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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do you reckon your ratio is of people you find fuckable?

I'd say mine is about 1 in 100 or more.

Over to you

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never really thought about it.. But I think my figure is lower than your's

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never really thought about it.. But I think my figure is lower than your's "

How much lower? I'm conducting a very important survey

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say 1 in 100,000,000.00

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

From the new messages I get I'd say 1 in 100 is about right

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Never thought about it in those terms and not sure I'd even like to - if I find someone attractive I find them attractive, nothing else really matters.

If you forced my arm though I'd say it's probably less than 5% and when you then factor in those that feel the same way about me, then it's probably 5% of 5%

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I thought the average bloke puked find about 1 in 30 bangable, maybe 1 in 50.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought the average bloke puked find about 1 in 30 bangable, maybe 1 in 50.

P"

I only believe in sex after marriage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never really thought about it.. But I think my figure is lower than your's

How much lower? I'm conducting a very important survey

P"

1 in 500 tbh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never thought about it in those terms and not sure I'd even like to - if I find someone attractive I find them attractive, nothing else really matters.

If you forced my arm though I'd say it's probably less than 5% and when you then factor in those that feel the same way about me, then it's probably 5% of 5% "

Not including those who want to bang you back, we're gonna assume they do, so just those you could put your willy in.

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 1:3500 for me and about 1:35000 finds me fuckable.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never really thought about it.. But I think my figure is lower than your's

How much lower? I'm conducting a very important survey

P

1 in 500 tbh"

That's quite high. Would you say you have extremely high boxes that need ticking to make you feel that way or you simply just don't find that many women attractive?

P

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I thought the average bloke would find about 1 in 30 bangable, maybe 1 in 50.

P"

Fixed it

The original typo was quite funny tho

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Never thought about it in those terms and not sure I'd even like to - if I find someone attractive I find them attractive, nothing else really matters.

If you forced my arm though I'd say it's probably less than 5% and when you then factor in those that feel the same way about me, then it's probably 5% of 5%

Not including those who want to bang you back, we're gonna assume they do, so just those you could put your willy in.

P"

As I said less than 5% probably - but it's not a scientific calculation

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" About 1:3500 for me and about 1:35000 finds me fuckable."

See I'm all freaked out coz I've been told for a bloke 1 in 5 means he has high standards.

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100 to 1. You’re all beautiful fuckers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" About 1:3500 for me and about 1:35000 finds me fuckable.

See I'm all freaked out coz I've been told for a bloke 1 in 5 means he has high standards.

P"

Nah my standards are way above that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The average male would bite your hand off for 6 or 7 in 10. That 60 or 70 in 100

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" About 1:3500 for me and about 1:35000 finds me fuckable.

See I'm all freaked out coz I've been told for a bloke 1 in 5 means he has high standards.

P

Nah my standards are way above that "

Would you say someone that found 1 in 5 women fuckable was deluding themselves by classing themselves as having high standards?

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never really thought about it.. But I think my figure is lower than your's

How much lower? I'm conducting a very important survey

P

1 in 500 tbh

That's quite high. Would you say you have extremely high boxes that need ticking to make you feel that way or you simply just don't find that many women attractive?

P"

Neither, I'm not really driven by looks, its character that attracts me, so I need to get to know the person.. My figure is high for that reason alone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The average male would bite your hand off for 6 or 7 in 10. That 60 or 70 in 100"

Yeah so what's that in thicko maths. 1 in what?

P

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Absolutely depends on where I am in my cycle

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Absolutely depends on where I am in my cycle "

Snap. And how many wines I've had

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Absolutely depends on where I am in my cycle

Snap. And how many wines I've had "

Fair. I'd say I may give someone fuckability points if my axe wound is throbbing, but then I know I'll regret it the next day so don't bother and go to bed

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay


"Absolutely depends on where I am in my cycle

Snap. And how many wines I've had "

Ha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The average male would bite your hand off for 6 or 7 in 10. That 60 or 70 in 100

Yeah so what's that in thicko maths. 1 in what?

