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By *naswingdress OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Christmas isn't a happy time for everyone. Sometimes it's hard to get through all the enforced cheer alone. I see you. You're important. You'll get through. It'll be over soon, promise.

(for those who love Christmas, be grateful, don't get pissed off, please)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Christmas isn't a happy time for everyone. Sometimes it's hard to get through all the enforced cheer alone. I see you. You're important. You'll get through. It'll be over soon, promise.

(for those who love Christmas, be grateful, don't get pissed off, please) "

Sending hugs to anyone who needs it

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Christmas isn't a happy time for everyone. Sometimes it's hard to get through all the enforced cheer alone. I see you. You're important. You'll get through. It'll be over soon, promise.

(for those who love Christmas, be grateful, don't get pissed off, please)

Sending hugs to anyone who needs it "

Ditto from here as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mwah!!!

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By *az080378Woman
over a year ago

Cromer


"Christmas isn't a happy time for everyone. Sometimes it's hard to get through all the enforced cheer alone. I see you. You're important. You'll get through. It'll be over soon, promise.

(for those who love Christmas, be grateful, don't get pissed off, please) "

Lovely post,thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Christmas is a sad one for me lots of family gone that enjoyed this time of year.

This is a lovely post to see and anyone feeling sad or anything big hugs to you

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

It can be the best of times, it can be the worst of times. Chin up lovelies. X

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"Christmas isn't a happy time for everyone. Sometimes it's hard to get through all the enforced cheer alone. I see you. You're important. You'll get through. It'll be over soon, promise.

(for those who love Christmas, be grateful, don't get pissed off, please)

Sending hugs to anyone who needs it "

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I don't really do Xmas, but for those that do and miss people, have a massive Ace (((HUG))) from me x

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

(((Hugs))) and kisses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it hard because I've lost my mum who loved Christmas and also lost my dad and stepdad and have very little family. I try to look at the positives but do go off for a 'chat' with my mum on Christmas day in the garden

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By *ettyboob72Woman
over a year ago

Manningtree


"Christmas isn't a happy time for everyone. Sometimes it's hard to get through all the enforced cheer alone. I see you. You're important. You'll get through. It'll be over soon, promise.

(for those who love Christmas, be grateful, don't get pissed off, please) "

Totally agree.. wish we could do more to.help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m with you OP. I Come off all social media as it can make me feel sad and envious of Xmas partying social gatherings. I know my triggers so I’ve disabled my accounts a few weeks ago.

I love being with my children and I’m not a grinch but looking and seeing everyone enjoying festivity’s partying when I’m sat in can be hard for me sometimes

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By *iggyStarjumpsMan
over a year ago

Stockport


"Christmas isn't a happy time for everyone. Sometimes it's hard to get through all the enforced cheer alone. I see you. You're important. You'll get through. It'll be over soon, promise.

(for those who love Christmas, be grateful, don't get pissed off, please) "

Thanks, you too x

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By *naswingdress OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Bump

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here if anyone needs a chat!

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Christmas is a sad one for me lots of family gone that enjoyed this time of year.

This is a lovely post to see and anyone feeling sad or anything big hugs to you "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lost me mum 23rd Dec 3 years ago. World is a sadder place without her. But she'd absolutely belt me if I didnt celebrate Christmas she loved this time of year.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

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By *ister KinkyMan
over a year ago

Sussex

Definitely need those hugs, so thank you. Have lost pretty much everything this year, so it’s going to be a hard one to get through.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Christmas isn't a happy time for everyone. Sometimes it's hard to get through all the enforced cheer alone. I see you. You're important. You'll get through. It'll be over soon, promise.

(for those who love Christmas, be grateful, don't get pissed off, please) "

Thank you op, yes it's not easy time for someone like me who don't have friends and family ,feeling so lonely this time of year but i have been doing some volunteer helping serving xmas lunch for homeless charity for the Last 3 years.

I can tell you that someone out there more lonely than me and make me appreciate life more.

Merry Christmas everyone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Christmas is also a very difficult time of year for trans people, as family might not be understanding of what they are going through. Please, if you talk to any trans girl or guy, just let them know that you are there for them at this time of year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am going to be spending Christmas alone this year again. Don’t have any family and don’t want to spend it with friends as Christmas is like a family thing as I see it and don’t want to ruin it for anyone.

Don’t want to tell friends as I don’t like sympathy.

I would like to send hugs and best wishes to everyone this Christmas if you are spending alone.

Have a fantastic Christmas everyone.

I’ll have my mistletoe handy if anyone wants to get snogging.

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By *ove3funCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Christmas is fucking awful. Massive squeezy cuddles to everyone xxx

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

I'll be enjoying Christmas until 1pm and that's when my kids go back to their mother.

The tree will come down, house will be cleaned and tidied then it's just another day like the rest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always give the commercial nonsense associated with Christmas a very wide berth. Usually arrange to help out with the Salvation Army to give a Christmas dinner to the elderly/lonely/homeless. Much more fulfilling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Xmas can be difficult for some people.. we forget how lonely some are... I love Xmas .. but if I hear Noddy Holders voice one more time the radio is doomed. Happy Fabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m with you OP. I Come off all social media as it can make me feel sad and envious of Xmas partying social gatherings. "

Interesting one - I subscribe to no social media at all and am perfectly happy. I don't even have a smartphone. I observe those that do - and they all seem addicted to them - and are pretty miserable when you speak to them properly. One of the greatest evils invented in my view - social media and mobile phones.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Hate Christmas this year, missing my son and my mum but faking it for my little one. Hugs to all who need one xxx

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By *linyMan
over a year ago

Manchester/London

Thank you to everyone who has posted on this thread. My father passed away a week today so this will be my first Christmas without him. I have to stay strong for my mum but I know others are suffering not just with bereavement but an array of issues. I send my warmest and sincerest hugs to you xxx

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By *linyMan
over a year ago

Manchester/London

I appear to have slowed the thread! Spread the love and hugs ??

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By *heLaserGuyMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Last Xmas was the first in 47 years I woke to an empty house....wasn't very nice at all.

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