FabSwingers.com forum: Why won’t some girls meet bi men?

By *iss Scherzzo OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

This is being hit on on another thread but I don’t wanna go to off topic.

This is something that I’ve wondered a lot. Why some girls refuse to meet bi guys? I personally love to see guys play together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it doesn't excite me.

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By *ewBurtonMan
over a year ago

Derby

Yes I find this also. Hopefully we will get an answer xx

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By *iss Scherzzo OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Because it doesn't excite me."

I get that you don’t wanna be involved. But you wouldn’t meet 1-1 with a bi guy?

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By *iss Scherzzo OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Yes I find this also. Hopefully we will get an answer xx"

I don’t see any guys refusing to meet bi girls so yeah I am really curious why it’s a thing the other way round x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because it doesn't excite me.

I get that you don’t wanna be involved. But you wouldn’t meet 1-1 with a bi guy? "

No. I am straight and I only meet straight men.

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By *hezuMan
over a year ago

East London

Perferances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I don’t want to see guys play together. I understand I’m in the minority on here but it’s not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because it doesn't excite me.

I get that you don’t wanna be involved. But you wouldn’t meet 1-1 with a bi guy?

No. I am straight and I only meet straight men who lie about their straightness."

What ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot won’t meet straight guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because it doesn't excite me.

I get that you don’t wanna be involved. But you wouldn’t meet 1-1 with a bi guy?

No. I am straight and I only meet straight men who lie about their straightness.

What ?! "

Do you lie about yours?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because it doesn't excite me.

I get that you don’t wanna be involved. But you wouldn’t meet 1-1 with a bi guy?

No. I am straight and I only meet straight men who lie about their straightness.

What ?!

Do you lie about yours?"

I lie about everything tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because it doesn't excite me.

I get that you don’t wanna be involved. But you wouldn’t meet 1-1 with a bi guy?

No. I am straight and I only meet straight men who lie about their straightness.

What ?! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because it doesn't excite me.

I get that you don’t wanna be involved. But you wouldn’t meet 1-1 with a bi guy?

No. I am straight and I only meet straight men who lie about their straightness.

What ?!

Do you lie about yours?

I lie about everything tbh "

Even the watermelons?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is being hit on on another thread but I don’t wanna go to off topic.

This is something that I’ve wondered a lot. Why some girls refuse to meet bi guys? I personally love to see guys play together. "
not just girls I don't meet bi guys either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here we go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because it doesn't excite me.

I get that you don’t wanna be involved. But you wouldn’t meet 1-1 with a bi guy?

No. I am straight and I only meet straight men who lie about their straightness.

What ?!

Do you lie about yours?

I lie about everything tbh

Even the watermelons?"

Not that it is true! But I lived about making it cum twice

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By *iss Scherzzo OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I think these replies are why I struggle with it. If a bi guy wants to meet you alone. Why does it matter if he plays with cock away from you? ..I hope I’m not coming across aggressive or anything. I honestly just don’t understand why it matters x

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By *iss Scherzzo OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Because I don’t want to see guys play together. I understand I’m in the minority on here but it’s not for me. "

I don’t think you’re in the minority at all. But if you meet 1-1 then you’re not seeing it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think these replies are why I struggle with it. If a bi guy wants to meet you alone. Why does it matter if he plays with cock away from you? ..I hope I’m not coming across aggressive or anything. I honestly just don’t understand why it matters x"

Yeah I get you. So many things I don’t get on here too. I tend to just think ok we’re all different and not worry too much about it and just move on and speak to people who are compatible with what I’m looking for. Best way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because I don’t want to see guys play together. I understand I’m in the minority on here but it’s not for me.

I don’t think you’re in the minority at all. But if you meet 1-1 then you’re not seeing it x"

From all the threads I’ve seen regarding this. I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The same way some think of short guys on here. Sadly in 2019 some think either makes you less of a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because I don’t want to see guys play together. I understand I’m in the minority on here but it’s not for me. "

I'll join your minority too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does not bother me if a guy is straight, bi whatever. For me it is about who he is and him being comfortable with that.

I played with bi guys in a club and being in a threesome with buli guys is as hot as hell.

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

Because women assume men who are bi will play without protection. That's the short and curlies of it.

But the reality is not one person who meets a single knows where they have been.

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

Growing up in an openly homophobic society leading to a mix of conscious or unconcious bias in the general population?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The same way some think of short guys on here. Sadly in 2019 some think either makes you less of a man

Nah I just don’t like men to be shorter than me as I’m tall. Never once have I thought oh he’s short he’s less of a man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The same way some think of short guys on here. Sadly in 2019 some think either makes you less of a man

Nah I just don’t like men to be shorter than me as I’m tall. Never once have I thought oh he’s short he’s less of a man. "

Obviously you’re not the some then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Growing up in an openly homophobic society leading to a mix of conscious or unconcious bias in the general population?"

Nope. Disagree. You like what you like. I don’t follow crowds. I decide for myself what I like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven’t had sexual contact with a man for 8 years but I am dammed for all time as a bi man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The same way some think of short guys on here. Sadly in 2019 some think either makes you less of a man

Nah I just don’t like men to be shorter than me as I’m tall. Never once have I thought oh he’s short he’s less of a man.

Obviously you’re not the some then

True x

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By *iss Scherzzo OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Because women assume men who are bi will play without protection. That's the short and curlies of it.

But the reality is not one person who meets a single knows where they have been. "

Thanks. I have thought it was a safety thing. But why would a bi guy take more risks?

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I'm going to take a wild stab in the dark here op.....

Some girls won't meet bi men because

They don't want to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Growing up in an openly homophobic society leading to a mix of conscious or unconcious bias in the general population?"

I have no problems with anyone of any sexual persuasions in life I just don't find to men together a turn on sexually at all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because women assume men who are bi will play without protection. That's the short and curlies of it.

But the reality is not one person who meets a single knows where they have been. "

Again. That never crossed my mind. Why do people assume peoples reasons? Why do they have to have a reason? Why do people even care what other people do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are looking for a logical response to an emotive issue.

But here's one for you. A lot of bi and gay men use a prophylactic named PrEP. It prevents transfer of HIV. It does for non HIV infections what the pill did for hetrosexuals. It encourages sex without protection and therefore the spread of STDs.

At the end of the day it should be a question of whether a person practices safe sex, not their sexual orientation. But there you have it. A generalization based on a generalization.

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By *iss Scherzzo OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Growing up in an openly homophobic society leading to a mix of conscious or unconcious bias in the general population?"

Ahh I dunno if it’s that cos surely it work the other way round with bi girls then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The same way some think of short guys on here. Sadly in 2019 some think either makes you less of a man

Actually I'm tall even though I've shrunk some but have no problems with height at all!

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By *iss Scherzzo OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

You are looking for a logical response to an emotive issue.

At the end of the day it should be a question of whether a person practices safe sex, not their sexual orientation. But there you have it. A generalization based on a generalization.

Ah but I base the question on you owning your own sexual health ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won’t meet bi guys. It’s just my preference. I don’t have an interest in guys who play with other guys, I’m not interested in bi women either. Tried it once but didn’t enjoy it. Everyone on here has their preferences, some like curvy, some like gym fit, short tall, tattooed, not tattooed etc ....