P"

1 in1.4

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely depends on where I am in my cycle

Snap. And how many wines I've had

Fair. I'd say I may give someone fuckability points if my axe wound is throbbing, but then I know I'll regret it the next day so don't bother and go to bed

P"

So your figure would fluctuate.. Bit difficult to base reliable intel on that fact. Lol

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay


"Absolutely depends on where I am in my cycle

Snap. And how many wines I've had

Fair. I'd say I may give someone fuckability points if my axe wound is throbbing, but then I know I'll regret it the next day so don't bother and go to bed

P"

When I'm ovulating in spring I could easily take home the whole queue at the till

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"The average male would bite your hand off for 6 or 7 in 10. That 60 or 70 in 100

Yeah so what's that in thicko maths. 1 in what?

P"

6 or 7 in 10 or 60/70%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" About 1:3500 for me and about 1:35000 finds me fuckable.

See I'm all freaked out coz I've been told for a bloke 1 in 5 means he has high standards.

P

Nah my standards are way above that

Would you say someone that found 1 in 5 women fuckable was deluding themselves by classing themselves as having high standards?

P"
yes. Tart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 in 7.53 billion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 in 2. Starting with Freya.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely depends on where I am in my cycle

Snap. And how many wines I've had

Fair. I'd say I may give someone fuckability points if my axe wound is throbbing, but then I know I'll regret it the next day so don't bother and go to bed

P

When I'm ovulating in spring I could easily take home the whole queue at the till "

Remind me in spring where I need to queue

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London


"Absolutely depends on where I am in my cycle

Snap. And how many wines I've had

Fair. I'd say I may give someone fuckability points if my axe wound is throbbing, but then I know I'll regret it the next day so don't bother and go to bed

P

When I'm ovulating in spring I could easily take home the whole queue at the till "

I must arrange to be in a queue in Whitley Bay in spring!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Absolutely depends on where I am in my cycle

Snap. And how many wines I've had

Fair. I'd say I may give someone fuckability points if my axe wound is throbbing, but then I know I'll regret it the next day so don't bother and go to bed

P

So your figure would fluctuate.. Bit difficult to base reliable intel on that fact. Lol "

It would fluctuate based on the fact I know it's my vagina and alcohol talking rather than my brain. Luckily I don't drink very often.

P

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay


"1 in 2. Starting with Freya."

Mmmwah

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The average male would bite your hand off for 6 or 7 in 10. That 60 or 70 in 100

Yeah so what's that in thicko maths. 1 in what?

P

6 or 7 in 10 or 60/70% "

That's a lot of fuckability

P

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"1 in 7.53 billion"

I thought the population was 7.7 billion? So does that mean some are allowed your penis

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By *ecrets4everCouple
over a year ago

X

As a rough guess I’d say I’d consider one out of every fifty messages as a potential.

And once you’ve removed the fakes, the pretenders and the wannabes that’s not that bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1 in 2. Starting with Freya.

Mmmwah "

How is your cycle today, gorgeous?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" About 1:3500 for me and about 1:35000 finds me fuckable.

See I'm all freaked out coz I've been told for a bloke 1 in 5 means he has high standards.

P

Nah my standards are way above that

Would you say someone that found 1 in 5 women fuckable was deluding themselves by classing themselves as having high standards?

P yes. Tart"

I'm truly astounded by it.

I know I don't find many people fuckable coz my fanny has forgotten it's supposed to want the penis, but 1 in 5. I'm flabbergasted

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1 in 7.53 billion

I thought the population was 7.7 billion? So does that mean some are allowed your penis "
google says 7.53

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay


"1 in 2. Starting with Freya.

Mmmwah

How is your cycle today, gorgeous?"

Well in around 9 days the queue will be a good place to be!

Maybe all the women should update their statuses with their cycle information?

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay


"1 in 2. Starting with Freya.

Mmmwah

How is your cycle today, gorgeous?"

Slowly ramping up ..

in around 7 days the queue will be a good place to be!

Maybe all the women should update their statuses with their cycle information?

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

That 2 days went quick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1 in 2. Starting with Freya.

Mmmwah

How is your cycle today, gorgeous?

Slowly ramping up ..

in around 7 days the queue will be a good place to be!

Maybe all the women should update their statuses with their cycle information? "

Spring in 7 day's? If only!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1 in 2. Starting with Freya.

