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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not.

Let’s be honest, at the moment it’s getting in the way if the fucking ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can fuck right off and be January if ya don't mind.

P

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

Nope, don't like it, gross commercialisation at it's finest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont have a TV or kids - so Christmas doesn't really have that much impact.

I'll enjoy Christmas Day with my family, eat drink and be merry.

Then it's over.

No dramas.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I normally like it, but it’s really getting in the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I normally like it, but it’s really getting in the way "

Of what??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I normally like it, but it’s really getting in the way

Of what??"

The more interesting stuff ;-

Why do you hate it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love being with the family so I love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love Christmas

Everything about it :@)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I normally like it, but it’s really getting in the way "

You have an early xmas present to yourself that should keep you from getting too frustrated

I like christmas but mainly because most people be in good form

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Not!

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Not big fans here, just do it for the children really, before they came along we’d get booze & extra nice food in & just watch tv.

There’s most watching Xmas specials & we are on the documentary channels watching programmes about murderers etc.

Ho ho ho

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I normally like it, but it’s really getting in the way

Of what??

The more interesting stuff ;-

Why do you hate it? "

Just makes me a feel a bit crap. I don’t have any family and my friends are all spending it with their families.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I normally like it, but it’s really getting in the way

You have an early xmas present to yourself that should keep you from getting too frustrated

I like christmas but mainly because most people be in good form "

That’s true, am going up to amuse myself shortly.

Yes, it’s lovely to see people and have fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I normally like it, but it’s really getting in the way

Of what??

The more interesting stuff ;-

Why do you hate it?

Just makes me a feel a bit crap. I don’t have any family and my friends are all spending it with their families. "

I’m really sorry to hear that, that must be tough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I normally like it, but it’s really getting in the way

Of what??

The more interesting stuff ;-

Why do you hate it?

Just makes me a feel a bit crap. I don’t have any family and my friends are all spending it with their families.

I’m really sorry to hear that, that must be tough "

I mean I get asked to spend it with friends but it always feels like I’m intruding and feel awkward so I just keep out the way.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"I dont have a TV or kids - so Christmas doesn't really have that much impact.

I'll enjoy Christmas Day with my family, eat drink and be merry.

Then it's over.

No dramas."

I have a TV, used to love Christmas Tele but a bit repetitive now, so Netflix and prime, as well as a couple of dvds as I scoff down my turkey dinner as for the family part, always a negative somewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not.

Let’s be honest, at the moment it’s getting in the way if the fucking ...."

Used to hate it but as I get older I enjoy it more

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I normally like it, but it’s really getting in the way

Of what??

The more interesting stuff ;-

Why do you hate it?

Just makes me a feel a bit crap. I don’t have any family and my friends are all spending it with their families.

I’m really sorry to hear that, that must be tough

I mean I get asked to spend it with friends but it always feels like I’m intruding and feel awkward so I just keep out the way. "

All the fabbers who are on their own need to arrange big meets in a pub or something, I’ve see a few people say they will be on their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I normally like it, but it’s really getting in the way

Of what??

The more interesting stuff ;-

Why do you hate it?

Just makes me a feel a bit crap. I don’t have any family and my friends are all spending it with their families.

I’m really sorry to hear that, that must be tough

I mean I get asked to spend it with friends but it always feels like I’m intruding and feel awkward so I just keep out the way. "

I know how you feel bro, I used to like it but not anymore. It’s a hard time to be on your own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I normally like it, but it’s really getting in the way

Of what??

The more interesting stuff ;-

Why do you hate it?

Just makes me a feel a bit crap. I don’t have any family and my friends are all spending it with their families.

I’m really sorry to hear that, that must be tough

I mean I get asked to spend it with friends but it always feels like I’m intruding and feel awkward so I just keep out the way.

I know how you feel bro, I used to like it but not anymore. It’s a hard time to be on your own "

Yeah. All my friends are married with kids and it kinda makes regret not settling down and starting a family.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I normally like it, but it’s really getting in the way

Of what??

The more interesting stuff ;-

Why do you hate it?

Just makes me a feel a bit crap. I don’t have any family and my friends are all spending it with their families.

I’m really sorry to hear that, that must be tough

I mean I get asked to spend it with friends but it always feels like I’m intruding and feel awkward so I just keep out the way.

All the fabbers who are on their own need to arrange big meets in a pub or something, I’ve see a few people say they will be on their own"

That’s a top idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The extra time off work is nice, so too is the extra food and alcohol.

We will thoroughly enjoy our time together as a couple, we love the outdoors and so will be out running and walking whenever we can.

The children will enjoy and that makes us happy.

Crimbo television specials are most definitely NOT our thing. So its documentaries and films to chill out to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The extra time off work is nice, so too is the extra food and alcohol.

We will thoroughly enjoy our time together as a couple, we love the outdoors and so will be out running and walking whenever we can.

The children will enjoy and that makes us happy.

Crimbo television specials are most definitely NOT our thing. So its documentaries and films to chill out to.

"

That sounds lovely

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I’m starting to get in the Christmas mood today.

It does mean a break from fab but it’s fun making up for lost time in the new year!