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

"Nope. Disagree. You like what you like. I don’t follow crowds. I decide for myself what I like. "

But what we like is on a large part based on our experiences in or formative years so would you still like what you like had you grown up in a different environment?

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By *iss Scherzzo OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I'm going to take a wild stab in the dark here op.....

Some girls won't meet bi men because

They don't want to"

Haha well yeah, I got that bit. I was just wondering why.

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

Op, it's generally the biggest risk group (see Terence Higgins Trust website) regarding sti groups. This has a carry on from the 80's aids information received that surround the generation for those aged late 30's and above.

Practicing safer sex generally is better now than then, where condoms were used primarily as contraception rather than the infection barrier it is now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Growing up in an openly homophobic society leading to a mix of conscious or unconcious bias in the general population?

Ahh I dunno if it’s that cos surely it work the other way round with bi girls then? "

Unfortunately it’s more socially acceptable for 2 women to kiss then 2 guys in public or clubs. 2 guys get it on in a club and chances are someone would not approve. 2 women and its game on lol. I’m straight but believe in equal rights.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope. Disagree. You like what you like. I don’t follow crowds. I decide for myself what I like.

But what we like is on a large part based on our experiences in or formative years so would you still like what you like had you grown up in a different environment? "

Yes I think I would. I’m bisexual so how does that make sense for me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are looking for a logical response to an emotive issue.

At the end of the day it should be a question of whether a person practices safe sex, not their sexual orientation. But there you have it. A generalization based on a generalization.

Ah but I base the question on you owning your own sexual health ... "

I do. I always use protection. Get checked regularly. I always come back clean. The NHS still won't take my blood. They will, however take the blood of someone who goes to bareback gangbangs. Or from someone who can't even rem_mber who they had sex with the night before never mind whether they used protection.

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By *iss Scherzzo OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Nope. Disagree. You like what you like. I don’t follow crowds. I decide for myself what I like.

But what we like is on a large part based on our experiences in or formative years so would you still like what you like had you grown up in a different environment?

Yes I think I would. I’m bisexual so how does that make sense for me?"

Has a guy ever refused to meet/play cos you’re bi?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Growing up in an openly homophobic society leading to a mix of conscious or unconcious bias in the general population?

Ahh I dunno if it’s that cos surely it work the other way round with bi girls then?

During the many years I attended and crewed spanking parties I very often saw women spanking women, I was spanked by a few myself. But never once did I see a man spanking a man even though I knew how common it was. The fact it was implicitly frowned on and discouraged never, ever sat right with me and was one of the reasons I withdrew from it all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Growing up in an openly homophobic society leading to a mix of conscious or unconcious bias in the general population?

Ahh I dunno if it’s that cos surely it work the other way round with bi girls then?

There are a lot of people who think bi nights at clubs are for bi women and are horrified when they see guy on guy action.

There is no need for a bi night for women. That's every night

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

"Growing up in an openly homophobic society leading to a mix of conscious or unconcious bias in the general population?

Ahh I dunno if it’s that cos surely it work the other way round with bi girls then?

Exactly this

It's almost more acceptable for two guys to fight each other than to be affectionate towards each other. The criticism usually comes from other men too

No wonder we die younger. There's no solidarity among guys

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By *iss Scherzzo OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"It does not bother me if a guy is straight, bi whatever. For me it is about who he is and him being comfortable with that.

I played with bi guys in a club and being in a threesome with buli guys is as hot as hell."

Yeah I’m with you. If I’m attracted to him I don’t care who he likes to play with. As long as play safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope. Disagree. You like what you like. I don’t follow crowds. I decide for myself what I like.

But what we like is on a large part based on our experiences in or formative years so would you still like what you like had you grown up in a different environment?

Yes I think I would. I’m bisexual so how does that make sense for me?

Has a guy ever refused to meet/play cos you’re bi? "

No. I have never met a man yet in life who is turned off by 2 women (apart from my gay friends obviously)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get that because sometime in the distant past I fleetingly engaged in sexual contact with a few men, that it would turn off a woman that doesn’t like the idea of sexual contact between men. The fact that I have had those experiences is enough to ruin the thought for her of having sex with me. It’s a mental thing.

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By *iss Scherzzo OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Growing up in an openly homophobic society leading to a mix of conscious or unconcious bias in the general population?

Ahh I dunno if it’s that cos surely it work the other way round with bi girls then?

There are a lot of people who think bi nights at clubs are for bi women and are horrified when they see guy on guy action.

There is no need for a bi night for women. That's every night

Oh I’d be far from horrified

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By *iss Scherzzo OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Nope. Disagree. You like what you like. I don’t follow crowds. I decide for myself what I like.

But what we like is on a large part based on our experiences in or formative years so would you still like what you like had you grown up in a different environment?

Yes I think I would. I’m bisexual so how does that make sense for me?

Has a guy ever refused to meet/play cos you’re bi?

No. I have never met a man yet in life who is turned off by 2 women (apart from my gay friends obviously) "

Thought not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Growing up in an openly homophobic society leading to a mix of conscious or unconcious bias in the general population?

Ahh I dunno if it’s that cos surely it work the other way round with bi girls then?

Exactly this

It's almost more acceptable for two guys to fight each other than to be affectionate towards each other. The criticism usually comes from other men too

No wonder we die younger. There's no solidarity among guys

And yet all I ever hear is "we don't need Pride, no one cares, stop going on about blah blah blah." If the swinging scene is this intolerant what hope is there elsewhere?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope. Disagree. You like what you like. I don’t follow crowds. I decide for myself what I like.

But what we like is on a large part based on our experiences in or formative years so would you still like what you like had you grown up in a different environment?

Yes I think I would. I’m bisexual so how does that make sense for me?

Has a guy ever refused to meet/play cos you’re bi?

No. I have never met a man yet in life who is turned off by 2 women (apart from my gay friends obviously) "

Although if they were it wouldn’t bother me. Id be totally be fine with it. You are what you are and if people don’t like it then they’re not for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Growing up in an openly homophobic society leading to a mix of conscious or unconcious bias in the general population?

Ahh I dunno if it’s that cos surely it work the other way round with bi girls then?

Exactly this

It's almost more acceptable for two guys to fight each other than to be affectionate towards each other. The criticism usually comes from other men too

No wonder we die younger. There's no solidarity among guys

And yet all I ever hear is "we don't need Pride, no one cares, stop going on about blah blah blah." If the swinging scene is this intolerant what hope is there elsewhere?

What do you mean by intolerant? Intolerant of what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope. Disagree. You like what you like. I don’t follow crowds. I decide for myself what I like.

But what we like is on a large part based on our experiences in or formative years so would you still like what you like had you grown up in a different environment?

Yes I think I would. I’m bisexual so how does that make sense for me?

Has a guy ever refused to meet/play cos you’re bi?

No. I have never met a man yet in life who is turned off by 2 women (apart from my gay friends obviously)

Thought not "

Indeed. I think you knew the answer to that before you asked me that question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because it doesn't excite me.

I get that you don’t wanna be involved. But you wouldn’t meet 1-1 with a bi guy?