Mmmwah

How is your cycle today, gorgeous?

Slowly ramping up ..

in around 7 days the queue will be a good place to be!

Maybe all the women should update their statuses with their cycle information? "

And which supermarket they shop into

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay


"1 in 2. Starting with Freya.

Mmmwah

How is your cycle today, gorgeous?

Slowly ramping up ..

in around 7 days the queue will be a good place to be!

Maybe all the women should update their statuses with their cycle information?

And which supermarket they shop into"

That would be telling .. I prefer imagining men sniffing around the shops in Whitley Bay!

Reminds me of an early Prince song .. Scarlett Pussy. Google it..I think youll like it msr Sin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not as high as I wish it was.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Not as high as I wish it was."

I might have to lower my standards for you Lib

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you bang me peak hornyness

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Source of this question...P and I were chatting tonight and among other things it came up that most men on average have less perceived standards than women when it comes to sexual partners. Women are much more selective/fussy.

Yet women on average have lower standards than men when it comes to who they'd form a relationship with? Men are much fussier than women in this regard.

So she was interested to know what proportion of women I would find fuckable, as you do. My reply was that it would generally vary depending on the mood and setting, but at it's "most frequent" if you like would probably occur in a swinging club, say Chams on a saturday which we've attended together on occasions. I've reasoned to myself since amongst other things there were more arousing factors present to "sexually charge" me to start with, such as what was going on, the states of undress and dressing provocatively and of course the fact she was with me too and it would be a mood booster others finding her sexually attractive of course which they so often do.

Under those circumstances I'd figured I'd probably find 1 in 5 women attractive in this way and reasoned that was probably actually more selective than the average man there if I was honest. She didn't seem to think it would be, reasoning that the average man in a swinging club would be far more selective.

I imagined that a fair amount of women would be more selective yes, but not the "average guy" and didn't find that ratio of mine particularly anything to be ashamed of.

I also said that with my traditional method of long built up messages over time on here to form a connection with others who had messaged me who I found appealing, traditionally my usual method of meeting before we got together, which is where the ratios of women I found appealing to meet up and have sex with were the lower end of "fuckability proportions" the ratio probably stretched to it's maximum of 1 in 20.

I've pondered the reasons for this since, and have came to the conclusion that obviously you get to know a person far better over that extended discourse and can assess far better their intellect for example, also their appetite for kinks and just that mental connection to establish? So as such there's many factors not immediately apparent in a swinging club that could feasibly put you off them?

Incidentally those couples and ladies using their message boxes to weigh up what proportion of men they find attractive; I'm afraid that won't yield accurate results whatsoever because of the way men message. As the Neanderthals and inconsiderate fuckwits invariably blanket bomb every female/couple within a certain radius, meaning that this 15% of dickheads on site will in fact represent well over half the messages in the average inbox. Also the top 15% of men on here in terms of success hardly message anyone, because they don't need to. So basing your judgement on merely the messages you receive will make it seem like you hardly find anyone attractive at all and whilst your standards may be high, they are only exaggerated massively by this.

B

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Source of this question...P and I were chatting tonight and among other things it came up that most men on average have less perceived standards than women when it comes to sexual partners. Women are much more selective/fussy.

Yet women on average have lower standards than men when it comes to who they'd form a relationship with? Men are much fussier than women in this regard.

So she was interested to know what proportion of women I would find fuckable, as you do. My reply was that it would generally vary depending on the mood and setting, but at it's "most frequent" if you like would probably occur in a swinging club, say Chams on a saturday which we've attended together on occasions. I've reasoned to myself since amongst other things there were more arousing factors present to "sexually charge" me to start with, such as what was going on, the states of undress and dressing provocatively and of course the fact she was with me too and it would be a mood booster others finding her sexually attractive of course which they so often do.

Under those circumstances I'd figured I'd probably find 1 in 5 women attractive in this way and reasoned that was probably actually more selective than the average man there if I was honest. She didn't seem to think it would be, reasoning that the average man in a swinging club would be far more selective.

I imagined that a fair amount of women would be more selective yes, but not the "average guy" and didn't find that ratio of mine particularly anything to be ashamed of.