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots


"I normally like it, but it’s really getting in the way

Of what??

The more interesting stuff ;-

Why do you hate it?

Just makes me a feel a bit crap. I don’t have any family and my friends are all spending it with their families.

I’m really sorry to hear that, that must be tough

I mean I get asked to spend it with friends but it always feels like I’m intruding and feel awkward so I just keep out the way. "

same here mate I know how you feel....one day I will get away for Christmas I say it every year and never do it no fun on your own

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m starting to get in the Christmas mood today.

It does mean a break from fab but it’s fun making up for lost time in the new year! "

Oh yes

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I’m a bah humbug, always results in my mother comparing presents from me and my brothers, being stood in the kitchen all day for someone to moan about the food and unwanted visitors. The build up is stressful, shops start far too early and makes it all very commercialised.

I’d be happy to spend the day in a remote house in the highlands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't like it at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just another day to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's ok.

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By *ent_couple2019Couple
over a year ago

canterbury

It gets in way!

Dread it arriving and happy to see it go.

Very much like that annoying family member haha

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I really enjoy Christmas, but this year I can't wait to get it done and out of the way!

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By *restonM50Man
over a year ago

preston

It brings pressure.

Unrealistic expectation.

Disappointment.

I like it, but the issues above make the build up intolerable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I am having a cash flow problem at this moment if my life. I have been trying to buy everything over a few months to have stuff. But I have had to explain to some family members I not be buying gifts for them all. I just don't have the money.

So am stressed out about it.

But am lucky I have everything in I hope. And cupboards are full of normal food.

Because I feel am better of using whatever money I have to feed myself and keep the heat on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like Christmas anymore. On my own since divorce years ago, my eldest children haven't been in contact for many years. I only have my daughter now that stays in contact and she lives almost 200 miles away. Ive got very few people I can call friends. Plenty of acquaintances, most of whom are only out for what they can get. Christmas has lost all meaning. It's too commercialized and essentially about firms making money from it.

I'll be glad when next year arrives.

Bah humbug!

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

It’s lost it’s lustre shallwe say

Commercialised 100% and in reality, for what?

1 day..........really

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

I enjoy Christmas in one specific aspect, that is, the Music.

From a more traditional sense, along with the Pop Classics over time, it has some of the best tunes around for any time of year.

Growing up into my teens, we always had a quiet Xmas at home, then on leaving home into the business world, I went into Hotel Management as a trainee & soon learned that Xmas was for working whilst everyone else enjoyed themselves!

Nowadays, the hotel I work at, closes for 4 or 5 days at Xmas. I stay in as Fire & Security cover, but am used to Christmas on my own, as that has been the norm for over 10 years.

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Not particularly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

meh

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

Hiding from twats

I really don't like Christmas. If I didn't have kids then I wouldn't bother.

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

I enjoy xmas day getting all the family together but hate everything else that goes with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spending this year on my own... But never really been a fan, I think modern times has bloated beyond what it should be about

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By *cloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull

Usually I love it but kids all flown the nest & making traditions of their own with their young families

It'll be a different one that's for sure

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As I am having a cash flow problem at this moment if my life. I have been trying to buy everything over a few months to have stuff. But I have had to explain to some family members I not be buying gifts for them all. I just don't have the money.

So am stressed out about it.

But am lucky I have everything in I hope. And cupboards are full of normal food.

Because I feel am better of using whatever money I have to feed myself and keep the heat on.

"

I get it, it makes it more stressful doesn’t it?

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

It's a commercial holiday which leaves many in debt or feeling not good enough in terms of living up to media hype.

Rather have a second Halloween

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the time off work

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I like the time off work "

OK hun.

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

My photo probably gives you a clue..

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Absolutely love it

Two weeks off with all of my family and friends around me, its the only time we all make the effort to get together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a stressful time when it shouldn’t be. Too many expectations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading this thread has made me sad in a way! life is what you choose it to be!

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I love it. It’s my favourite time of the year.

I think Christmas is what you make of it and we all do it differently.

For me it isn’t about running around in December shopping, it isn’t about how much I spend or what I buy. I enjoy buying for those I love but I don’t buy for anybody and everybody. I enjoy wrapping presents, I enjoy all the build up, the events like a carol service, Christmas music, decorations, my Christmas tree and goodness do I love a fairy light! the parties and gatherings but mostly I enjoy time with my family.

I wouldn’t change my Christmas for anything. It isn’t about ‘stuff’, it’s about people, playing games, laughing, eating, enjoying each other’s company

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Hi op, I quite enjoy Christmas

It’s s good time, families together, nice thinking about good things in life, rather than being miserable and looking forwards to cold January??? (What’s that all about)

I am going to celebrate every Christmas I can, enjoy it as you never know if it’s your last one!!

I’m lucky to even be here to enjoy this time of year..

So please take off you’re Scrooge attitudes and please enjoy Christmas instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont really enjoy it too commercial and full of crazy stupid excess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it. My favourite time of year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it. The only time I can take two weeks off work and not come back with an extra two weeks of work to do. It’s a proper holiday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont really enjoy it too commercial and full of crazy stupid excess."

Only if you let it! We have Christmas without the commercialism ...

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