FabSwingers.com forum: Cock/vag block

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So me and my bestie Angelic do not share guys on here. If she’s chatting to someone, I don’t chat to them and vice versa. Or I let the guy know that I know he’s sexting with her. Is that so unusual?

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I think that’s a good thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shows how good your friendship is with your friend

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Well it's not a bad thing that's for sure

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By *orenzoVonMatterhornMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

Don't see anything wrong with it if you're both happy with running it like that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

But is it unusual?

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Me and Lexi are the same.. no crossover

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

"But is it unusual?"

Possibly but I like to believe in a girl code

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's more than I cant compete with her amazing vagina

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By *orenzoVonMatterhornMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

"But is it unusual?"

I don't think it's particularly unusual, no. Is there a USUAL Fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are there any man friends that dont crossover on here?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"But is it unusual?

I don't think it's particularly unusual, no. Is there a USUAL Fab?

Very good point.

PS still fantasising about older twin brothers

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

There's plenty I wouldn't fuck that others do, if that counts.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Are there any man friends that dont crossover on here?"

I don't think that guys have close friendships like that really on here. Also I've never really experienced a 'guy code' as such in any male friendship. Generally a lot of guys will merrily fuck each other over for a woman.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There's plenty I wouldn't fuck that others do, if that counts."

Well Mr Moriarty, thank you for that input that is so relevant to this thread

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"There's plenty I wouldn't fuck that others do, if that counts.

Well Mr Moriarty, thank you for that input that is so relevant to this thread

You're very welcome, enjoy your day.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There's plenty I wouldn't fuck that others do, if that counts.

Well Mr Moriarty, thank you for that input that is so relevant to this thread

You're very welcome, enjoy your day."

Say hello to all your veggies, animals and land for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with that a lot of us with friends on here do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So me and my bestie Angelic do not share guys on here. If she’s chatting to someone, I don’t chat to them and vice versa. Or I let the guy know that I know he’s sexting with her. Is that so unusual?"

Keeps me in line I guess

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Keeps me in line I guess

Yep. Well that beast in your pants at least...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are there any man friends that dont crossover on here?"

Yeah I constantly confirm with my fab friends that I am not speaking to the bird they are.

Vice versa I would never go with the all the ladies they get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keeps me in line I guess

Yep. Well that beast in your pants at least..."

I feel I lost to incandescent when it comes to groot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do the same with my bestie. Its amazing the number of guys who try to play us off against each other or use one of us to get to the other.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Keeps me in line I guess

Yep. Well that beast in your pants at least...

I feel I lost to incandescent when it comes to groot "

Yeah yeah. Just how many are you chatting with gorgeous?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I believe in girl code

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keeps me in line I guess

Yep. Well that beast in your pants at least...

I feel I lost to incandescent when it comes to groot

Yeah yeah. Just how many are you chatting with gorgeous?"

I’ve been claimed

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"There's plenty I wouldn't fuck that others do, if that counts.

Well Mr Moriarty, thank you for that input that is so relevant to this thread

You're very welcome, enjoy your day.

Say hello to all your veggies, animals and land for me

Only if you give all your concrete tower blocks my best regards

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There's plenty I wouldn't fuck that others do, if that counts.

Well Mr Moriarty, thank you for that input that is so relevant to this thread

You're very welcome, enjoy your day.

Say hello to all your veggies, animals and land for me

Only if you give all your concrete tower blocks my best regards

I will. And the graffitied, crumbling buildings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are there any man friends that dont crossover on here?"

I do think it's a bit strange that on a swinging site you have both marked off men just because the other might have an interest. From the little I know of both you of, you both have pretty high standards.

Having browsed through your profiles however, I do notice that you are both looking for quality over quantity and most likely just one guy at a time who h might explain things.

To answer your question, a lot is said about the bro code in vanilla world but it gets broken so many times its silly. If a friend tells me a lady he isn't seeing seriously is a fantastic lay, I'd want to find out for myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have any friends on here. I'm here for one thing and one thing only and nobody is gonna stop me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t really have friends on here. Obviously there are people who I talk to / would like to meet up with.

However, I don’t think stopping someone is a good thing. This place can be cliquey enough at the best of times!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't have any friends on here. I'm here for one thing and one thing only and nobody is gonna stop me

Atta girl

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By *orenzoVonMatterhornMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

"But is it unusual?