I also said that with my traditional method of long built up messages over time on here to form a connection with others who had messaged me who I found appealing, traditionally my usual method of meeting before we got together, which is where the ratios of women I found appealing to meet up and have sex with were the lower end of "fuckability proportions" the ratio probably stretched to it's maximum of 1 in 20.

I've pondered the reasons for this since, and have came to the conclusion that obviously you get to know a person far better over that extended discourse and can assess far better their intellect for example, also their appetite for kinks and just that mental connection to establish? So as such there's many factors not immediately apparent in a swinging club that could feasibly put you off them?

Incidentally those couples and ladies using their message boxes to weigh up what proportion of men they find attractive; I'm afraid that won't yield accurate results whatsoever because of the way men message. As the Neanderthals and inconsiderate fuckwits invariably blanket bomb every female/couple within a certain radius, meaning that this 15% of dickheads on site will in fact represent well over half the messages in the average inbox. Also the top 15% of men on here in terms of success hardly message anyone, because they don't need to. So basing your judgement on merely the messages you receive will make it seem like you hardly find anyone attractive at all and whilst your standards may be high, they are only exaggerated massively by this.

B"

In a club, I'd say my numbers are slashed drastically then. I'd put it at about 1 in 300 at least considering I have been to clubs multiple times and come home with a dry fanny and not so much as a clit twitch. There are obviously less men than women there on couples nights as single men aren't allowed whereas single women are so of course you have a wider range of women there than men.

P

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork


"What do you reckon your ratio is of people you find fuckable?

I'd say mine is about 1 in 100 or more.

Over to you

P"

Depends how many pints of lumphammer have been consumed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Source of this question...P and I were chatting tonight and among other things it came up that most men on average have less perceived standards than women when it comes to sexual partners. Women are much more selective/fussy.

Yet women on average have lower standards than men when it comes to who they'd form a relationship with? Men are much fussier than women in this regard.

So she was interested to know what proportion of women I would find fuckable, as you do. My reply was that it would generally vary depending on the mood and setting, but at it's "most frequent" if you like would probably occur in a swinging club, say Chams on a saturday which we've attended together on occasions. I've reasoned to myself since amongst other things there were more arousing factors present to "sexually charge" me to start with, such as what was going on, the states of undress and dressing provocatively and of course the fact she was with me too and it would be a mood booster others finding her sexually attractive of course which they so often do.

Under those circumstances I'd figured I'd probably find 1 in 5 women attractive in this way and reasoned that was probably actually more selective than the average man there if I was honest. She didn't seem to think it would be, reasoning that the average man in a swinging club would be far more selective.

I imagined that a fair amount of women would be more selective yes, but not the "average guy" and didn't find that ratio of mine particularly anything to be ashamed of.

I also said that with my traditional method of long built up messages over time on here to form a connection with others who had messaged me who I found appealing, traditionally my usual method of meeting before we got together, which is where the ratios of women I found appealing to meet up and have sex with were the lower end of "fuckability proportions" the ratio probably stretched to it's maximum of 1 in 20.

I've pondered the reasons for this since, and have came to the conclusion that obviously you get to know a person far better over that extended discourse and can assess far better their intellect for example, also their appetite for kinks and just that mental connection to establish? So as such there's many factors not immediately apparent in a swinging club that could feasibly put you off them?

Incidentally those couples and ladies using their message boxes to weigh up what proportion of men they find attractive; I'm afraid that won't yield accurate results whatsoever because of the way men message. As the Neanderthals and inconsiderate fuckwits invariably blanket bomb every female/couple within a certain radius, meaning that this 15% of dickheads on site will in fact represent well over half the messages in the average inbox. Also the top 15% of men on here in terms of success hardly message anyone, because they don't need to. So basing your judgement on merely the messages you receive will make it seem like you hardly find anyone attractive at all and whilst your standards may be high, they are only exaggerated massively by this.

B"

I fucking LOVE your posts!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sweet Jesus

Fuckable

Going by usual practice on here ... 1 in 450

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you reckon your ratio is of people you find fuckable?

I'd say mine is about 1 in 100 or more.

Over to you

P"

On here, 1 in every 1,000 messages.

Clubs 1 in 100 just because like B said, it's a heightened sexual situation.

