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By *oupleforplay2018 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Why is it so hard to find a woman for a threesome?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so hard to find a woman for a threesome? "

Try finding two

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Because most of the site are looking for the same thing. I think people have more success with this at clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is it so hard to find a couple for a threesome?

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By *oupleforplay2018 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"Why is it so hard to find a woman for a threesome?

Try finding two "

LOL

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By *oupleforplay2018 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"Why is it so hard to find a couple for a threesome? "

Where are you from?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because most of the site are looking for the same thing. I think people have more success with this at clubs. "

this

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By *oupleforplay2018 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"Because most of the site are looking for the same thing. I think people have more success with this at clubs. "

We are still new to the scene, very nervous about clubs.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Why is it so hard to find a couple for a threesome? "

Do you message them or just wait?

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so hard to find a woman for a threesome? "

A threesome is hard enough to find on here

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By *oupleforplay2018 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"Why is it so hard to find a couple for a threesome? "

Also your profile is hidden.

Just saying that would have lots to do with it I expect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's hard to find a woman full stop.

They're about though.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria


"Why is it so hard to find a woman for a threesome?

Try finding two "

Greedy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s hard for us single girls to find a couple where we are attracted to both, also find that couple profiles picture the female a lot and have hardly any photos of the Male. When you ask for further pics I think most assume you’re a fake/pic collector which is really frustrating as genuine people are getting penalised by the actual fakes etc.

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By *oupleforplay2018 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"Why is it so hard to find a couple for a threesome?

Do you message them or just wait?

S"

We do try and message. Maybe it's the approach who knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not hard. Lots of single females on fab have lady friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so hard to find a couple for a threesome?

Also your profile is hidden.

Just saying that would have lots to do with it I expect "

My profile is hidden as I’m now on a couples profile and won’t play alone.

I’m just trying to help answer your question.

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By *oupleforplay2018 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"Why is it so hard to find a couple for a threesome?

Also your profile is hidden.

Just saying that would have lots to do with it I expect

My profile is hidden as I’m now on a couples profile and won’t play alone.

I’m just trying to help answer your question. "

Even a bi fem couples are hard to come by. We are willing to entertain a foursome also

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria


"It’s hard for us single girls to find a couple where we are attracted to both, also find that couple profiles picture the female a lot and have hardly any photos of the Male. When you ask for further pics I think most assume you’re a fake/pic collector which is really frustrating as genuine people are getting penalised by the actual fakes etc.

"

Your profile is hidden which won’t help and if you think it’s hard to find attraction between three try being a couple looking for another couple, there’s four to be happy there lol

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By *oupleforplay2018 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"It’s hard for us single girls to find a couple where we are attracted to both, also find that couple profiles picture the female a lot and have hardly any photos of the Male. When you ask for further pics I think most assume you’re a fake/pic collector which is really frustrating as genuine people are getting penalised by the actual fakes etc.

Your profile is hidden which won’t help and if you think it’s hard to find attraction between three try being a couple looking for another couple, there’s four to be happy there lol"

Very difficult I'm finding..

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Why is it so hard to find a woman for a threesome?

Try finding two "

Try finding 2 ladies and a guy willing to be filmed.

Pfffft.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Why is it so hard to find a couple for a threesome? "

I’m glad someone said it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s hard for us single girls to find a couple where we are attracted to both, also find that couple profiles picture the female a lot and have hardly any photos of the Male. When you ask for further pics I think most assume you’re a fake/pic collector which is really frustrating as genuine people are getting penalised by the actual fakes etc.

Your profile is hidden which won’t help and if you think it’s hard to find attraction between three try being a couple looking for another couple, there’s four to be happy there lol"

I just posted above that I’ve hidden mine as I’m on a couples profile. I can imagine trying to find a 4 way is even harder.

It’s not easy at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so hard to find a couple for a threesome?

I’m glad someone said it!"

I’ve seen so many posts about finding a woman for a couple to be difficult and hardly any females posting to say they have struggled to find a couple. I found it very hard! And even harder to find a single female.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Why is it so hard to find a couple for a threesome?

I’m glad someone said it!

