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Meeting anyone here as a single guy seems to be a waste of time?

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By *ovetolaugh699 OP   Man
over a year ago

southend

Yet when I go to clubs etc I meet a lot of very nice people. And I say some out of my league..

However when messaging and being polite directly it seems to get you nowhere.. Oh well.

Win some lose some

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By *iss Penny TrationWoman
over a year ago

NW

Do you play the violin?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can hear one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ire_thornMan
over a year ago

no comment

Ive learned to just roll with it bud. And taking to the forums dont seem to change the out come...

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"Yet when I go to clubs etc I meet a lot of very nice people. And I say some out of my league..

However when messaging and being polite directly it seems to get you nowhere.. Oh well.

Win some lose some"

If you're struggling to meet, through this site, but do ok at clubs, then maybe you need to consider how you approach people or sell yourself on here?

Maybe ask the people you meet in clubs to give you a recent veri too?

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By *arewithmeMan
over a year ago

Craven Arms

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By *arewithmeMan
over a year ago

Craven Arms

He wonders why,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

Thats after he's stated on his profile that most people don't tell the truth.

Does he deserve replies, i'll leave that for you to decide

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By *ove3funCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Agreed...your profile needs work. Get rid of the negative bias.

If you're good at pulling in real life try and translate that to your profile. Not easy I know

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I’ve had a great year. I think it must be your approach

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Stick to the club's if you have more luck there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm an arsehole and it gets me nowhere either mate but it's alot more fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then use clubs for meeting and fab as a tool to keep in touch with people you meet at said clubs and also a way to keep in the loop at events that are upcoming.

That's pretty much what we do.

I also use the forums to watch how people behave, to see if they have cunty tendencies. I don't care how good a fuck anyone may be, if they're a horrible human then they ain't coming near us.

P

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

I don't try to meet off here as it's so hard. I just go to clubs x

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"Yet when I go to clubs etc I meet a lot of very nice people. And I say some out of my league..

However when messaging and being polite directly it seems to get you nowhere.. Oh well.

Win some lose some"

You look like a angry man in your profile would not reply for the reason ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m 56 and boo hoo boo hoo I’ve never had a meet in a club but I keep my chin up so I think I may as well give up, oh no hold on we all live in hope so I will look at all the positives and crack on.

I’m a fat ugly munter

You are not

This site is jam packed full of time wasters and fakes but there are a lot of very very genuine people on here for the same reasons you are and if you treat it as fun then fun you will have.

Plus you live in the greatest town England has ever seen with the country’s top toppest football team(not) so man up and get fabbing!!!!

Tony

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

It's hard work but it is doable I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yet when I go to clubs etc I meet a lot of very nice people. And I say some out of my league..

However when messaging and being polite directly it seems to get you nowhere.. Oh well.

Win some lose some"

If anything this place makes you more humble. When next your out there you've already been shut down by a few too many here for it to matter

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Ooo ... not seen one of these for a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yet when I go to clubs etc I meet a lot of very nice people. And I say some out of my league..

However when messaging and being polite directly it seems to get you nowhere.. Oh well.

Win some lose some"

Hard work but not a waste of time

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Ooo ... not seen one of these for a while "

There goes that that very amusing wit(T)

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"Ooo ... not seen one of these for a while

There goes that that very amusing wit(T) "

Ah ha .... where's my pipe and deer stalker ... I could deduce something here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is all in profile and the message.. sell yourself well and things will happen. It won't happen over night.. some ladies and couples have been on here a while so know one another. Single men will struggle unless your a bronzed Adonis but everyone has their own type.. Saying that.. not been to long on here myself .. so still learning the ropes and the messaging protocol.. but sort of easing myself in. Happy Fabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you mean, not meeting or trying to, on here?

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Results are proportional to effort put in and attitude.

Smile, ffs! Goes a long way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you mean, not meeting or trying to, on here? "
I am trying to meet .. just you to take the no replies as they come..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can hear one"

He he

Andre Rieu arrived

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yet when I go to clubs etc I meet a lot of very nice people. And I say some out of my league..

However when messaging and being polite directly it seems to get you nowhere.. Oh well.

Win some lose some"

Nothing wrong with oliteness with a P

Fear of rejection... Happens to us all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be patient.

Get involved in the forum chat.

If you are interesting or bring something to the chat be it serious or funny you will get noticed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had about 10 replies to the hundreds of messages I’ve sent out. However, clubs have been an endless source of conversation and connections. I’m sticking to clubs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah your approaching it all wrong. Dont treat it like your ravenous and not eaten in 3 weeks at buffet..

treat it like your in egypt had chronic diarrhea and and suspicious of everything at the buffet

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