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By *0something1965 OP   Man
over a year ago

Belfast

As it says - soooo bored with same old, same old. No replies, no contact

Let's start a new site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How would your new site work?

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"As it says - soooo bored with same old, same old. No replies, no contact

Let's start a new site! "

Why does your profile have a facebook privacy clause on it?

Erm... If we start another site it will be just the same.....

Erm... no, but hey. Happy Swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmm what we call it???

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By *lueWonderMan
over a year ago

Preston.....ish


"Mmmm what we call it???"

BoredSwingers??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As it says - soooo bored with same old, same old. No replies, no contact

Let's start a new site! "

Its fine the way it is. Go to an event instead of messaging.

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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago

middle earth

Maybe if your profile was a bit better you'd have more luck??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don’t you just go on a dating site? It’s easier than here for men. If you want want easy that is

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By *reeneggsandsamMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap


"Maybe if your profile was a bit better you'd have more luck?? "

Yep!

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By *ove3funCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

At risk of being offensive...you may be the problem, rather than the site

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By *0something1965 OP   Man
over a year ago

Belfast


"Maybe if your profile was a bit better you'd have more luck?? "

I've actually had a cpl meets - only one Veri but it's just that it's a very small.pond here in NI - I have a specific set of criteria and it's difficult to catch someone's eye. I had to resort to putting something specific on my status page to get someone's attention. It worked but it was exhausting. Nothing came of it but it's just sooooo hard to stand out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard to stand out when you have a blank profile and those disclaimer things are useless as well. Tart up your profile to get the most success.

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By *0something1965 OP   Man
over a year ago

Belfast


"At risk of being offensive...you may be the problem, rather than the site "

This is EXACTLY what I'm talking about. You're taking the "risk" and succeeding bte. How do you know that? The pool is small here - soooo many sharks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe if your profile was a bit better you'd have more luck??

I've actually had a cpl meets - only one Veri but it's just that it's a very small.pond here in NI - I have a specific set of criteria and it's difficult to catch someone's eye. I had to resort to putting something specific on my status page to get someone's attention. It worked but it was exhausting. Nothing came of it but it's just sooooo hard to stand out

"

Well you are doing fine, I don’t take anything to heart on here. Who cares it’s just peoples opinions by reading a few messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m just fed up with the same fishing threads and the same convos

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By *ove3funCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"At risk of being offensive...you may be the problem, rather than the site

This is EXACTLY what I'm talking about. You're taking the "risk" and succeeding bte. How do you know that? The pool is small here - soooo many sharks. "

I don't understand what you mean...

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By *0something1965 OP   Man
over a year ago

Belfast


"Hard to stand out when you have a blank profile and those disclaimer things are useless as well. Tart up your profile to get the most success. "

Every time I get a builder or a mechanic to quote, each one tells me a different story. Same with the disclaimer

"Why have you got that disclaimer"

"Why haven't you got a disclaimer?!"

I'm not complaining about my profile. I have what I have. There are cliques on here and esp in the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m just fed up with the same fishing threads and the same convos "

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At risk of being offensive...you may be the problem, rather than the site

This is EXACTLY what I'm talking about. You're taking the "risk" and succeeding bte. How do you know that? The pool is small here - soooo many sharks.

I don't understand what you mean..."

That he’s a small fish in a big pond

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

Typical bloke wanting his cake and eating it!!

Married men will always struggle on her period!!!

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By *0something1965 OP   Man
over a year ago

Belfast


"I’m just fed up with the same fishing threads and the same convos "

Ok : well - it's PHishing and that's not what I'm doing and

SO AM I!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hard to stand out when you have a blank profile and those disclaimer things are useless as well. Tart up your profile to get the most success.

Every time I get a builder or a mechanic to quote, each one tells me a different story. Same with the disclaimer

"Why have you got that disclaimer"

"Why haven't you got a disclaimer?!"

I'm not complaining about my profile. I have what I have. There are cliques on here and esp in the forums.

"

You don’t even have any pictures to steal so why would you need a disclaimer? They just look like a lazy way to add content to your profile.

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By *reeneggsandsamMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap


"I’m just fed up with the same fishing threads and the same convos "

What fishing threads? I'm a keen angler and I can't find any...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hard to stand out when you have a blank profile and those disclaimer things are useless as well. Tart up your profile to get the most success.

Every time I get a builder or a mechanic to quote, each one tells me a different story. Same with the disclaimer

"Why have you got that disclaimer"

"Why haven't you got a disclaimer?!"

I'm not complaining about my profile. I have what I have. There are cliques on here and esp in the forums.

"

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By *ove3funCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"At risk of being offensive...you may be the problem, rather than the site

This is EXACTLY what I'm talking about. You're taking the "risk" and succeeding bte. How do you know that? The pool is small here - soooo many sharks.

I don't understand what you mean...

That he’s a small fish in a big pond "

Yes I get that bit...what is 'bte'.