No. I am straight and I only meet straight men."

This is why bi guys put straight on there profile x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Growing up in an openly homophobic society leading to a mix of conscious or unconcious bias in the general population?

Ahh I dunno if it’s that cos surely it work the other way round with bi girls then?

Exactly this

It's almost more acceptable for two guys to fight each other than to be affectionate towards each other. The criticism usually comes from other men too

No wonder we die younger. There's no solidarity among guys

And yet all I ever hear is "we don't need Pride, no one cares, stop going on about blah blah blah." If the swinging scene is this intolerant what hope is there elsewhere?

Some of the worst biphobia I have ever come across is from bi women on this forum. Some of the worst intolerance I have experienced as a bi man has been from gay men. You'd think....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Growing up in an openly homophobic society leading to a mix of conscious or unconcious bias in the general population?

Ahh I dunno if it’s that cos surely it work the other way round with bi girls then?

There are a lot of people who think bi nights at clubs are for bi women and are horrified when they see guy on guy action.

There is no need for a bi night for women. That's every night

Oh I’d be far from horrified

There's two bi nights in Bedfordshire this weekend. Just sayin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the women who don’t meet men assume or think ...... (not necessarily in a 1-2-1 situation)

That they are less likely to play safe with other guys as said above

That the interest or sexual focus won’t be on them as the bi guy may not have a preference to her as he’s happy with either one of the genders, and some women will perceive that as a case of ‘doesn’t matter who it is as long as I get what I want’. The woman doesn’t feel like she’s got the sex appeal she would want to have.

That watching guys get it on just isn’t a turn on.

That they would be ok with play but not actual sex between the two guys. How would they know how far the guys would go without having a convo first and then possibly backing out because they don’t find certain things a turn on.

Or that a man can do some things better than they can which could knock confidence.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Because they're jealous and want all the spunk for themselves

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By *iss Scherzzo OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Maybe the women who don’t meet men assume or think ...... (not necessarily in a 1-2-1 situation)

That they are less likely to play safe with other guys as said above

That watching guys get it on just isn’t a turn on.

Or that a man can do some things better than they can which could knock confidence. "

Surely that’s why communication is important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Growing up in an openly homophobic society leading to a mix of conscious or unconcious bias in the general population?

Ahh I dunno if it’s that cos surely it work the other way round with bi girls then?

Exactly this

It's almost more acceptable for two guys to fight each other than to be affectionate towards each other. The criticism usually comes from other men too

No wonder we die younger. There's no solidarity among guys

And yet all I ever hear is "we don't need Pride, no one cares, stop going on about blah blah blah." If the swinging scene is this intolerant what hope is there elsewhere?

Some of the worst biphobia I have ever come across is from bi women on this forum. Some of the worst intolerance I have experienced as a bi man has been from gay men. You'd think...."

Biphobia?!!!!! Wow. And this is why I try not to get involved in serious stuff on here anymore.

I’ll leave you to your playground talk

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

Because they don't want to? Would be my guess.

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By *iss Scherzzo OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Growing up in an openly homophobic society leading to a mix of conscious or unconcious bias in the general population?

Ahh I dunno if it’s that cos surely it work the other way round with bi girls then?

There are a lot of people who think bi nights at clubs are for bi women and are horrified when they see guy on guy action.

There is no need for a bi night for women. That's every night

Oh I’d be far from horrified

There's two bi nights in Bedfordshire this weekend. Just sayin

Haha too far but Thanks

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By *iss Scherzzo OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I didn’t post this to get into arguments or insults etc. I am genuinely curious. I’m guessing from the replies it’s largely down to sexual health worries ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s one of those questions we just answer. It is the way it is based on so many different things...

I love it and most of the guys I’ve been with have been bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe the women who don’t meet men assume or think ...... (not necessarily in a 1-2-1 situation)

That they are less likely to play safe with other guys as said above

That watching guys get it on just isn’t a turn on.

Or that a man can do some things better than they can which could knock confidence.

Surely that’s why communication is important "

Definitely, but maybe some don’t want to enter into that conversation if they think they may have to say no thank you at a certain point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didn’t post this to get into arguments or insults etc. I am genuinely curious. I’m guessing from the replies it’s largely down to sexual health worries .. "

Unfortunately some people can’t discuss without insulting. That’s usually when I leave. No arguing from me. I only discuss.

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By *iss Scherzzo OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I think it’s one of those questions we just answer. It is the way it is based on so many different things...

I love it and most of the guys I’ve been with have been bi."

Yeah, I personally find it a bonus ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Growing up in an openly homophobic society leading to a mix of conscious or unconcious bias in the general population?

Ahh I dunno if it’s that cos surely it work the other way round with bi girls then?

Exactly this

It's almost more acceptable for two guys to fight each other than to be affectionate towards each other. The criticism usually comes from other men too

No wonder we die younger. There's no solidarity among guys

And yet all I ever hear is "we don't need Pride, no one cares, stop going on about blah blah blah." If the swinging scene is this intolerant what hope is there elsewhere?

Some of the worst biphobia I have ever come across is from bi women on this forum. Some of the worst intolerance I have experienced as a bi man has been from gay men. You'd think....

Biphobia?!!!!! Wow. And this is why I try not to get involved in serious stuff on here anymore.

I’ll leave you to your playground talk

Playground talk? Nice. I'll take that from whence it comes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because it doesn't excite me.

I get that you don’t wanna be involved. But you wouldn’t meet 1-1 with a bi guy?

No. I am straight and I only meet straight men.

This is why bi guys put straight on there profile x"

I prefer to be honest about my bisexuality even though I don’t practise it. If a woman doesn’t want to meet me because I’m bi that’s fine by me.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Growing up in an openly homophobic society leading to a mix of conscious or unconcious bias in the general population?

Ahh I dunno if it’s that cos surely it work the other way round with bi girls then?

Exactly this

It's almost more acceptable for two guys to fight each other than to be affectionate towards each other. The criticism usually comes from other men too

No wonder we die younger. There's no solidarity among guys

And yet all I ever hear is "we don't need Pride, no one cares, stop going on about blah blah blah." If the swinging scene is this intolerant what hope is there elsewhere?

Some of the worst biphobia I have ever come across is from bi women on this forum. Some of the worst intolerance I have experienced as a bi man has been from gay men. You'd think...."

That's really very sad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe the women who don’t meet men assume or think ...... (not necessarily in a 1-2-1 situation)

That they are less likely to play safe with other guys as said above

That watching guys get it on just isn’t a turn on.

Or that a man can do some things better than they can which could knock confidence. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Growing up in an openly homophobic society leading to a mix of conscious or unconcious bias in the general population?

Ahh I dunno if it’s that cos surely it work the other way round with bi girls then?

Exactly this

It's almost more acceptable for two guys to fight each other than to be affectionate towards each other. The criticism usually comes from other men too

No wonder we die younger. There's no solidarity among guys

And yet all I ever hear is "we don't need Pride, no one cares, stop going on about blah blah blah." If the swinging scene is this intolerant what hope is there elsewhere?

Some of the worst biphobia I have ever come across is from bi women on this forum. Some of the worst intolerance I have experienced as a bi man has been from gay men. You'd think....

