FabSwingers.com forum: complain much?

By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

Following on from Mickey's thread..

If you feel ripped off will you complain?

The food arrives cold or isn't up to scratch, the service is rubbish do you make your feelings known?

You've had your hair cut and you really don't like it, do you smile, say thanks and even leave a tip?

How good are you at expressing your feelings?

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

"Following on from Mickey's thread..

If you feel ripped off will you complain?

The food arrives cold or isn't up to scratch, the service is rubbish do you make your feelings known?

You've had your hair cut and you really don't like it, do you smile, say thanks and even leave a tip?

How good are you at expressing your feelings?

(Lou) I will complain if something isn't right that I'm paying for

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"Following on from Mickey's thread..

If you feel ripped off will you complain?

The food arrives cold or isn't up to scratch, the service is rubbish do you make your feelings known?

You've had your hair cut and you really don't like it, do you smile, say thanks and even leave a tip?

How good are you at expressing your feelings?

I complain.

I am sure that comes as no surprise, but I do it in a reasonable way, I don't get arsey but I may get sarcastic. I think if you have paid for something and it is not up to scratch then you are silly not too

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

In my younger days, I had my hair styled and hated it but still smiled.

I got home and cried.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

If I’m paying (within reason) I expect a standard. If the service doesn’t deliver on my expectation I would politely express my disappointment

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I would say something at the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never used to be so expressive with displeasure but now I’m more in touch with my feelings I’m more open about it... so watch out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would complain there and then about both

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Yes, my last complaint was earlier this year when me and the family went to a Caravan park on holiday and they gave us a right shitty caravan! Was a state and a half.

I complained (firmly but politely). We got moved to a slightly better one. Put me off going again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Following on from Mickey's thread..

If you feel ripped off will you complain?

The food arrives cold or isn't up to scratch, the service is rubbish do you make your feelings known?

You've had your hair cut and you really don't like it, do you smile, say thanks and even leave a tip?

How good are you at expressing your feelings?

I was born with a tongue and I use it

being the person that I am

I speak my mind

I complained the other day about over crowding on the bus thought the next passenger was going to end up on my lap

yes. if the service is poor I will open my mind and tell them so

how can they improve otherwise lol

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I would complain there and then about both

I look back at my younger self and think wtf, where was my voice. I am happy the adult me has found it.

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By *atperveMan
over a year ago

hilsea

"Following on from Mickey's thread..

If you feel ripped off will you complain?

The food arrives cold or isn't up to scratch, the service is rubbish do you make your feelings known?

You've had your hair cut and you really don't like it, do you smile, say thanks and even leave a tip?

How good are you at expressing your feelings?

I’d definitely bring it to their attention and let them rectify it. A bit screwed if it’s a haircut and they’ve taken too much off though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can complain politely without causing offence, and it’s perfectly reasonable to do that.

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Following on from Mickey's thread..

If you feel ripped off will you complain?

The food arrives cold or isn't up to scratch, the service is rubbish do you make your feelings known?

You've had your hair cut and you really don't like it, do you smile, say thanks and even leave a tip?

How good are you at expressing your feelings?

I’d definitely bring it to their attention and let them rectify it. A bit screwed if it’s a haircut and they’ve taken too much off though. "

The haircut experience taught be a lesson and mow I reasonable voice any concerns that I may have.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Yes I will complain if the service warrants it.

But equally I also comment on excellent service as well. I often send emails if I feel a specific person has been brilliant. In the hope they get recognition from the company.

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry

I would'nt send food back as i know a girl worked in a hotel kitchen and she told me about some of the things chefs done to food that was sent back as its an insult to them and they take it personaly.

It was normal behaviour for them to

spit on the food,

Pick their nose,

Throw the food on the floor and trample on it,

Lots of other dirty disgusting stuff too.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"Yes I will complain if the service warrants it.

But equally I also comment on excellent service as well. I often send emails if I feel a specific person has been brilliant. In the hope they get recognition from the company. "

I do this too! I sent the Speech Department a long Thank You letter praising the work of our Speech Therapist who worked with my youngest and they contacted me on the back of that asking if it was ok to publish it to highlight their work.

