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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Turned a woman down?

I know women decline men all the time on here, but for men it's not so easy to get a response from women and it's got me wondering when you finally get a little yellow box of interest.. Do you guys jump on the opportunity or have you turned them down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Turned a woman down?

I know women decline men all the time on here, but for men, it's not so easy to get a response from women and it's got me wondering when you finally get a little yellow box of interest. Do you guys jump on the opportunity or have you turned them down. "

I have thrice. Two because at the time that distance was too far and the other time I was moving and quite busy.

Now that I have settled in a new profile and gaff, not a damn thing but tumble gets blown my way.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I have done, yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah constantly can't keep up with the mail's

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By *hezuMan
over a year ago

London

Yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just wanted to say I’ve been turned down here on Fab and it did me the world of good. Sometimes all the male attention can make you lose your sense of reality so a well aimed kick in the arse is good to bring you back down to earth

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

Yes. A few times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So next time there's a thread about how men will fuck anything will we be able to link to this thread to prove it's nonsense?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep one wee redhead who had too much to drink. Sorry nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wanted to say I’ve been turned down here on Fab and it did me the world of good. Sometimes all the male attention can make you lose your sense of reality so a well aimed kick in the arse is good to bring you back down to earth "

Maybe you should only message straight men from now on then stunner

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth


"Yes. A few times. "

I must add it's happened the other way round too....a few times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup never lower your standards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wanted to say I’ve been turned down here on Fab and it did me the world of good. Sometimes all the male attention can make you lose your sense of reality so a well aimed kick in the arse is good to bring you back down to earth

Maybe you should only message straight men from now on then stunner "

He messaged me and then got abusive when he found out I had brown skin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So next time there's a thread about how men will fuck anything will we be able to link to this thread to prove it's nonsense? "

Yup it’s crap

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I've been turned down on here, ridiculous to expect otherwise. Nobody is everyone's type.

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By *orenzoVonMatterhornMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

Yes, once or twice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wanted to say I’ve been turned down here on Fab and it did me the world of good. Sometimes all the male attention can make you lose your sense of reality so a well aimed kick in the arse is good to bring you back down to earth

Maybe you should only message straight men from now on then stunner

He messaged me and then got abusive when he found out I had brown skin "

Holy moly, Batman, you have brown skin

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I’ve been turned down by people who messaged me first then didn’t like my response to their requirements if that counts.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Yes, I'd be surprised if a guy hadn't to be honest!

They'd have to be very non selective if they hadn't at any rate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wanted to say I’ve been turned down here on Fab and it did me the world of good. Sometimes all the male attention can make you lose your sense of reality so a well aimed kick in the arse is good to bring you back down to earth

Maybe you should only message straight men from now on then stunner

He messaged me and then got abusive when he found out I had brown skin "

Silly bloke!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wanted to say I’ve been turned down here on Fab and it did me the world of good. Sometimes all the male attention can make you lose your sense of reality so a well aimed kick in the arse is good to bring you back down to earth

Maybe you should only message straight men from now on then stunner

He messaged me and then got abusive when he found out I had brown skin "

. What!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Oh yes.

And she wasn't amused.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh yes.

And she wasn't amused. "

I cried for days!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Oh yes.

And she wasn't amused.

I cried for days! "

even after I sent flowers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh yes.

And she wasn't amused.

I cried for days!

even after I sent flowers? "

Yep they made me sneeze

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Turned a woman down?

I know women decline men all the time on here, but for men it's not so easy to get a response from women and it's got me wondering when you finally get a little yellow box of interest.. Do you guys jump on the opportunity or have you turned them down. "

Maybe its the way I'm reading it, but are you effectively asking if for sone men any hole's a goal?

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Oh yes.

And she wasn't amused.

I cried for days!

even after I sent flowers?

Yep they made me sneeze "

What about the chocolates?

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By *urulovesnylonMan
over a year ago

Harrow

Much to my regret I did once.. but not from this site.

Wouldn’t do it again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Turned a woman down?

I know women decline men all the time on here, but for men it's not so easy to get a response from women and it's got me wondering when you finally get a little yellow box of interest.. Do you guys jump on the opportunity or have you turned them down.

Maybe its the way I'm reading it, but are you effectively asking if for sone men any hole's a goal? "

Yeah i think it is like that for some

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have and one is very local to me. When I have a free day and I'm feeling horny, I still think should I? Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have and one is very local to me. When I have a free day and I'm feeling horny, I still think should I? Lol. "

Why did you turn her down and why do you think you should change your mind?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I have. "

It still hurts

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have and one is very local to me. When I have a free day and I'm feeling horny, I still think should I? Lol.

