and you both get off on it. You're no more sensitive than I am. Just different.

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By *ouanna JoWoman
over a year ago

A little village

Yes exactly I haven't once been disrespectful about people who do it it's a question, don't know why they are getting defensive"

I don’t see where you’ve been even remotely disrespectful...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Jealousy is an emotion caused by fear, insecurity and inadequacy - thankfully neither of us suffer from any of those. "

No I suppose alot if people would though

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

i'm ok with it as long as forewarned, i'm no good at surprises

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i'm ok with it as long as forewarned, i'm no good at surprises "

I don't even know how you could be

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"Jealousy is an emotion caused by fear, insecurity and inadequacy - thankfully neither of us suffer from any of those.

No I suppose alot if people would though

I guess a lot of people do and then they would avoid putting themselves in situations where it might be a problem or they do try it but never again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was in a relationship, the subject was never broached, I couldn’t have thought of anything worse personally (because I was 100% commutes to that person in every way) if it was done behind my back for obvious reasons. That said, depending on how she approached the subject (if she had) and the reasons behind it being for purely for sex, not “loving” another (basically if the commitment and trust was still there for both of us) I’m not sure if i could have seen it differently, quite possibly I could have tbh. But we will never know.

However that’s not for me to judge or have any opinion on how others choose to have their lives or relationships, but that’s just my take on things if anyone cares lol x

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

I been in the situation with my ex wife and a couple who were friends of ours but the male kept asking her to meet up alone and then that's when it's starts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you trust someone you don't get jealous

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

We was young at the time but we got married and then got divorced lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you trust someone you don't get jealous "

What do you mean? You mean if you trust someone you should let them go with other people and accept it? What does your comment refer to?

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton

We know that we are going home together so watching the Mrs having fun is all good and the same for her watching me

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By *cloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull

It's such a turn on - at the time and later when we get to relive it again when we're by ourselves. Love talking about it between us - mind blowing sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I was in a relationship, the subject was never broached, I couldn’t have thought of anything worse personally (because I was 100% commutes to that person in every way) if it was done behind my back for obvious reasons. That said, depending on how she approached the subject (if she had) and the reasons behind it being for purely for sex, not “loving” another (basically if the commitment and trust was still there for both of us) I’m not sure if i could have seen it differently, quite possibly I could have tbh. But we will never know.

However that’s not for me to judge or have any opinion on how others choose to have their lives or relationships, but that’s just my take on things if anyone cares lol x

This Op

Think this is right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it all comes down to how we are wired. For some of us it is more difficult to separate sex from love. If you easily compartmentalise sex as a physical act to gain pleasure and get turned on by your partner getting pleasure in whatever way you’ve agreed, then feeling jealousy wouldn’t be really an emotion you would experience. I know there are some that actually get a kick out of a gut-wrenching feeling of jealousy and feelings of humiliation and unworthiness too.

Those whose ideal is sexual intimacy within a monogamous relationship may be more likely to find the idea of their partner fucking someone else something they couldn’t stomach.

I think it comes down to our belief systems and how our experiences and conditioning have shaped our view of sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of married couples here allow their spouses to fuck others are you saying swinging is wrong?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think a certain emotional outlook and maturity, coupled with expectations about what relationships are all about, mark some people out as healthily predisposed to building strong relationships that aren't possessively binding you together via forces that spawn jealousy.

There are countless posts asking about the same, typically from single men, presumably those who are possessively jealous. Ultimately they may be signifying that they don't cut the mustard in this lifestyle and struggle to understand others unlike them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of married couples here allow their spouses to fuck others are you saying swinging is wrong? "

No. I’m saying it’s not for me

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By *ucilleWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle Upon Tyne

It's swinging. You either get it or don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's swinging. You either get it or don't. "
i get it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it all comes down to how we are wired. For some of us it is more difficult to separate sex from love. If you easily compartmentalise sex as a physical act to gain pleasure and get turned on by your partner getting pleasure in whatever way you’ve agreed, then feeling jealousy wouldn’t be really an emotion you would experience. I know there are some that actually get a kick out of a gut-wrenching feeling of jealousy and feelings of humiliation and unworthiness too.

