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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone else look at profiles and just think, yeah, you’re good looking and all but... meh. Nah thanks.

It’s not that I’m intimidated or anything but sometimes I look at photos and just think... I’d like to buy it would be faaarrr too much hassle just to get a message picked up by said lady, so I’ll move on.

I think that’s why people don’t contact me...

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Ye I often see profiles on here and think no they are way out of my league so I wouldn't message them. Still would fab their pics tho.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

All the time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never puts us off, you dont know what their type is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else look at profiles and just think, yeah, you’re good looking and all but... meh. Nah thanks.

It’s not that I’m intimidated or anything but sometimes I look at photos and just think... I’d like to buy it would be faaarrr too much hassle just to get a message picked up by said lady, so I’ll move on.

I think that’s why people don’t contact me... "

I dont contact you cause you're a bloke

If I see a profile I like I'll send a message, if you dont put the effort in you'll never know. All women are worth the effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That explains why I never get messages, thanks OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never puts us off, you dont know what their type is. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ye I often see profiles on here and think no they are way out of my league so I wouldn't message them. Still would fab their pics tho. "

Well, stop gabbing my photos and message then. Definitely not in the same league. I’m a division or two below you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually all the time. Quite sad really

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By *iscreet_guy_wcMan
over a year ago

City Centre

I don't see women here as too attractive to contact, everyone has what they like and if I'm compatible with them then looks are the bonus.

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

We have looked at profiles, both men and couples and thought, yep way out of our league and moved on

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

No. We don't contact people for any other reason than we think we all might get on well or that we have something to say that person might be interested in.

This has led, to our surprise, to conversations with some very sexy people which have the potential of going beyond that, but I don't think it has ever been an aim.

We're not interested in contacting Fabbers who we don't think we could have a good chin-wag with. Nobody is too sexy to go that far with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah loads of times..but i dont message men...I couldnt handle that yeah thanks but no thanks reply lol

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I do get messages from people I'd consider way out of my league. That's one of the reasons my photos tend not to be of the glossy airbrushed type; I figure they've seen the kip of me and if they still want to message then good on them. Looks aside I'm bloody brilliant!

I probably wouldn't approach them though, just fab their pics and perv over how hot they are!

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I doubt anybody would class us as out of their league, but I certainly hope that would never cause anybody not to contact us. The only things that should stop somebody are if we're not compatible or they don't have anything interesting to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else look at profiles and just think, yeah, you’re good looking and all but... meh. Nah thanks.

It’s not that I’m intimidated or anything but sometimes I look at photos and just think... I’d like to buy it would be faaarrr too much hassle just to get a message picked up by said lady, so I’ll move on.

I think that’s why people don’t contact me... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup very guilty of looking at a profile and thinking they are way out of our league.

Thewife

X

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Nope, I don't really think like that, I just fab pics and wink, if they don't wink back or message I assume they aren't interested and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this not the reason why is men struggle to get a reply?

There is definitely some beautiful women on here, but they don’t compare to us lads, do they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else look at profiles and just think, yeah, you’re good looking and all but... meh. Nah thanks.

It’s not that I’m intimidated or anything but sometimes I look at photos and just think... I’d like to buy it would be faaarrr too much hassle just to get a message picked up by said lady, so I’ll move on.

I think that’s why people don’t contact me... "

Bang On!

I am with you.

I do!

I just browse and say Too sexy and don't bother messaging. Also, some gave a profile as long as a Novel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yup very guilty of looking at a profile and thinking they are way out of our league.

Thewife

X"

Naaa, you should definitely not think that about yourselves. Totally disagree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Knew this was why I never get messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yup very guilty of looking at a profile and thinking they are way out of our league.

Thewife

X

Naaa, you should definitely not think that about yourselves. Totally disagree. "

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a victim of this myself. None of my pics get fabbed as I am too intimidatingly good looking.

I get messages from guys asking me to die as their partner is besotted by me. And I have women messaging me asking me to die as I’m the unobtainable.

I’ve tried playing down my pics to make me look normal but couldn’t find anything big enough to compare my cock with that would make it look small. I had to eat lots of cheesy chips to get rid of my Adonis-like body.

And the only meet I’ve had the woman cried as I was too big for her and she had to call me by her ex’s name to keep her in reality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've often thought that's probably why I get so few messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you already feel they are out of your league before you message them. Imagine how you will feel if you actually got a meet aranged...

Maybe a no show..through nerves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

TBH as long as I find them attractive and they don't rule me out on their profile I'll at least send a message.

Ironically, I've lost interest a few times because the lady in question couldn't see to hold a conversation anyway.

I always check out profiles of those that wink at me and reply if I find them attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thing is, you don’t know what they are looking for, and what their type is. You may be exactly what someone is searching for, if you take a chance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m a victim of this myself. None of my pics get fabbed as I am too intimidatingly good looking.

I get messages from guys asking me to die as their partner is besotted by me. And I have women messaging me asking me to die as I’m the unobtainable.

I’ve tried playing down my pics to make me look normal but couldn’t find anything big enough to compare my cock with that would make it look small. I had to eat lots of cheesy chips to get rid of my Adonis-like body.

And the only meet I’ve had the woman cried as I was too big for her and she had to call me by her ex’s name to keep her in reality.

