FabSwingers.com forum: What is more intimate?

By *arren and Alicia OP Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Oral sex or penetration? We have a difference views

hubby thinks penetration is more intimate where I think oral sex

What is everyone else's opinion and why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say oral sex, a nice intimate oral session , seeing the enjoyment in the ladies eyes as your looking up, makes me enjoy giving even more

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Neither is more intimate than the other in my opinion, the act of sex as a whole is intimate on some level or another

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Penetration is a natural thing to do to repopulate

Oral sex therefore is more intimate as one person is trying to please another using their mouth to facilitate their orgasm

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Kissing and cuddles as penetration oral or otherwise is simply lust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally l think oral is because it simply is tasting pure pleasure you're doing something with your lips,mouth ,tongue to taste something that's just so so beautiful and it's like anything you taste you do it with your lips ,mouth & tongue ,like l mean l'm stating the obvious here ,but if you're ever out and are asked to taste something you don't take out your cock and stick it into it to see what it tastes like ...or do you ..lol ...BUT l do also agree that there is nothing like fucking a lady just after she's had an orgasm from oral ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the situation.

With some people everything can feel really intimate. With others nothing does, it's just primal.

Personally penetration is more intimate. I'm not into doggy style so my preference is to have eye contact, that tends to raise intimacy levels for me. Though it definitely on a different level again if there's feelings involved

All that said though, it can just be raw and primal and hugely fun without feelings. Thankfully!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There just acts its the feelings that count

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By *oss and SuzieCouple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

Anal, as intimate as it gets x

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

Everyone has different views on what is intimate, to me it's the after sex cuddle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oral then you can taste your own cum on my beard

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Oral, which is why i think i very rarely cum from it unless i feel a marriage proposal in the air

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oral, which is why i think i very rarely cum from it unless i feel a marriage proposal in the air

, you make me chuckle!

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By *ove3funCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Anal, as intimate as it gets x"

Yes this x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All over body massage with hands, arms and mouth. Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both think that kissing is the most intimate thing

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By *ll-Knight-longMan
over a year ago

Derby/Notts(Long Eaton)

"All over body massage with hands, arms and mouth. Mr "

Yes a slow sensual massage not only allows you to learn about the others body & MIND it also gets the person relaxed with the anticipation of excitement to come

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Oral sex and penetration can be as intimate or as disconnected as you want them to be depending on the feelings and connection between the people involved.

In my opinion real intimacy lies in holding another person not necessarily with sexual intent, just because you love them and want to feel close to them.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Tender kissing and caressing is very intimate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oral sex or penetration? We have a difference views

hubby thinks penetration is more intimate where I think oral sex

What is everyone else's opinion and why? "
oral you smell their inner self

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By *om Bert2020Man
over a year ago

Jersey / Swansea

Oral for me as you get to feel,taste and smell your partner's organ as you play as for penetration you are just feeling it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oral sex or penetration? We have a difference views

hubby thinks penetration is more intimate where I think oral sex

What is everyone else's opinion and why? "

Going to complicate this further. I think Penetration during missionary is more intimate than oral. But doggy is less intimate than oral.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both at the same level of intimacy for me.

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

"Oral sex or penetration? We have a difference views

hubby thinks penetration is more intimate where I think oral sex

What is everyone else's opinion and why?

Going to complicate this further. I think Penetration during missionary is more intimate than oral. But doggy is less intimate than oral. "

We get you... Anything where you can look each other in the eyes is really sexy, the windows to the soul. It's also true when a mirror can facilitate this, almost, but feeling the breath of each other... Sooo sexy when we hold each other in our gaze.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mish penetration with kissing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both acts can have intimacy or not. It’s how I feel about the person I am with and how the acts then happen that creates the intimacy.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Surely the whole kit and caboodle!

The start of one should lead to the others ( in a 1:2:1 anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m going for oral and kissing. Penetration is a primal need, oral is wanting more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Penetration? The act of actually accepting someone else putting body part inside yours, or putting one of your body parts inside someone else is pretty intimate isn’t it?

To be fair I think they both are intimate equally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it has to be the eye contact or closeness of bodies either way that makes for the intimacy. So, erm I can't decide

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"There just acts its the feelings that count "

Can't believe I'm saying this but the man is spot on.

Intimate is not down to a single act, it is much more personal and inward than any thing can be.

Just looking at each other can be a huge symbol of intimacy depending on the people.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

kissing, i won't kiss on a fuck n go, but miss someone special to snog their face off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Emm is not into kissing anyone else at all she sees that as more intimate than oral ..

Shes not keen on me kissing anyone either ??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's always the eyes, that look that's shared, that thought it triggers and where it ultimately leads.

True intimacy, it's far more than just a fuck...

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

All else being equal and assuming no particular feelings for the other person, I find penetrative sex much more intimate than oral, especially in a face-to-face position. Performing oral on a man I find not very intimate at all generally. I don’t mean I don’t care about it, I usually enjoy it and I put a lot of effort into doing it well. But I can go down on a total stranger and feel nothing, when I wouldn’t let that same person have sex with me. I think it’s because I don’t have to look at them. However, as several have said, it depends on the person and with the right guy, everything is intimate. I’d also add that I find going down on a woman more intimate than going down on a man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me (belle) I would say penetration as there are not many people I've let be inside me but I've sucked plenty of cocks

Beast would probably say neither are intimate as such - cuddling and kissing and holding are intimate

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