FabSwingers.com forum: Rejection rants

By *sm265 OP Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

What is with the whole flying off the handle & hurling abuse at people who politely turn you down?

It's akin to a toddler having a temper tantrum because they have been told they can't have a biscuit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is with the whole flying off the handle & hurling abuse at people who politely turn you down?

It's akin to a toddler having a temper tantrum because they have been told they can't have a biscuit.

Rejection is hard pill to follow for some!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is with the whole flying off the handle & hurling abuse at people who politely turn you down?

It's akin to a toddler having a temper tantrum because they have been told they can't have a biscuit.

Rejection is hard pill to follow for some!

Swallow!*

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By *avartMan
over a year ago

Barnsley

Don't really understand this to be honest.

Doesn't bother me in the slightest if someone says 'not for me'.

I usually just replying 'no worries - have fun' or something similar.

So for me, it's a pointless question

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis

"What is with the whole flying off the handle & hurling abuse at people who politely turn you down?

It's akin to a toddler having a temper tantrum because they have been told they can't have a biscuit.

Rejection is hard pill to follow for some!

Swallow!*"

Don't even go there

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

There is so much ego on this site. Just feel lucky you found that out about them early.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is with the whole flying off the handle & hurling abuse at people who politely turn you down?

It's akin to a toddler having a temper tantrum because they have been told they can't have a biscuit.

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why do they just not say thanks

Not everyone is suited

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is with the whole flying off the handle & hurling abuse at people who politely turn you down?

It's akin to a toddler having a temper tantrum because they have been told they can't have a biscuit.

why do they just not say thanks

Not everyone is suited "

Confused, are you saying if I get rejected I can have a biscuit?

When I used to play I just blocked any rejection or no answer, so as to not bother them again.

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By *sm265 OP Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

"What is with the whole flying off the handle & hurling abuse at people who politely turn you down?

It's akin to a toddler having a temper tantrum because they have been told they can't have a biscuit.

why do they just not say thanks

Not everyone is suited

Confused, are you saying if I get rejected I can have a biscuit?

When I used to play I just blocked any rejection or no answer, so as to not bother them again."

If I say you can't have a biscuit will you rant, hurl insults at me & then flounce out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is with the whole flying off the handle & hurling abuse at people who politely turn you down?

It's akin to a toddler having a temper tantrum because they have been told they can't have a biscuit.

why do they just not say thanks

Not everyone is suited

Confused, are you saying if I get rejected I can have a biscuit?

When I used to play I just blocked any rejection or no answer, so as to not bother them again.

If I say you can't have a biscuit will you rant, hurl insults at me & then flounce out? "

Hmmm not great at hurling insults, but I can do a great flounce. Will that do?

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By *sm265 OP Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

"What is with the whole flying off the handle & hurling abuse at people who politely turn you down?

It's akin to a toddler having a temper tantrum because they have been told they can't have a biscuit.

why do they just not say thanks

Not everyone is suited

Confused, are you saying if I get rejected I can have a biscuit?

When I used to play I just blocked any rejection or no answer, so as to not bother them again.

If I say you can't have a biscuit will you rant, hurl insults at me & then flounce out?

Hmmm not great at hurling insults, but I can do a great flounce. Will that do?"

It will indeed. Can you accompany the flouce with a sassy head flick?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is with the whole flying off the handle & hurling abuse at people who politely turn you down?

It's akin to a toddler having a temper tantrum because they have been told they can't have a biscuit.

why do they just not say thanks

Not everyone is suited

Confused, are you saying if I get rejected I can have a biscuit?

When I used to play I just blocked any rejection or no answer, so as to not bother them again.

If I say you can't have a biscuit will you rant, hurl insults at me & then flounce out?

Hmmm not great at hurling insults, but I can do a great flounce. Will that do?

It will indeed. Can you accompany the flouce with a sassy head flick? "

Wouldn't be a great flounce without it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never take it personally its definitely there own insecurities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of the abuse is really terrible tbh. As the male of the couple it bounces off me and I'm glad because I can see thier true colors and block them. It must be awful for single females and even intimidating I'd imagine.

We say the below on our profile

"" When we have replied in the past with a "no thank you" half of the time we have had "why not?" responses or worse abuse which really is not cool.