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I’ve just fallen over laughing- I think I’ve broken my leg, thanks for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at their pics and previous choice of meets, if I think I am not what would suit them, mostly because I'm not hot enough or sexually won't match I might fab the pic but that's it.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Put of my league??????

Are you crazy?

I'm 100% British beef.

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

Yup plenty of hot women on here make a point of saying how many messages they get so I figure there's no point in me messaging when they're probably deleting without reading messages from dudes far better looking than I. If they're a site supporter I'll just fab a few pics, perhaps they'll notice me but likely not.

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster


"Does anyone else look at profiles and just think, yeah, you’re good looking and all but... meh. Nah thanks.

It’s not that I’m intimidated or anything but sometimes I look at photos and just think... I’d like to buy it would be faaarrr too much hassle just to get a message picked up by said lady, so I’ll move on.

I think that’s why people don’t contact me... "

I have seen women...so yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I’ve just fallen over laughing- I think I’ve broken my leg, thanks for that "

You see!? People break their legs to take their minds off the fact I’m too good for them.

Incidentally do you want me to kiss it better and maybe jizz over your tits to prove I’m mortal?

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By *ister KinkyMan
over a year ago

Sussex

Definitely guilty of looking at a woman’s or couple’s profile and thinking they are way out of my league. Either that or I think I’m far to heavily into fetish and deviancy to be compatible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I’ve just fallen over laughing- I think I’ve broken my leg, thanks for that

You see!? People break their legs to take their minds off the fact I’m too good for them.

Incidentally do you want me to kiss it better and maybe jizz over your tits to prove I’m mortal?"

I don’t think I could cope, you’re so good looking and hot I think I’d faint or worse

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Sure. They may have gorgeous pics, but if their profile text doesn't read well, gorgeous won't cut it. That might sound really picky, but because Fab conversations are mainly by correspondence, I want to be able to enjoy that conversation with someone intelligent who writes well. Someone who stimulates and teases my mind with subtlety, intrigue and insight. I find that far more exciting than a hot photo... But it doesn't hurt if there are hot photos too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find if I look at the people who have verified them, you get a measure. If I see anyone under 40 looking in my age band and they have never been verified by my profile type or age band I move on- very gingerly mind as 54 1/3 is old it seems

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By *dmundwilsonMan
over a year ago

Llandudno

always fab your pics given the chance.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Awe this could be the reason no one contacts me

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By *dmundwilsonMan
over a year ago

Llandudno

love your pics.... would send a wink if i was in area, x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I’ve just fallen over laughing- I think I’ve broken my leg, thanks for that

You see!? People break their legs to take their minds off the fact I’m too good for them.

Incidentally do you want me to kiss it better and maybe jizz over your tits to prove I’m mortal?

I don’t think I could cope, you’re so good looking and hot I think I’d faint or worse "

I hope you’ve recovered from the multiple orgasms you got just by reading my reply to your forum post. I do have that effect on women.

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By *ragon66Man
over a year ago

Pwllheli

I often look at someone's profile and think wow she is stunning but then think na no point messaging cos it will probably just get deleted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should message them.

If you don't ull never know.

I get messages from people that have really boring profiles ,some are just too shy to be upfront what they really want.

It takes a few messages until they feel their safe voicing what they would really like.

Looks are not so important to me with what i enjoy.

I must admit if someone really hot wants to play with me i used to feel intimidated. But their here for a reason to. Not everyone is put off by levels of attraction

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

I don't use leagues. What I find sexy or attractive others may not, I'm old enough confident enough to know no one is universally attractive (myself included) if you say hello who knows what might happen.

I'm surprised folk are intimidated enough not to contact others by a digital image or some text.

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By *chilles and RavenCouple
over a year ago

Guernsey

Thats mad to not Message some because you think that they are out of your league. You never know what could happen unless you try.

Ohh and sorry to anyone that has ever winked at us i had no clue what they meant i thought that they were like the annoying feature that you used to get on Facebook. So I would just delete them. Good thing there is some visable blonde at times!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I’ve just fallen over laughing- I think I’ve broken my leg, thanks for that

You see!? People break their legs to take their minds off the fact I’m too good for them.

Incidentally do you want me to kiss it better and maybe jizz over your tits to prove I’m mortal?

I don’t think I could cope, you’re so good looking and hot I think I’d faint or worse

I hope you’ve recovered from the multiple orgasms you got just by reading my reply to your forum post. I do have that effect on women.

"

You should come with a government health warning tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thats mad to not Message some because you think that they are out of your league. You never know what could happen unless you try.

Ohh and sorry to anyone that has ever winked at us i had no clue what they meant i thought that they were like the annoying feature that you used to get on Facebook. So I would just delete them. Good thing there is some visable blonde at times! "

You're forgiven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You only live once and what's the worst that can happen... someone you don't know and will never see again ignores you.

We've contacted people not expecting replies and I'll admit, when you hit send it feels like you've just tossed a grenade that's about to roll back towards you!

BUT ... sometimes we're pleasantly surprised at the result of said message

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I should add, that personally it’s not because I believe someone is out of my league but that I actually get put off by the person because of how they come across in their text / photos.

Some I do message but never expect anything back. Others I think, you look like too much hard work and 9/10 I’m correct.