Those whose ideal is sexual intimacy within a monogamous relationship may be more likely to find the idea of their partner fucking someone else something they couldn’t stomach.

I think it comes down to our belief systems and how our experiences and conditioning have shaped our view of sex."

Swinging is ancient old and about wife swapping

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Having been part of a swinging couple for many years, I found it extremely erotic to watch him with someone else. That said, I don't think I could do the having seperate one-to-one meets without each other present, but that would depend on the person I was in a relationship with. I'm happy to share physically if i'm there to watch, but I won't share emotionally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of married couples here allow their spouses to fuck others are you saying swinging is wrong?

No. I’m saying it’s not for me "

Okay and have a merry Christmas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of married couples here allow their spouses to fuck others are you saying swinging is wrong?

No. I’m saying it’s not for me

Okay and have a merry Christmas

Thank you you too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those whose ideal is sexual intimacy within a monogamous relationship may be more likely to find the idea of their partner fucking someone else something they couldn’t stomach.

I think it comes down to our belief systems and how our experiences and conditioning have shaped our view of sex.

Swinging is ancient old and about wife swapping

How does that relate to what I have said?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

I'm defo too sensitive and jealous

You're not alone - I can't stand the thought of Zed with another woman.. but we don't play that way so it's all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those whose ideal is sexual intimacy within a monogamous relationship may be more likely to find the idea of their partner fucking someone else something they couldn’t stomach.

I think it comes down to our belief systems and how our experiences and conditioning have shaped our view of sex.

Swinging is ancient old and about wife swapping

How does that relate to what I have said?"

I am just saying that's how swinging was first thought of and created it has everything to do with what everyone is saying and it's my belief what swinging should be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just think I'm too insecure prob think shell find him better

"
who's she? Have you got a partner? Would you Shag someone else's wife?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In all seriousness, I don’t think I could watch my partner fuck someone else either.

It’s not for everyone! No judgement to the people who do enjoy it, I envy the security they have."

Same

However, my mind is open so who knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you trust someone you don't get jealous

What do you mean? You mean if you trust someone you should let them go with other people and accept it? What does your comment refer to?"

I don't think its about trust, I think it's about taste. I think you don't do it cos you're just not into it. But we are. I can't describe the pride I feel when I get to watch him with another woman. Seeing how gentle and skilled he is and how they respond to him. It's what he loves about watching me with someone too. We're proud of each other and we like to show each other off. It's made us closer. But that's just us, I'd never suggest anyone should do it or suggest there's anything wrong with a relationship where you don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its really easy, we both love watching each other. We probably wouldn't have in the early stages of our relationship

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I thought that most, if not every couple, that was on here joined to get pleasure out of the whole sexual experience. I could be wrong though, but why would you bring jealousy to the party?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those whose ideal is sexual intimacy within a monogamous relationship may be more likely to find the idea of their partner fucking someone else something they couldn’t stomach.

I think it comes down to our belief systems and how our experiences and conditioning have shaped our view of sex.

Swinging is ancient old and about wife swapping

How does that relate to what I have said?

I am just saying that's how swinging was first thought of and created it has everything to do with what everyone is saying and it's my belief what swinging should be

Fair enough but it doesn’t change what I have said. Non-monogamy, ethical or not, is belief based, just as monogamy is.

Everyone comes with different beliefs, needs and expectations to this site. For some couples the woman or man can feel perfectly fucking other people but can’t stomach the idea of their partner doing it. If that’s what they agree as their way of enjoying their sex lives who am I to say it’s right or wrong?

The meaning of Swinging has evolved as it has become more inclusive of different ways to enjoy our sex lives. Ethical non-monogamy is still a fundamental value within swinging but it is evolving.

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over a year ago

"If you trust someone you don't get jealous

What do you mean? You mean if you trust someone you should let them go with other people and accept it? What does your comment refer to?

I agree. There’s plenty stuff on here I can’t get my head around, doesn’t mean i think it’s wrong or people are wrong for doing it. I think perhaps the op felt the same and just needed it explaining a bit more. I understand it a lot more since I read a similar thread a while ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is aimed at couples, how can you watch your partner shag someone else and not get jealous? Maybe I'm too sensitive"
some get very jealous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You seemed fine with it last week when I was balls deep in Mrs Gorgeous "

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Because it’s fucking hot

Mr.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those whose ideal is sexual intimacy within a monogamous relationship may be more likely to find the idea of their partner fucking someone else something they couldn’t stomach.

