FabSwingers.com forum: Need some advice

By * Willis OP Man
over a year ago

London

So me and the ex split due to her cheating on me and me finding her on here where a

She had been meeting guys. So I joined to follow her movements while I was away. That’s how I ended up here since then I’ve met on here. She is no longer on here and is with her new fella. But he’s at work when I just dropped the kids off and they disappeared upstairs shortly after she told my daughter “I still love daddy” and said to me “I miss you”

When the kids went upstairs she jokingly got on her knees and simulated oral sex.

I left as I didn’t know what the implications would be. What should I do if it happens again?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

What do you want to do if it happens again? Gut instinct?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get your dick sucked then sack her off

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By * Willis OP Man
over a year ago

London

"What do you want to do if it happens again? Gut instinct?"

Honestly I’d like to again but don’t want to cause murders. I would have tonight but it came as a shock. As she’s been on here before I think we’d end up on here as a couple

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Avoid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get your dick sucked then sack her off "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She’s a ex for a reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t know what u got till it’s gone you have to make your mind up and set ground rules you have kids do make the right choice

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By * Willis OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Don’t know what u got till it’s gone you have to make your mind up and set ground rules you have kids do make the right choice "

This is the thing, even though she did what she did she’s still my kids mum

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Sounds like you need to get together for a proper chat, do you want to get back with her, or just have sex with her?

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Sounds a bit messy to me. Adult conversation and clarity would be better!

And not involving the children. Saying that to your daughter in front of you sounds all a bit .. manipulative?! But you will know.

Ask yourself what is your gut saying?

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By * Willis OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Sounds like you need to get together for a proper chat, do you want to get back with her, or just have sex with her?"

I’m not sure tbh. I could handle meeting as a couple don’t know I could handle her creeping off to meet guys if I’m at work

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By * Willis OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Sounds a bit messy to me. Adult conversation and clarity would be better!

And not involving the children. Saying that to your daughter in front of you sounds all a bit .. manipulative?! But you will know.

Ask yourself what is your gut saying?

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"She’s a ex for a reason

100 per cent this.

Unless you like drama and want to properly fuck your kids heads up, avoid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get your dick sucked then sack her off

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Sounds like you need to get together for a proper chat, do you want to get back with her, or just have sex with her?

I’m not sure tbh. I could handle meeting as a couple don’t know I could handle her creeping off to meet guys if I’m at work

Sounds like you can't trust her, I would avoid , it could get messy.

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By *ilks xXxWoman
over a year ago

East Mids

Keep it simple and uncomplicated hunni,

Avoid such encounters ...

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"What do you want to do if it happens again? Gut instinct?

Honestly I’d like to again but don’t want to cause murders. I would have tonight but it came as a shock. As she’s been on here before I think we’d end up on here as a couple "

Look at the facts.

She’s cheated on you once already.

She’s with someone else and is acting inappropriate behind her new fella’s back.

She’s got drama written all over her.

Avoid.

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By * Willis OP Man
over a year ago

London

It’s why I walked out tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

she cheated on you

now trying to cheat on her new partner with you

leopards and spots ....

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Arrange to meet and have an ADULT conversation about behaviour around your children.

Do not get back together because you are lonely, want sex or want to score points. If you can't trust someone then you can't have peace in your relationship. Trust can be rebuilt but it takes work on both sides. Does her recent behaviour make you think she is being trustworthy to her new partner?

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By * Willis OP Man
over a year ago

London

"she cheated on you

now trying to cheat on her new partner with you

leopards and spots ....

I know but my god she’s good at playing

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"she cheated on you

now trying to cheat on her new partner with you

leopards and spots ....

I know but my god she’s good at playing

There’s a million women out there good at playing. Get out there and find them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"she cheated on you

now trying to cheat on her new partner with you

leopards and spots ....

I know but my god she’s good at playing

Think with head not cock

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"she cheated on you

now trying to cheat on her new partner with you

leopards and spots ....

I know but my god she’s good at playing

Mind games? Or do you mean sexually?

The first you can do without. The second is available elsewhere.

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By * Willis OP Man
over a year ago

London

"she cheated on you

now trying to cheat on her new partner with you

leopards and spots ....

I know but my god she’s good at playing

There’s a million women out there good at playing. Get out there and find them."

I’m trying on here

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By * Willis OP Man
over a year ago

London

"she cheated on you

now trying to cheat on her new partner with you

leopards and spots ....

I know but my god she’s good at playing

Mind games? Or do you mean sexually?

The first you can do without. The second is available elsewhere.

Sexually

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By * Willis OP Man
over a year ago

London

"she cheated on you

now trying to cheat on her new partner with you

leopards and spots ....

I know but my god she’s good at playing

Think with head not cock

I’m trying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"she cheated on you

now trying to cheat on her new partner with you

leopards and spots ....

I know but my god she’s good at playing

Mind games? Or do you mean sexually?

The first you can do without. The second is available elsewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only you can answer that OP. What does your heart say. Can you forgive forget and trust her again? Are you even prepared to try, or is it just a convenient fuck when its offered.

No one here can tell you what you should do. No one can tell you your future may be.

I have just one thought. Your kids, what are you both doing to them and their future....

I hope you find your answers....

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By * Willis OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Only you can answer that OP. What does your heart say. Can you forgive forget and trust her again? Are you even prepared to try, or is it just a convenient fuck when its offered.

No one here can tell you what you should do. No one can tell you your future may be.

I have just one thought. Your kids, what are you both doing to them and their future....

I hope you find your answers....

Thanks man. Well we ain’t fucked the kids up yet I kept my head screwed on

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By *attoodchapMan
over a year ago

Swansea

Drop kids off and leave. Sounds like you've found her out and she's not going to change that for anyone. Don't complicate it any further and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck her. You think she'd be up for doing a couples profile on here so you could use her as bait to fuck other women in couples. Win win.

Don't worry about the kids, their mum is a cheating **** and their dad cares more about getting his cock sucked than their welfare. They have the perfect family.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fuck her. You think she'd be up for doing a couples profile on here so you could use her as bait to fuck other women in couples. Win win.

Don't worry about the kids, their mum is a cheating **** and their dad cares more about getting his cock sucked than their welfare. They have the perfect family. "

I wouldn't have put it quite like this but... Yeah. Its pretty shabby behaviour and the kids seem to be an afterthought to how good she is as sucking cock and whether she might be up for playing on here. My advice is have a fucking good wank and think of something you can do that will give your kids a happy Christmas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get your dick sucked then sack her off "

My husband gives good advice. And even better head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fuck her. You think she'd be up for doing a couples profile on here so you could use her as bait to fuck other women in couples. Win win.

Don't worry about the kids, their mum is a cheating **** and their dad cares more about getting his cock sucked than their welfare. They have the perfect family. "

Harsh... doesn’t mean they’re bad parents. They’re human.

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By * Willis OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Fuck her. You think she'd be up for doing a couples profile on here so you could use her as bait to fuck other women in couples. Win win.

Don't worry about the kids, their mum is a cheating **** and their dad cares more about getting his cock sucked than their welfare. They have the perfect family. "

Jesus Christ you read this totally wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once trust has been broken it can be severed forever.

You're already concerned she'll be sneaking off to meet others.

None of that is good for your mental health, self esteem or self respect.

You've made a new life and so has she. Doesn't matter if she's the mother to your kids, that doesn't give anyone the right to mess with peoples emotions.

Better for the kids to have 2 loving homes than 1 where there's doubt, mistrust, tension and possible fallout for a second time causing them even more upheaval.

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