Not that I don’t like putting effort in, but when you formulate a nice message and forever got one word / line responses, that’s hard work!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t believe in leagues of goodlookingness so no, I’ve never thought omg he’s so much better looking than I am. However, sometimes these guys are sooooo arrogant and that is an instant turn off.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria


"Never puts us off, you dont know what their type is. "

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I must admit when I've seen super hot guys and looked at their verifications and saw that they are all from slim/gym fit women I have felt a bit intimidated. But... I'll still message and say I like their pics/profile/post. What is there to lose x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never puts us off, you dont know what their type is.

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As if you need to worry about not being anyone’s type

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Beautiful men make me nervous. And i can’t look at them. So i tend to avoid such hotness in case i look like a prize dickhead.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I should add, that personally it’s not because I believe someone is out of my league but that I actually get put off by the person because of how they come across in their text / photos.

Some I do message but never expect anything back. Others I think, you look like too much hard work and 9/10 I’m correct.

Not that I don’t like putting effort in, but when you formulate a nice message and forever got one word / line responses, that’s hard work! "

So you only contact people that are less than very good looking?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I should add, that personally it’s not because I believe someone is out of my league but that I actually get put off by the person because of how they come across in their text / photos.

Some I do message but never expect anything back. Others I think, you look like too much hard work and 9/10 I’m correct.

Not that I don’t like putting effort in, but when you formulate a nice message and forever got one word / line responses, that’s hard work!

So you only contact people that are less than very good looking?"

Ha, not quite because looks are relative, aren’t they?

I contact who I fancy but I get put off, at times, by some profiles and that can be because I find them with all style and no substance,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes all the time

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By *enstepMan
over a year ago

newcastle

Constantly.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I should add, that personally it’s not because I believe someone is out of my league but that I actually get put off by the person because of how they come across in their text / photos.

Some I do message but never expect anything back. Others I think, you look like too much hard work and 9/10 I’m correct.

Not that I don’t like putting effort in, but when you formulate a nice message and forever got one word / line responses, that’s hard work!

So you only contact people that are less than very good looking?

Ha, not quite because looks are relative, aren’t they?

I contact who I fancy but I get put off, at times, by some profiles and that can be because I find them with all style and no substance, "
enough

Yeah, looks and sexiness are all subjective.

I struggle to understand why people are intimidated by looks (I know you aren't) but I can understand how profiles put people off. Oddly I'm attracted to profiles that make it obvious a person has good self esteem and confidence.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't know where the random "enough" came from.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I should add, that personally it’s not because I believe someone is out of my league but that I actually get put off by the person because of how they come across in their text / photos.

Some I do message but never expect anything back. Others I think, you look like too much hard work and 9/10 I’m correct.

Not that I don’t like putting effort in, but when you formulate a nice message and forever got one word / line responses, that’s hard work!

So you only contact people that are less than very good looking?

Ha, not quite because looks are relative, aren’t they?

I contact who I fancy but I get put off, at times, by some profiles and that can be because I find them with all style and no substance, enough

Yeah, looks and sexiness are all subjective.

I struggle to understand why people are intimidated by looks (I know you aren't) but I can understand how profiles put people off. Oddly I'm attracted to profiles that make it obvious a person has good self esteem and confidence."

Maybe it was an ‘I’ve heard enough’ enough?

It’s mainly the profiles which have ‘professional’ photos and look more pornstar than swinger.

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By *ucilleWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle Upon Tyne

Shy bairns get nowt.

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By *hongman1Man
over a year ago

Mansfield

Every. Single. Day.

I’ve seen what I’m up against and I have to say, I’d lose out 99% of the time!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Shy bairns get nowt. "

I’ve never heard that saying in my life yet in a day I’ve heard it twice. Accept the person (in real life world not fab world) said ‘get no cake’ instead of nowt.

How funny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Dont believe theres such a thing as leagues

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

No. If I think they are hot I'll message or speak up in the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shy bairns get nowt.

I’ve never heard that saying in my life yet in a day I’ve heard it twice. Accept the person (in real life world not fab world) said ‘get no cake’ instead of nowt.

How funny. "

“Shy bairns get fuck all” where I’m from

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By *stonDBS2Man
over a year ago

Kirkcaldy


"Ye I often see profiles on here and think no they are way out of my league so I wouldn't message them. Still would fab their pics tho. "

Likewise,lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Main reason why I don't message most of the women on here that I find attractive...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. If I think they are hot I'll message or speak up in the forum. "
I think you're very hot

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By *sSforfunCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle


"We have looked at profiles, both men and couples and thought, yep way out of our league and moved on "

Just got to say you guys both look pretty good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never messaged anyone first.....

I like to be the hunted not the hunter......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No. If I think they are hot I'll message or speak up in the forum. "

You?! Speak up?! Yeah right!

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We would hate to think that anykne would check out our profile and think that we were 'out of their league'.

We would appreciate people letting us know if that was the case.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We would hate to think that anykne would check out our profile and think that we were 'out of their league'.

We would appreciate people letting us know if that was the case."

I think your inbox is about to turn yellow...

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Sometimes....but then think ahhh why not!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, just message them, what's the worst that can happen.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"No. If I think they are hot I'll message or speak up in the forum.

You?! Speak up?! Yeah right! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, I guess this must be why so few people reply to me. Honestly guys. I’m *human*.