Why did you turn her down and why do you think you should change your mind? "

Not my type. I'm fussy and I don't feel an attraction very often. I feel differently when I'm horny, that's just me thinking with my dick then.. it's like animal instinct lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I have.

It still hurts"

Told you that you would walk funny once I have done you

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I've been turned down once. It still hurts to this day.

No, I can't think of a male/female friend who hasn't turned a woman down. Men can be selective. Sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Turned a woman down?

I know women decline men all the time on here, but for men it's not so easy to get a response from women and it's got me wondering when you finally get a little yellow box of interest.. Do you guys jump on the opportunity or have you turned them down. "

Yes, I’ve turned women down - if someone isn’t for you, you have to tell them. Otherwise, what’s the point.

You can’t just going around accepting anything and everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have and one is very local to me. When I have a free day and I'm feeling horny, I still think should I? Lol.

Why did you turn her down and why do you think you should change your mind?

Not my type. I'm fussy and I don't feel an attraction very often. I feel differently when I'm horny, that's just me thinking with my dick then.. it's like animal instinct lol. "

Then don't, leave her be. Bad idea for both of you. Next time you get a twitch just have a good angry wank

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have and one is very local to me. When I have a free day and I'm feeling horny, I still think should I? Lol.

Why did you turn her down and why do you think you should change your mind?

Not my type. I'm fussy and I don't feel an attraction very often. I feel differently when I'm horny, that's just me thinking with my dick then.. it's like animal instinct lol.

Then don't, leave her be. Bad idea for both of you. Next time you get a twitch just have a good angry wank "

I will my Wench

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Turned a woman down?

I know women decline men all the time on here, but for men it's not so easy to get a response from women and it's got me wondering when you finally get a little yellow box of interest.. Do you guys jump on the opportunity or have you turned them down. "

I have turned few down, mostly due to distance and fixing a date and I do regret one or two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes quite afew.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Another time I could of met up with a lady who I really liked. She invited me to her house for coffee, which I thought = sex.

However she made it very clear that she wanted a regular fwb and she told me she's been messed around a lot.

I wasn't looking for regular at the time, so I took it all into consideration and I didn't meet her.

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Lots of times ..

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"I’ve been turned down by people who messaged me first then didn’t like my response to their requirements if that counts."

“Their requirements” What did they a blooming shopping list?

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another time I could of met up with a lady who I really liked. She invited me to her house for coffee, which I thought = sex.

However she made it very clear that she wanted a regular fwb and she told me she's been messed around a lot.

I wasn't looking for regular at the time, so I took it all into consideration and I didn't meet her. "

I'm finding it hard to equate this with some of your other posts here is this who you really are then? Someone who cares what other people want and won't just ignore it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Another time I could of met up with a lady who I really liked. She invited me to her house for coffee, which I thought = sex.

However she made it very clear that she wanted a regular fwb and she told me she's been messed around a lot.

I wasn't looking for regular at the time, so I took it all into consideration and I didn't meet her.

I'm finding it hard to equate this with some of your other posts here is this who you really are then? Someone who cares what other people want and won't just ignore it? "

Yeah a lot of what I say in forums is very much tounge in cheek. I mess around and it's not a good thing because it gets me blocked by a lot of forum users, but atleast I entertain myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another time I could of met up with a lady who I really liked. She invited me to her house for coffee, which I thought = sex.

However she made it very clear that she wanted a regular fwb and she told me she's been messed around a lot.

I wasn't looking for regular at the time, so I took it all into consideration and I didn't meet her.

I'm finding it hard to equate this with some of your other posts here is this who you really are then? Someone who cares what other people want and won't just ignore it?

Yeah a lot of what I say in forums is very much tounge in cheek. I mess around and it's not a good thing because it gets me blocked by a lot of forum users, but atleast I entertain myself. "

I'll remember that

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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I've turned down loads more Women/couples then I have take them up on a offer of a meet/social etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't imagine anyone hasn't?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've walked away from someones house after being there for 5 minutes that was awkward and really not pleasant, I'd never put myself in that position again I suppose its all part of the learning curve

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I’ve been turned down by people who messaged me first then didn’t like my response to their requirements if that counts.

“Their requirements” What did they a blooming shopping list?

S"

Not exactly, but they were insistent on kinds of play that I didn’t want. I was upfront with them and they didn’t like it I guess.

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