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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Which do you care more for, a woman's personality or looks?

I would never pick a woman ssolely for looks, even she was the pinnacle of beauty to me personally. That person could be dull and devoid of life, or have any other problem or character does align of my own.

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over a year ago

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

It’s got to be both. One without the other doesn’t work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both. One without the other just don’t do it for myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Which do you care more for, a woman's personality or looks?

Alright ladies, now that you came in for a nosey, you are allowed to contribute too.

Looks I ain't looking to marry someone who I don't want to introduce to my friend

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Security, there is a womwn in here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are there any women here ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Security, there is a womwn in here!

Oops! Meant woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Security, there is a womwn in here!

Just kick her out love

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

Has to be both for me, Lou x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are there any women here ?

Yup! A cheeky one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are there any women here ?

Yup! A cheeky one!

You called

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are there any women here ?

Yup! A cheeky one!

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By *igtone2310Man
over a year ago

Beverley

Personality, it's all in the mind for me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No matter how good the personality, if I don't find them physically attractive then its a no from me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Which do you care more for, a woman's personality or looks?

Alright ladies, now that you came in for a nosey, you are allowed to contribute too.

Looks I ain't looking to marry someone who I don't want to introduce to my friend "

Intresting! So are you saying you would be happy with a 'trophy' wife?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s got to be both. One without the other doesn’t work "

Agree. What do you give more weight to?

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

Personality overrides everything for me. Without that connection it isn’t going to work. I don’t believe I’ve ever not met after a social on looks alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Her beautiful minge hole but depends on its size

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Personality overrides everything for me. Without that connection it isn’t going to work. I don’t believe I’ve ever not met after a social on looks alone"

Good one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the lady to look nice but when you chat in here or meet they need to have a personality to make it more worthwhile. I have never been a fan of taking on for the team lol

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

"It’s got to be both. One without the other doesn’t work

Agree. What do you give more weight to?

I think people that have a great personality can become more physically attractive when you get to know them. So personality tips it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Her beautiful minge hole but depends on its size

Tbag

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s got to be both. One without the other doesn’t work

Agree. What do you give more weight to?

I think people that have a great personality can become more physically attractive when you get to know them. So personality tips it."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Her beautiful minge hole but depends on its size

Tbag

You still here.

Securityýyyyyyy!!!!

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

"Personality, it's all in the mind for me x"

This

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Sexy & lystful

Personality

Looks

In that order at the mo

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By *r AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"Which do you care more for, a woman's personality or looks?

Alright ladies, now that you came in for a nosey, you are allowed to contribute too.

so across a crowded bar or night club you see a lady and think,,,

Holy shiteballs Batman she looks like she has a Stunning personally,

I'm deffo gonna Mozzy over there and chance my arm, ????

How has that worked out for you,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Her beautiful minge hole but depends on its size

Tbag

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no dice

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Which do you care more for, a woman's personality or looks?

Alright ladies, now that you came in for a nosey, you are allowed to contribute too.

so across a crowded bar or night club you see a lady and think,,,

Holy shiteballs Batman she looks like she has a Stunning personally,

I'm deffo gonna Mozzy over there and chance my arm, ????

How has that worked out for you,

Personality is what makes a person. I dont think you can spot personality from far, no matter in a pub, club or public places. You need to interact with that person for a little while before you understand their personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Her beautiful minge hole but depends on its size

Tbag

no dice

Not tbag not dice

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Both you need mental and physical stimulation.

Can be hot as fuck, but if you cant engaged or share a conversation together those looks will slowly fade away.

I can also imagine women think the same too x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Both you need mental and physical stimulation.

Can be hot as fuck, but if you cant engaged or share a conversation together those looks will slowly fade away.

I can also imagine women think the same too x"

Some women do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The original attraction has to be looks but some people get more attractive or less attractive because of the person they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Both you need mental and physical stimulation.

Can be hot as fuck, but if you cant engaged or share a conversation together those looks will slowly fade away.

I can also imagine women think the same too x

Some women do.

This one does

Looks opens the door but lacking compatible personality shuts it.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"Which do you care more for, a woman's personality or looks?

Alright ladies, now that you came in for a nosey, you are allowed to contribute too.

The cut of her jib

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 13/12/19 19:50:03]

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Which do you care more for, a woman's personality or looks?

Alright ladies, now that you came in for a nosey, you are allowed to contribute too.

The cut of her jib"

For a moment, I thought you had three legs!

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By *reeneggsandsamMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

"Which do you care more for, a woman's personality or looks?

Alright ladies, now that you came in for a nosey, you are allowed to contribute too.