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By *airytaleOfNewPorkMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham/Telford

Yeah I do totally... But actually having spent more time in the forum and getting to chat to people I'd thought that about before has actually begun the process of giving me more confidence in myself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd not be intimidated by them but if the people they have previously met are drop dead gorgeous then a girl might shy away back into the shadows.

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

nope. never. i dont think anyone is out of anyones league... plus someone saying 'not interested' dsnt hurt

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

No... I wink and message and leave it up to them

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I'd not be intimidated by them but if the people they have previously met are drop dead gorgeous then a girl might shy away back into the shadows."

Then it's up to those you meet to bring you back into the light.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe we should add a line to our profiles "I know I'm all gorgeous and stuff but don't let that put you off saying hi". I'm updating mine now. ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if they come across as stuck up their own backsides after we’ve made contact, that’s when we say thanks but no thanks

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

No, We’d still message if we think we might be compatible. What will put us off though is when it says “30-60” age whatever but they’ve only got veries from 30ish year olds. Or they have couples in their wants, been on for an age and no couple veries.

Lots of other things will put us off before looks, although if we do message we then forget about it as we do not expect any response, be lucky if it gets read a lot of the time, but if you don’t ask you don’t get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I see someone who I think is gorgeous, I think to myself there's no way will she reply or even see my message.. But I message anyway and live in hope.

Clutching at straws lol.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"We would hate to think that anykne would check out our profile and think that we were 'out of their league'.

We would appreciate people letting us know if that was the case.

I think your inbox is about to turn yellow... "

Really? That saddens us

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Does anyone else look at profiles and just think, yeah, you’re good looking and all but... meh. Nah thanks.

It’s not that I’m intimidated or anything but sometimes I look at photos and just think... I’d like to buy it would be faaarrr too much hassle just to get a message picked up by said lady, so I’ll move on.

I think that’s why people don’t contact me... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get like this totally, insecurities set in and I just assume I am not their type

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Please don’t feel intimidated by me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else look at profiles and just think, yeah, you’re good looking and all but... meh. Nah thanks.

It’s not that I’m intimidated or anything but sometimes I look at photos and just think... I’d like to buy it would be faaarrr too much hassle just to get a message picked up by said lady, so I’ll move on.

I think that’s why people don’t contact me... "

All the time lol

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By *uilder506Man
over a year ago

bognor


"Does anyone else look at profiles and just think, yeah, you’re good looking and all but... meh. Nah thanks.

It’s not that I’m intimidated or anything but sometimes I look at photos and just think... I’d like to buy it would be faaarrr too much hassle just to get a message picked up by said lady, so I’ll move on.

Yes lol I’m very guilty of doing that.

I am a skinny short ass after all

I think that’s why people don’t contact me... "

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

Same as many others on here, I will happily take a few no thanks on the chin. After all, if I am going to play with someone I need to find them attractive. It’s definitely not about looks though, if they have a boring personality I don’t care how good looking they are my fanny won’t be fluttering!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have a nice borat costume OP

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

It never puts me off and if I could make them laugh I’m halfway there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got to say I feel that all the time. It's really hard to put yourself out there sometimes.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Same as many others on here, I will happily take a few no thanks on the chin. After all, if I am going to play with someone I need to find them attractive. It’s definitely not about looks though, if they have a boring personality I don’t care how good looking they are my fanny won’t be fluttering!"

Absolutely!! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else look at profiles and just think, yeah, you’re good looking and all but... meh. Nah thanks.

It’s not that I’m intimidated or anything but sometimes I look at photos and just think... I’d like to buy it would be faaarrr too much hassle just to get a message picked up by said lady, so I’ll move on.

I think that’s why people don’t contact me... "

there are some really great looking fit bodies that melt on here but I am of the position I will message anyone because you just do not know what could or could not happen.

best thing though is coming here with no expectations and expect nothing back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else look at profiles and just think, yeah, you’re good looking and all but... meh. Nah thanks.

It’s not that I’m intimidated or anything but sometimes I look at photos and just think... I’d like to buy it would be faaarrr too much hassle just to get a message picked up by said lady, so I’ll move on.

I think that’s why people don’t contact me... "
yep pointless messaging the hotties you'd rarely get a reply

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe


"Does anyone else look at profiles and just think, yeah, you’re good looking and all but... meh. Nah thanks.

It’s not that I’m intimidated or anything but sometimes I look at photos and just think... I’d like to buy it would be faaarrr too much hassle just to get a message picked up by said lady, so I’ll move on.

I think that’s why people don’t contact me... "

On a normal dating site I was on a few years ago, there was a woman on there who posted lots on the forums, but looked way out of my league. She was also 20 years younger, too. I posted something on the forum which she found funny, messaged me to thank me for making her laugh and we got chatting on PM, then after a week or two, by phone.

Then she said that she had a week off work booked, which coincided with me having a week off, too, so she asked me to visit and stay for 3 days.

On arrival at hers, she was wearing a skimpy top, which she soon removed, and we never got dressed until it was time to come home. She said that this was a one off, to satisfy her needs, and would never happen again.

We kept in touch, but about a year later she dated someone she works with, and now they live together, so we lost contact after that. Happy memories, though.

So if that can happen to me, it can happen for anyone.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"I should add, that personally it’s not because I believe someone is out of my league but that I actually get put off by the person because of how they come across in their text / photos.