Think of this way you may get a no thank you because we simply don't have the time due to real life commitments or we may have enough people we are looking to meet at that moment in time. Stay classy if someone has said no thank you now they may have less going on and more time to play in a few months and therefore be able to meet you in the future so don't shoot yourself in the foot! ""

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By *sm265 OP Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

We say the below on our profile

"" When we have replied in the past with a "no thank you" half of the time we have had "why not?" responses or worse abuse which really is not cool.

I'm pretty thick skinned and can laugh at the ridiculousness of grown adults behaving like children and the insults are water off a duck's back, but other people could find it very intimidating and upsetting.

There's no need to be nasty to people. Hurling personal insults about just because someone has politely said "no thanks" is totally uncalled for.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Don't turn them down in the first place, faq states no reply, no interest. Easier that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We say the below on our profile

"" When we have replied in the past with a "no thank you" half of the time we have had "why not?" responses or worse abuse which really is not cool.

Brilliant!

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Nobody ever rants if i turn them down, i’m starting to think they’re secretly relieved!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My block list is ever growing from the rejection abuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nobody ever rants if i turn them down, i’m starting to think they’re secretly relieved!

I do it later I’m a bit busy

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Some of the passive aggressive ones are quite funny.

"We can't meet because you are arrogant"*

No Dwayne, your profile saying you were straight when we specifically advertised for a bi male is what put the kibosh on it

* Not a direct quote

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm beginning to think it might be how you're turned down because I reply to virtually every message but don't get abuse back so either I'm hideous and they're relieved or I've mastered the inoffensive way to do it! #veryhappy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just send a simple reply message thanking them for their honesty and then we move on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most men release testosterone from 1 of 2 places.

Their dick or their mouth..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t understand it. There’s no need to be so rude.

We say thank you for replying to us, no problem and to have fun on here.

When people, who are no doubt in receipt of many messages, take the time to reply it is appreciated, but we also just accept a delete or read and no reply, and just move on.

It’s a site for grown ups, I really don’t understand the entitled behaviour of some on here.

Sorry you’ve been treated in such a way

Viv xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because i can do as i wish when i wish and im in a mood

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By *sm265 OP Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

"Don’t understand it. There’s no need to be so rude.

We say thank you for replying to us, no problem and to have fun on here.

When people, who are no doubt in receipt of many messages, take the time to reply it is appreciated, but we also just accept a delete or read and no reply, and just move on.

It’s a site for grown ups, I really don’t understand the entitled behaviour of some on here.

Sorry you’ve been treated in such a way

Viv xx

Thanks. The entitled behaviour of some really annoys me too.

Last night's example informed me that I shouldn't be on Fab if I'm not actually prepared to meet 2 complete strangers, both male, at 1.30am for the threesome, but as I am a fat fuck he didn't want to meet me anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is with the whole flying off the handle & hurling abuse at people who politely turn you down?

It's akin to a toddler having a temper tantrum because they have been told they can't have a biscuit.

Totally agree. Trust me I have had plenty of rejection however I still respect the other person’s decision and would never dream of throwing a temper tantrum lol.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Nobody ever rants if i turn them down, i’m starting to think they’re secretly relieved!

Same here - I hardly get rants.....they are relieved also!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive offered to block someone so they do not have to contact me and have me scream Shut Up at them . To be told No no I love how you say it how it is and Thanked me .

Bit of reverse psychology in their somewhere .

Confused.com

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don’t understand it. There’s no need to be so rude.

We say thank you for replying to us, no problem and to have fun on here.

When people, who are no doubt in receipt of many messages, take the time to reply it is appreciated, but we also just accept a delete or read and no reply, and just move on.

It’s a site for grown ups, I really don’t understand the entitled behaviour of some on here.

Sorry you’ve been treated in such a way

Viv xx

Thanks. The entitled behaviour of some really annoys me too.

Deluded entitlement fuelled by excessive porn consumption and possibly some cheap street . Some of the frenzied rants I get I can almost see the sad little dusty white bag on the table

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By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley

"What is with the whole flying off the handle & hurling abuse at people who politely turn you down?

It's akin to a toddler having a temper tantrum because they have been told they can't have a biscuit.

I’m a big boy

I can take rejection I struggle at being stood up withough any explanation

I show everyone respect all I ask is the same

I won’t ever call you names or be abusive I’ll walk away

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