FabSwingers.com forum: Im bored so i messaged you....

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Rude or Not?

3 points for honesty but still a bit cheeky to tell someone you’re only contacting them cos you’ve got naff all better to do.

What say you Forumites of Fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rude or Not?

3 points for honesty but still a bit cheeky to tell someone you’re only contacting them cos you’ve got naff all better to do.

What say you Forumites of Fab? "

Totally rude, I promise not to do it again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite often get the "bored and horny" messages

That and guys suffering hangover horn!

My advice is always the same, DrDreavus says ibuprofen a want and a bacon butty!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I'm too busy fending off texts from ma mate Brother Dave and thinking about what I'm gonna have for ma dinner at the moment.

Please try again tomorrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a cracking start

Better than ‘ you’re so sexy’

Boredom is more believable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least he/she was honest

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By *Man1263Man
over a year ago

Stockport

Did it work?

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By *ulldog_71Man
over a year ago

Sedgefield

He might have mistyped and ment to say he was as stiff as a board, it's the kind of thing most of them say, or he is a dickhead. I hope I never come of like that when I message people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well being bored is usually why I go on Fab and mail someone...

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By *eddyBearBazMan
over a year ago

St Helens

"Well being bored is usually why I go on Fab and mail someone...

Oh nice to know you only chat to me cause your bored

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

There are some Fabbers who would be welcome to contact us for any reason, including boredom.

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By *ulldog_71Man
over a year ago

Sedgefield

"Well being bored is usually why I go on Fab and mail someone...

Oh nice to know you only chat to me cause your bored

xx"

Look on the bright side just think what it's like for those of us that she looks at and thinks "I'm not that bored"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do this with friends all the time

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I don't think it's that rude. I'd laugh and appreciate their honesty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well being bored is usually why I go on Fab and mail someone...

Oh nice to know you only chat to me cause your bored

Look on the bright side just think what it's like for those of us that she looks at and thinks "I'm not that bored"

Harsh.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I do this all the time to my mates

and certain fab friends

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

It’s not very flattering though is it? I’m bored so I messaged you.

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By *ulldog_71Man
over a year ago

Sedgefield

"Well being bored is usually why I go on Fab and mail someone...

Oh nice to know you only chat to me cause your bored

Look on the bright side just think what it's like for those of us that she looks at and thinks "I'm not that bored"

Harsh. "

Well at least you know how to reply if I send a message now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate this thread.. God damned message box has lit up like Xmas tree. So not funny!!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"It’s not very flattering though is it? I’m bored so I messaged you. "

I guess I won't message you when I am again.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

If they message me because they’re bored they’d better attach a cock pic. It’s the least they could do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they message me because they’re bored they’d better attach a cock pic. It’s the least they could do."

Just the 1 or from 10 different angles

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s not very flattering though is it? I’m bored so I messaged you. "

Agreed!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I hate this thread.. God damned message box has lit up like Xmas tree. So not funny!! "

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"It’s not very flattering though is it? I’m bored so I messaged you.

I guess I won't message you when I am again.

I’ve told you about that before SmellMell

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"It’s not very flattering though is it? I’m bored so I messaged you.

Agreed! "

To be fair he has probably tried the flattery thing a few times before and it got him nowhere, so he tried a whole new approach.

Everyone is different and you never know what the correct approach will be. Not fab related but I know a fair few people that are together that started with a joke, an argument, a misunderstanding. Keeps things fresh and it certainly made him stand out much more than just another questionable compliment would have done.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Well being bored is usually why I go on Fab and mail someone...

Oh nice to know you only chat to me cause your bored

xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If im bored im usually horny, so please message me lol

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By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley

"Well being bored is usually why I go on Fab and mail someone...

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ive never received any message from you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can message me anytime. I'll reply when I'm bored

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Shows laziness, and that you should be entertaining him! Dump!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"You can message me anytime. I'll reply when I'm bored

Fancy a game of Scrabble?

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By *luey manMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

I dislike people stating they are bored just to get attention. It's not our job to keep you entertained, plus if you weren't bored I'm sure you wouldn't be chatting

So yes it's rude and lazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only boring people get bored

not my job to entertain a bored adult!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't get my attention unless he fitted what I was looking for. Then he'd get my banter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s not very flattering though is it? I’m bored so I messaged you.

Agreed!

To be fair he has probably tried the flattery thing a few times before and it got him nowhere, so he tried a whole new approach.

Good way of looking at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rude or Not?

3 points for honesty but still a bit cheeky to tell someone you’re only contacting them cos you’ve got naff all better to do.

What say you Forumites of Fab? "

Isn't that why we are all on fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t hesitate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You got big tits too

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

My mother used to say if you’re bored you’re boring.

So two ways of looking at it. They’re boring or they’re doing something about it trying not to be boring!

Mrs J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't even bother responding to the message and just ignore all future messages don't even block as they may think it bothered you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of ppl see you (generally speaking) as a disposable comodity and this is how they use one.

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