I don't think it's particularly unusual, no. Is there a USUAL Fab?

Very good point.

PS still fantasising about older twin brothers

Filth

I'll see if I can dig out a phone number...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that's a sweet thing and very respectful of one another.

The problem comes when there's all the bullcrap behind closed doors, when people use the term girl code but what it means to them is actually lying and sneaking around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I admire your genuine friendship with her, but if a red hot chap came your way, would you consider sharing? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This seems like a reasonable thread to express my confusion for what a guy I work with told me about his life the other day..

So there’s two brothers, let’s call them John and Paul for the purpose of this story.

So I was talking to John and he was telling me about his life.

So Paul got married to a lovely woman and had two sons with her.

They were together for almost 10 years and so she obviously became part of the family..

A little while later, Paul and his wife split up.

3 years down the line, John married his brothers ex wife. Plays stepfather/uncle to Paul’s two kids.

I can only cringe at what it must be like at family events such as Christmas..

I think this breaks all kinds of codes.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Erm, no I don't think it's that odd. Like Inca, I love you to bits but I probably wouldn't meet the same people as you. I'd make an exception for one or two though.

I find it can help keep friendships a lot cleaner and easier. Women can be possessive and batshit crazy and friendship is more important to me than a throbbing dick (again, exceptions do exist).

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

I don’t think it’s odd or unusual. You are free to use the site how you wish. It does appear that you are treating it as a dating site rather than a swinging site, which might explain why some people might think it unusual.

Your life, your rules..... enjoy!

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I think that's a sweet thing and very respectful of one another.

The problem comes when there's all the bullcrap behind closed doors, when people use the term girl code but what it means to them is actually lying and sneaking around.

In my experience, girl codes apply to certain circles of friends and can be cliquey.

Those outside of the circles can get short shrift if they approach a guy associated with someone within the circle.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I don't think it's unusual at all.

My friends and I often fuck the same people but we all only meet at a club so the pool of men is smaller.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Yep me and my best mate who was on here did the same. We never crossed over. Sadly she left the site since but I still won't meet anyone she did.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I admire your genuine friendship with her, but if a red hot chap came your way, would you consider sharing? X"

Nope

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This seems like a reasonable thread to express my confusion for what a guy I work with told me about his life the other day..

So there’s two brothers, let’s call them John and Paul for the purpose of this story.

So I was talking to John and he was telling me about his life.

So Paul got married to a lovely woman and had two sons with her.

They were together for almost 10 years and so she obviously became part of the family..

A little while later, Paul and his wife split up.

3 years down the line, John married his brothers ex wife. Plays stepfather/uncle to Paul’s two kids.

I can only cringe at what it must be like at family events such as Christmas..

I think this breaks all kinds of codes."

Yeah but I’m ok with this as he wasn’t having an affair with her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that’s pretty normal- and nice. You wouldn’t share guys with friends outside of fab, so if you’ve made friends on fab why would you treat them any differently?

Decent gal pals are far more rewarding

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Sounds pretty normal to me. I've a few female friends and have always tended to steer away from anyone they are meeting or intend to meet. Obviously if they haven't met in a few years, it shouldn't be an issue, but if it's a recent meet/connection I just wouldn't intentionally go there.

I did once meet someone a couple I'm good friends with had met socially (around 2 weeks after they met him), but without realising at the time it was the same guy whom they had told me about and they really liked... It was only when I wrote his veri that I noticed the previous veri was from my friends. I had already arranged to meet him again 2 days later, and felt horrible...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think that’s pretty normal- and nice. You wouldn’t share guys with friends outside of fab, so if you’ve made friends on fab why would you treat them any differently?

Decent gal pals are far more rewarding

This is exactly how I feel

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Exactly what I do with one friend on her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its unusual to find such decent women

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By *luey manMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

More chance of people not getting hurt this way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This seems like a reasonable thread to express my confusion for what a guy I work with told me about his life the other day..

So there’s two brothers, let’s call them John and Paul for the purpose of this story.

So I was talking to John and he was telling me about his life.

So Paul got married to a lovely woman and had two sons with her.

They were together for almost 10 years and so she obviously became part of the family..

A little while later, Paul and his wife split up.