I’ve seen so many posts about finding a woman for a couple to be difficult and hardly any females posting to say they have struggled to find a couple. I found it very hard! And even harder to find a single female. "

So far the only couple I’ve got as far as a meet with is two FBs who set up a couple profile. All the others are either solo men pretending to be a couple, or a real couple who wants me to meet the male alone. It’s a pain.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

As said it’s difficult to get mutual attraction & we gave up long ago doing any meaningful searching as we are not dumb enough not to realise part of the issue for us is also our ages. Face to face though our ages don’t seem to matter so much.

Your best bet is at clubs or at least a group social where you can mingle & put the feelers out. We met someone on here after a fem friend of hers who didn’t play with couples put her in touch with us.

We would say though in all the time we’ve been here we’ve only had three meets with single women through this site yet we’ve had four meets this year alone & got a g/f through other mediums.

It’s easier elsewhere than here, which we’ve always thought a bit ironic.

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so hard to find a couple for a threesome?

I’m glad someone said it!

I’ve seen so many posts about finding a woman for a couple to be difficult and hardly any females posting to say they have struggled to find a couple. I found it very hard! And even harder to find a single female.

So far the only couple I’ve got as far as a meet with is two FBs who set up a couple profile. All the others are either solo men pretending to be a couple, or a real couple who wants me to meet the male alone. It’s a pain."

I also found that many couples had specifics which meant what I would be looking for in the meet couldn’t be met. Some focused on one in particular in the couple and not so much an equal three way which then makes a female feel like they just a toy or a treat for one of the couple. Guess it depends on what you are after or willing to do for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so hard to find a woman for a threesome? "

Women aren't stupid, they can tell when there are issues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so hard to find a woman for a threesome?

Try finding two "

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By *anacekMan
over a year ago

nantwich


"Why is it so hard to find a woman for a threesome?

Try finding two "

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Why is it so hard to find a couple for a threesome?

I’m glad someone said it!

I’ve seen so many posts about finding a woman for a couple to be difficult and hardly any females posting to say they have struggled to find a couple. I found it very hard! And even harder to find a single female.

So far the only couple I’ve got as far as a meet with is two FBs who set up a couple profile. All the others are either solo men pretending to be a couple, or a real couple who wants me to meet the male alone. It’s a pain.

I also found that many couples had specifics which meant what I would be looking for in the meet couldn’t be met. Some focused on one in particular in the couple and not so much an equal three way which then makes a female feel like they just a toy or a treat for one of the couple. Guess it depends on what you are after or willing to do for them. "

Agreed, Lots on here state “I’d love to watch my wife with another lady” or “I love to watch my hubby fucking another woman”

All well & good but why not just all play & you will get both scenarios anyway? Or is that just us being a bit simple?

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so hard to find a couple for a threesome? "

I've struggled for ages to find a couple where I'm attracted to both, it's so frustrating

And trying to find a single woman to play with is like trying to find father Christmas at Easter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so hard to find a woman for a threesome?

Try finding two

Greedy!! "

when there's a will there a way

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Why is it so hard to find a couple for a threesome?

I’m glad someone said it!

I’ve seen so many posts about finding a woman for a couple to be difficult and hardly any females posting to say they have struggled to find a couple. I found it very hard! And even harder to find a single female.

So far the only couple I’ve got as far as a meet with is two FBs who set up a couple profile. All the others are either solo men pretending to be a couple, or a real couple who wants me to meet the male alone. It’s a pain.

I also found that many couples had specifics which meant what I would be looking for in the meet couldn’t be met. Some focused on one in particular in the couple and not so much an equal three way which then makes a female feel like they just a toy or a treat for one of the couple. Guess it depends on what you are after or willing to do for them. "

Exactly, I want to play with both equally so stuff like the man will only watch, or will do oral but not penetration, etc etc doesn’t work for me. Also I don’t bother with couples who list the woman as straight and I’m very cautious about bi-curious because I don’t want to be an experiment.

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry

I arranged a 3sum last night but 2 did'nt show up so i had to take matters into my own hands.

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By *oupleforplay2018 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"Why is it so hard to find a woman for a threesome?

Try finding two

Try finding 2 ladies and a guy willing to be filmed.

Pfffft. "
I am always up for getting the camera out bring it on

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Why is it so hard to find a woman for a threesome?

