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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Turn you off?

I always wonder why a woman gets labelled as a slut and that's a bad thing if she's had alot of sexual partners and a man is seen as a stud..

Surely exploring your sexuality is a good thing?

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london


"Turn you off?

I always wonder why a woman gets labelled as a slut and that's a bad thing if she's had alot of sexual partners and a man is seen as a stud..

Surely exploring your sexuality is a good thing?

"

Strong women who know what they want and go out and get it should be admired. As long as they (and men) look after their health then good on them. Life is too short!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simply put what goes through a mans head is “she’s probably had bigger or better and won’t enjoy this”

Shit.. I’ve just basically given you full blown access to a mans train of thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no problem with it. It’s all just good fun

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

Amazing eyes by the way

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By *DNandLookingMan
over a year ago

London

Promiscuous women turn me on. Massively.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

No why should it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Turn you off?

I always wonder why a woman gets labelled as a slut and that's a bad thing if she's had alot of sexual partners and a man is seen as a stud..

Surely exploring your sexuality is a good thing?

"

It absolutely is. I love the thought of being part of someone else’s journey.

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By *hebritukCouple
over a year ago

London

Age old sexist argument! Woman can be sexual predators, but we are more cunning who cares what people think, just enjoy who you are.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ive never had a negative reaction not to my face anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Age old sexist argument! Woman can be sexual predators, but we are more cunning who cares what people think, just enjoy who you are. "
sounds

Oh I do! There's a lot to experience and we have but one life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exploring your sexuality is definitely a good thing and should be encouraged. However too much of a good thing can weaken the experience of it.

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By *hebritukCouple
over a year ago

London


"Age old sexist argument! Woman can be sexual predators, but we are more cunning who cares what people think, just enjoy who you are. sounds

Oh I do! There's a lot to experience and we have but one life "

Just seen your profile, you are not chunky!!! Lovely eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love promiscuous women. The promiscuouser the better.

Try saying that fast

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Age old sexist argument! Woman can be sexual predators, but we are more cunning who cares what people think, just enjoy who you are. sounds

Oh I do! There's a lot to experience and we have but one life

Just seen your profile, you are not chunky!!! Lovely eyes. "

Good with a camera in afraid! I am a chunk x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love promiscuous women. The promiscuouser the better.

Try saying that fast "

Over 100 too much?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age old sexist argument! Woman can be sexual predators, but we are more cunning who cares what people think, just enjoy who you are. sounds

Oh I do! There's a lot to experience and we have but one life

Just seen your profile, you are not chunky!!! Lovely eyes. "

I second that opinion.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Age old sexist argument! Woman can be sexual predators, but we are more cunning who cares what people think, just enjoy who you are. sounds

Oh I do! There's a lot to experience and we have but one life

Just seen your profile, you are not chunky!!! Lovely eyes.

I second that opinion. "
sounds

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Turn you off?

I always wonder why a woman gets labelled as a slut and that's a bad thing if she's had alot of sexual partners and a man is seen as a stud..

Surely exploring your sexuality is a good thing?

"
sure but the secret............. keep your conquests to yourself........... its the bragging that puts people off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

If they're a twat too, then yes.

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

It doesn't matter to me how many people someone has been with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love promiscuous women. The promiscuouser the better.

Try saying that fast

Over 100 too much?"

I'd be a hypocrite if it was...

For me there is no such thing as too much. It's like too rich or too beautiful. It's a concept which only exists in theory.

We're here to swing and we have simply been successful in that endeavour

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No.

If they're a twat too, then yes."

I am

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Turn you off?

I always wonder why a woman gets labelled as a slut and that's a bad thing if she's had alot of sexual partners and a man is seen as a stud..

Surely exploring your sexuality is a good thing?

sure but the secret............. keep your conquests to yourself........... its the bragging that puts people off "

It's not a brag just being honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Age old sexist argument! Woman can be sexual predators, but we are more cunning who cares what people think, just enjoy who you are. sounds

Oh I do! There's a lot to experience and we have but one life

Just seen your profile, you are not chunky!!! Lovely eyes.

I second that opinion. "

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Turn you off?

I always wonder why a woman gets labelled as a slut and that's a bad thing if she's had alot of sexual partners and a man is seen as a stud..

Surely exploring your sexuality is a good thing?

sure but the secret............. keep your conquests to yourself........... its the bragging that puts people off

It's not a brag just being honest"
yes but a true saying "the truth hurts"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Turn you off?