3 years down the line, John married his brothers ex wife. Plays stepfather/uncle to Paul’s two kids.

I can only cringe at what it must be like at family events such as Christmas..

I think this breaks all kinds of codes."

I thought about something similar the other day, what a weird situation it would be.

I think it’s possibly one of the most selfish acts without considering other people’s feelings for your own.

Maybe I think of others too much though..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its unusual to find such decent women

We are far from decent....we just dont share peen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think that's a sweet thing and very respectful of one another.

The problem comes when there's all the bullcrap behind closed doors, when people use the term girl code but what it means to them is actually lying and sneaking around.

Oooh we dont do that at all mainly because I'm terrified of her haha

If I'm honest, I think she does it because she feels a bit sorry for me and I dont get anywhere near as much attention as she does. Plus we go for opposite men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't have any friends on here. I'm here for one thing and one thing only and nobody is gonna stop me

If I looked like you and didn't have any gal friends on here I'd be just the same...you crack on lovely and enjoy yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest, a few years ago myself and a fab friend were going to meet the same person and she met him first. Didn't bother me one bit as we were all honest and open about it.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Sounds like girl code to me and if that close to someone makes sense.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"This seems like a reasonable thread to express my confusion for what a guy I work with told me about his life the other day..

So there’s two brothers, let’s call them John and Paul for the purpose of this story.

So I was talking to John and he was telling me about his life.

So Paul got married to a lovely woman and had two sons with her.

They were together for almost 10 years and so she obviously became part of the family..

A little while later, Paul and his wife split up.

3 years down the line, John married his brothers ex wife. Plays stepfather/uncle to Paul’s two kids.

I can only cringe at what it must be like at family events such as Christmas..

I think this breaks all kinds of codes.

I thought about something similar the other day, what a weird situation it would be.

I think it’s possibly one of the most selfish acts without considering other people’s feelings for your own.

Maybe I think of others too much though..? "

Depends. Why did they split up? Did they split on good terms?

If they did split on good terms and as a mutual split then what's the issue? If John cares for his brother and ex wife, and they are in love (which neither of them could control) he should be happy for them.

Far too many factors and variables to call something like that a cut and dry do/do not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be honest, a few years ago myself and a fab friend were going to meet the same person and she met him first. Didn't bother me one bit as we were all honest and open about it."

Luckily though I havent come across one guy she has been with that I would want to

haha she is going to kill me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This seems like a reasonable thread to express my confusion for what a guy I work with told me about his life the other day..

So there’s two brothers, let’s call them John and Paul for the purpose of this story.

So I was talking to John and he was telling me about his life.

So Paul got married to a lovely woman and had two sons with her.

They were together for almost 10 years and so she obviously became part of the family..

A little while later, Paul and his wife split up.

3 years down the line, John married his brothers ex wife. Plays stepfather/uncle to Paul’s two kids.

I can only cringe at what it must be like at family events such as Christmas..

I think this breaks all kinds of codes.

I thought about something similar the other day, what a weird situation it would be.

I think it’s possibly one of the most selfish acts without considering other people’s feelings for your own.

Maybe I think of others too much though..?

Depends. Why did they split up? Did they split on good terms?

Far too many factors and variables to call something like that a cut and dry do/do not. "

That is true..

I just couldn’t imagine bringing an ex of my brothers back to the Christmas table let alone marrying them.

I just find it wrong going with your brothers ex wife..

Just my own views.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be honest, a few years ago myself and a fab friend were going to meet the same person and she met him first. Didn't bother me one bit as we were all honest and open about it.

Luckily though I havent come across one guy she has been with that I would want to

haha she is going to kill me"

In all honesty that sounds like me and my best friend of eighteen years! Completely different taste in men and that's probably the secret of our friendship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be honest, a few years ago myself and a fab friend were going to meet the same person and she met him first. Didn't bother me one bit as we were all honest and open about it.

Luckily though I havent come across one guy she has been with that I would want to

haha she is going to kill me

In all honesty that sounds like me and my best friend of eighteen years! Completely different taste in men and that's probably the secret of our friendship

Exactly that. We attract completely different types, otherwise I dont know how our friendship would work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This seems like a reasonable thread to express my confusion for what a guy I work with told me about his life the other day..

So there’s two brothers, let’s call them John and Paul for the purpose of this story.