Some I do message but never expect anything back. Others I think, you look like too much hard work and 9/10 I’m correct.

Not that I don’t like putting effort in, but when you formulate a nice message and forever got one word / line responses, that’s hard work! "

Never under estimate yourself! You may be surprised but unless you try you will never know! What’s to lose?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I should add, that personally it’s not because I believe someone is out of my league but that I actually get put off by the person because of how they come across in their text / photos.

Some I do message but never expect anything back. Others I think, you look like too much hard work and 9/10 I’m correct.

Not that I don’t like putting effort in, but when you formulate a nice message and forever got one word / line responses, that’s hard work!

Never under estimate yourself! You may be surprised but unless you try you will never know! What’s to lose? "
time......... it can never be replaced

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Yes, definitely agree with you OP. Sometimes hold back from messaging some people.

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

I have a look at there profile and see that she or they look so good looking that they won't even look at my message that I've sent them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup we know that feeling

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

And when you have a look at the people that they have met before and see what the guys look like well I've got no chance one bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chucking my two pence in - just because somebody looks a certain way, doesn't mean that they have the stereotypical personality to match.

All depends on what they are looking for, and you never know if you don't try (especially if you match what they are looking for in a profile description)

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

Ok so from my profile and a few pictures of me would you have a chat with maybe a meeting.. and I'm only just saying not asking you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chucking my two pence in - just because somebody looks a certain way, doesn't mean that they have the stereotypical personality to match.

All depends on what they are looking for, and you never know if you don't try (especially if you match what they are looking for in a profile description)"

This is perfect.

Better to read profiles and see if you fit the bill. Like I always check to see if they like beards if no beards why bother messaging.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You have a nice borat costume OP "

Ha! His is bright green and once underneath, mine are 'bibshorts' over the mankini!

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By *udewhennudeMan
over a year ago

newport


"Does anyone else look at profiles and just think, yeah, you’re good looking and all but... meh. Nah thanks.

It’s not that I’m intimidated or anything but sometimes I look at photos and just think... I’d like to buy it would be faaarrr too much hassle just to get a message picked up by said lady, so I’ll move on.

I think that’s why people don’t contact me...

I dont contact you cause you're a bloke

If I see a profile I like I'll send a message, if you dont put the effort in you'll never know. All women are worth the effort "

This - I message anyone I like the look of and meet people I’d never have the nerve to approach in a bar, that’s the wonder of fab. If anything I think some people don’t message me because they look at some people who have verified me and think they would not be good enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In real life I've been lucky enough to date some very beautiful women without being stunning myself but I think the difference on Fab is that it's so much about your body and initial contact. When I'm vanilla dating there's other things to connect on - shared interests, etc so attraction can develop out of that. But on Fab that's less of a factor.

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

Yes all the time

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

Hiding from twats

If I get messages from really hot guys, I tend to assume that they're mass messaging every woman in the area.

I never message anyone first, I can't deal with the rejection

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By *maguyMan
over a year ago

Cambs


"If I get messages from really hot guys, I tend to assume that they're mass messaging every woman in the area.

I never message anyone first, I can't deal with the rejection "

You can privately message me

Don’t be shy

Anyway I got a question for the ladies reading .

You looking for someone who has been verified and at the has not been sleeping with all the site???

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant


"If I get messages from really hot guys, I tend to assume that they're mass messaging every woman in the area.

I never message anyone first, I can't deal with the rejection "

Gorgeous face, no surprise really hot guys message you

I only send initial messages in the "send a message" threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep..I'm sure people get the wrong impression of me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah - that's a terrible way to live life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess this is why I hardly ever get any women contacting me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just too shy and innocent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time, especially if they have great bodies as then look at myself (mrs PD) and think they must be contacting for a laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont.

I think its possible that anyone will want to fuck me.

I dont think everyone will want to preferences and all that but I dont think attraction works in leagues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve met a few guys who I’ve thought are out of my league as they’d probably never meet me in the real world. The problem is some of them make it clear they are out of my league which is when arrogance comes in to play. I’m not a fan of arrogance.

I’m waffling...I’ve had a few beers....forgive me

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"I’ve met a few guys who I’ve thought are out of my league as they’d probably never meet me in the real world. The problem is some of them make it clear they are out of my league which is when arrogance comes in to play. I’m not a fan of arrogance.

I’m waffling...I’ve had a few beers....forgive me "

Arrogance is an undesirable trait - especially when it comes with a friggin BIG ego!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve met a few guys who I’ve thought are out of my league as they’d probably never meet me in the real world. The problem is some of them make it clear they are out of my league which is when arrogance comes in to play. I’m not a fan of arrogance.

I’m waffling...I’ve had a few beers....forgive me "

I have to say, I don’t mean this in a bad way, but you’re an example if someone who I wouldn’t message. I look at your pictures and think, yeah, very hot. Then I think you’ve probably got 10,000 messages, you don’t need another. Certainly not from someone who loves many miles away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes there is certainly a few I dont feel good enough for to message I'm sure there is at least 3 in my hotlist. But I guess sometimes it's just having the confidence and a decent message and a bit of luck. So maybe I'm holding out until I feel I have enough experience for these more 'popular' people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve met a few guys who I’ve thought are out of my league as they’d probably never meet me in the real world. The problem is some of them make it clear they are out of my league which is when arrogance comes in to play. I’m not a fan of arrogance.

