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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you could wait a note to your younger self what would it say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop caring what other people think about u.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always remember to share

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Stay chilled

D.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because you’re allowed to take out credit does not mean you need to sign up to every credit card/ loan that is offered to you. Fucking hell use your head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't put up with abusive behaviour from the men in your life just because you don't think you deserve better.

Also stop worrying so much about your size, there are more important things and you'll spend a long time making yourself miserable over something that doesn't really matter.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Always remember to share "

Sharing is caring after all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just because you’re allowed to take out credit does not mean you need to sign up to every credit card/ loan that is offered to you. Fucking hell use your head. "

Very good advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can’t change what’s already happened, accept what’s happened and channel your energy into something positive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t climb through that window

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You can’t change what’s already happened, accept what’s happened and channel your energy into something positive "

No thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you could wait a note to your younger self what would it say"

Listen to my tutor told me and practice till your fingers bleed...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do NOT meet [Insert Ex's name here] Keep well away.

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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago

Coventry


"If you could wait a note to your younger self what would it say"

Look forward never look back. Wasted energy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do NOT meet [Insert Ex's name here] Keep well away. "

That bad ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Don't marry her you've much better to come

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't marry her you've much better to come "

I think a lot have said the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Date but don’t do relationships or commitment

It took several broken engagements, a broken marriage and some ‘living together‘ mistakes for me to eventually realise that being in a relationship is not part of my life’s journey

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

local, but not too local

It won’t work out, so do what’s right for you.

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London

Have confidence and force yourself and if you don't feel it, pretend you do til it becomes natural.

Wish I'd done this 20 years ago not just in the last 2 years!

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By *urulovesnylonMan
over a year ago

Harrow

Complete the alphabet of shags when you get the chance... especially when you meet a girl whose name begins with an X or Q lol. No chance now still have too many to go was way too fussy back then

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Don't listen to others or conform to others ideas of normal. You are stronger than you can ever imagine

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Don't go anywhere the path may lead. Go instead where there is no path and leave a trail'

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By *uskymotoMan
over a year ago

Cumbria

I'd say "be careful and selective who you share your time, money and love with. You will be exploited by many people".

If I had sex as often as I got fucked, life would be good.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Please don't ask her to go in your place,please don't, you going to loose her forever !

Please Stop her!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont sell the mk1 escort mexico!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

You deserve better. Run away from every single one of them. Get angry. Scream. Be heard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not too skinny or a geek

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's better to be alone than lonely and downtrodden.

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By *lap.n.tickleCouple
over a year ago

sunny Manchester :)


"Dont sell the mk1 escort mexico!"

I agree but have to ad the countless rs turbos the brooklands capri also the cosworth and RS500 all be it that 1 wasn't around long. Happy days they where....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forget expectations. Embrace who you are. Take up the offer to travel the world. Enjoy the kiss. Give back the ring. Find some fucker to tie you up... Sigh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t come onto fab when you’re in your 20’s. Wait till you’re abit older so you’re socially accepted

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London


"Forget expectations. Embrace who you are. Take up the offer to travel the world. Enjoy the kiss. Give back the ring. Find some fucker to tie you up... Sigh"

A guide to life in 6 easy steps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have more sex

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

Don't be so trusting. There are liars & fakes everywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t let ur brother leave the house on the 23rd of jan keep him in at all costs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont sell the mk1 escort mexico!

I agree but have to ad the countless rs turbos the brooklands capri also the cosworth and RS500 all be it that 1 wasn't around long. Happy days they where...."

I kept the s1 escort turbo & e30 m3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t let ur brother leave the house on the 23rd of jan keep him in at all costs x "

That doesn't sounds good xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't be so trusting. There are liars & fakes everywhere "

Be just as trusting... Spot the fakes earlier

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

When you break up with your future wife forget her and move on (now divorced)

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By *lap.n.tickleCouple
over a year ago

sunny Manchester :)


"Dont sell the mk1 escort mexico!