Out and about, depends on location. Sometimes 1 in 10, sometimes 0 in 10,000.

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By *rallyFixated1Man
over a year ago

tipton

I must be a dog. I reckon my average is 1 in 10.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Source of this question...P and I were chatting tonight and among other things it came up that most men on average have less perceived standards than women when it comes to sexual partners. Women are much more selective/fussy.

Yet women on average have lower standards than men when it comes to who they'd form a relationship with? Men are much fussier than women in this regard.

So she was interested to know what proportion of women I would find fuckable, as you do. My reply was that it would generally vary depending on the mood and setting, but at it's "most frequent" if you like would probably occur in a swinging club, say Chams on a saturday which we've attended together on occasions. I've reasoned to myself since amongst other things there were more arousing factors present to "sexually charge" me to start with, such as what was going on, the states of undress and dressing provocatively and of course the fact she was with me too and it would be a mood booster others finding her sexually attractive of course which they so often do.

Under those circumstances I'd figured I'd probably find 1 in 5 women attractive in this way and reasoned that was probably actually more selective than the average man there if I was honest. She didn't seem to think it would be, reasoning that the average man in a swinging club would be far more selective.

I imagined that a fair amount of women would be more selective yes, but not the "average guy" and didn't find that ratio of mine particularly anything to be ashamed of.

I also said that with my traditional method of long built up messages over time on here to form a connection with others who had messaged me who I found appealing, traditionally my usual method of meeting before we got together, which is where the ratios of women I found appealing to meet up and have sex with were the lower end of "fuckability proportions" the ratio probably stretched to it's maximum of 1 in 20.

I've pondered the reasons for this since, and have came to the conclusion that obviously you get to know a person far better over that extended discourse and can assess far better their intellect for example, also their appetite for kinks and just that mental connection to establish? So as such there's many factors not immediately apparent in a swinging club that could feasibly put you off them?

Incidentally those couples and ladies using their message boxes to weigh up what proportion of men they find attractive; I'm afraid that won't yield accurate results whatsoever because of the way men message. As the Neanderthals and inconsiderate fuckwits invariably blanket bomb every female/couple within a certain radius, meaning that this 15% of dickheads on site will in fact represent well over half the messages in the average inbox. Also the top 15% of men on here in terms of success hardly message anyone, because they don't need to. So basing your judgement on merely the messages you receive will make it seem like you hardly find anyone attractive at all and whilst your standards may be high, they are only exaggerated massively by this.

B

I fucking LOVE your posts!!! "

Aw, cheers Mave!

Wait till I drop the "Why I believe the difference exists and Men will Fuck a Walrus whilst a Woman will consider Mick Philpot good Marriage material" bomb...

B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Source of this question...P and I were chatting tonight and among other things it came up that most men on average have less perceived standards than women when it comes to sexual partners. Women are much more selective/fussy.

Yet women on average have lower standards than men when it comes to who they'd form a relationship with? Men are much fussier than women in this regard.

So she was interested to know what proportion of women I would find fuckable, as you do. My reply was that it would generally vary depending on the mood and setting, but at it's "most frequent" if you like would probably occur in a swinging club, say Chams on a saturday which we've attended together on occasions. I've reasoned to myself since amongst other things there were more arousing factors present to "sexually charge" me to start with, such as what was going on, the states of undress and dressing provocatively and of course the fact she was with me too and it would be a mood booster others finding her sexually attractive of course which they so often do.

Under those circumstances I'd figured I'd probably find 1 in 5 women attractive in this way and reasoned that was probably actually more selective than the average man there if I was honest. She didn't seem to think it would be, reasoning that the average man in a swinging club would be far more selective.

I imagined that a fair amount of women would be more selective yes, but not the "average guy" and didn't find that ratio of mine particularly anything to be ashamed of.

I also said that with my traditional method of long built up messages over time on here to form a connection with others who had messaged me who I found appealing, traditionally my usual method of meeting before we got together, which is where the ratios of women I found appealing to meet up and have sex with were the lower end of "fuckability proportions" the ratio probably stretched to it's maximum of 1 in 20.

I've pondered the reasons for this since, and have came to the conclusion that obviously you get to know a person far better over that extended discourse and can assess far better their intellect for example, also their appetite for kinks and just that mental connection to establish? So as such there's many factors not immediately apparent in a swinging club that could feasibly put you off them?