So I was talking to John and he was telling me about his life.

So Paul got married to a lovely woman and had two sons with her.

They were together for almost 10 years and so she obviously became part of the family..

A little while later, Paul and his wife split up.

3 years down the line, John married his brothers ex wife. Plays stepfather/uncle to Paul’s two kids.

I can only cringe at what it must be like at family events such as Christmas..

I think this breaks all kinds of codes.

I thought about something similar the other day, what a weird situation it would be.

I think it’s possibly one of the most selfish acts without considering other people’s feelings for your own.

Maybe I think of others too much though..?

Depends. Why did they split up? Did they split on good terms?

Far too many factors and variables to call something like that a cut and dry do/do not.

That is true..

I just couldn’t imagine bringing an ex of my brothers back to the Christmas table let alone marrying them.

I just find it wrong going with your brothers ex wife..

Just my own views. "

You work with Ryan Giggs mate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like someone’s suggested it is unusual to you and you’re doubting yourself.

Maybe us men should have sex passports so you can check our stamps.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

No. I have have tried it, but it didn’t work as we had similar taste in men. I didn’t mind at all myself. Happy to share the man, but not the details.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"This seems like a reasonable thread to express my confusion for what a guy I work with told me about his life the other day..

So there’s two brothers, let’s call them John and Paul for the purpose of this story.

So I was talking to John and he was telling me about his life.

So Paul got married to a lovely woman and had two sons with her.

They were together for almost 10 years and so she obviously became part of the family..

A little while later, Paul and his wife split up.

3 years down the line, John married his brothers ex wife. Plays stepfather/uncle to Paul’s two kids.

I can only cringe at what it must be like at family events such as Christmas..

I think this breaks all kinds of codes.

I thought about something similar the other day, what a weird situation it would be.

I think it’s possibly one of the most selfish acts without considering other people’s feelings for your own.

Maybe I think of others too much though..?

Depends. Why did they split up? Did they split on good terms?

Far too many factors and variables to call something like that a cut and dry do/do not.

That is true..

I just couldn’t imagine bringing an ex of my brothers back to the Christmas table let alone marrying them.

I just find it wrong going with your brothers ex wife..

Just my own views. "

Oh I agree, in that I'd never go seeking for that to happen.

But in the right circumstances you can't always fight what is going to happen.

I know a fair number of people who are now married and some in a committed relationship with friends of their ex's, who they had met through their ex. And its clear they are meant to be together.

As I say it's not something that should have a line drawn right through the middle if certain circumstances align. But if it is conscious decision to get with them now that X is no longer with them, that is wrong.

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By *hezuMan
over a year ago

London

Keeps me in line I guess

Yep. Well that beast in your pants at least...

I feel I lost to incandescent when it comes to groot "

Have a threesome?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think that's a sweet thing and very respectful of one another.

The problem comes when there's all the bullcrap behind closed doors, when people use the term girl code but what it means to them is actually lying and sneaking around.

Oooh we dont do that at all mainly because I'm terrified of her haha

If I'm honest, I think she does it because she feels a bit sorry for me and I dont get anywhere near as much attention as she does. Plus we go for opposite men

Oh neither of us were suggesting that you would ha! Whilst it goes on on here, having had the delights of her company Incandescent certainly doesn't come across as a sneaky sneak sneak for one? We've not met you as yet, but the aforementioned lady also comes across as pretty shrewd, so we very much doubt that she'd be good friends with you if you were such a slippery customer!

So congratulations, please accept this as your formal (and very sought after may we say) ED embossed certificate of Non-Twatness!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are there any man friends that dont crossover on here?"

Yea me n chunky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think that's a sweet thing and very respectful of one another.

The problem comes when there's all the bullcrap behind closed doors, when people use the term girl code but what it means to them is actually lying and sneaking around.

Oooh we dont do that at all mainly because I'm terrified of her haha

If I'm honest, I think she does it because she feels a bit sorry for me and I dont get anywhere near as much attention as she does. Plus we go for opposite men

So congratulations, please accept this as your formal (and very sought after may we say) ED embossed certificate of Non-Twatness!

(Wipes a tear away) I would like to thank my family, my friends, my agent, bob who lives at number 47, god and finally incandescent. I accept this certificate for all of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are there any man friends that dont crossover on here?