I’m waffling...I’ve had a few beers....forgive me

God yes!!! I said to one guy he was out of my league and he replied ‘hmmm maybe I am’. When he asked to see me again I had great pleasure in turning him down!

Arrogance is an undesirable trait - especially when it comes with a friggin BIG ego! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve met a few guys who I’ve thought are out of my league as they’d probably never meet me in the real world. The problem is some of them make it clear they are out of my league which is when arrogance comes in to play. I’m not a fan of arrogance.

I’m waffling...I’ve had a few beers....forgive me

God yes!!! I said to one guy he was out of my league and he replied ‘hmmm maybe I am’. When he asked to see me again I had great pleasure in turning him down!

Arrogance is an undesirable trait - especially when it comes with a friggin BIG ego! "

So you didnt meet him again because he agreed with you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should always roll the dice of risk in life... Otherwise you'll never know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve met a few guys who I’ve thought are out of my league as they’d probably never meet me in the real world. The problem is some of them make it clear they are out of my league which is when arrogance comes in to play. I’m not a fan of arrogance.

I’m waffling...I’ve had a few beers....forgive me

I have to say, I don’t mean this in a bad way, but you’re an example if someone who I wouldn’t message. I look at your pictures and think, yeah, very hot. Then I think you’ve probably got 10,000 messages, you don’t need another. Certainly not from someone who loves many miles away!"

Awwww behave! I’m sat here in my pjs, no make up and my boobs near my ankles! Us girls can make pics look better then reality, so don’t think anyone is out of your league!

I only get about 9000 messages a day so don’t exaggerate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve met a few guys who I’ve thought are out of my league as they’d probably never meet me in the real world. The problem is some of them make it clear they are out of my league which is when arrogance comes in to play. I’m not a fan of arrogance.

I’m waffling...I’ve had a few beers....forgive me

God yes!!! I said to one guy he was out of my league and he replied ‘hmmm maybe I am’. When he asked to see me again I had great pleasure in turning him down!

Arrogance is an undesirable trait - especially when it comes with a friggin BIG ego!

So you didnt meet him again because he agreed with you? "
yep!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t look at profiles and think they’re out of my league and I hope that I wouldn’t come across as that for others either, I don’t know peoples types until I send a message and hope for a reply

I scroll profiles and think if I fit the criteria why not give it ago? Photos could tell a whole different story to what the person/s are actually like conversation wise never judge a book by its cover as the saying goes!

I’m hoping to get back into playing and making new friends again soon so will be scrolling you lovely lot very soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else look at profiles and just think, yeah, you’re good looking and all but... meh. Nah thanks.

It’s not that I’m intimidated or anything but sometimes I look at photos and just think... I’d like to buy it would be faaarrr too much hassle just to get a message picked up by said lady, so I’ll move on.

I look at some and think out of my league

I think that’s why people don’t contact me... "

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Profiles don't intimidate me and I don't feel i'm out of anyone's league if I match their criteria. If the profile is appealing overall why not message? The worst that can happen is it gets ignored, deleted or turned down. It's all part of the process. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

If I like the look of someone then I'll message x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else look at profiles and just think, yeah, you’re good looking and all but... meh. Nah thanks.

It’s not that I’m intimidated or anything but sometimes I look at photos and just think... I’d like to buy it would be faaarrr too much hassle just to get a message picked up by said lady, so I’ll move on.

I think that’s why people don’t contact me... "

Yep!

But then when I have taken the plunge I discover that actually my preconception was wrong.

Veried by a couple of guys who I percieved to be out of my league, but actually they were the nicest guys I had met.

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By *t3_jalapenoMan
over a year ago

darlo


"I’ve met a few guys who I’ve thought are out of my league as they’d probably never meet me in the real world. The problem is some of them make it clear they are out of my league which is when arrogance comes in to play. I’m not a fan of arrogance.

I’m waffling...I’ve had a few beers....forgive me "

Way outta my league hehe

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I have a phrase I sometimes use - I'm the nicest guy you'll never meet.

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else look at profiles and just think, yeah, you’re good looking and all but... meh. Nah thanks.

It’s not that I’m intimidated or anything but sometimes I look at photos and just think... I’d like to buy it would be faaarrr too much hassle just to get a message picked up by said lady, so I’ll move on.

I think that’s why people don’t contact me... "

What do you mean by sexy by the way OP?

Sexy is the new intelligence

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"If I like the look of someone then I'll message x"

Yep indeedy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m a victim of this myself. None of my pics get fabbed as I am too intimidatingly good looking.

I get messages from guys asking me to die as their partner is besotted by me. And I have women messaging me asking me to die as I’m the unobtainable.

I’ve tried playing down my pics to make me look normal but couldn’t find anything big enough to compare my cock with that would make it look small. I had to eat lots of cheesy chips to get rid of my Adonis-like body.

And the only meet I’ve had the woman cried as I was too big for her and she had to call me by her ex’s name to keep her in reality.

"

I’ll be honest, it’s a good job I’m not to meet men as that profile picture would just be my undoing! Love a dominant man, and now I’ve read that your vwe and you don’t turn your nose up at cheesy chips, I’d struggle not to throw myself at you and beg you to make me the exception to the rule.

