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By *eBornGemini OP   Man
over a year ago

Darlington

Say you have a meet one night everything goes well and you part ways happy and satisfied!

1 week later you are shopping in town and you bump into that person

Do you:

A) Acknowledge them, stop say hi and have a brief chat

B) Ignore them and walk straight by or maybe just a quick nod of the head?

Me personally, I would like to stop and say hey and just a general chit chat to see how they are, but I don’t know how they would react

Let me know what you would do in that situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they were alone I'd probably speak. If they weren't I definitely wouldn't.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Considering that I really take my time getting to know someone before a meet, I would put them on the basis of a friend, so therefore a quick stop and chat would be what I'd expect!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"If they were alone I'd probably speak. If they weren't I definitely wouldn't."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how good the meet was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably best to walk past as hubby could be near

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill


"If they were alone I'd probably speak. If they weren't I definitely wouldn't."

This, definitely.

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By *xperimentalistMan
over a year ago

East Yorkshire


"If they were alone I'd probably speak. If they weren't I definitely wouldn't."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only meet people a fair distance from me so little chance of that happening. But if I did see someone it would just be eye contact, no nod, and definitely no chat.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

All depends on who i or they were with. If we were both alone i would hope we would be adult enough to exchange a few words at least.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they were alone I'd probably speak. If they weren't I definitely wouldn't."

This for me too

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Surely multiple factors, and different for everyone.

Generally I would, say hi. But again it would depend on lots of things.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If they were definitely alone and there was npnposs8of grandma, kids or partner being round the corner we'd stop, say hi and exchange a few words. Any possibility of indiscretion and we'd make eye contact but walk past.

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By *eBornGemini OP   Man
over a year ago

Darlington

I suppose the biggest thing would be knowing what to do, for example... you may want to stop and say hi if they are alone but worry that the other person wants to just walk on by and by saying hello it may upset the other person?

It’s a tough situation I think, I agree that I would hope we would be adult enough to at least say hey and smile if we were on our own, just because it’s polite and shows that you respect that person and aren’t just using them for sex and more so doing what we all love to do??

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria


"If they were alone I'd probably speak. If they weren't I definitely wouldn't.

This for me too "

and us

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I suppose the biggest thing would be knowing what to do, for example... you may want to stop and say hi if they are alone but worry that the other person wants to just walk on by and by saying hello it may upset the other person?

It’s a tough situation I think, I agree that I would hope we would be adult enough to at least say hey and smile if we were on our own, just because it’s polite and shows that you respect that person and aren’t just using them for sex and more so doing what we all love to do?? "

I asked a guy once what he'd want us to do if we saw him in the street. He said "just smile and say" hello"". Maybe asking the people you meet would solve the dilemma

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By *eBornGemini OP   Man
over a year ago

Darlington


"I suppose the biggest thing would be knowing what to do, for example... you may want to stop and say hi if they are alone but worry that the other person wants to just walk on by and by saying hello it may upset the other person?

It’s a tough situation I think, I agree that I would hope we would be adult enough to at least say hey and smile if we were on our own, just because it’s polite and shows that you respect that person and aren’t just using them for sex and more so doing what we all love to do??

I asked a guy once what he'd want us to do if we saw him in the street. He said "just smile and say" hello"". Maybe asking the people you meet would solve the dilemma "

That was something I was thinking aswell...

Definitely makes things less awkward for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quick nod of the head,to acknowledge I've seen them.

Wouldn't stop for a chat,you don't know who they are with,or they know who is with me.

Saves making any fabricated stories.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say hi unless they was with someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sweet Jesus ... put some pants on

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

This happened to me.

I saw a lady I met.

But she was in a pub with a guy.

We made eye contact but didn't speak.

Eye contact was enough in tgat situation .

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By *rallyFixated1Man
over a year ago

tipton

I’d acknowledge them and let them take the lead. Could be awks af

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I'd smile and probably leave it at that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd read the situation at the time, I'd like to think a smile and hello would be acceptable

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By *eBornGemini OP   Man
over a year ago

Darlington


"Sweet Jesus ... put some pants on "

Haha my apologies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We bumped into a Fab member recently in the local supermarket. We hadn't played but we recognised each other...

We chatted about all sorts of thing EXCEPT Fab ...lol

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By *eBornGemini OP   Man
over a year ago

Darlington


"We bumped into a Fab member recently in the local supermarket. We hadn't played but we recognised each other...

We chatted about all sorts of thing EXCEPT Fab ...lol"

That’s how I would hope it would go for me, would be nice to make new friends instead of just sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would smile as a minimum, and say hello on the way past of they were alone, nothing familiar, you never know who's 2 steps behind. Just to ignore them if they appeared alone would be a bit off imo.

I served a previous meet in my job, we obviously recognised each other, he appeared as a friendly customer to others, I appreciated that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We see all of our good meets as friends so a little chat in the street wouldn't be a problem, however if they were with company I would not approach them to avoid any awkwardness between them and who ever they are with

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull


"If they were alone I'd probably speak. If they weren't I definitely wouldn't."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would smile as a minimum, and say hello on the way past of they were alone, nothing familiar, you never know who's 2 steps behind. Just to ignore them if they appeared alone would be a bit off imo.

I served a previous meet in my job, we obviously recognised each other, he appeared as a friendly customer to others, I appreciated that. "

That's the thing he was just a customer, nobody knows if or how you know people they could be a old school friend, neighbour or even just someone you chatted to in the queue at the supermarket it's how we react that's makes things awkward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this happened to us in our high street the guy was with family so never even acknowledged him.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Smile, wave, keep walking.

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

If we're alone and they're alone then yeah, probably say hi.

If there is anyone else with either party we'd ignore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I am alone (or seem to be alone) then I wouldn't have a problem with someone smiling and saying a quick hi. I am not one for small talk so I would probably keep it very brief, but no harm done.

If I am with someone else, I would rather not be acknowledged because it is likely a family member and that just gets awkward.

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By *eBornGemini OP   Man
over a year ago

Darlington

So I think the general consensus if, if you are alone and so is the other person it’s ok to smile, nod, say hi etc..

If either person is with anyone just ignore and understand why they have been ignored?

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

If they were alone we would nod or say hello and leave it to them to respond as they may be with someone we have not seen

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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago

Coventry


"Say you have a meet one night everything goes well and you part ways happy and satisfied!

1 week later you are shopping in town and you bump into that person

Do you:

A) Acknowledge them, stop say hi and have a brief chat

B) Ignore them and walk straight by or maybe just a quick nod of the head?

Me personally, I would like to stop and say hey and just a general chit chat to see how they are, but I don’t know how they would react

Let me know what you would do in that situation "

B and if the net went well if they were alone Maybe greeted by a hug

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

I've not had good experiences with this, so I choose not to meet anyone I'm likely to see in my home city.

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