I always wonder why a woman gets labelled as a slut and that's a bad thing if she's had alot of sexual partners and a man is seen as a stud..

Surely exploring your sexuality is a good thing?

sure but the secret............. keep your conquests to yourself........... its the bragging that puts people off

It's not a brag just being honestyes but a true saying "the truth hurts" "

Hurts who?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age old sexist argument! Woman can be sexual predators, but we are more cunning who cares what people think, just enjoy who you are. sounds

Oh I do! There's a lot to experience and we have but one life

Just seen your profile, you are not chunky!!! Lovely eyes.

I second that opinion.

Xxx"

Lovely verifications too! My fab finger is sore, only fabbed the ones I liked though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Turn you off?

I always wonder why a woman gets labelled as a slut and that's a bad thing if she's had alot of sexual partners and a man is seen as a stud..

Surely exploring your sexuality is a good thing?

sure but the secret............. keep your conquests to yourself........... its the bragging that puts people off

It's not a brag just being honestyes but a true saying "the truth hurts"

Hurts who? "
hurts image, hurts feelings, hurts the future, for some it doesn't matter but for many it does

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I guess it depends which definition of the word promiscuous you are going by...

1. having or characterized by many transient sexual relationships.

2. demonstrating or implying an unselective approach; indiscriminate or casual

The first wouldn't bother me in the slightest, especially if that meant the person concerned was open-minded, exploratory but also knew what they wanted etc.

The second however would personally give me cause for concern.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I guess it depends which definition of the word promiscuous you are going by...

1. having or characterized by many transient sexual relationships.

2. demonstrating or implying an unselective approach; indiscriminate or casual

The first wouldn't bother me in the slightest, especially if that meant the person concerned was open-minded, exploratory but also knew what they wanted etc.

The second however would personally give me cause for concern."
sounds

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess it depends which definition of the word promiscuous you are going by...

1. having or characterized by many transient sexual relationships.

2. demonstrating or implying an unselective approach; indiscriminate or casual

The first wouldn't bother me in the slightest, especially if that meant the person concerned was open-minded, exploratory but also knew what they wanted etc.

The second however would personally give me cause for concern."

I think the ladies of fab can pick and choose

Long time no see. Do you know there's two bi nights in Bedfordshire this weekend? If you visit I'll buy you a

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I guess it depends which definition of the word promiscuous you are going by...

1. having or characterized by many transient sexual relationships.

2. demonstrating or implying an unselective approach; indiscriminate or casual

The first wouldn't bother me in the slightest, especially if that meant the person concerned was open-minded, exploratory but also knew what they wanted etc.

The second however would personally give me cause for concern.

I think the ladies of fab can pick and choose

Long time no see. Do you know there's two bi nights in Bedfordshire this weekend? If you visit I'll buy you a

"
sounds

Pick me.up.ill.come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Turn you off?

I always wonder why a woman gets labelled as a slut and that's a bad thing if she's had alot of sexual partners and a man is seen as a stud..

Surely exploring your sexuality is a good thing?

sure but the secret............. keep your conquests to yourself........... its the bragging that puts people off

It's not a brag just being honest"

I can see its not a brag and so will lots of other secure, content people. But other people who aren't as happy will often treat it as such. I agree with you and think your attitude is spot on but the man is right, haters gotta hate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Turn you off?

I always wonder why a woman gets labelled as a slut and that's a bad thing if she's had alot of sexual partners and a man is seen as a stud..

Surely exploring your sexuality is a good thing?

sure but the secret............. keep your conquests to yourself........... its the bragging that puts people off

It's not a brag just being honest

I can see its not a brag and so will lots of other secure, content people. But other people who aren't as happy will often treat it as such. I agree with you and think your attitude is spot on but the man is right, haters gotta hate. "

Spot on as always x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never understood the double standards why should a woman be tarnished for wanting sex and having it on a regular basis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Turn you off?

I always wonder why a woman gets labelled as a slut and that's a bad thing if she's had alot of sexual partners and a man is seen as a stud..

Surely exploring your sexuality is a good thing?

sure but the secret............. keep your conquests to yourself........... its the bragging that puts people off

It's not a brag just being honest

I can see its not a brag and so will lots of other secure, content people. But other people who aren't as happy will often treat it as such. I agree with you and think your attitude is spot on but the man is right, haters gotta hate.