Thank you for making yourself way out of my league, as rejection would be heartbreaking and it makes my being loyal that much easier.

You, sir, are a God among men.

Viv xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m a victim of this myself. None of my pics get fabbed as I am too intimidatingly good looking.

I get messages from guys asking me to die as their partner is besotted by me. And I have women messaging me asking me to die as I’m the unobtainable.

I’ve tried playing down my pics to make me look normal but couldn’t find anything big enough to compare my cock with that would make it look small. I had to eat lots of cheesy chips to get rid of my Adonis-like body.

And the only meet I’ve had the woman cried as I was too big for her and she had to call me by her ex’s name to keep her in reality.

I’ll be honest, it’s a good job I’m not to meet men as that profile picture would just be my undoing! Love a dominant man, and now I’ve read that your vwe and you don’t turn your nose up at cheesy chips, I’d struggle not to throw myself at you and beg you to make me the exception to the rule.

Thank you for making yourself way out of my league, as rejection would be heartbreaking and it makes my being loyal that much easier.

You, sir, are a God among men.

Viv xx"
thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time. I tend to see myself as too old or too chubby for them, and that if they did respond they’d soon ignore me or be disappointed if we did actually meet. Easier to avoid and not to attempt any contact x

Viv xx

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By *ong_John2333Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Yep, I've done it while scrolling this page already

I think there is some pressure on the first message sometimes, maybe that's why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m a victim of this myself. None of my pics get fabbed as I am too intimidatingly good looking.

I get messages from guys asking me to die as their partner is besotted by me. And I have women messaging me asking me to die as I’m the unobtainable.

I’ve tried playing down my pics to make me look normal but couldn’t find anything big enough to compare my cock with that would make it look small. I had to eat lots of cheesy chips to get rid of my Adonis-like body.

And the only meet I’ve had the woman cried as I was too big for her and she had to call me by her ex’s name to keep her in reality.

I’ll be honest, it’s a good job I’m not to meet men as that profile picture would just be my undoing! Love a dominant man, and now I’ve read that your vwe and you don’t turn your nose up at cheesy chips, I’d struggle not to throw myself at you and beg you to make me the exception to the rule.

Thank you for making yourself way out of my league, as rejection would be heartbreaking and it makes my being loyal that much easier.

You, sir, are a God among men.

Viv xxthank you "

Haha, with that pic in the suit and those thighs, you don’t have to thank anyone! Good thing there is more than one God- which was the one with great legs? :- )xx

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Nah - that's a terrible way to live life."

Agreed.

Also, isn't it a bit insulting to the people you actually have messaged? Like, you don't message the ones you think are really hot, just the ones you think are achievable

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

lol well I think that's the problem with me then because I'm to sexy?

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By *ong_John2333Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Nah - that's a terrible way to live life.

Agreed.

Also, isn't it a bit insulting to the people you actually have messaged? Like, you don't message the ones you think are really hot, just the ones you think are achievable "

The ones I message are normally in response to a post or status so there is less pressure on the first message. They are still out of my league but it is always worth a try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t message people first it saves thinking about shit like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don’t think like that at all. The worst they can do is ignore you/turn you down. Not everyone can be everyone’s cup of tea. I’ve been turned down and it’s not the end of the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah - that's a terrible way to live life.

Agreed.

Also, isn't it a bit insulting to the people you actually have messaged? Like, you don't message the ones you think are really hot, just the ones you think are achievable "

I once messaged a lady whom I not only believe to be one of the sexiest women on fab but also the most humorous because she made a joke that had me in one of those giggling fits where you can't stop. She's very popular and I didn't expect her to respond but it turns out she's a lovely person too and we had a pleasant chat. Since then I've believed there's no such thing as out of my league. We all put our sock on one at a time

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"Nah - that's a terrible way to live life.

Agreed.

Also, isn't it a bit insulting to the people you actually have messaged? Like, you don't message the ones you think are really hot, just the ones you think are achievable "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Stockholme Syndrom is a wonderful thing.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I've messaged a few absolutely gorgeous people on here and some of them are very good Fab friends.

I'm only an average looking guy so making first contact was a bit scary, so I'd say take that chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m a victim of this myself. None of my pics get fabbed as I am too intimidatingly good looking.

I get messages from guys asking me to die as their partner is besotted by me. And I have women messaging me asking me to die as I’m the unobtainable.

I’ve tried playing down my pics to make me look normal but couldn’t find anything big enough to compare my cock with that would make it look small. I had to eat lots of cheesy chips to get rid of my Adonis-like body.

And the only meet I’ve had the woman cried as I was too big for her and she had to call me by her ex’s name to keep her in reality.

"

Too funny!!! I needed a laugh! Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m a victim of this myself. None of my pics get fabbed as I am too intimidatingly good looking.

I get messages from guys asking me to die as their partner is besotted by me. And I have women messaging me asking me to die as I’m the unobtainable.

I’ve tried playing down my pics to make me look normal but couldn’t find anything big enough to compare my cock with that would make it look small. I had to eat lots of cheesy chips to get rid of my Adonis-like body.

And the only meet I’ve had the woman cried as I was too big for her and she had to call me by her ex’s name to keep her in reality.