Bank balance over looks any day of the week.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

come on guys,.you're gonna.fuck the good looking one and then

maybe look for personality

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By *rMrsMorningstarCouple
over a year ago

near bridgend

It must be personalities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"come on guys,.you're gonna.fuck the good looking one and then

maybe look for personality "

Very true but after that the personality starts to matter, don’t want them moaning about having to pay for a taxi

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Dum d dum.....oops just wandered in...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Which do you care more for, a woman's personality or looks?

Alright ladies, now that you came in for a nosey, you are allowed to contribute too.

If its friendship then personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality. Sex is so so much better when theres that mental chemistry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100 % personality.

Good personality makes her look Good and enjoy fucking her.

Good looks and bad personality is bad for the libido.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"come on guys,.you're gonna.fuck the good looking one and then

maybe look for personality "

You could cover the face with a paper bag and fire the base.

Hi Belle

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Dum d dum.....oops just wandered in...

Security, you are fired!

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"Dum d dum.....oops just wandered in...

Security, you are fired!

How come Belle gets "hi" I get "chuck her out"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Dum d dum.....oops just wandered in...

Security, you are fired!

How come Belle gets "hi" I get "chuck her out"

Oops! Hi Suzuki!

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Personality always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks first but must have personality you don’t look at a munter and go wonder what her personality is like

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Dum d dum.....oops just wandered in...

Security, you are fired!

How come Belle gets "hi" I get "chuck her out"

Belle might be thinking, who the hell is this guy?

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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire

"Which do you care more for, a woman's personality or looks?

Alright ladies, now that you came in for a nosey, you are allowed to contribute too.

I'm a sucker for a woman with a sense of humour. Also like intelligent women.

Airheads, no matter how pretty, are of no interest to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooops sorry I just couldn't help myself in joining in on this thread let's face it we see looks first and if the personality and connection is there then boom boom added bonus but cant have one without the other

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"Dum d dum.....oops just wandered in...

Security, you are fired!

How come Belle gets "hi" I get "chuck her out"

Belle might be thinking, who the hell is this guy?

Arhhhhh ok...

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

"Both. One without the other just don’t do it for myself "

Exactly what he said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks attract me, personality maintains my interest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Which do you care more for, a woman's personality or looks?

Alright ladies, now that you came in for a nosey, you are allowed to contribute too.

I'm a sucker for a woman with a sense of humour. Also like intelligent women.

Airheads, no matter how pretty, are of no interest to me."

Airhead!

That's new.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ooops sorry I just couldn't help myself in joining in on this thread let's face it we see looks first and if the personality and connection is there then boom boom added bonus but cant have one without the other

Do I know you? Cause you look very much like my next girlfriend!

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Do I know you? Cause you look very much like my next girlfriend!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do I know you? Cause you look very much like my next girlfriend!

Boy! That lady can flirt. I couldn't keep up with her last time!

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

Depends what my intended use for her is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends what my intended use for her is."

You still have to put up with her, even if it is for an hour or so.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Looks attract me, personality maintains my interest."

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Being an honourary bloke as I've a silicon dick and possibly more balls then most blokes.

Personality way over looks. There has to be some attraction, but mainly personality. Make me laugh, allow me to cry, make me feel sexy - cause swinging for me is souless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Which do you care more for, a woman's personality or looks?

Alright ladies, now that you came in for a nosey, you are allowed to contribute too.

Looks I ain't looking to marry someone who I don't want to introduce to my friend

Intresting! So are you saying you would be happy with a 'trophy' wife?

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Being an honourary bloke as I've a silicon dick and possibly more balls then most blokes.

Personality way over looks. There has to be some attraction, but mainly personality. Make me laugh, allow me to cry, make me feel sexy - cause swinging for me is souless. "

Sound of wisdom!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Which do you care more for, a woman's personality or looks?

Alright ladies, now that you came in for a nosey, you are allowed to contribute too.

Then again you wouldn’t pick one solely on personality.. life’s all about balance.. that often spoke about, rarely found sweet spot.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I haven't had sex in nearly three years! I need all the alignments to come together otherwise my legs remain shut!

Am I enjoying that report? The Hell No! Can I stop my brain from working the way it does? No.

I need a man to be able to attract in both brain matter and looks, alas it seldom happens, (also much to my detriment and probably cause an upset on here if they have been with the shall we say 'more local' women in my area, they won't be getting with me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I haven't had sex in nearly three years! I need all the alignments to come together otherwise my legs remain shut!

Am I enjoying that report? The Hell No! Can I stop my brain from working the way it does? No.

I know this lad that frequents Dyce. I’ve heard he’s a master of planet alignment.

Bit of a chancer but I’m sure he could help you out

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I haven't had sex in nearly three years! I need all the alignments to come together otherwise my legs remain shut!