Spot on as always x"

fanx pretty lady x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all. I don’t see why it’s socially acceptable for men to enjoy themselves and woman are perceived to be sluts if they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess it depends which definition of the word promiscuous you are going by...

1. having or characterized by many transient sexual relationships.

2. demonstrating or implying an unselective approach; indiscriminate or casual

The first wouldn't bother me in the slightest, especially if that meant the person concerned was open-minded, exploratory but also knew what they wanted etc.

The second however would personally give me cause for concern.

I think the ladies of fab can pick and choose

Long time no see. Do you know there's two bi nights in Bedfordshire this weekend? If you visit I'll buy you a

sounds

Pick me.up.ill.come "

Seriously?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Turn you off?

I always wonder why a woman gets labelled as a slut and that's a bad thing if she's had alot of sexual partners and a man is seen as a stud..

Surely exploring your sexuality is a good thing?

"

Rule of thumb don't ask numbers just find out what make them cum and keep doing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No.

If they're a twat too, then yes.

I am"

K.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the why she's promiscuous.

If it's because she genuinely enjoys sex, truly knows herself and is kind then no, no issues at all.

If it's because despises who she is but doesn't admit it to herself and uses sex as a distraction, then that can be a recipe for disaster. These are generally the ones that drama follows. Using sex for validation as having "worth" and chasing men to boost their self esteem, a lot of the time if they see those men bonding with other people. They crave that for themselves and get an ego boost and feeling of superiority if they can "lure" that man away. It's really quite sad.

P

P

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land


"Turn you off?

I always wonder why a woman gets labelled as a slut and that's a bad thing if she's had alot of sexual partners and a man is seen as a stud..

Surely exploring your sexuality is a good thing?

sure but the secret............. keep your conquests to yourself........... its the bragging that puts people off

It's not a brag just being honest

I can see its not a brag and so will lots of other secure, content people. But other people who aren't as happy will often treat it as such. I agree with you and think your attitude is spot on but the man is right, haters gotta hate.

Spot on as always x"

You have such sexy sultry eyes xx

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london


"Depends on the why she's promiscuous.

If it's because she genuinely enjoys sex, truly knows herself and is kind then no, no issues at all.

If it's because despises who she is but doesn't admit it to herself and uses sex as a distraction, then that can be a recipe for disaster. These are generally the ones that drama follows. Using sex for validation as having "worth" and chasing men to boost their self esteem, a lot of the time if they see those men bonding with other people. They crave that for themselves and get an ego boost and feeling of superiority if they can "lure" that man away. It's really quite sad.

P

P"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve only ever heard women call other women “sluts” .... everyone’s needs are different.... shouldn’t be shamed for doing what you love xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess it depends which definition of the word promiscuous you are going by...

1. having or characterized by many transient sexual relationships.

2. demonstrating or implying an unselective approach; indiscriminate or casual

The first wouldn't bother me in the slightest, especially if that meant the person concerned was open-minded, exploratory but also knew what they wanted etc.

The second however would personally give me cause for concern."

I knew what I wanted to say but couldn't have put it as well as this. Promiscuous to me is a negative word and insinuates no discrimination. Being adventurous and exploratory doesn't mean you're not selective and have no standards. In fact I think that's what a lot of men don't get here, just because a woman wants to explore it doesn't mean she wants to explore with you.

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

I see slut to mean someone who loves and enjoys sex whenever and however pleases them

So I love being called a slut feel proud when I am .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve only ever heard women call other women “sluts” .... everyone’s needs are different.... shouldn’t be shamed for doing what you love xxx"

Someone told me that that's the main thing that inhibits women sexually, what their female friends will say. I don't know if thats true but if it its very sad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. They enjoy sex, it's no big deal.

On my last profile I got turned down because I'd slept with too many women based on veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the why she's promiscuous.

If it's because she genuinely enjoys sex, truly knows herself and is kind then no, no issues at all.

If it's because despises who she is but doesn't admit it to herself and uses sex as a distraction, then that can be a recipe for disaster. These are generally the ones that drama follows. Using sex for validation as having "worth" and chasing men to boost their self esteem, a lot of the time if they see those men bonding with other people. They crave that for themselves and get an ego boost and feeling of superiority if they can "lure" that man away. It's really quite sad.

