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Be different, or be normal

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As the title says, which is better and what do you define as different/normal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As the title says, which is better and what do you define as different/normal?"

I think "better" is being whoever you are (providing it's not something like a murderer or cunt) and not pretending to be something or someone you aren't.

P

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well someone being a cunt can be subject to opinion in terms of context. As for pretending to be someone youre not, maybe more than a few ppl are and dont realise it. Commercialism and society can shape you in a way you dont see. Its easy to spot the opposite but not so easy to see where you stand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The folks who claim to be different are actually just like all the rest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just be yourself. "

Still can't message you just in case you were wondering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different wins every time for me

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'm very different.

Shame more men aren't as nice as me (so I'm told). Lol

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

There is no such, thing in life as normal..........

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not necessarily, there are black sheep out there and are loud and proud

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By *ocbigMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I have not ploughed the traditional furrow, but don’t feel I am particularly different until people start discussing life & choices & tell me how ‘lucky’ ‘odd ‘ or some combination I am...” oh I wish I had done that, you are so lucky “ choices & opportunity is all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely different, but not nessesarily deliberately so. Yes be yourself, but the liberated, non vanilla version of yourself that is NSFW.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be you. That’s the most important thing

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Be you. That’s the most important thing "

It’s difficult to be anybody else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As the title says, which is better and what do you define as different/normal?

I think "better" is being whoever you are (providing it's not something like a murderer or cunt) and not pretending to be something or someone you aren't.

P"

Damn. Is it ok to be just one of those?

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Be true to yourself. Live your life how you want to. Don't just follow the crowd if it's not what you want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be you. That’s the most important thing

It’s difficult to be anybody else "

Not for some people it’s not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There is no such, thing in life as normal.........."

Well trying to be part of the main crowd would be considered normal as the majority holds power and what the majority says must be fact, which is a load of shit but thats a whole other discussion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Avoid anyone that encourages you aspire to be normal.

Run from anyone that believes they themselves are normal....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no such, thing in life as normal..........

Well trying to be part of the main crowd would be considered normal as the majority holds power and what the majority says must be fact, which is a load of shit but thats a whole other discussion"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be you. That’s the most important thing

It’s difficult to be anybody else

Not for some people it’s not. "

Are you Batman?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Be you. That’s the most important thing

It’s difficult to be anybody else

Not for some people it’s not. "

Look round bridgend and youll see most guys look exactly the same, same hair cut, same clothes, same cars same fecking everything... same goes for the women, im usually very good with faces but theres a fuck ton of ppl who look exactly the same hanging about in their groups. Its kinda disorientating

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By *hisCharManMan
over a year ago

South Manchester

To quote Bill and Ted “be excellent to each other”

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"To quote Bill and Ted “be excellent to each other” "

Party on dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be you. That’s the most important thing

It’s difficult to be anybody else

Not for some people it’s not.

Are you Batman?"

Wonder Woman

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Be you. That’s the most important thing

It’s difficult to be anybody else

Not for some people it’s not.

Are you Batman?

Wonder Woman "

That costume I would love to see you in.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

What is normal though ?

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"What is normal though ? "

Somebody about half the size of me. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be you. That’s the most important thing

It’s difficult to be anybody else

Not for some people it’s not.

Are you Batman?

Wonder Woman

That costume I would love to see you in. "

Hahahaha. I’m no Gal Gadot or Lynda Carter unfortunately!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What is normal though ? "

When ppl look at each other and think theyre looking at a mirror

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Be you. That’s the most important thing

It’s difficult to be anybody else

Not for some people it’s not.

Are you Batman?

Wonder Woman

That costume I would love to see you in.

Hahahaha. I’m no Gal Gadot or Lynda Carter unfortunately!! "

But you'd still look awesome.

Just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be you. That’s the most important thing

It’s difficult to be anybody else

Not for some people it’s not.

Are you Batman?

Wonder Woman

That costume I would love to see you in.

Hahahaha. I’m no Gal Gadot or Lynda Carter unfortunately!!

But you'd still look awesome.

Just saying "

Aw thank you lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To quote Bill and Ted “be excellent to each other”

Party on dude "

It's all you need to know

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By *atalie..Woman
over a year ago

Bolton

Be different and true to yourself, don't bend for others.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Be different and true to yourself, don't bend for others. "

Only bending that should be done is ploughing her over the arm of the sofa

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I think in general just be yourself. And be honest but unfortunately not many people like different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's normal to be differnt, we aren't carbon copies of each other. We a certainly tribal and copy what we think is cool or seen as appropriate manner/behaviour/dress etc. Copy what you like, be different if you like, just be happy and dont force your ways or opinions on others

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