Am I enjoying that report? The Hell No! Can I stop my brain from working the way it does? No.

Three years

You must be a virgin again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do I know you? Cause you look very much like my next girlfriend!

Boy! That lady can flirt. I couldn't keep up with her last time!

Ahh do I now sounds promising

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By *ussD1Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

Some of the ugliest people ive met are very easy on the eye. Conversely some of the most beautiful are what I’d say are plain looking.

For me the sexiest people are those who feel sexy in their own skin. Self confidence is the biggest turn on, body shape doesn’t enter into it.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I would say looks are not everything for me and honestly a inner confidence with great intelligence, A lovely sense of humour, A smile that lights up the room and a very witty sense of humour

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Looks are not a deal breaker for me but personality and manners are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looks are not a deal breaker for me but personality and manners are

Good evening ma’dam, may I get the door for you?

Think that means I’ve sealed the deal, right?

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

"Looks are not a deal breaker for me but personality and manners are

Good evening ma’dam, may I get the door for you?

Think that means I’ve sealed the deal, right?"

Good try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looks are not a deal breaker for me but personality and manners are

Good evening ma’dam, may I get the door for you?

Think that means I’ve sealed the deal, right?

Good try"

I’ll take that as a yes

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"come on guys,.you're gonna.fuck the good looking one and then

maybe look for personality

You could cover the face with a paper bag and fire the base.

Hi Belle

Hmmm hello

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By *rallyFixated1Man
over a year ago

tipton

Personality can change perception of beauty. I’ve met some beautiful women that were horrible people and it shines through.

Give me plain with a kick arse personality and a wicked sense of humour

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Looks can provide the initial attraction but personality decides if it's something that develops long term I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say 65% personality and 35% looks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely personality, looks can draw you in but for me if there is no personality I would find it hard to stay attracted to them, whether it be long term or short term, a one off or something regular if there is no personality I'd find it hard to stay interested and would get bored very quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the state of my horniness and how full are my testicles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen women out and thought "I would love to taste her sex" and had I been able to I'm sure I would have. Ive also got to know women who were great looking but we didn't get on, and women who I wasn't attracted to until I got to know them. I've got chatting to all the women that I have slept with first and it's their personalities that seeled the deal

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've seen women out and thought "I would love to taste her sex" and had I been able to I'm sure I would have. Ive also got to know women who were great looking but we didn't get on, and women who I wasn't attracted to until I got to know them. I've got chatting to all the women that I have slept with first and it's their personalities that seeled the deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality grabs me first every time. Then looks

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

"Definitely personality, looks can draw you in but for me if there is no personality I would find it hard to stay attracted to them, whether it be long term or short term, a one off or something regular if there is no personality I'd find it hard to stay interested and would get bored very quickly "

Sums it pretty well.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Personality grabs me first every time. Then looks "

Do you like my personality?

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

"It’s got to be both. One without the other doesn’t work

Agree. What do you give more weight to?

I think people that have a great personality can become more physically attractive when you get to know them. So personality tips it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to be both both, but looks definitely takes second place over intelligence and wit.

Average looks confidence and with sexy mind over stunner who struggles to hold enough conversation.

Stunners tend to have inbox full and one message get lost, they tend to have a lot of meets and too easily distracted to get any conversation going too in my experience.

I like the build up and feeling they're genuinely interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Which do you care more for, a woman's personality or looks?

Alright ladies, now that you came in for a nosey, you are allowed to contribute too.

Most guys go for looks even though they may say persona

The look of an arse

The curves of boobs

And feck all else turns a guy on

If you want persona try cupid lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s got to be both. One without the other doesn’t work "

Vine you say that but in reality

Which attracts you more

Boobs

Bum... That's the reality

This site is not for persona Vine it's a let's swing with many and go site.

Was at Eurekas and the guy I was with kept looking at boobs all night long because he is a boob lover he wasn't looking into my persona at all.

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

Looks first but you need to talk after the sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Looks first but you need to talk after the sex."

You could talk over the phone!

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Looks and personality have to both be present in good measure. With some people a bit more the former, others the latter. I'd say the same is true for most people i've spoken to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both. But I can go off someone I fancy loads of they're personality or lifestyle choice is unattractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's wrong with being greedy and wanting the complete package?

Works well in my wet dream's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's wrong with being greedy and wanting the complete package?

Works well in my wet dream's

Thought you were in search of dinner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's wrong with being greedy and wanting the complete package?

Works well in my wet dream's

Thought you were in search of dinner

I was, but you was removed from the menu... So I plumbed for a fish finger sarnie. I can see the comparison. Lol

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