P

P"

Perhaps I'm bit sad then. Maybe we all are. Because as much as I love sex it's more than just a pleasurable experience. Being appreciated and found desirable certainly does something for my self esteem. Hell even a wink from a girl at the supermarket makes my day.

I hear what you are saying but I think to a greater or lesser extent we all need validation. Some women are insecure and so are some men. More often than not it was a man who made that woman insecure in the first place.

Yes there are women who play games. I knew a woman who would get men to fight over her because it made her feel wanted. But in my experience those women have been few and far between.

No one ever questions a man's need for sexual gratification. 'Its his instinct to spread his seed'. Probably and old fashioned view... but hey I'm old fashioned.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Turn you off?

I always wonder why a woman gets labelled as a slut and that's a bad thing if she's had alot of sexual partners and a man is seen as a stud..

Surely exploring your sexuality is a good thing?

"

Doesn't it work both ways? I've seen men on fab get flack for being too "promiscuous" and subsequently be blocked or black listed by other women based on their activity and their prior partners. I've also seen that the term slut is more readily used by women describing other women than by men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. They enjoy sex, it's no big deal.

On my last profile I got turned down because I'd slept with too many women based on veris "

See conversely... That would make me more inclined to meet you cos to me it says you know what you're doing and I won't have to baby sit you. Plus you're not thirsty or desperate and there's very little more off-putting than that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Turn you off?

I always wonder why a woman gets labelled as a slut and that's a bad thing if she's had alot of sexual partners and a man is seen as a stud..

Surely exploring your sexuality is a good thing?

"

In a swinging world it doesn't matter.

However if you are going out with someone who isn't part of the swinging world they see it as a lack of impulse control and they judge that person is more than likely going to cheat. Male or Female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve only ever heard women call other women “sluts” .... everyone’s needs are different.... shouldn’t be shamed for doing what you love xxx

Someone told me that that's the main thing that inhibits women sexually, what their female friends will say. I don't know if thats true but if it its very sad "

I am often referred to as a slut. I wear the title like a badge of honour.

"I love everyone. And you're next"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. They enjoy sex, it's no big deal.

On my last profile I got turned down because I'd slept with too many women based on veris

See conversely... That would make me more inclined to meet you cos to me it says you know what you're doing and I won't have to baby sit you. Plus you're not thirsty or desperate and there's very little more off-putting than that. "

It's also a circular argument. If people who hadn't had much sex were in high demand they would have lots of sex and then be in low demand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. They enjoy sex, it's no big deal.

On my last profile I got turned down because I'd slept with too many women based on veris

See conversely... That would make me more inclined to meet you cos to me it says you know what you're doing and I won't have to baby sit you. Plus you're not thirsty or desperate and there's very little more off-putting than that. "

That was so hot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the why she's promiscuous.

If it's because she genuinely enjoys sex, truly knows herself and is kind then no, no issues at all.

If it's because despises who she is but doesn't admit it to herself and uses sex as a distraction, then that can be a recipe for disaster. These are generally the ones that drama follows. Using sex for validation as having "worth" and chasing men to boost their self esteem, a lot of the time if they see those men bonding with other people. They crave that for themselves and get an ego boost and feeling of superiority if they can "lure" that man away. It's really quite sad.

P

P

Perhaps I'm bit sad then. Maybe we all are. Because as much as I love sex it's more than just a pleasurable experience. Being appreciated and found desirable certainly does something for my self esteem. Hell even a wink from a girl at the supermarket makes my day.

I hear what you are saying but I think to a greater or lesser extent we all need validation. Some women are insecure and so are some men. More often than not it was a man who made that woman insecure in the first place.

Yes there are women who play games. I knew a woman who would get men to fight over her because it made her feel wanted. But in my experience those women have been few and far between.

No one ever questions a man's need for sexual gratification. 'Its his instinct to spread his seed'. Probably and old fashioned view... but hey I'm old fashioned. "

Validation. Hmmm.

I think it's healthy to feel validated when someone thanks you for doing something, it's wonderful to be appreciated. I do think though that validation through sex isn't so good for the soul. It doesn't give you that inner calm, that feeling good about the "who" you are as a human. Validation through sex in my opinion is like sticking a piece of chewing gum on a wound, it works temporarily but you'll soon bleed again once you take it off.

P

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I guess it depends which definition of the word promiscuous you are going by...

1. having or characterized by many transient sexual relationships.