Yea me n chunky

Are you actually just the same person?

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By *rygveMan
over a year ago

The Shires

"But is it unusual?"

Def not unusual. Couple of female friends had the same policy in place for years until one of them broke it. The trust was gone and their friendship was no more.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

I find that rather unusual. It's a swinging site; which is about swopping and sharing. I don't see how meeting the same guy should be an issue, unless of course, one/both of you are looking for more from the guy.

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By *hezuMan
over a year ago

London

"I find that rather unusual. It's a swinging site; which is about swopping and sharing. I don't see how meeting the same guy should be an issue, unless of course, one/both of you are looking for more from the guy."

Same that's what I think too didn't know how to write it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Love how this thread developed. Like most things on Fab, it’s all down to....PERSONAL CHOICE.

Laughing now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same that's what I think too didn't know how to write it"

I hadnt realised it was a swinging site....maybe that's where I am going wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know if it's unusual. I just thought swingers got on with it, because it's nsf at the end of the day and not as if you are meeting someone's boyfriend.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't know if it's unusual. I just thought swingers got on with it, because it's nsf at the end of the day and not as if you are meeting someone's boyfriend. "

Depends on your definition of a swingers site Mickey and what your expectations of Fab are. I don’t consider myself to be the classic swinger and make that pretty clear on my profile.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

No. Me and all my mates are like that. Girl code is the best code. Don’t think it bothers fellas tho. They don’t give a crap and see it as a challenge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure. Depends who it was. When I was looking cheeky and I tended to go for the same kind of people but we have both backed off if the other was interested or chatting a lot to someone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No. Me and all my mates are like that. Girl code is the best code. Don’t think it bothers fellas tho. They don’t give a crap and see it as a challenge "

You see. I knew we were going to be friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So how does it work with our planned FFM for the weekend?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Me and all my mates are like that. Girl code is the best code. Don’t think it bothers fellas tho. They don’t give a crap and see it as a challenge "

I've heard a lot about you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So how does it work with our planned FFM for the weekend?

I get blindfolded so I cant see where the peen goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So how does it work with our planned FFM for the weekend?

I get blindfolded so I cant see where the peen goes "

BBBButtt, what if she see me doing it? How does that work?

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Not unusual, no. And completely your call how you use the site (obviously!)

Where I’ve seen this go wrong is where friends may be interested in same guys and one tends to claim veto disproportionately.

It comes down to good communication, trust and the friendship ultimately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends on the situation, I've enjoyed sharing with friends before... But I think there has to be rules in place. Beast and I are not currently playing with others but when /if we do in a way I would probably prefer it to be with someone I know and trust. I think like anything I would take it as the situation arises but maybe say to a friend so and so has messaged are you ok with that?

There are some people who will always be off limits though especially if they have upset one of my friends

Belle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not unusual, no. And completely your call how you use the site (obviously!)

Where I’ve seen this go wrong is where friends may be interested in same guys and one tends to claim veto disproportionately.

It comes down to good communication, trust and the friendship ultimately. "

Exactly. I want both of them. But they have left me to choose one or the other. Somebody is going to get hurt later this evening!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not unusual, no. And completely your call how you use the site (obviously!)

Where I’ve seen this go wrong is where friends may be interested in same guys and one tends to claim veto disproportionately.

It comes down to good communication, trust and the friendship ultimately.

Exactly. I want both of them. But they have left me to choose one or the other. Somebody is going to get hurt later this evening!

She said I can take one for the team

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I don’t tend to tell other people who I am talking to or arranging to meet and I am not massively fussed who they are meeting.

But to each their own. I don’t mark territory. Seems a bit daft on a swingers site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if you’ve a strong friendship - I get that

There’s a line though

I’ve had a circumstance before I left last time where I was bad mouthed to a man, because I’d shown interest in him.

Hence - I’ll be aloof and not be friends with anyone, that way I can shag whoever is desperate enough to have me

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over a year ago

"I don’t tend to tell other people who I am talking to or arranging to meet and I am not massively fussed who they are meeting.

But to each their own. I don’t mark territory. Seems a bit daft on a swingers site

Just according to your personal rules and your interpretation of a ‘swingers site’. I stand by my decision to see Fab as an x-rated FB. Enough room for us all...

