FabSwingers.com forum: Profiles on here

By *lder A Wiser Passion OP Woman
over a year ago

morecambe

Who like me who is a woman or couple is but off by single men profiles being to full on all about sex and northing els

Who like me with single men put off when all there verifys are all single men a TVs

And Who els is put off like me by single mens verifys all meets are sex meets and not a social in them

Yes Im swinger but dont like it when messages are to full on or profiles and northing aprat from sex no menion of friendship or respect

Be good to know what folk think?

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Just don't answer/delete/block the profiles that don't interest you, or message you and you don't want to reply x

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By *ustme1820Woman
over a year ago

Southcoast Gosport

People can run their profiles how they like and get verifications from who they want

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Lots of things put me off people, I'm sure lots of things about me put people off too. I focus on the ones I like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of different things on profiles put me off, but as long as I’m happy with my own profile, others can run theirs as they want.

Just means I won’t be compatible with some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am put off by people who post with no spell checking or use of grammar. People that write sentences that just run on and on and make no sense. However I don't let it ruin my enjoyment of the site.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

Bad spelling puts me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am put off by people who post with no spell checking or use of grammar. People that write sentences that just run on and on and make no sense. However I don't let it ruin my enjoyment of the site. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No excuse for bad spelling considering the amount of spelling aids you can use. It's just lazy.

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

"Bad spelling puts me off."

To an extent I slightly agree though people often have a legit excuse however bad grammar puts me off far more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bad spelling puts me off.

To an extent I slightly agree though people often have a legit excuse however bad grammar puts me off far more. "

Soz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really mind either way, I just focus on the ones that don't put me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ppl do things different, you can live by first impressions or you can test the water and see if its too hot or cold. But living by first impressions is just a sign of being judgemental which wont work in your favour. You end up missing out on experiences youd have otherwsie been grateful for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No excuse for bad spelling considering the amount of spelling aids you can use. It's just lazy."

Actually there are a whole host of "excuses" and not all of them can be helped by aids.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"Bad spelling puts me off.

To an extent I slightly agree though people often have a legit excuse however bad grammar puts me off far more. "

I can overlook the odd error, It's just a swingers profile/post/pm after all. It's when it's so bad it feels like it's smacking you in the face over and over and over as you read it that I give up.

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

"Who like me who is a woman or couple is but off by single men profiles being to full on all about sex and northing else"

Not put off by the type of verification why should I be its not the guy who has written them. As for a man's profile well better with more detail than a sparse one line profile even if its graphic then it tells me about them and that's what a profile is for isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a look at my profile and tell me what you think and if you get the humour behind it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who like me who is a woman or couple is but off by single men profiles being to full on all about sex and northing els

Who like me with single men put off when all there verifys are all single men a TVs

And Who els is put off like me by single mens verifys all meets are sex meets and not a social in them

Yes Im swinger but dont like it when messages are to full on or profiles and northing aprat from sex no menion of friendship or respect

Be good to know what folk think?"

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, could be dyslexic, maybe some other reason they have difficulty with written language despite autocorrect, which may not even be on for a good reason. Assumptions and judgementality show a lack of understanding... which are also a turn off

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"No excuse for bad spelling considering the amount of spelling aids you can use. It's just lazy.

Actually there are a whole host of "excuses" and not all of them can be helped by aids. "

Nice boobs

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

(Ray)

All profiles are objective to the persons personality and also a sales pitch

Some are targeting a specific demographic others just have the horn

Just because it doesn't appeal to you doesn't mean it's right or wrong

just try and enjoy the place for what it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yup, could be dyslexic, maybe some other reason they have difficulty with written language despite autocorrect, which may not even be on for a good reason. Assumptions and judgementality show a lack of understanding... which are also a turn off"

Totally agree.

There are developmental disorders that cause all sorts of impulsivity issues too. I have adhd and often reply to messages and then realise I've written in some bizarre form of longhanded wingdings.

But.. Confusing there their and they're just hurts my brain and it makes my eyes bleed when people do it...

But as far as other peoples' profiles go, I think it's best to be yourself and reflect that in your profile.

Those like - minded to you will find you.

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

Totally agree.

There are developmental disorders that cause all sorts of impulsivity issues too. I have adhd and often reply to messages and then realise I've written in some bizarre form of longhanded wingdings.

But.. Confusing there their and they're just hurts my brain and it makes my eyes bleed when people do it...

But as far as other peoples' profiles go, I think it's best to be yourself and reflect that in your profile.

Those like - minded to you will find you.

Hey I like your longhanded wingdings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don’t like single men then

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

I understand there are all sorts of reasons someone may have trouble spelling, constructing proper sentences or generally expressing themselves on here and that's a real shame for them.

However it doesn't stop their profiles/posts being fucking annoying for me to read and that's a good enough reason for me not to bother.

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By *atalie..Woman
over a year ago

Bolton

"No excuse for bad spelling considering the amount of spelling aids you can use. It's just lazy."
I'm dyslexic,and have the spelling aids on all computer's and phone,but it still fucks up now and again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree.

There are developmental disorders that cause all sorts of impulsivity issues too. I have adhd and often reply to messages and then realise I've written in some bizarre form of longhanded wingdings.

But.. Confusing there their and they're just hurts my brain and it makes my eyes bleed when people do it...

But as far as other peoples' profiles go, I think it's best to be yourself and reflect that in your profile.

Those like - minded to you will find you.

Hey I like your longhanded wingdings

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Being a massive twat puts me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to put as much of myself in my profile. Show someone who I am with without coming across as thrust lol I don't know if it worked.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"People can run their profiles how they like and get verifications from who they want

Well said.

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By *ireupthequattroCouple
over a year ago

Stratford

We’re put of by guys saying look at my profile ,fancy meeting up , then guess what one cock pic one leg pic and no face pic , if no face pic we just block , says them mailing again

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

I only focus on the people that dont put me off. Far easier and less stressful. Plus I ain't got time to worry how people run their profiles.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Bad spelling and text speak!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block single men and only message those who you are interested in, OP.

Problem solved

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

A profile is a reflection of the person. If you don’t like the profile move on. Some people want to see a very sexual profile and veris for only sex meets. I’m big on socials but I don’t judge a guy for having sex only veris. I get fed up of cock pics. Other women adore them. Variety is the joy of fab.

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By *isces WomanWoman
over a year ago

West London

I delete or politely decline any male that I dont want to chat with. My profile isn't everyone's cup of tea.

Horses for courses.

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By *ent_couple2019Couple
over a year ago

canterbury

To be honest I'm the opposite.

Be direct. Tell me what you want. Yes have substance in your write up and messages.

But if a good fucking is what you want tell me...

Everything else and relationships can be made after we agree mutual attraction. Respect should come naturally.

As for veris good for them, regardless to whom they are from fair play for having fun.

If anything we look at them to gage if we are going to to tick boxs or not.

Each to their own. Xxx

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