2. demonstrating or implying an unselective approach; indiscriminate or casual

The first wouldn't bother me in the slightest, especially if that meant the person concerned was open-minded, exploratory but also knew what they wanted etc.

The second however would personally give me cause for concern.

I think the ladies of fab can pick and choose

Long time no see. Do you know there's two bi nights in Bedfordshire this weekend? If you visit I'll buy you a

"

Of course they can pick and choose and I absolutely respect their right to do so - however the OPs question was whether a promiscuous woman would turn me off and personally I think it's important to distinguish between the dual meanings of the word - as one wouldn't turn me off and the other would.

And yeah knew there were two Bi Nights but shan't be able to attend - so the beer will have to wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the why she's promiscuous.

If it's because she genuinely enjoys sex, truly knows herself and is kind then no, no issues at all.

If it's because despises who she is but doesn't admit it to herself and uses sex as a distraction, then that can be a recipe for disaster. These are generally the ones that drama follows. Using sex for validation as having "worth" and chasing men to boost their self esteem, a lot of the time if they see those men bonding with other people. They crave that for themselves and get an ego boost and feeling of superiority if they can "lure" that man away. It's really quite sad.

P

P

Perhaps I'm bit sad then. Maybe we all are. Because as much as I love sex it's more than just a pleasurable experience. Being appreciated and found desirable certainly does something for my self esteem. Hell even a wink from a girl at the supermarket makes my day.

I hear what you are saying but I think to a greater or lesser extent we all need validation. Some women are insecure and so are some men. More often than not it was a man who made that woman insecure in the first place.

Yes there are women who play games. I knew a woman who would get men to fight over her because it made her feel wanted. But in my experience those women have been few and far between.

No one ever questions a man's need for sexual gratification. 'Its his instinct to spread his seed'. Probably and old fashioned view... but hey I'm old fashioned.

Validation. Hmmm.

I think it's healthy to feel validated when someone thanks you for doing something, it's wonderful to be appreciated. I do think though that validation through sex isn't so good for the soul. It doesn't give you that inner calm, that feeling good about the "who" you are as a human. Validation through sex in my opinion is like sticking a piece of chewing gum on a wound, it works temporarily but you'll soon bleed again once you take it off.

P"

Fair point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess it depends which definition of the word promiscuous you are going by...

1. having or characterized by many transient sexual relationships.

2. demonstrating or implying an unselective approach; indiscriminate or casual

The first wouldn't bother me in the slightest, especially if that meant the person concerned was open-minded, exploratory but also knew what they wanted etc.

The second however would personally give me cause for concern.

I think the ladies of fab can pick and choose

Long time no see. Do you know there's two bi nights in Bedfordshire this weekend? If you visit I'll buy you a

Of course they can pick and choose and I absolutely respect their right to do so - however the OPs question was whether a promiscuous woman would turn me off and personally I think it's important to distinguish between the dual meanings of the word - as one wouldn't turn me off and the other would.

And yeah knew there were two Bi Nights but shan't be able to attend - so the beer will have to wait "

I don't know how I've always missed you. We've been at the same events. But I've always seen your postings as the voice of reason and this one is no different.

One day

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"Turn you off?

I always wonder why a woman gets labelled as a slut and that's a bad thing if she's had alot of sexual partners and a man is seen as a stud..

Surely exploring your sexuality is a good thing?

"

I think because the rejection and accepting or not woman are always in control of the game when comes to choose sexual partner. I completly agree with you OP why women get labelled and are not free to explore sexuality ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Turn you off?

I always wonder why a woman gets labelled as a slut and that's a bad thing if she's had alot of sexual partners and a man is seen as a stud..

Surely exploring your sexuality is a good thing?

I think because the rejection and accepting or not woman are always in control of the game when comes to choose sexual partner. I completly agree with you OP why women get labelled and are not free to explore sexuality ?

"

I don't think that way and most men who do are hypocritical because most of the men I know would love to have lots of sex with different women.

To my knowledge I have never been rejected on the basis of too many sexual partners. I have found that popularity breeds popularity and the more some people like you the more other people want to know you.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"Turn you off?

I always wonder why a woman gets labelled as a slut and that's a bad thing if she's had alot of sexual partners and a man is seen as a stud..

Surely exploring your sexuality is a good thing?

I think because the rejection and accepting or not woman are always in control of the game when comes to choose sexual partner. I completly agree with you OP why women get labelled and are not free to explore sexuality ?