Try finding two

Try finding 2 ladies and a guy willing to be filmed.

Pfffft. I am always up for getting the camera out bring it on "

Now all we need is another lady.

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By *oupleforplay2018 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"Why is it so hard to find a couple for a threesome?

I’m glad someone said it!"

Keep an eye on our profile we always let you know when we will be free

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

The problem we have is that mr does not play with the other female.

Bi females want more than playing with mrs in our experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve had 2 , and been looking for about 9 months. Neither one was from here - both from tinder !

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

I've had one and I would love to have some more

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By *oupleforplay2018 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"As said it’s difficult to get mutual attraction & we gave up long ago doing any meaningful searching as we are not dumb enough not to realise part of the issue for us is also our ages. Face to face though our ages don’t seem to matter so much.

Your best bet is at clubs or at least a group social where you can mingle & put the feelers out. We met someone on here after a fem friend of hers who didn’t play with couples put her in touch with us.

We would say though in all the time we’ve been here we’ve only had three meets with single women through this site yet we’ve had four meets this year alone & got a g/f through other mediums.

It’s easier elsewhere than here, which we’ve always thought a bit ironic.

S

"

Other mediums - please share.

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By *oupleforplay2018 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"Why is it so hard to find a woman for a threesome?

Women aren't stupid, they can tell when there are issues."

Our only issue is getting a sitter

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Why is it so hard to find a woman for a threesome?

Women aren't stupid, they can tell when there are issues.

Our only issue is getting a sitter"

Find a couple - ask him to babysit.

(Joke)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so hard to find a woman for a threesome?

Women aren't stupid, they can tell when there are issues.

Our only issue is getting a sitter

Find a couple - ask him to babysit.

(Joke)"

brilliant

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'm full of great ideas. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol, they are called unicorns for a reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so hard to find a couple for a threesome?

I’m glad someone said it!

I’ve seen so many posts about finding a woman for a couple to be difficult and hardly any females posting to say they have struggled to find a couple. I found it very hard! And even harder to find a single female.

So far the only couple I’ve got as far as a meet with is two FBs who set up a couple profile. All the others are either solo men pretending to be a couple, or a real couple who wants me to meet the male alone. It’s a pain.

I also found that many couples had specifics which meant what I would be looking for in the meet couldn’t be met. Some focused on one in particular in the couple and not so much an equal three way which then makes a female feel like they just a toy or a treat for one of the couple. Guess it depends on what you are after or willing to do for them.

Agreed, Lots on here state “I’d love to watch my wife with another lady” or “I love to watch my hubby fucking another woman”

All well & good but why not just all play & you will get both scenarios anyway? Or is that just us being a bit simple?

S"

It’s a difficult one isn’t it because you have to respect the couples too as some of them may not want their partner involved because they aren’t comfortable with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We’ve had 2 , and been looking for about 9 months. Neither one was from here - both from tinder ! "

Great profile

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By *ustyLeRouxWoman
over a year ago

Brecon

Think I must be the only woman who doesnt like to share !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so hard to find a couple for a threesome?

I’m glad someone said it!

I’ve seen so many posts about finding a woman for a couple to be difficult and hardly any females posting to say they have struggled to find a couple. I found it very hard! And even harder to find a single female.

So far the only couple I’ve got as far as a meet with is two FBs who set up a couple profile. All the others are either solo men pretending to be a couple, or a real couple who wants me to meet the male alone. It’s a pain.

I also found that many couples had specifics which meant what I would be looking for in the meet couldn’t be met. Some focused on one in particular in the couple and not so much an equal three way which then makes a female feel like they just a toy or a treat for one of the couple. Guess it depends on what you are after or willing to do for them.

Exactly, I want to play with both equally so stuff like the man will only watch, or will do oral but not penetration, etc etc doesn’t work for me. Also I don’t bother with couples who list the woman as straight and I’m very cautious about bi-curious because I don’t want to be an experiment."

I think most single females would want both equally if they have a bi side of any kind.

Straight and it’s a totally different scenario.

Also think some females say they are bi curious because they don’t want to be fully bi and by saying bi curious they can just play and not feel like they have to get into more that they don’t necessarily want to or haven’t experienced yet.

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