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"I don’t tend to tell other people who I am talking to or arranging to meet and I am not massively fussed who they are meeting.

But to each their own. I don’t mark territory. Seems a bit daft on a swingers site

Just according to your personal rules and your interpretation of a ‘swingers site’. I stand by my decision to see Fab as an x-rated FB. Enough room for us all...

Indeed. Happy swinging xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don’t tend to tell other people who I am talking to or arranging to meet and I am not massively fussed who they are meeting.

But to each their own. I don’t mark territory. Seems a bit daft on a swingers site

Just according to your personal rules and your interpretation of a ‘swingers site’. I stand by my decision to see Fab as an x-rated FB. Enough room for us all...

Indeed. Happy swinging xx"

Happy chatting

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I have no idea what girl code is but it doesnt sound like something id participate in. I used to have a friend and we always shared the same guys cant understand what the problem is

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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago

North of Okehampton, South of Bideford

Why ?

Isn't this a swinging site or is it a sex with emotions site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why ?

Isn't this a swinging site or is it a sex with emotions site."

Emotions

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why ?

Isn't this a swinging site or is it a sex with emotions site."

It’s whatever you want it to be. The beauty of Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no idea what girl code is but it doesnt sound like something id participate in. I used to have a friend and we always shared the same guys cant understand what the problem is"

I believe there are more than enough men on here so we dont have to share

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were you friends in real life before Fab or did you become friends through Fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were you friends in real life before Fab or did you become friends through Fab?"

We met through fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were you friends in real life before Fab or did you become friends through Fab?

We met through fab. "

I think it’s great you’re thinking of each other and putting your friendship first

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I have no idea what girl code is but it doesnt sound like something id participate in. I used to have a friend and we always shared the same guys cant understand what the problem is

I believe there are more than enough men on here so we dont have to share

"
This was at clubs. I dont discuss who im chatting to on here with anyone else its noone elses business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t really have friends on here. Obviously there are people who I talk to / would like to meet up with.

However, I don’t think stopping someone is a good thing. This place can be cliquey enough at the best of times! "

friends though are people you have met

I get random friend requests

I only add people to my friend list if I have met them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope my Jenny and I do the same.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Non it's not unusual and that's a rule between you both, very reasonable. Do you want to break your own rules? Just out of interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is actually better like that and I respect that.

It comes to my knowledge that some women shit on one another in order to get men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Non it's not unusual and that's a rule between you both, very reasonable. Do you want to break your own rules? Just out of interest."

No but it would never happen. Our types are so far apart that we will never clash.

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over a year ago

"Non it's not unusual and that's a rule between you both, very reasonable. Do you want to break your own rules? Just out of interest.

No but it would never happen. Our types are so far apart that we will never clash. "

Bbbbbut but but, I thought I was both your type!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is actually better like that and I respect that.

It comes to my knowledge that some women shit on one another in order to get men.

Understatement of the year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shows you 2 have a good connection and trust each other in my eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is actually better like that and I respect that.

It comes to my knowledge that some women shit on one another in order to get men.

Understatement of the year

Didn't want to burn my bridges in case I can fuck any of those women when my balls are full and I have nobody to empty them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is actually better like that and I respect that.

It comes to my knowledge that some women shit on one another in order to get men.

Understatement of the year

I'm really not interested in falling out with anyone over cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is actually better like that and I respect that.

It comes to my knowledge that some women shit on one another in order to get men.

Understatement of the year

I'm really not interested in falling out with anyone over cock

xx"

Some would apparently

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Non it's not unusual and that's a rule between you both, very reasonable. Do you want to break your own rules? Just out of interest.

No but it would never happen. Our types are so far apart that we will never clash.

Bbbbbut but but, I thought I was both your type!

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Non it's not unusual and that's a rule between you both, very reasonable. Do you want to break your own rules? Just out of interest.

No but it would never happen. Our types are so far apart that we will never clash.

Bbbbbut but but, I thought I was both your type!

No."

I am heartbroken!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Non it's not unusual and that's a rule between you both, very reasonable. Do you want to break your own rules? Just out of interest.

No but it would never happen. Our types are so far apart that we will never clash.

Bbbbbut but but, I thought I was both your type!

No.

I am heartbroken!!