That's really very sad

There's still s thread on here where an expert on male bisexuality uses bi and gay interchangeably and doesn't understand the difference.

There is a psychological viewpoint that says that a bi man is essentially gay 'in the moment' that he is with another man and straight 'in the moment' when he is with a woman. I would like to see that theory postulated when a man is engaged in mmf

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By *iss Scherzzo OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Growing up in an openly homophobic society leading to a mix of conscious or unconcious bias in the general population?

Ahh I dunno if it’s that cos surely it work the other way round with bi girls then?

Exactly this

It's almost more acceptable for two guys to fight each other than to be affectionate towards each other. The criticism usually comes from other men too

No wonder we die younger. There's no solidarity among guys

And yet all I ever hear is "we don't need Pride, no one cares, stop going on about blah blah blah." If the swinging scene is this intolerant what hope is there elsewhere?

Some of the worst biphobia I have ever come across is from bi women on this forum. Some of the worst intolerance I have experienced as a bi man has been from gay men. You'd think....

That's really very sad

There's still s thread on here where an expert on male bisexuality uses bi and gay interchangeably and doesn't understand the difference.

Ha erm. What now?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And yet all I ever hear is "we don't need Pride, no one cares, stop going on about blah blah blah." If the swinging scene is this intolerant what hope is there elsewhere?

What do you mean by intolerant? Intolerant of what?"

I was referring to the posts about people being horrified by men playing together on bi nights. I wasn't suggesting that anyone's preference about meeting people is intolerance. I don't think that and even if I did I wouldn't say it.

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

"Nope. Disagree. You like what you like. I don’t follow crowds. I decide for myself what I like.

But what we like is on a large part based on our experiences in or formative years so would you still like what you like had you grown up in a different environment?

Yes I think I would. I’m bisexual so how does that make sense for me?"

But in late 20th century Britain you would have experienced very different set of reactions to female and male homophobia so your being bi doesn't really work as an argument against formative experiences. Lets face it, at least publicly female homosexuality was often fetishised and whilst it was frequently treated as a oddity it was at least sometimes shown in the media in either a neutral or semi positive light. The same can hardly be said for male homosexuality really until the 21st century.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its horses for courses.....if it's their thing then that's perfectly fine with me, but watching bi guys doesn't flick my switch no does playing 1 on 1 with a bi guy, it's nothing personal just not my thing.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"The same way some think of short guys on here. Sadly in 2019 some think either makes you less of a man

Nah I just don’t like men to be shorter than me as I’m tall. Never once have I thought oh he’s short he’s less of a man. "

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

Is this like a sexual Schrodinger's cat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But hey. Every cloud has a silver lining. At least I can use the excuse when a woman isn’t interested in me that, it’s because I’m bi.

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

"But hey. Every cloud has a silver lining. At least I can use the excuse when a woman isn’t interested in me that, it’s because I’m bi.

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to my mind it's Thier loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this like a sexual Schrodinger's cat?

I think a man who is giving oral sex to a woman whilst receiving anal from another man is undeniable proof that bisexual men are just that. Bisexual. Not Jekyll and Hyde schizophrenics who are hetrosexual one moment and homosexual the next.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But hey. Every cloud has a silver lining. At least I can use the excuse when a woman isn’t interested in me that, it’s because I’m bi.

to my mind it's Thier loss

I don't have enough time to get around to the women who think bisexual men are hot, never mind the ambivalent and the opposed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Preference I guess.

Personally it doesn't bother me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Growing up in an openly homophobic society leading to a mix of conscious or unconcious bias in the general population?

Ahh I dunno if it’s that cos surely it work the other way round with bi girls then?

Exactly this

It's almost more acceptable for two guys to fight each other than to be affectionate towards each other. The criticism usually comes from other men too

No wonder we die younger. There's no solidarity among guys

And yet all I ever hear is "we don't need Pride, no one cares, stop going on about blah blah blah." If the swinging scene is this intolerant what hope is there elsewhere?

Some of the worst biphobia I have ever come across is from bi women on this forum. Some of the worst intolerance I have experienced as a bi man has been from gay men. You'd think....

That's really very sad

There's still s thread on here where an expert on male bisexuality uses bi and gay interchangeably and doesn't understand the difference.

Ha erm. What now?!? "

Townhouse has a bi night

If you ever meet the owners ask them to tell you the story about how they got someone complaining about two men engaging in oral sex..... on a bi night...

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"Growing up in an openly homophobic society leading to a mix of conscious or unconcious bias in the general population?

Ahh I dunno if it’s that cos surely it work the other way round with bi girls then?

Exactly this

It's almost more acceptable for two guys to fight each other than to be affectionate towards each other. The criticism usually comes from other men too

No wonder we die younger. There's no solidarity among guys

And yet all I ever hear is "we don't need Pride, no one cares, stop going on about blah blah blah." If the swinging scene is this intolerant what hope is there elsewhere?

Some of the worst biphobia I have ever come across is from bi women on this forum. Some of the worst intolerance I have experienced as a bi man has been from gay men. You'd think....

That's really very sad

There's still s thread on here where an expert on male bisexuality uses bi and gay interchangeably and doesn't understand the difference.

Ha erm. What now?!?

Townhouse has a bi night

If you ever meet the owners ask them to tell you the story about how they got someone complaining about two men engaging in oral sex..... on a bi night...

...lawd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi-phobia

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

This has been done to death!

Are we any nearer reaching a conclusion?

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"This has been done to death!

Are we any nearer reaching a conclusion? "

...I thought this was the Sexting thread, then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This has been done to death!

Are we any nearer reaching a conclusion? "

Yeah if we don’t meet bi men we’re bi phobic. Fab has spoken. Do not argue with fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This has been done to death!

Are we any nearer reaching a conclusion? "

True. Let's do an original thread like single men at clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When was your last sexual health test? They always ask if you've been with a bi guy or are likely to. If you answer yes or maybe then they offer you a course of hepatitis jabs, as statistics say that bi guys are more likely to contract it.

This could be a worry to many people.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Growing up in an openly homophobic society leading to a mix of conscious or unconcious bias in the general population?

Ahh I dunno if it’s that cos surely it work the other way round with bi girls then?

Exactly this

It's almost more acceptable for two guys to fight each other than to be affectionate towards each other. The criticism usually comes from other men too

No wonder we die younger. There's no solidarity among guys

And yet all I ever hear is "we don't need Pride, no one cares, stop going on about blah blah blah." If the swinging scene is this intolerant what hope is there elsewhere?

Some of the worst biphobia I have ever come across is from bi women on this forum. Some of the worst intolerance I have experienced as a bi man has been from gay men. You'd think....

That's really very sad

There's still s thread on here where an expert on male bisexuality uses bi and gay interchangeably and doesn't understand the difference.

Ha erm. What now?!?

Townhouse has a bi night

If you ever meet the owners ask them to tell you the story about how they got someone complaining about two men engaging in oral sex..... on a bi night...

Complaints about bisexuality on a bi night!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Growing up in an openly homophobic society leading to a mix of conscious or unconcious bias in the general population?