I agree but have to ad the countless rs turbos the brooklands capri also the cosworth and RS500 all be it that 1 wasn't around long. Happy days they where....

I kept the s1 escort turbo & e30 m3 "

That escort is worth some serious coin. Not jealous at all ya fucker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t let ur brother leave the house on the 23rd of jan keep him in at all costs x

That doesn't sounds good xx "

It’s not huni 1 thing I wish I could change x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stopped boris years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Date but don’t do relationships or commitment

It took several broken engagements, a broken marriage and some ‘living together‘ mistakes for me to eventually realise that being in a relationship is not part of my life’s journey

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I guess not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you changed the things you did, you may never become the person you are now.....

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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Don't conform to your families expectations of you for so long - you're the black sheep anyway, leave them to their mediocrity and go out into the world and do your own thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Know your worth and never let people bring you down.

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria


"Know your worth and never let people bring you down."

^^ Pretty much this!

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"If you could wait a note to your younger self what would it say"

Don't trust anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never be afraid of what people think of you. Never regret anything apart from wasted opportunities

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't conform to your families expectations of you for so long - you're the black sheep anyway, leave them to their mediocrity and go out into the world and do your own thing! "

Great advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you find yourself in bed with a seriously hot blond best friend who wants you to kiss her, don't end up being chivalrous, just kiss her!

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By *9 kisses.Man
over a year ago

clacton on sea

I would write to my 13 year old self and say, work harder at school,

Flirt like crazy with all the girls at school and female teachers,

Stop playing with myself,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When you find yourself in bed with a seriously hot blond best friend who wants you to kiss her, don't end up being chivalrous, just kiss her!

"

Aww

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull


"Don't be so trusting. There are liars & fakes everywhere

Be just as trusting... Spot the fakes earlier"

If only it was that easy!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Don't conform to your families expectations of you for so long - you're the black sheep anyway, leave them to their mediocrity and go out into the world and do your own thing! "

Preach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't let your past hold your back and when you're 25 you'll meet an awesome lass, so don't do anything to fuck up the relationship, you little prick.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't let your past hold your back and when you're 25 you'll meet an awesome lass, so don't do anything to fuck up the relationship, you little prick. "

Love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're the only one that thinks you're an arsehole....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't let your past hold your back and when you're 25 you'll meet an awesome lass, so don't do anything to fuck up the relationship, you little prick.

Love it"

If I could give myself a slap too just as added encouragement I reckon it'd be worth it.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"If you could wait a note to your younger self what would it say"

I would ‘be patient - they will make 9 Star Wars films plus extras’

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're the only one that thinks you're an arsehole...."

Aww

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By *ister KinkyMan
over a year ago

Sussex

You don’t have to be strong for everyone else all the time, it’s okay to be fragile; seek help when you need it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Live life as I do now and not as I did in the past.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You don’t have to be strong for everyone else all the time, it’s okay to be fragile; seek help when you need it. "

I think a lot of people would have needed to here this .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay away from her..she is trouble that one.

Oh and put the biscuits down!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Stay away from her..she is trouble that one.

Oh and put the biscuits down!!!!"

Why put biscuits down ?

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Don't wear heels on gravel

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

Appreciate every part of life, make the most of not having as much stress in your life as you may have when you’re older

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London


"Don't wear heels on gravel "

Noted!

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By *oubleswing2019Man
over a year ago

Colchester

Don’t have regrets for things you did do, have regrets for things you didn’t. Because you can learn to live with the regrets for the things you did but didn’t work out. At least you tried and experienced them. The things you didn’t try but wished you had? Those regrets will haunt you forever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you could wait a note to your younger self what would it say"
get yourself into oxford uni you'll be able to retire at 48 as a result

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Appreciate every part of life, make the most of not having as much stress in your life as you may have when you’re older"

This is so true.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you could wait a note to your younger self what would it sayget yourself into oxford uni you'll be able to retire at 48 as a result "

Great advice

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By *esse1972Man
over a year ago

Rugeley

Live and appreciate every moment. Some not as lucky.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Live and appreciate every moment. Some not as lucky."