It’s important to recognise those who go above and beyond - a thank you means so much to some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I complain all the time get u lots of freebies

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I give people a chance and only complain as a last resort. I keep it calm and quiet as it's probably not the person in front of me who is at fault.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I complained and told the chef to scrap my omelette this morning because it was so poorly made

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Yes. I complained and told the chef to scrap my omelette this morning because it was so poorly made

I do not like to send food back, I don't trust them to rectify it with care.

I will however let them know about it.

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I complain all the time get u lots of freebies

Yes, lots of folk do that

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By *oved Up 2Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

I'll complain politely. However if the response is rude then my Hyancinth side is likely to come out. Don't enjoy complaining but it has to be done sometimes

Michele x

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I will flag it up politely if I'm not happy but I'm also just as quick to give a compliment for a good product or service.

I sent an email recently praising my favourite dessert, and off the back of that I've had a thank you letter, vouchers for free products and a Christmas tea towel, totally not expected but lovely!

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I give people a chance and only complain as a last resort. I keep it calm and quiet as it's probably not the person in front of me who is at fault."

I think that is good to remember that, that person may not be responsible.

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I will flag it up politely if I'm not happy but I'm also just as quick to give a compliment for a good product or service.

I sent an email recently praising my favourite dessert, and off the back of that I've had a thank you letter, vouchers for free products and a Christmas tea towel, totally not expected but lovely!

People are quicker to complain I think than give positive feedback.

The freebies were a nice gesture

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Yes i complain if theres need also quick to gibe praise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I complained and told the chef to scrap my omelette this morning because it was so poorly made

I do not like to send food back, I don't trust them to rectify it with care.

I will however let them know about it."

I walked off and got something else instead

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Yes. I complained and told the chef to scrap my omelette this morning because it was so poorly made

I do not like to send food back, I don't trust them to rectify it with care.

I will however let them know about it.

I walked off and got something else instead "

I don't blame you and it's not exactly difficult to make an omelette either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't complain, I just don't go back. Unless it was something like a rat in a bowl of soup. Then I might mention it.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

When i was young i never complained. I do now because if i pay good money then i expect good service.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on my mood.

If I am already pissed off... I'll say something.

If not, I just walk away and never go back to that place again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Following on from Mickey's thread..

If you feel ripped off will you complain?

The food arrives cold or isn't up to scratch, the service is rubbish do you make your feelings known?

You've had your hair cut and you really don't like it, do you smile, say thanks and even leave a tip?

How good are you at expressing your feelings?

I complain by never going there again.

I still have a 40% off next purchase from a well known high street clothing store. No amount would tempt me back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on how significantly different something is from what I was expecting. I don't really like to complain, but will always give praise for a job well done

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I would'nt send food back as i know a girl worked in a hotel kitchen and she told me about some of the things chefs done to food that was sent back as its an insult to them and they take it personaly.

It was normal behaviour for them to

spit on the food,

Pick their nose,

Throw the food on the floor and trample on it,

Lots of other dirty disgusting stuff too.

That is disgusting..shame on the staff responsible!

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Yes I will complain if the service warrants it.

But equally I also comment on excellent service as well. I often send emails if I feel a specific person has been brilliant. In the hope they get recognition from the company.

It’s important to recognise those who go above and beyond - a thank you means so much to some.

My sister was in intensive care and it was touch and go. Her one on one nurses were totally wonderful. We said a massive thank you, the head of nursing came to us and she was thrilled. One of the nurses was finishing some kind of training and we wrote how compassionate and just brilliant she was. They were all grateful for the praise they so deserved.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

If things aren’t as I think they should be, whether it’s a product or a service I don’t complain as such, but I will mention that it’s not what I was expecting and give them the opportunity to rectify things. I then judge them more on what they do about it than the original problem. If having given them this opportunity they don’t rise to the occasion I become VERY blunt with them.

Also totally agree with people saying credit where it’s due, you have to be balanced.

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"If things aren’t as I think they should be, whether it’s a product or a service I don’t complain as such, but I will mention that it’s not what I was expecting and give them the opportunity to rectify things. I then judge them more on what they do about it than the original problem. If having given them this opportunity they don’t rise to the occasion I become VERY blunt with them.

Also totally agree with people saying credit where it’s due, you have to be balanced. "

I also think that if an issue arises then it is how it is dealt with that speaks volumes

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