FabSwingers.com forum: Fucking brutal

By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

Organised to meet a lady at 5 in Sheffield I messaged to to confirm it’s on ... yes yes all systems go

And then stood up no notice no message phone call

Well I like to think of myself as a gentlemen and that everything happens for a reason .

She’s missed out on a great night full of laughter and joy

It stings though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have very different opinions on what brutal is dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree it does stink,don't let it spoil your day though ,she's not worth it

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"We have very different opinions on what brutal is dude

I know I was expecting worse to be honest. Yes it is bloody annoying and disappointing though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have very different opinions on what brutal is dude

I know I was expecting worse to be honest. Yes it is bloody annoying and disappointing though."
agreed very frustrating

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"We have very different opinions on what brutal is dude

I know I was expecting worse to be honest. Yes it is bloody annoying and disappointing though."

Sorry to disappoint

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By *epsonWoman
over a year ago

Biddulph

"I agree it does stink,don't let it spoil your day though ,she's not worth it"

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

I'll tell you what's brutal the aftermath of to many sprouts...........stood up? Take it on the chin and move on....

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By *epsonWoman
over a year ago

Biddulph

"I'll tell you what's brutal the aftermath of to many sprouts...........stood up? Take it on the chin and move on...."

*no sprouts were harmed in the posting of this comment*

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"I'll tell you what's brutal the aftermath of to many sprouts...........stood up? Take it on the chin and move on....

*no sprouts were harmed in the posting of this comment*

Just my poor toosh.......it burns! It burns!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll tell you what's brutal the aftermath of to many sprouts...........stood up? Take it on the chin and move on...."

Aftermath of too many sprouts... In a confined space at work! Or am hour long exam

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By *epsonWoman
over a year ago

Biddulph

"I'll tell you what's brutal the aftermath of to many sprouts...........stood up? Take it on the chin and move on....

*no sprouts were harmed in the posting of this comment*

Just my poor toosh.......it burns! It burns!

Self infliction. Tough titties lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Waste of time that

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Yep sounds like “He” missed out..

Getting stupid on here, Now you have to do a veri trawl to veri the veries.

Had a single gem one the other day, six veris all dodgy as fuck.

& Gen newbies wonder why no one will meet them ??

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"I'll tell you what's brutal the aftermath of to many sprouts...........stood up? Take it on the chin and move on....

*no sprouts were harmed in the posting of this comment*

Just my poor toosh.......it burns! It burns!

Self infliction. Tough titties lady

Where's the

fadge just where is the

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t judge too harshly .... cold feet sometimes cause this to happen.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Organised to meet a lady at 5 in Sheffield I messaged to to confirm it’s on ... yes yes all systems go

And then stood up no notice no message phone call

Well I like to think of myself as a gentlemen and that everything happens for a reason .

She’s missed out on a great night full of laughter and joy

It stings though

It's good to be gracious about it but yes, totally get that it must have stung...sorry to hear

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By *epsonWoman
over a year ago

Biddulph

"I'll tell you what's brutal the aftermath of to many sprouts...........stood up? Take it on the chin and move on....

*no sprouts were harmed in the posting of this comment*

Just my poor toosh.......it burns! It burns!

Self infliction. Tough titties lady

Where's the

fadge just where is the

Love is someone cooking steak,chips and mushrooms after a long drive

hint hint

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"I'll tell you what's brutal the aftermath of to many sprouts...........stood up? Take it on the chin and move on....

*no sprouts were harmed in the posting of this comment*

Just my poor toosh.......it burns! It burns!

Self infliction. Tough titties lady

Where's the

fadge just where is the

Love is someone cooking steak,chips and mushrooms after a long drive

hint hint

Will you vaseline my bum then?

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By *epsonWoman
over a year ago

Biddulph

"I'll tell you what's brutal the aftermath of to many sprouts...........stood up? Take it on the chin and move on....

*no sprouts were harmed in the posting of this comment*

Just my poor toosh.......it burns! It burns!