I think it comes down to our belief systems and how our experiences and conditioning have shaped our view of sex.

Swinging is ancient old and about wife swapping

How does that relate to what I have said?

I am just saying that's how swinging was first thought of and created it has everything to do with what everyone is saying and it's my belief what swinging should be

Fair enough but it doesn’t change what I have said. Non-monogamy, ethical or not, is belief based, just as monogamy is.

The meaning of Swinging has evolved as it has become more inclusive of different ways to enjoy our sex lives. Ethical non-monogamy is still a fundamental value within swinging but it is evolving."

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"If you trust someone you don't get jealous

What do you mean? You mean if you trust someone you should let them go with other people and accept it? What does your comment refer to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you trust someone you don't get jealous

What do you mean? You mean if you trust someone you should let them go with other people and accept it? What does your comment refer to?"

No, not if you are monogamous. But you don't feel jealous is you feel secure in your relationship and trust your partner. I also believe, people that can't trust, can't be trusted as we all judge by our own standards

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

"This is aimed at couples, how can you watch your partner shag someone else and not get jealous? Maybe I'm too sensitive"

I am a poly and believe in sharing him as he must share me, I get pleasure from hearing him enjoy himself. Swinging is personally different to everyone, we tailor it to suit ourselves. Stay true to your feelings on your own situation and don't get muddied by others opinions on what you must do in your relationship, do what makes you happy.

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….

"In all seriousness, I don’t think I could watch my partner fuck someone else either.

It’s not for everyone! No judgement to the people who do enjoy it, I envy the security they have."

Ditto

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I couldn’t do it. I don’t share.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"This is aimed at couples, how can you watch your partner shag someone else and not get jealous? Maybe I'm too sensitive"

Everybody is different

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock

"I find it a turn on watching my partner pleasure another woman. I get to go home with him and have him all the time, it’s just rude not to share. No jealousy as it’s just sex. It’s me he loves. "

This. It’s a turn on hearing partner making a woman moan and cum.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just think I'm too insecure prob think shell find him better

who's she? Have you got a partner? Would you Shag someone else's wife?"

Should have put she'd, no and yes if her husband was consenting, not if he was there watching though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I thought that most, if not every couple, that was on here joined to get pleasure out of the whole sexual experience. I could be wrong though, but why would you bring jealousy to the party?"

I'm not bringing anything to any party, I wouldn't have sex with a woman with their husband there and if I had a partner I wouldn't watch her shagging a bloke either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you trust someone you don't get jealous

What do you mean? You mean if you trust someone you should let them go with other people and accept it? What does your comment refer to?

I wouldn't say it's trust because they are not exactly bring deceiving getting blasted Infront of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just think I'm too insecure prob think shell find him better

who's she? Have you got a partner? Would you Shag someone else's wife?

Should have put she'd, no and yes if her husband was consenting, not if he was there watching though."
a lot of men love to see their other halves being pleasures. Its obviously definitely not for you but then again we cant all like the same thing can we. Xx

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

When you’re confident in your relationship with each, you know that no matter what, you’re their world and what they’re doing is just having fun and experiences.

Being able to see the person you love have that is incredibly satisfying and also rather horny.

There’s also an element of smugness about how much pleasure the other person is getting and knowing you can have that whenever you want

Lex

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By *OXO2018Couple
over a year ago

Norfolk

I love watching MrXOXO with another lady he has amazing stamina and I can't keep up with him, I'm often thanked for sharing him

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just think I'm too insecure prob think shell find him better

who's she? Have you got a partner? Would you Shag someone else's wife?

Should have put she'd, no and yes if her husband was consenting, not if he was there watching though. a lot of men love to see their other halves being pleasures. Its obviously definitely not for you but then again we cant all like the same thing can we. Xx"

Exactly some people enjoy a golden shower

, world would be boring of everyone liked the same thing.