Ahh I dunno if it’s that cos surely it work the other way round with bi girls then?

Exactly this

It's almost more acceptable for two guys to fight each other than to be affectionate towards each other. The criticism usually comes from other men too

No wonder we die younger. There's no solidarity among guys

And yet all I ever hear is "we don't need Pride, no one cares, stop going on about blah blah blah." If the swinging scene is this intolerant what hope is there elsewhere?

Some of the worst biphobia I have ever come across is from bi women on this forum. Some of the worst intolerance I have experienced as a bi man has been from gay men. You'd think....

That's really very sad

There's still s thread on here where an expert on male bisexuality uses bi and gay interchangeably and doesn't understand the difference.

Ha erm. What now?!?

Townhouse has a bi night

If you ever meet the owners ask them to tell you the story about how they got someone complaining about two men engaging in oral sex..... on a bi night...

Complaints about bisexuality on a bi night!

To some people bisexual means girl on girl. That's according to a post from the Townhouse Club owners on a thread like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This could be a worry to many people.

Yes that is a damning statistic. You know the saying there are lies, damed lies, and statistics. The reason why higher risk groups don't have a checkbox.

In an independent Netherlands study they found that the highest risk group was female swingers. Does NHS have a checkbox for female swingers? No. So it's hardly surprising that they aren't on the high risk list.

I can't invision a trend on fab with people refusing to meet single swingers.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe the women who don’t meet men assume or think ...... (not necessarily in a 1-2-1 situation)

That they are less likely to play safe with other guys as said above

That watching guys get it on just isn’t a turn on.

Or that a man can do some things better than they can which could knock confidence. "

This is probably all the reasons I would think of too.

But more fool them, I love bi men.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"This is being hit on on another thread but I don’t wanna go to off topic.

This is something that I’ve wondered a lot. Why some girls refuse to meet bi guys? I personally love to see guys play together. "

I do and have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This could be a worry to many people.

https://www.cbsnews.com/news/sexual-disease-risk-higher-for-swingers-than-prostitutes-dutch-study/

"Female swingers had higher rates than their male counterparts, and swingers over 45 were more likely to have an STD than those under 45."

What now!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to know -

Women who won’t meet bi men... riddle me this:

You log off fab, enter the real world, and pull a gorgeous looking bloke down the local pub (yeah, highly theoretical, I know) .. you fuck him and he is AMAZING in bed. You meet a couple more times, and eventually he tells you that he’s also had sex with men.

What then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This could be a worry to many people.

https://www.cbsnews.com/news/sexual-disease-risk-higher-for-swingers-than-prostitutes-dutch-study/

"Female swingers had higher rates than their male counterparts, and swingers over 45 were more likely to have an STD than those under 45."

What now!!!

Great statistic, thanks for adding thing. I’m sure it’ll be foof for thought, for many of the posters on this thread.

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

I don’t think anyone can help who/what they find attractive. It just is what it is.

I’m not in the least bit homophobic but play between 2 men doesn’t arouse me. And I don’t know why I’m not attracted to bi men, but I’m not. It’s nothing to do with risk for me, it’s about attraction.

It’s ok for us all to like what we like isn’t it?

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By *iss Scherzzo OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I want to know -

Women who won’t meet bi men... riddle me this:

What then?"

This!! Awaiting response..

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By *iss Scherzzo OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

This could be a worry to many people.

I’m fully aware of the statistics (and fully jabbed) .... I have considered this could be a factor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t think anyone can help who/what they find attractive. It just is what it is.

It’s ok for us all to like what we like isn’t it? "

Of course it is. But the point is that bi men don't only engage in mmf threesomes.

We're talking about a one on one situation where the male concerned is no different from any other except that he has had sexual experiences with other men prior to meeting you.

You don't have to find guy on guy erotic. It's whether a persons previous sexual encounters matter.

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By *iss Scherzzo OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I don’t think anyone can help who/what they find attractive. It just is what it is.

It’s ok for us all to like what we like isn’t it? "

Of course. Attraction is key for me too. But I’m not put off cos someone has played with another gender. If someone is hot then they are hot.

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By *iss Scherzzo OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

This could be a worry to many people.

Yes that is a damning statistic. You know the saying there are lies, damed lies, and statistics. The reason why higher risk groups don't have a checkbox.

I can't invision a trend on fab with people refusing to meet single swingers.....

Yeah. surely Swingers male & female are at higher risk than folk who don’t swing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I want to know -

Women who won’t meet bi men... riddle me this:

What then?

This!! Awaiting response.."

I got fabbing this persons absolutely mouthwateringly tantalising bottom and am now unable to think straight. Gosh

let me know what happens. I'm perving bigtime!!!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I didn’t post this to get into arguments or insults etc. I am genuinely curious. I’m guessing from the replies it’s largely down to sexual health worries .. "

Oh dear, you must have a big can opener

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never used to entertain bi men until I had a conversation with my friend (a bi guy) who made me think what was the reason I didnt, it was the thought of 2 men being sexual together that I didnt like.

But tbh if a guy shags a different girl or guy every night of the week it's not of my business as long as they're respectful and play safe I no longer have an issue with it.

I wouldn't be happy if a guy didnt want to meet me because I'm bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This could be a worry to many people.

Yes that is a damning statistic. You know the saying there are lies, damed lies, and statistics. The reason why higher risk groups don't have a checkbox.

I can't invision a trend on fab with people refusing to meet single swingers.....

Yeah. surely Swingers male & female are at higher risk than folk who don’t swing "

That's where the skewed stat comes from. Bisexual males are more likely to swing than straight males. Swingers have higher likelihood of STDs. Ergo. Bisexual males have higher incidence of STDs.

It's really that simple.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

This could be a worry to many people.

Yes that is a damning statistic. You know the saying there are lies, damed lies, and statistics. The reason why higher risk groups don't have a checkbox.

I can't invision a trend on fab with people refusing to meet single swingers.....

Yeah. surely Swingers male & female are at higher risk than folk who don’t swing "

When will people 'get it' that it has little to do with who you go with male or female,or how many partners you have of either gender, it is about what you do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didn’t post this to get into arguments or insults etc. I am genuinely curious. I’m guessing from the replies it’s largely down to sexual health worries ..

Oh dear, you must have a big can opener

Ace! Where's your clock?

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

"I don’t think anyone can help who/what they find attractive. It just is what it is.

It’s ok for us all to like what we like isn’t it?

Of course. Attraction is key for me too. But I’m not put off cos someone has played with another gender. If someone is hot then they are hot. "

But if someone is put off, then that’s ok too isn’t it? It’s like me saying that I’m attracted to black men and I don’t understand why others aren’t. Or the fact I don’t like smokers. We all just like what we like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it is called personal preference. I wouldn't lose my sleep over it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I want to know -

Women who won’t meet bi men... riddle me this:

What then?

This!! Awaiting response..

I got fabbing this persons absolutely mouthwateringly tantalising bottom and am now unable to think straight. Gosh

let me know what happens. I'm perving bigtime!!!

That’s okay, I don’t need my men to think straight

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By *iss Scherzzo OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I want to know -

Women who won’t meet bi men... riddle me this:

What then?

This!! Awaiting response..