Yeah right...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Non it's not unusual and that's a rule between you both, very reasonable. Do you want to break your own rules? Just out of interest.

No but it would never happen. Our types are so far apart that we will never clash.

Bbbbbut but but, I thought I was both your type!

No.

I am heartbroken!!

Yeah right...

And devastated! Trying to glue my heart together!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Non it's not unusual and that's a rule between you both, very reasonable. Do you want to break your own rules? Just out of interest.

No but it would never happen. Our types are so far apart that we will never clash.

Bbbbbut but but, I thought I was both your type!

No.

I am heartbroken!!

Yeah right...

And devastated! Trying to glue my heart together!

You have a heart?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Non it's not unusual and that's a rule between you both, very reasonable. Do you want to break your own rules? Just out of interest.

No but it would never happen. Our types are so far apart that we will never clash.

Bbbbbut but but, I thought I was both your type!

No.

I am heartbroken!!

Yeah right...

And devastated! Trying to glue my heart together!

You have a heart?"

Yup. Would you like to see it?

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over a year ago

No.

I am heartbroken!!

Yeah right...

And devastated! Trying to glue my heart together!

You have a heart?

Yup. Would you like to see it?

Yes please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Non it's not unusual and that's a rule between you both, very reasonable. Do you want to break your own rules? Just out of interest.

No but it would never happen. Our types are so far apart that we will never clash.

Bbbbbut but but, I thought I was both your type!

No.

I am heartbroken!!

Yeah right...

And devastated! Trying to glue my heart together!

You have a heart?"

Are you blood?

Because my heart cannot survive without you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

I am heartbroken!!

Yeah right...

And devastated! Trying to glue my heart together!

You have a heart?

Yup. Would you like to see it?

Yes please

Come live in my heart, and pay no rent!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No.

I am heartbroken!!

Yeah right...

And devastated! Trying to glue my heart together!

You have a heart?

Yup. Would you like to see it?

Yes please

Come live in my heart, and pay no rent!

Need to do better Mr Flirt.. Best stick with Angelic...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a good thing to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

I am heartbroken!!

Yeah right...

And devastated! Trying to glue my heart together!

You have a heart?

Yup. Would you like to see it?

Yes please

Did it hurt?

When you fell from the sky and into my heart?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No.

I am heartbroken!!

Yeah right...

And devastated! Trying to glue my heart together!

You have a heart?

Yup. Would you like to see it?

Yes please

Did it hurt?

When you fell from the sky and into my heart?

Laughing now. Please stop...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is actually better like that and I respect that.

It comes to my knowledge that some women shit on one another in order to get men.

True story ...

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over a year ago

No.

I am heartbroken!!

Yeah right...

And devastated! Trying to glue my heart together!

You have a heart?

Yup. Would you like to see it?

Yes please

Did it hurt?

When you fell from the sky and into my heart?

Laughing now. Please stop..."

And I did!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

I am heartbroken!!

Yeah right...

And devastated! Trying to glue my heart together!

You have a heart?

Yup. Would you like to see it?

Yes please

Come live in my heart, and pay no rent!

Need to do better Mr Flirt.. Best stick with Angelic...

Are you an alien?

Cause you abducted my heart!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay. Let me going annoy someone else! I meant flirt with someone else!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Okay. Let me going annoy someone else! I meant flirt with someone else!

Have a great day

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….

I do the same girl code....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I do the same girl code....

There seems to be a few of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do the same girl code....

There seems to be a few of us

You both have a couple things in common! Cute butts and red knickers! Is that a girl code?

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over a year ago

"I do the same girl code....

There seems to be a few of us

You both have a couple things in common! Cute butts and red knickers! Is that a girl code?

Wow! Didn’t even notice that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do the same girl code....

There seems to be a few of us

You both have a couple things in common! Cute butts and red knickers! Is that a girl code?

Wow! Didn’t even notice that

What did you not notice? Red knickers or cute butts?

I have got an eye for detail!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do the same girl code....

There seems to be a few of us

You both have a couple things in common! Cute butts and red knickers! Is that a girl code?

Wow! Didn’t even notice that

By the way are you guys twins?

Because your twins look like identical twins!

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

"I don’t tend to tell other people who I am talking to or arranging to meet and I am not massively fussed who they are meeting.