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

Hubby with another woman id hate and wouldnt be on here ,but as he is bi its not an issue he does appreciate a woman but the only one he fucks is me ,inbetween sharing a guy with me ,its perfect for me ,he is happy ,im happy and never jealous we just love watching each other being pleasured ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love seeing the Mrs pounded on the bed next to me. Jealousy isn't even a word uttered between us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Love seeing the Mrs pounded on the bed next to me. Jealousy isn't even a word uttered between us. "

fair mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I couldn’t do it. I don’t share."

This

Nowt to do with jealousy.

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By *ouanna JoWoman
over a year ago

A little village

"I couldn’t do it. I don’t share.

This

Nowt to do with jealousy. "

It’s nothing to do with jealousy, fear or insecurity. Those words imply an irrational or imagined element, e.g. not letting your partner go on a night out for fear they will speak to other women. Most people in the general population in loving relationships (within and outside of Fab) would probably feel very uncomfortable and upset with seeing their partner have sex with another person. This isn’t an irrational or imagined scenario - it’s very real; and therefore would create a discomfort that’s quite normal. And that’s not to say enjoying the opposite is in anyway abnormal. It’s just to make the point that probably the vast majority of people would struggle with this scenario if asked.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I couldn’t do it. I don’t share.

This

Nowt to do with jealousy.

Yeah what she said

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

Brat has already answered, but from my perspective..

I've always been quite a jealous person, just naturally. On the other hand, I've always been an overly flirty person too which has often in previous lives got me in trouble. However, when you're swinging with a partner it's different. At least for me/us.

There is no jealousy from me because we do everything together, for us. It's a shared experience. Jealousy doesn't come into it, everything we do with another person/people isn't just for me or for her, it's for us.

We both know the best sex we ever have is just us. Everything else is just added extras and fun.

There is no jealousy when you both want the same things and are making them happen together.

We'd both still be heartbroken if one of us cheated or did something with someone else that we weren't supposed to.

When it's within our realm, our limits and our control.. jealousy doesn't feature. There's no problems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just think I'm too insecure prob think shell find him better

who's she? Have you got a partner? Would you Shag someone else's wife?

Exactly some people enjoy a golden shower

, world would be boring of everyone liked the same thing."
absolutely true. I personally prefer a hot shower lol. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just think I'm too insecure prob think shell find him better

who's she? Have you got a partner? Would you Shag someone else's wife?

Exactly some people enjoy a golden shower

, world would be boring of everyone liked the same thing. absolutely true. I personally prefer a hot shower lol. Xx"

agreed

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By *adyinred696969Couple
over a year ago

Brecon

Well, seeing as its usually a bi lady he's playing with, then i'm mostly not watching, I'm playing with her too lol!

We dont get jealous seeing each other with others, its like live porn, which you can direct, or take part in, and its a massive turn on knowing he is having fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I couldn’t do it. I don’t share.

This

Nowt to do with jealousy.

Totally. Like I said, everyone’s different and will do what they want to do. I can have an FFM if I’m involved too but couldn’t just sit and watch him just fuck her. As long as both are comfortable and it’s legal then I’ve always said go for it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I couldn’t do it. I don’t share.

This

Nowt to do with jealousy.

I do enjoy our FFMs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I couldn’t do it. I don’t share.

This

Nowt to do with jealousy.

I do enjoy our FFMs "

. Aw me too Mr G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do fabbers get in touch off line to get threads up that will get a reaction

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By *an from UncleMan
over a year ago

ml1

"Because it’s fucking hot

Mr. "
and vinilla is just fucking boring

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"This is aimed at couples, how can you watch your partner shag someone else and not get jealous? Maybe I'm too sensitive"

Would you fuck another man's partner, while he watched?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This is aimed at couples, how can you watch your partner shag someone else and not get jealous? Maybe I'm too sensitive

Would you fuck another man's partner, while he watched? "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do fabbers get in touch off line to get threads up that will get a reaction

Yes I recently did with my marriage thread mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a big difference between making love and fucking someone and once you and your partner are on that page, swinging can work well....

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over a year ago

Different things make each of us happy. Different things get us riled. No big surprise then that we get turned on by different things really...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is aimed at couples, how can you watch your partner shag someone else and not get jealous? Maybe I'm too sensitive

Would you fuck another man's partner, while he watched? "
if thats what he or they wanted then yes why not

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