I got fabbing this persons absolutely mouthwateringly tantalising bottom and am now unable to think straight. Gosh

let me know what happens. I'm perving bigtime!!!

Being unable to think “straight” is very on topic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This could be a worry to many people.

https://www.cbsnews.com/news/sexual-disease-risk-higher-for-swingers-than-prostitutes-dutch-study/

"Female swingers had higher rates than their male counterparts, and swingers over 45 were more likely to have an STD than those under 45."

What now!!!

Great statistic, thanks for adding thing. I’m sure it’ll be foof for thought, for many of the posters on this thread."

All I can say is

I don't mean to objectify you but I really love your pics. I've completely lost my train of thought....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t think anyone can help who/what they find attractive. It just is what it is.

It’s ok for us all to like what we like isn’t it?

Of course. Attraction is key for me too. But I’m not put off cos someone has played with another gender. If someone is hot then they are hot.

Someone being bisexual isn't really the same as someone being black lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But hey. Every cloud has a silver lining. At least I can use the excuse when a woman isn’t interested in me that, it’s because I’m bi.

to my mind it's Thier loss

I don't have enough time to get around to the women who think bisexual men are hot, never mind the ambivalent and the opposed.

Sadly not all bisexual men are considered hot by those who are into them though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I can say is

I don't mean to objectify you but I really love your pics. I've completely lost my train of thought....

That’s alright, I’m quite partial to some objectification.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I want to know -

Women who won’t meet bi men... riddle me this:

What then?

This!! Awaiting response..

I got fabbing this persons absolutely mouthwateringly tantalising bottom and am now unable to think straight. Gosh

let me know what happens. I'm perving bigtime!!!

Being unable to think “straight” is very on topic

Touchè! Love it!

When I see pics like that I start to question my own bisexuality. I don't look at pics of guys and think OMG I think I'm in love. But phew. I am genuinely moved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t think anyone can help who/what they find attractive. It just is what it is.

It’s ok for us all to like what we like isn’t it?

Of course. Attraction is key for me too. But I’m not put off cos someone has played with another gender. If someone is hot then they are hot.

Someone being bisexual isn't really the same as someone being black lol "

Ain’t you born that way? Bi or black,white,asian

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By *iss Scherzzo OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I don’t think anyone can help who/what they find attractive. It just is what it is.

It’s ok for us all to like what we like isn’t it?

Of course. Attraction is key for me too. But I’m not put off cos someone has played with another gender. If someone is hot then they are hot.

Someone being bisexual isn't really the same as someone being black lol "

No it’s really not ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find two men playing a huge turn off it does nothing for me and I don’t want to play with a man that plays with men it’s not anything nasty and I’ve met some lovely Bi guys but I just really don’t want to it’s my preference x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really don’t see how being black is the same as being bi.

You can see that someone is black. You can’t see bisexuality. Unless he’s got a dick in his mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I can say is

I don't mean to objectify you but I really love your pics. I've completely lost my train of thought....

That’s alright, I’m quite partial to some objectification."

In my defence you are very gifted. I'm usually quite restrained but I do allow myself a once a year outburst of unadulterated lust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I can say is

I don't mean to objectify you but I really love your pics. I've completely lost my train of thought....

That’s alright, I’m quite partial to some objectification.

In my defence you are very gifted. I'm usually quite restrained but I do allow myself a once a year outburst of unadulterated lust

I’m honoured x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t think anyone can help who/what they find attractive. It just is what it is.

It’s ok for us all to like what we like isn’t it?

Of course. Attraction is key for me too. But I’m not put off cos someone has played with another gender. If someone is hot then they are hot.

Someone being bisexual isn't really the same as someone being black lol

Ain’t you born that way? Bi or black,white,asian"

It's not the same.

A man can walk down the road and people not know hes bi or not.

A black person can not walk down the road without people knowing they're black

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really don’t see how being black is the same as being bi.

You can see that someone is black. You can’t see bisexuality. Unless he’s got a dick in his mouth

She was trying to make the point that everyone as preferences. 99% on here don’t wanna meet short guys. I’m short. I can’t do anything about that. Do I question people’s preferences. No. Just accept it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I want to know -

Women who won’t meet bi men... riddle me this:

What then?

This!! Awaiting response..

I got fabbing this persons absolutely mouthwateringly tantalising bottom and am now unable to think straight. Gosh

let me know what happens. I'm perving bigtime!!!

That’s okay, I don’t need my men to think straight

What if their cock has a 45 degree angle and not straight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really don’t see how being black is the same as being bi.

You can see that someone is black. You can’t see bisexuality. Unless he’s got a dick in his mouth

Now the short comparison is being made

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The same way some think of short guys on here. Sadly in 2019 some think either makes you less of a man

This kills me, that men think this way. For me, a man who is secure enough in his masculinity to explore his sexuality is a really sexy thing. To me it makes him more of a man not less.

But that isn't to say that 100% straight men or even men who would like to explore but can't bring themselves to are any less of a man. I don't think anything sexual makes you less of a man. Being mean or abusive or deceitful make you less of a person whatever sex you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really don’t see how being black is the same as being bi.

You can see that someone is black. You can’t see bisexuality. Unless he’s got a dick in his mouth

Now the short comparison is being made

What’s this. Gang up time? Let the sheep follow

. You can hit the reply and quote box like you did regarding the black comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men are ten a penny so any excuse to cut the numbers down. Bi, short, Ginger. people will use any excuse to find the perfect guy for them. And let’s face it. It’s not hard to find a guy just right on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really don’t see how being black is the same as being bi.

You can see that someone is black. You can’t see bisexuality. Unless he’s got a dick in his mouth

Now the short comparison is being made

What’s this. Gang up time? Let the sheep follow

. You can hit the reply and quote box like you did regarding the black comment

No one ganging up, was just waiting for you to derail the topic complaining about your height like you usually do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The same way some think of short guys on here. Sadly in 2019 some think either makes you less of a man

This kills me, that men think this way. For me, a man who is secure enough in his masculinity to explore his sexuality is a really sexy thing. To me it makes him more of a man not less.

Read some of the profiles on fab then see if comments like that kill you then. Even had it on the forums in the last before about short guys. From women and guys. And for the record I’m fine in my skin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really don’t see how being black is the same as being bi.

You can see that someone is black. You can’t see bisexuality. Unless he’s got a dick in his mouth

I agree with you. However there is a different between discriminating (and I mean that in the traditional use of the word) between someone on their characteristics and doing it on their own tastes.

For example. I don't like racists. But I could meet someone without immediately knowing that. Have sex with that person. Say goodbye and be none the wiser. Physical characteristics are immediately apparent. Personality is often apparent after a short conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The same way some think of short guys on here. Sadly in 2019 some think either makes you less of a man

This kills me, that men think this way. For me, a man who is secure enough in his masculinity to explore his sexuality is a really sexy thing. To me it makes him more of a man not less.

No i didn't mean kills me in that way. I meant it makes me sad. I wasn't mocking anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really don’t see how being black is the same as being bi.