Too funny!!! I needed a laugh! Thank you. "

Agreed. Brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I messaged all the super good looking ones for the first few weeks I joined on fab, previously! Response rate was just under 30% and meet rate was under 7%. I just realised how shallow I was after meeting a few socially. The women I clicked with was average to good looking ones tbh. So looks can be deceiving. I now look for substance in a woman than looks. That was my biggest learning and thank fab for that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate the ‘out of my league thing’

I get it though. There are some I wouldn’t have had the nerve to contact thinking they go for for hotter women.

I’d hate to think I was ever put in a league at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate the ‘out of my league thing’

I get it though. There are some I wouldn’t have had the nerve to contact thinking they go for for hotter women.

I’d hate to think I was ever put in a league at all. "
youre in my league

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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I never think like that - if I like the look of someone and we fit each others criteria then I will message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I messaged all the super good looking ones for the first few weeks I joined on fab, previously! Response rate was just under 30% and meet rate was under 7%. I just realised how shallow I was after meeting a few socially. The women I clicked with was average to good looking ones tbh. So looks can be deceiving. I now look for substance in a woman than looks. That was my biggest learning and thank fab for that! "

Nice comment Although I do have an image of you with a pie chart on a PowerPoint presentation wondering how you can get those success rates up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never think like that - if I like the look of someone and we fit each others criteria then I will message. "

I am still waiting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never think like that - if I like the look of someone and we fit each others criteria then I will message. "

I need to stop falling in love with people's bottoms...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I messaged all the super good looking ones for the first few weeks I joined on fab, previously! Response rate was just under 30% and meet rate was under 7%. I just realised how shallow I was after meeting a few socially. The women I clicked with was average to good looking ones tbh. So looks can be deceiving. I now look for substance in a woman than looks. That was my biggest learning and thank fab for that!

Nice comment Although I do have an image of you with a pie chart on a PowerPoint presentation wondering how you can get those success rates up. "

Lol. I am a numbers man. Do things right and do it well once and measure and monitor. That includes sex or washing my car!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll message anyone, well not now cos I’m not single anymore hooray! But nobody was too hot for me to message!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I messaged all the super good looking ones for the first few weeks I joined on fab, previously! Response rate was just under 30% and meet rate was under 7%. I just realised how shallow I was after meeting a few socially. The women I clicked with was average to good looking ones tbh. So looks can be deceiving. I now look for substance in a woman than looks. That was my biggest learning and thank fab for that!

Nice comment Although I do have an image of you with a pie chart on a PowerPoint presentation wondering how you can get those success rates up.

Lol. I am a numbers man. Do things right and do it well once and measure and monitor. That includes sex or washing my car! "

I'm an engineer so I can relate.

And those figures are impressive! I need to come to you for lessons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ll message anyone, well not now cos I’m not single anymore hooray! But nobody was too hot for me to message!"

NOW you tell us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I messaged all the super good looking ones for the first few weeks I joined on fab, previously! Response rate was just under 30% and meet rate was under 7%. I just realised how shallow I was after meeting a few socially. The women I clicked with was average to good looking ones tbh. So looks can be deceiving. I now look for substance in a woman than looks. That was my biggest learning and thank fab for that!

Nice comment Although I do have an image of you with a pie chart on a PowerPoint presentation wondering how you can get those success rates up.

Lol. I am a numbers man. Do things right and do it well once and measure and monitor. That includes sex or washing my car!

I'm an engineer so I can relate.

And those figures are impressive! I need to come to you for lessons "

Thanks mate. I thought it was poor. I didnt think I was that ugly!

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

There's loads on her that are very very hot way out of my league

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By *unning LinguistMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Ive got 2 friends on here whose pics are regularly in the top ten because i messaged them and they liked what i said...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I messaged all the super good looking ones for the first few weeks I joined on fab, previously! Response rate was just under 30% and meet rate was under 7%. I just realised how shallow I was after meeting a few socially. The women I clicked with was average to good looking ones tbh. So looks can be deceiving. I now look for substance in a woman than looks. That was my biggest learning and thank fab for that!

Nice comment Although I do have an image of you with a pie chart on a PowerPoint presentation wondering how you can get those success rates up.

Lol. I am a numbers man. Do things right and do it well once and measure and monitor. That includes sex or washing my car!

I'm an engineer so I can relate.

And those figures are impressive! I need to come to you for lessons "

The challenge you will face with normal looking ladies is self confidence. I almost fell in love with one and she thought I was playing her!

Hope she doesnt read this thread. Fingers crossed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I messaged all the super good looking ones for the first few weeks I joined on fab, previously! Response rate was just under 30% and meet rate was under 7%. I just realised how shallow I was after meeting a few socially. The women I clicked with was average to good looking ones tbh. So looks can be deceiving. I now look for substance in a woman than looks. That was my biggest learning and thank fab for that!

Nice comment Although I do have an image of you with a pie chart on a PowerPoint presentation wondering how you can get those success rates up.

Lol. I am a numbers man. Do things right and do it well once and measure and monitor. That includes sex or washing my car!

I'm an engineer so I can relate.

And those figures are impressive! I need to come to you for lessons

Thanks mate. I thought it was poor. I didnt think I was that ugly! "

Not at all Brad Pitt only got a 28% response 5.25% success rate on fab when he was here.

I was wondering who was gettin' all our wiminfolk! It's you!!!

Barny says you should share. I'm with him on that one.

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