I don't think that way and most men who do are hypocritical because most of the men I know would love to have lots of sex with different women.

To my knowledge I have never been rejected on the basis of too many sexual partners. I have found that popularity breeds popularity and the more some people like you the more other people want to know you."

Yes that is the reazon, is what i was try mention in my post to OP, most man they would love sleep with lots of women's but the reality is just a wish to them because in reality woman don't have any problem in found a sexual partner/s at all . And because that man they judge because as i said before man are not in control of the game at all and id dificult for them to accept this reality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Turn you off?

I always wonder why a woman gets labelled as a slut and that's a bad thing if she's had alot of sexual partners and a man is seen as a stud..

Surely exploring your sexuality is a good thing?

I think because the rejection and accepting or not woman are always in control of the game when comes to choose sexual partner. I completly agree with you OP why women get labelled and are not free to explore sexuality ?

I don't think that way and most men who do are hypocritical because most of the men I know would love to have lots of sex with different women.

To my knowledge I have never been rejected on the basis of too many sexual partners. I have found that popularity breeds popularity and the more some people like you the more other people want to know you.

Yes that is the reazon, is what i was try mention in my post to OP, most man they would love sleep with lots of women's but the reality is just a wish to them because in reality woman don't have any problem in found a sexual partner/s at all . And because that man they judge because as i said before man are not in control of the game at all and id dificult for them to accept this reality. "

All the more reason not to listen to these men and their opinions. It's a bit like saying I don't want you to have the fun I wish I was having. Screw that. There's one life. Live it to the max!

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"Turn you off?

I always wonder why a woman gets labelled as a slut and that's a bad thing if she's had alot of sexual partners and a man is seen as a stud..

Surely exploring your sexuality is a good thing?

"

It is a good thing, people will always have varying opinions on quantity over quality statements, a label is a label and being promiscuous will lead some people to varying degrees of judgement.

Men are more tolerant of promiscuous woman on here, women are not so much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that view is dated why shouldn’t anyone enjoy what the body can offer

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By *ddit...Man
over a year ago

Land of the giants... ;-)


"Turn you off?

I always wonder why a woman gets labelled as a slut and that's a bad thing if she's had alot of sexual partners and a man is seen as a stud..

Surely exploring your sexuality is a good thing?

"

I agree... exploring your sexuality is awesome... for the body and soul... when can we start?

I'm joking... although the statement was true.. I think attitudes are changing though... maybe a little slowly...

Let's start a revolution..

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We have a lot of respect for women who know how they like sex and get it the way they want it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age old sexist argument! Woman can be sexual predators, but we are more cunning who cares what people think, just enjoy who you are. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definately not..I love a woman that knows what she wants and goes out and gets it..good for her and totally agree...the whole slut/ stud thing is bs

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Turn you off?

I always wonder why a woman gets labelled as a slut and that's a bad thing if she's had alot of sexual partners and a man is seen as a stud..

Surely exploring your sexuality is a good thing?

"

I agree with what’s been said about women’s labels but a friend told me something interesting about blokes. She’s met a few who have had lots of sexual partners and (say it quietly) they’re not always great at sex.

The “stud” label can also be misleading

I prefer to judge people on their individual merits rather than just one aspect, it’s what brings about understanding, tolerance an end to racism, agism and all that other discrimination shit.

Even now I can hear the first chords of “I’d like to teach the world to sing”.

Don’t be in a hurry to label people, try and understand them. You don’t have to like them, but at least it’s not through blind prejudice

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"Turn you off?

I always wonder why a woman gets labelled as a slut and that's a bad thing if she's had alot of sexual partners and a man is seen as a stud..

Surely exploring your sexuality is a good thing?

"

Not really, rudeness and insufficient clicking puts me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a friend who in her words has said she loves cock.

Us Brits are a weird lot thinking men can shag around yet a woman cant.

Your body your life if you enjoy it carry on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just think if there are no sluts. We men would be all virgins or wore married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just think if there are no sluts. We men would be all virgins or wore married. "

What is a slut? A woman who actually has as much sex as a man wishes he was having? So its all about the jealously then?

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By *orenzoVonMatterhornMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

Indifferent. Why would it make any difference to me?

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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield

Doesn't bother me at all. If she likes lots of sex, why not have lots of sex? If anything, probably more of a turn on than a turn off, that she has the confidence to enjoy her body (and guys' bodies!)

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