You can see that someone is black. You can’t see bisexuality. Unless he’s got a dick in his mouth

Now the short comparison is being made

What’s this. Gang up time? Let the sheep follow

. You can hit the reply and quote box like you did regarding the black comment

No one ganging up, was just waiting for you to derail the topic complaining about your height like you usually do

I’m fine with my height thanks. Not my problem if others have issues with it. You should apply the same logic to guys with skin colour fetishes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one has to have sex with anyone they don’t want to. It’s simple as that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really don’t see how being black is the same as being bi.

You can see that someone is black. You can’t see bisexuality. Unless he’s got a dick in his mouth

Now the short comparison is being made

What’s this. Gang up time? Let the sheep follow

. You can hit the reply and quote box like you did regarding the black comment

No one ganging up, was just waiting for you to derail the topic complaining about your height like you usually do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really don’t see how being black is the same as being bi.

You can see that someone is black. You can’t see bisexuality. Unless he’s got a dick in his mouth

I agree with you. However there is a different between discriminating (and I mean that in the traditional use of the word) between someone on their characteristics and doing it on their own tastes.

Exactly

You could meet the man of your dreams, fall in love with him and find out hes bi, what then? Throw him in the bin?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The same way some think of short guys on here. Sadly in 2019 some think either makes you less of a man

This kills me, that men think this way. For me, a man who is secure enough in his masculinity to explore his sexuality is a really sexy thing. To me it makes him more of a man not less.

No i didn't mean kills me in that way. I meant it makes me sad. I wasn't mocking anything. "

My apologies. It’s hard to interact over text on the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really don’t see how being black is the same as being bi.

You can see that someone is black. You can’t see bisexuality. Unless he’s got a dick in his mouth

Now the short comparison is being made

What’s this. Gang up time? Let the sheep follow

. You can hit the reply and quote box like you did regarding the black comment

No one ganging up, was just waiting for you to derail the topic complaining about your height like you usually do

I’m fine with my height thanks. Not my problem if others have issues with it. You should apply the same logic to guys with skin colour fetishes

People messaging me being borderline racist because they have a fetish about black people isn't the same as not finding a short guy attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really don’t see how being black is the same as being bi.

You can see that someone is black. You can’t see bisexuality. Unless he’s got a dick in his mouth

Now the short comparison is being made

What’s this. Gang up time? Let the sheep follow

. You can hit the reply and quote box like you did regarding the black comment

No one ganging up, was just waiting for you to derail the topic complaining about your height like you usually do

I’m fine with my height thanks. Not my problem if others have issues with it. You should apply the same logic to guys with skin colour fetishes

You're not short. You're the same height as me

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

"Because it doesn't excite me.

I get that you don’t wanna be involved. But you wouldn’t meet 1-1 with a bi guy?

No. I am straight and I only meet straight men.

This is why bi guys put straight on there profile x

I prefer to be honest about my bisexuality even though I don’t practise it. If a woman doesn’t want to meet me because I’m bi that’s fine by me."

Very grown up of you.

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By *iss Scherzzo OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Being black (or any colour), or being short (or tall) or ginger etc isn’t the same as the original question. These are all physical.. and taste varies. You don’t know someone is bi unless they choose to tell you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being black (or any colour), or being short (or tall) or ginger etc isn’t the same as the original question. These are all physical.. and taste varies. You don’t know someone is bi unless they choose to tell you. "

Agreed so not even sure why they both brought up

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By *iss Scherzzo OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Agreed so not even sure why they both brought up

Yeah I don’t know. It’s not really a comparison

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really don’t see how being black is the same as being bi.

You can see that someone is black. You can’t see bisexuality. Unless he’s got a dick in his mouth

Now the short comparison is being made

What’s this. Gang up time? Let the sheep follow

. You can hit the reply and quote box like you did regarding the black comment

No one ganging up, was just waiting for you to derail the topic complaining about your height like you usually do

I’m fine with my height thanks. Not my problem if others have issues with it. You should apply the same logic to guys with skin colour fetishes

People messaging me being borderline racist because they have a fetish about black people isn't the same as not finding a short guy attractive "

Report the messages then if they are being racist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People I am gutted. My mojo destroyed!

I am old, bald and bisexual. So many reasons not to find me attractive

Now I find out that short people are unattractive too!!!!

I will obviously never ever get laid!

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By *iss Scherzzo OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"People I am gutted. My mojo destroyed!

I am old, bald and bisexual. So many reasons not to find me attractive

Now I find out that short people are unattractive too!!!!

I will obviously never ever get laid!

Hahaha. Poor guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really don’t see how being black is the same as being bi.

You can see that someone is black. You can’t see bisexuality. Unless he’s got a dick in his mouth

Now the short comparison is being made

What’s this. Gang up time? Let the sheep follow

. You can hit the reply and quote box like you did regarding the black comment

No one ganging up, was just waiting for you to derail the topic complaining about your height like you usually do

I’m fine with my height thanks. Not my problem if others have issues with it. You should apply the same logic to guys with skin colour fetishes

People messaging me being borderline racist because they have a fetish about black people isn't the same as not finding a short guy attractive

Report the messages then if they are being racist.

Who says I dont?

If I want to post on a race related topic about race I can.

Slight difference between trying to make unrelated topics about height all the while and doing woe is me because certain women wont meet you based on your height.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People I am gutted. My mojo destroyed!

I am old, bald and bisexual. So many reasons not to find me attractive

Now I find out that short people are unattractive too!!!!

I will obviously never ever get laid!

No one has said short people are unattractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people choose not to meet a black person, white, Asian. Tall, short. Ginger, bald. Straight,tv,bi,gay or lesbian then that’s there preference. Why question people’s preferences? That’s the comparison

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By *iss Scherzzo OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"People I am gutted. My mojo destroyed!

I am old, bald and bisexual. So many reasons not to find me attractive

Now I find out that short people are unattractive too!!!!

I will obviously never ever get laid!

No one has said short people are unattractive "

I think there may be a “short” guy who is a little insecure about it tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People I am gutted. My mojo destroyed!

I am old, bald and bisexual. So many reasons not to find me attractive

Now I find out that short people are unattractive too!!!!

I will obviously never ever get laid!

No one has said short people are unattractive

I think there may be a “short” guy who is a little insecure about it tho

Lmao

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By *iss Scherzzo OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Wow! Well I guess I did expect a healthy debate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really don’t see how being black is the same as being bi.

You can see that someone is black. You can’t see bisexuality. Unless he’s got a dick in his mouth

Now the short comparison is being made

What’s this. Gang up time? Let the sheep follow

. You can hit the reply and quote box like you did regarding the black comment

No one ganging up, was just waiting for you to derail the topic complaining about your height like you usually do

I’m fine with my height thanks. Not my problem if others have issues with it. You should apply the same logic to guys with skin colour fetishes

People messaging me being borderline racist because they have a fetish about black people isn't the same as not finding a short guy attractive

Report the messages then if they are being racist.

Who says I dont?

If I want to post on a race related topic about race I can.

Slight difference between trying to make unrelated topics about height all the while and doing woe is me because certain women wont meet you based on your height."

Woe is me I do fine thank you. Just putting my point across. As above. I can’t help it if my opinion differs to others on a topic.

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By *iss Scherzzo OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Really don’t see how being black is the same as being bi.