But to each their own. I don’t mark territory. Seems a bit daft on a swingers site

This.

And I really don't appreciate other women behaving in a less than pleasant manner towards me if they find out that i've met the object of their affection

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over a year ago

"I don’t tend to tell other people who I am talking to or arranging to meet and I am not massively fussed who they are meeting.

But to each their own. I don’t mark territory. Seems a bit daft on a swingers site

This.

And I really don't appreciate other women behaving in a less than pleasant manner towards me if they find out that i've met the object of their affection

Did you tell them about our meeting?

Oh no! I am in trouble!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cockblock myself

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Whist it may be a swinging site, if i am friendly with a woman I wouldn't go where she was interested in going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whist it may be a swinging site, if i am friendly with a woman I wouldn't go where she was interested in going. "

Can I please have your girlfriend list? I don't want you to get in trouble because of me!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I wouldn't discuss who I'm chatting to or planning to meet with anyone else, so it's not an issue that would come up. We all do things differently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Note to self:Incandescent and Angelic eyes- not up for ffm...

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"I don’t tend to tell other people who I am talking to or arranging to meet and I am not massively fussed who they are meeting.

But to each their own. I don’t mark territory. Seems a bit daft on a swingers site

This.

And I really don't appreciate other women behaving in a less than pleasant manner towards me if they find out that i've met the object of their affection

"
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No. There’s no need for their silly behaviour. I’ve had this too. Although I’d never intentionally get in the way of a friends plans all these women achieve is embarrassing themselves and others. Gross behaviour

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By *rufinWoman
over a year ago

notts

Your life, your rules..... enjoy!"

Exactly my thoughts

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

".....

But to each their own. I don’t mark territory. Seems a bit daft on a swingers site

This.

And I really don't appreciate other women behaving in a less than pleasant manner towards me if they find out that i've met the object of their affection

It happens quite a lot. Very difficult to maintain a female friend from the site because of it. They have always fizzled out eventually.

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By *ristplay14Man
over a year ago

shire

"Are there any man friends that dont crossover on here?"

Highly unlikely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do the same girl code....

There seems to be a few of us

You both have a couple things in common! Cute butts and red knickers! Is that a girl code?

Wow! Didn’t even notice that

You changed your knickers!

I told you I have eye to detail!

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over a year ago

"I do the same girl code....

There seems to be a few of us

You both have a couple things in common! Cute butts and red knickers! Is that a girl code?

Wow! Didn’t even notice that

You changed your knickers!

I told you I have eye to detail!

No knickers sweetheart

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over a year ago

"I do the same girl code....

There seems to be a few of us

You both have a couple things in common! Cute butts and red knickers! Is that a girl code?

Wow! Didn’t even notice that

You changed your knickers!

I told you I have eye to detail!

No knickers sweetheart

I am talking about the pic!

What were you thinking?

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over a year ago

"I do the same girl code....

There seems to be a few of us

You both have a couple things in common! Cute butts and red knickers! Is that a girl code?

Wow! Didn’t even notice that

You changed your knickers!

I told you I have eye to detail!

No knickers sweetheart

I am talking about the pic!

What were you thinking?

You need a lesson in lingerie...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do the same girl code....

There seems to be a few of us

You both have a couple things in common! Cute butts and red knickers! Is that a girl code?

Wow! Didn’t even notice that

You changed your knickers!

I told you I have eye to detail!

No knickers sweetheart

I am talking about the pic!

What were you thinking?

You need a lesson in lingerie...

Do I? Where do i meet you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do the same girl code....

There seems to be a few of us

You both have a couple things in common! Cute butts and red knickers! Is that a girl code?

Wow! Didn’t even notice that

You changed your knickers!

I told you I have eye to detail!

No knickers sweetheart

I am talking about the pic!

What were you thinking?

You need a lesson in lingerie...

Taxi to Birmingham please!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Total respect, I think its rare x

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"But is it unusual?"
I positively love to share the guys I've met If they are worth it with my girlie friends. But doesnt mean how your doing it is wrong.

If my girlie friends are talking to or meeting someone I would Always run it by them and go from their reaction as to if it went further. I've benched a few guys just because a friend didnt seem to want to share. Respect is important and yea they aren't partners but if someone is already meeting someone I think its just good manners and I believe in girl code

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