Self infliction. Tough titties lady

Where's the

fadge just where is the

Love is someone cooking steak,chips and mushrooms after a long drive

hint hint

Will you vaseline my bum then?

Ooooh eerrrrr

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By *rbubbleMan
over a year ago

wild west sligo mayo roscommon

Thanks for sharing this boring story

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By *epsonWoman
over a year ago

Biddulph

"Thanks for sharing this boring story

No need to be rude

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Her loss mate

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By *rbubbleMan
over a year ago

wild west sligo mayo roscommon

I’m not rude been honest... it’s part of fab some meets work out others don’t he just looking for sympathy and it’s boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s incredibly rude to be stood up with no explanation or apology. Sorry to hear this happened to you.

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By *epsonWoman
over a year ago

Biddulph

"I’m not rude been honest... it’s part of fab some meets work out others don’t he just looking for sympathy and it’s boring "

You find it boring, everybody else has been supportive. That's the plus side if the forums, people can see another facet of people's personalities beyond their profile.

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By *rbubbleMan
over a year ago

wild west sligo mayo roscommon

"I’m not rude been honest... it’s part of fab some meets work out others don’t he just looking for sympathy and it’s boring

You find it boring, everybody else has been supportive. That's the plus side if the forums, people can see another facet of people's personalities beyond their profile. "

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

It's annoying OP, but was probably another "FAB Female" (fella pretending to be a woman.)

Onwards and upwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Similair happened to me recently, chatting with someone, unable to meet due to conflicting schedules, then, when we are both free, we arrange to meet, I message to confirm its still on and they do a houdini, life goes on though.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I’m not rude been honest... it’s part of fab some meets work out others don’t he just looking for sympathy and it’s boring

You find it boring, everybody else has been supportive. That's the plus side if the forums, people can see another facet of people's personalities beyond their profile.

I don't find this boring. The forum is a good place to express feelings and to be supportive of each other.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Similair happened to me recently, chatting with someone, unable to meet due to conflicting schedules, then, when we are both free, we arrange to meet, I message to confirm its still on and they do a houdini, life goes on though. "

It does go on but to disappear without explanation when things have gone so far is bad form.

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By *ustme34Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"I’m not rude been honest... it’s part of fab some meets work out others don’t he just looking for sympathy and it’s boring "
if you find it boring move on keep scrolling till something interests you . No need to be negative about it

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Thanks for sharing this boring story

No need to be rude

Thanks

Anyways I’ll stick my dummy back in and put my big boy pants on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She'll remember the name probably

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"I’m not rude been honest... it’s part of fab some meets work out others don’t he just looking for sympathy and it’s boring "

The last thing I look for is sympathy but thanks for your input

If I ever need a see through ball full of hot air I’ll be in touch (mr bubble)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup! Been there.. Began a relationship with a couple, built up trust and respect. Arranged to meet, drove to London and.. They disappeared! Absolutely nothing wrong with saying 'sorry, you're not for me', I get that.. But to waste time, effort and money. Well, its a bit shit really!

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

It's worse arranging to meet someone who you haven't seen a clear face picture of and when you arrive it's your wife.....trust me

"If you like Pina Coladas and getting caught in the rain"

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Yup! Been there.. Began a relationship with a couple, built up trust and respect. Arranged to meet, drove to London and.. They disappeared! Absolutely nothing wrong with saying 'sorry, you're not for me', I get that.. But to waste time, effort and money. Well, its a bit shit really! "

This is my exact thought anyways I’m out before I get into bother

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"It’s incredibly rude to be stood up with no explanation or apology. Sorry to hear this happened to you. "

Thank you

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By *epsonWoman
over a year ago

Biddulph

"Thanks for sharing this boring story

No need to be rude

Thanks

Anyways I’ll stick my dummy back in and put my big boy pants on

You didn't spit your dummy out. You vented your frustration and disappointment, without resorting to tarring all women with the same brush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The same thing happened to me.

We had arranged to go for lunch. Great comms all the day before, and the morning then just didn’t show up.

I got an apology the next day asking to reschedule.