Incidentally those couples and ladies using their message boxes to weigh up what proportion of men they find attractive; I'm afraid that won't yield accurate results whatsoever because of the way men message. As the Neanderthals and inconsiderate fuckwits invariably blanket bomb every female/couple within a certain radius, meaning that this 15% of dickheads on site will in fact represent well over half the messages in the average inbox. Also the top 15% of men on here in terms of success hardly message anyone, because they don't need to. So basing your judgement on merely the messages you receive will make it seem like you hardly find anyone attractive at all and whilst your standards may be high, they are only exaggerated massively by this.

B

I fucking LOVE your posts!!!

Aw, cheers Mave!

Wait till I drop the "Why I believe the difference exists and Men will Fuck a Walrus whilst a Woman will consider Mick Philpot good Marriage material" bomb...

B"

I look forward to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely depends on where I am in my cycle

Snap. And how many wines I've had "

All of this

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By *apascouseMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I’ll go like maybe 1 in 2500, I seem not be moats cup of tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a fuss pot and I'd go with 1/100

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am easy I fuck anyone who says yes

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

I've never thought of it in terms of a ratio but now I am its maybe 1 in 50.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fook knows, I'll go 1 in 25 but then those 25 could be a bus full of cheerleaders or a bus full of OAPs so I'd say my number varies greatly depending on my location

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One in ten.

Unless it's been a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am easy I fuck anyone who says yes "

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 in 5! What can I say.......I find women attractive!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Source of this question...P and I were chatting tonight and among other things it came up that most men on average have less perceived standards than women when it comes to sexual partners. Women are much more selective/fussy.

Yet women on average have lower standards than men when it comes to who they'd form a relationship with? Men are much fussier than women in this regard.

So she was interested to know what proportion of women I would find fuckable, as you do. My reply was that it would generally vary depending on the mood and setting, but at it's "most frequent" if you like would probably occur in a swinging club, say Chams on a saturday which we've attended together on occasions. I've reasoned to myself since amongst other things there were more arousing factors present to "sexually charge" me to start with, such as what was going on, the states of undress and dressing provocatively and of course the fact she was with me too and it would be a mood booster others finding her sexually attractive of course which they so often do.

Under those circumstances I'd figured I'd probably find 1 in 5 women attractive in this way and reasoned that was probably actually more selective than the average man there if I was honest. She didn't seem to think it would be, reasoning that the average man in a swinging club would be far more selective.

I imagined that a fair amount of women would be more selective yes, but not the "average guy" and didn't find that ratio of mine particularly anything to be ashamed of.

I also said that with my traditional method of long built up messages over time on here to form a connection with others who had messaged me who I found appealing, traditionally my usual method of meeting before we got together, which is where the ratios of women I found appealing to meet up and have sex with were the lower end of "fuckability proportions" the ratio probably stretched to it's maximum of 1 in 20.

I've pondered the reasons for this since, and have came to the conclusion that obviously you get to know a person far better over that extended discourse and can assess far better their intellect for example, also their appetite for kinks and just that mental connection to establish? So as such there's many factors not immediately apparent in a swinging club that could feasibly put you off them?

Incidentally those couples and ladies using their message boxes to weigh up what proportion of men they find attractive; I'm afraid that won't yield accurate results whatsoever because of the way men message. As the Neanderthals and inconsiderate fuckwits invariably blanket bomb every female/couple within a certain radius, meaning that this 15% of dickheads on site will in fact represent well over half the messages in the average inbox. Also the top 15% of men on here in terms of success hardly message anyone, because they don't need to. So basing your judgement on merely the messages you receive will make it seem like you hardly find anyone attractive at all and whilst your standards may be high, they are only exaggerated massively by this.

B

I fucking LOVE your posts!!!

Aw, cheers Mave!

Wait till I drop the "Why I believe the difference exists and Men will Fuck a Walrus whilst a Woman will consider Mick Philpot good Marriage material" bomb...

B

I look forward to it. "

I've started it on it's own thread...Just my somewhat eclectic musings and obviously tongue in cheek to an extent at least...

B

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