You can see that someone is black. You can’t see bisexuality. Unless he’s got a dick in his mouth

Now the short comparison is being made

What’s this. Gang up time? Let the sheep follow

. You can hit the reply and quote box like you did regarding the black comment

No one ganging up, was just waiting for you to derail the topic complaining about your height like you usually do

I’m fine with my height thanks. Not my problem if others have issues with it. You should apply the same logic to guys with skin colour fetishes

People messaging me being borderline racist because they have a fetish about black people isn't the same as not finding a short guy attractive

Report the messages then if they are being racist.

Who says I dont?

If I want to post on a race related topic about race I can.

Slight difference between trying to make unrelated topics about height all the while and doing woe is me because certain women wont meet you based on your height.

Woe is me I do fine thank you. Just putting my point across. As above. I can’t help it if my opinion differs to others on a topic. "

I guess the point is that wasn’t the topic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People I am gutted. My mojo destroyed!

I am old, bald and bisexual. So many reasons not to find me attractive

Now I find out that short people are unattractive too!!!!

I will obviously never ever get laid!

No one has said short people are unattractive

I think there may be a “short” guy who is a little insecure about it tho

Think that comment says a lot about you. I could be petty and mention something about you but I’m better then that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really don’t see how being black is the same as being bi.

You can see that someone is black. You can’t see bisexuality. Unless he’s got a dick in his mouth

Now the short comparison is being made

What’s this. Gang up time? Let the sheep follow

. You can hit the reply and quote box like you did regarding the black comment

No one ganging up, was just waiting for you to derail the topic complaining about your height like you usually do

I’m fine with my height thanks. Not my problem if others have issues with it. You should apply the same logic to guys with skin colour fetishes

People messaging me being borderline racist because they have a fetish about black people isn't the same as not finding a short guy attractive

Report the messages then if they are being racist.

Who says I dont?

If I want to post on a race related topic about race I can.

Slight difference between trying to make unrelated topics about height all the while and doing woe is me because certain women wont meet you based on your height.

Woe is me I do fine thank you. Just putting my point across. As above. I can’t help it if my opinion differs to others on a topic.

I guess the point is that wasn’t the topic "

But I’m my opinion the topic falls under preferences. And the examples given are also people’s preferences that should be respected without having to explain themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People I am gutted. My mojo destroyed!

I am old, bald and bisexual. So many reasons not to find me attractive

Now I find out that short people are unattractive too!!!!

I will obviously never ever get laid!

No one has said short people are unattractive

I think there may be a “short” guy who is a little insecure about it tho

Think that comment says a lot about you. I could be petty and mention something about you but I’m better then that

Shes only mentioning your height because you have mentioned it (several times) your self

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People I am gutted. My mojo destroyed!

I am old, bald and bisexual. So many reasons not to find me attractive

Now I find out that short people are unattractive too!!!!

I will obviously never ever get laid!

Hahaha. Poor guy "

Wasn't expecting so many offers for sympathy sex !!! Back off ladies

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By *iss Scherzzo OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"People I am gutted. My mojo destroyed!

I am old, bald and bisexual. So many reasons not to find me attractive

Now I find out that short people are unattractive too!!!!

I will obviously never ever get laid!

No one has said short people are unattractive

I think there may be a “short” guy who is a little insecure about it tho

Think that comment says a lot about you. I could be petty and mention something about you but I’m better then that

What does it say? Mate I ain’t being funny but over and over you’ve mentioned the short issue. No one else has ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People I am gutted. My mojo destroyed!

I am old, bald and bisexual. So many reasons not to find me attractive

Now I find out that short people are unattractive too!!!!

I will obviously never ever get laid!

No one has said short people are unattractive

I think there may be a “short” guy who is a little insecure about it tho

Think that comment says a lot about you. I could be petty and mention something about you but I’m better then that

Shes only mentioning your height because you have mentioned it (several times) your self

Of course. Lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs doesn't want to go with a guy who goes with other guys. I'm straight so the thought of a bi guy near me doesn't float my boat.

We would love to filter bi males out completely but Fab doesn't give you the option unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People I am gutted. My mojo destroyed!

I am old, bald and bisexual. So many reasons not to find me attractive

Now I find out that short people are unattractive too!!!!

I will obviously never ever get laid!

No one has said short people are unattractive "

I know

I was being facetious

I get more sex than anyone else I know. And the best part is I'm usually not their "type"

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By *iss Scherzzo OP Woman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"People I am gutted. My mojo destroyed!

I am old, bald and bisexual. So many reasons not to find me attractive

Now I find out that short people are unattractive too!!!!

I will obviously never ever get laid!

No one has said short people are unattractive

I think there may be a “short” guy who is a little insecure about it tho

Think that comment says a lot about you. I could be petty and mention something about you but I’m better then that

Also while I’m at it. I married a “short” guy. And you’re pretty cute so .. don’t judge everyone the same .. it’s your defensive attitude that’s off putting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the topics on the forums, could have the answer of 'preference'.

I think some people might want more of a deeper answer of why....

Nobody is disrespecting of anybodies choice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People I am gutted. My mojo destroyed!

I am old, bald and bisexual. So many reasons not to find me attractive

Now I find out that short people are unattractive too!!!!

I will obviously never ever get laid!

No one has said short people are unattractive

I think there may be a “short” guy who is a little insecure about it tho

Think that comment says a lot about you. I could be petty and mention something about you but I’m better then that

What does it say? Mate I ain’t being funny but over and over you’ve mentioned the short issue. No one else has ... "

Like I’ve mentioned black,white,Asian,short and tall. I don’t have a issue about my height. It was a example about preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really don’t see how being black is the same as being bi.

You can see that someone is black. You can’t see bisexuality. Unless he’s got a dick in his mouth

Now the short comparison is being made

What’s this. Gang up time? Let the sheep follow

. You can hit the reply and quote box like you did regarding the black comment

No one ganging up, was just waiting for you to derail the topic complaining about your height like you usually do

I’m fine with my height thanks. Not my problem if others have issues with it. You should apply the same logic to guys with skin colour fetishes

People messaging me being borderline racist because they have a fetish about black people isn't the same as not finding a short guy attractive

Report the messages then if they are being racist.

Who says I dont?

If I want to post on a race related topic about race I can.

Slight difference between trying to make unrelated topics about height all the while and doing woe is me because certain women wont meet you based on your height.

Woe is me I do fine thank you. Just putting my point across. As above. I can’t help it if my opinion differs to others on a topic.

I guess the point is that wasn’t the topic

But I’m my opinion the topic falls under preferences. And the examples given are also people’s preferences that should be respected without having to explain themselves "

No one HAD to explain themselves.

People choose to enter the discussion.

Were we all born with our preferences? Or were we conditioned by society? Do we have a duty to challenge our own preferences? Is it going to help change in society to say “I just do”.

I think these are interesting questions.

I would argue that many more women now, than 50 years ago, will be open to sex with black or bisexual men.

What has changed in that time? Certainly not genetics. What’s changed is that there is less racism and homophobia in our society.

What I infer from that is this - whether people like to admit it or not, their “preferences” may be driven by societal conditioned homophobia (or racism, etc etc).

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