Such a giant waste of my time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chalk it down to experience and move on fella

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

It's happened to me a couple of times. I just shrug my shoulders and move on.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Was it 5 a.m. ?

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"We have very different opinions on what brutal is dude

I know I was expecting worse to be honest. Yes it is bloody annoying and disappointing though.

Sorry to disappoint

Yeah, ghosting like that is really rotten, tbh I'd prefer a crappy lie that I can see through over absolutely no message at all.

It's also one of the reasons I insist on social meets before actual meets BC if someone is prone to last min call offs/cold feet then it's better I find out in a coffee shop in the afternoon the the evening of a meet when I've bathed, scrubbed, moisturised waxed and changed the bed/booked a hotel.

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"We have very different opinions on what brutal is dude

I know I was expecting worse to be honest. Yes it is bloody annoying and disappointing though.

Sorry to disappoint

Yeah, ghosting like that is really rotten, tbh I'd prefer a crappy lie that I can see through over absolutely no message at all.

It was just a social meet but stood up at the bar

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Was it 5 a.m. ?"

No it wasn’t

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"The same thing happened to me.

We had arranged to go for lunch. Great comms all the day before, and the morning then just didn’t show up.

I got an apology the next day asking to reschedule.

Such a giant waste of my time. "

Their loss by the looks of things

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Thanks for sharing this boring story

No need to be rude

Thanks

Anyways I’ll stick my dummy back in and put my big boy pants on

You didn't spit your dummy out. You vented your frustration and disappointment, without resorting to tarring all women with the same brush

I would never tar anyone with the same brush and too much of a nice guy to start hurling abuse like some of the rascals here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm used to it now! Drove an hour (2 hours there and back) to meet a couple a few weeks back and it was all systems go and then as soon as I arrived they stopped replying.

I've been chatting with some single women aswell and all of a sudden after saying they are just after nsa sex they decide they have had enough of one nighters.

I suppose both men and women are indecisive but I keep reading the same things on these forums about not getting messages and when you do get messages you get stood up anyway lol.

It's extremely difficult for single men on here and in general.

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By *rallyFixated1Man
over a year ago

tipton

Sorry to hear it. It costs nothing to send a message and say you’ve changed your mind or somethings come up. People are cunts.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Don’t judge too harshly .... cold feet sometimes cause this to happen. "

Cold feet is no excuse for bad manners and wasting someones precious time. A one minute message to cancel is all it takes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the last 3 months, my Special Aunt died, then my dog died and my uncle has just died. That's Brutal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Organised to meet a lady at 5 in Sheffield I messaged to to confirm it’s on ... yes yes all systems go

And then stood up no notice no message phone call

Well I like to think of myself as a gentlemen and that everything happens for a reason .

She’s missed out on a great night full of laughter and joy

It stings though

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name and shame if it was a bloke it would be everywhere by now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don’t judge too harshly .... cold feet sometimes cause this to happen.

Cold feet is no excuse for bad manners and wasting someones precious time. A one minute message to cancel is all it takes."

Agreed

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Don’t judge too harshly .... cold feet sometimes cause this to happen.

Cold feet is no excuse for bad manners and wasting someones precious time. A one minute message to cancel is all it takes."

This is my thought

I see myself as a gentleman I know I’d have let her know if I couldn’t make it for any reason

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"In the last 3 months, my Special Aunt died, then my dog died and my uncle has just died. That's Brutal

Sorry to hear that

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

Anyways I went to the cinema and watched 21 bridges

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Just to add we got stood up by someone we’d previously met & played with & they contacted us about a second meet at a club, all organised & they didn’t turn up, no contact, no nothing.

Two days later they send a message & act like nothing has happened!

Yeah Righto, bye then!!

So it’s not just newbies & fakes that do it!

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Just to add we got stood up by someone we’d previously met & played with & they contacted us about a second meet at a club, all organised & they didn’t turn up, no contact, no nothing.

Two days later they send a message & act like nothing has happened!

Yeah Righto, bye then!!

So it’s not just newbies & fakes that do it!

Sorry to hear that

Surely it’s just good manners and polite to let folk know if you’re not going to make it

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