If the problem is a small pond (as opposed to a small fish) then how will a different site help??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As it says - soooo bored with same old, same old. No replies, no contact

Let's start a new site! "

Maybe your expectations are too high!

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Would it be a public traded entity?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At risk of being offensive...you may be the problem, rather than the site

This is EXACTLY what I'm talking about. You're taking the "risk" and succeeding bte. How do you know that? The pool is small here - soooo many sharks.

I don't understand what you mean...

That he’s a small fish in a big pond

Yes I get that bit...what is 'bte'.

If the problem is a small pond (as opposed to a small fish) then how will a different site help??"

Just think he’s venting some frustration, no harm done. The guy doesn’t need chastised but that’s how it works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At risk of being offensive...you may be the problem, rather than the site

This is EXACTLY what I'm talking about. You're taking the "risk" and succeeding bte. How do you know that? The pool is small here - soooo many sharks. "

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"At risk of being offensive...you may be the problem, rather than the site

This is EXACTLY what I'm talking about. You're taking the "risk" and succeeding bte. How do you know that? The pool is small here - soooo many sharks.

I don't understand what you mean...

That he’s a small fish in a big pond

Yes I get that bit...what is 'bte'.

If the problem is a small pond (as opposed to a small fish) then how will a different site help??"

I think he meant btw - by the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How on earth can you be bored on here it’s great

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By *ove3funCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"At risk of being offensive...you may be the problem, rather than the site

This is EXACTLY what I'm talking about. You're taking the "risk" and succeeding bte. How do you know that? The pool is small here - soooo many sharks.

I don't understand what you mean...

That he’s a small fish in a big pond

Yes I get that bit...what is 'bte'.

If the problem is a small pond (as opposed to a small fish) then how will a different site help??

I think he meant btw - by the way"

Thank you

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

You’ve got to make the best of it.

No profile picture makes it hard.

Having no photos at all makes it really hard, nobody knows who they are talking to and unless you are super interesting then most wont be bothered to find out.

Being married also makes it hard.

So, sort the first two out. Get rid of the Facebook disclaimer (I’ve never understood what Facebook has to do with anything) and get to a social or two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m just fed up with the same fishing threads and the same convos

What fishing threads? I'm a keen angler and I can't find any... "

Rate my profile , I can’t get no messages why, no one meets me why,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s like waiting for a bus this site. You wait ages and nothing then all the messages come all together and you’re knees deep in pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mmmm what we call it???

BoredSwingers?? "

BoardSwingers or many will struggle to find it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As it says - soooo bored with same old, same old. No replies, no contact

Let's start a new site! "

That’s what JC said , and look what happened to him today

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By *ackinabox19Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

Maybe it’s your positive attitude and outlook that everyone is attracted to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can relate to this post. It seems that because the women and couples are outnumbered by single guys they seem to get bombarded and struggle to respond to everyone?

I always feel like I am chasing rather than being chased but that's the way it should be?

I have days where I feel like deleting my account but then you will see positive advice on the forums and think to yourself "hang on maybe I just need to change my approach"...

I feel like my photos and profile are decent enough but also have learned not to bombard people with messages and photos...I feel my profile can always be improved but at the moment I am stuck in a rut.

Any advice welcome...

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Maybe if your profile was a bit better you'd have more luck??

I've actually had a cpl meets - only one Veri but it's just that it's a very small.pond here in NI - I have a specific set of criteria and it's difficult to catch someone's eye. I had to resort to putting something specific on my status page to get someone's attention. It worked but it was exhausting. Nothing came of it but it's just sooooo hard to stand out

"

Then you need to look at an alternative way of getting what you would like,broaden your horizons if it's not working for you here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don’t put effort in you won’t get much out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leave then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has been done and didn’t really work. Setting up a site with negative intention rarely does.

The trick is to make the place you’re in work for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's why I refuse to pay on here

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By *ikerdude2017Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

There must be a trick to getting meets on here. I have tried everything and get nothing. Yes I know all the ladies get 100 of messages a day. But I get none except from guys. I am in the forum's I'm not confident enough to go to clubs.

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By *0something1965 OP   Man
over a year ago

Belfast


"Maybe it’s your positive attitude and outlook that everyone is attracted to "

Have you got your mobile handy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find a new hobby then OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit Ini

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Good popcorn today

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's what you make of it. In many instances, people have inappropriate expectations - which they are also free to take responsibility for and change too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hard to stand out when you have a blank profile and those disclaimer things are useless as well. Tart up your profile to get the most success.

Every time I get a builder or a mechanic to quote, each one tells me a different story. Same with the disclaimer

"Why have you got that disclaimer"

"Why haven't you got a disclaimer?!"

I'm not complaining about my profile. I have what I have. There are cliques on here and esp in the forums.

"

But your specific disclaimer references Facebook, a completely different website!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"I’m just fed up with the same fishing threads and the same convos

What fishing threads? I'm a keen angler and I can't find any...

Rate my profile , I can’t get no messages why, no one meets me why, "

You've only been here 5 weeks, so your expectations would likely be more accurate if they included a few months for you to become established.

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