This is so very true.

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By *onestjohn1962Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Go fishing more !

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

Let my wife enjoy the experience the pleasure of others and open her eyes to those who crossdress

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go fishing more !"

For actual fish?

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

Always keep it real. Always be yourself, you are awesome. Karma.. respect it

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

When my ex gets in contact with me, block the fuck out of her lol

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By *onestjohn1962Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Go fishing more !

For actual fish?"

Actually- yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take your meds!

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

Live

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck it

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Do what you love not what others want you to love

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

I like that what you just put on here....fuck it and that's what I would put on a note

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

When you pop round your mates go a chat & some birds there straddling him (clothed) while your all chatting with a beer & she says please stay when you say it’s time you were off...& he gives you a sly smile.

Don’t go home you innocent shy dickhead!!

S

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Fuck it"

S

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Don't be so fucking lazy.

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By *2coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Wish my wife fucked more men before we had kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be you, no matter of others opinions, you are better with your quirks

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By *aughty Lovers 69Man
over a year ago

Wallasey


"Stop caring what other people think about u."

Exactly this!!!! Why waste time trying to be a sheep and fit in the crowd just to be liked, uh uh what a waste of time xx

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Just be you, no matter of others opinions, you are better with your quirks"

Your quirks are amazing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When my ex gets in contact with me, block the fuck out of her lol"

Good advice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you could wait a note to your younger self what would it say

Look forward never look back. Wasted energy"

Great advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Always keep it real. Always be yourself, you are awesome. Karma.. respect it "

This is great advice

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By *9 kisses.Man
over a year ago

clacton on sea

Take every bit of advice with a pinch of salt,

And do to others before they do to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Screwing your eyes up to watch the encrypted cable porn channels really doesn’t work??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You aren't as fat as you think you are.

You are good enough.

You are worth so much more than what you let them treat you like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you could wait a note to your younger self what would it say"
I've waited to write this note to myself when i was 18

'don't do it don't drink another one and don't eat that you'll have the mother of all hangovers'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to uni, tuition won't always be free.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go to uni, tuition won't always be free. "
i could teach you a few things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont live with anyone!

Get your own place - work hard, play harder and don't let anyone tell you what to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go to uni, tuition won't always be free. i could teach you a few things "

I love to learn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go to uni, tuition won't always be free. i could teach you a few things

I love to learn "

step right up to the front

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go to uni, tuition won't always be free. i could teach you a few things

I love to learn step right up to the front "

What's the first module?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t smoke you clown!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t smoke you clown!"

That's great advice .

For present day smokers, the NHS will help you quit for free.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Take every bit of advice with a pinch of salt,

And do to others before they do to you"

True

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go to uni, tuition won't always be free. i could teach you a few things

I love to learn step right up to the front

What's the first module? "

first module : how to please your man in 35 easy steps, this is a practical test with answers given and you select correct option, their is a picture section too this comes with an extremely high point accumulator

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go to uni, tuition won't always be free. i could teach you a few things

I love to learn step right up to the front

What's the first module? first module : how to please your man in 35 easy steps, this is a practical test with answers given and you select correct option, their is a picture section too this comes with an extremely high point accumulator "

Oh where can I get that ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go to uni, tuition won't always be free. i could teach you a few things

I love to learn step right up to the front

What's the first module? first module : how to please your man in 35 easy steps, this is a practical test with answers given and you select correct option, their is a picture section too this comes with an extremely high point accumulator

Oh where can I get that ?"

here its an exclusive test

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Head to liverpool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be a book, not a note! But the main thing would be eventually you will be happy

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By *atcgMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Dont marry her.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go to uni, tuition won't always be free. i could teach you a few things

I love to learn step right up to the front

What's the first module? first module : how to please your man in 35 easy steps, this is a practical test with answers given and you select correct option, their is a picture section too this comes with an extremely high point accumulator

Oh where can I get that ?here its an exclusive test "

Perfect.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dont marry her....."

A lot of that going around.

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