FabSwingers.com forum: How to 'meet a couple'

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How???

Been here a year and i find it difficult to meet couples.

How can i, without going to a club?

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

You must be attractive to them. Failing that a long rope might work, lasso style.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Go to a social

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

How are you going about it at the moment? The best way in our opinion is to message couples who have similar interests and take it from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I were hunting a couple then I would hunt down ones I liked the look of and read their profile four times so I’m armed with all and any information and then I would message and hope for a reply.

Best of luck

Tony

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Same way as you meet anyone from the site really - find people where there is mutual attraction and they are looking for the same thing as you

Attracting them is the key though and that can be done by having an interesting profile that piques interest, backed up by pics that show you off well and finding the right message as a starter.

There really is no magic catch all formula

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How are you going about it at the moment? The best way in our opinion is to message couples who have similar interests and take it from there. "

I read profile... type a message which consists something they have mentioned in their profile to prove i have read it. In a witty way. I then add a body and face picture and finish with... i understand you get hundreds of messages, so will leave you to read my profile and message me back if interested.

Something along those lines.

Alot say very attractive will speak to mr or mrs and never hear from them. Really dont want to pressure anyone.

I dont know what more i can do.

And i am not desperate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I were hunting a couple then I would hunt down ones I liked the look of and read their profile four times so I’m armed with all and any information and then I would message and hope for a reply.

Best of luck

Tony"

Thats what i do.

Its tough.

I dont get it! I am a handsome, charming and respectful gentleman.

Haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your profile is your sales pitch, make it work

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"How are you going about it at the moment? The best way in our opinion is to message couples who have similar interests and take it from there.

Something along those lines.

Alot say very attractive will speak to mr or mrs and never hear from them. Really dont want to pressure anyone.

I dont know what more i can do.

And i am not desperate.

I think it's a waiting game really. There's no magic formula.

Hope you find what you're after though, good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"your profile is your sales pitch, make it work"

I do need to update it.

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By *WillowxWoman
over a year ago

Oo err Devon

A social may be a good idea... We tend not to look for single males but met a guy at a social and had a great time! We just clicked so went with it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How are you going about it at the moment? The best way in our opinion is to message couples who have similar interests and take it from there.

Something along those lines.

Alot say very attractive will speak to mr or mrs and never hear from them. Really dont want to pressure anyone.

I dont know what more i can do.

And i am not desperate.

I think it's a waiting game really. There's no magic formula.

Hope you find what you're after though, good luck "

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By *WillowxWoman
over a year ago

Oo err Devon

Local meet social... Not a 1:1 social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's nothing in your profile to suggest you're interested in meeting couples and as all your verifications are from ladies, we'd probably pass you by. Your profile name also suggests dominant tendencies which would immediately put us off (though would be attractive to some other couples).

Explain what you're looking for in your profile text, what you'd like to experience and how you envisage contributing to an MFM.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't accommodate???

Not all cpls want strangers in their house....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There's nothing in your profile to suggest you're interested in meeting couples and as all your verifications are from ladies, we'd probably pass you by. Your profile name also suggests dominant tendencies which would immediately put us off (though would be attractive to some other couples).

Explain what you're looking for in your profile text, what you'd like to experience and how you envisage contributing to an MFM.

Good luck!

Thank you.

And i know. My name contradicts my veris.

Ok... i need my profile updating. And name changing.

Thanks again.

Check my profile later and be honest with feedback. If you have time. Lol. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your username would instantly make me ignore any message.

Your profile looks lazy, if someone cant be bothered to write anything about themselves or what they're looking for then I'm not wasting my time asking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Off to work now.

So i will read everyones advice on my lunch.

But... if you really want me to secure an idea down.. please feel free to private message me.

Many thanks .

Xxx

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

You can't accommodate which will put a lot of couples off.

You also claim to be the "unicorn hunter" not sure how that equates to couples!

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Also helps if you read their profile before messaging!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you everyone for the advice.

I appreciate it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice would be go to an organized socials, there's usually a lot of couples there, you get to meet a lot of people all at once and have a good night out with like-minded people, and a chance of meeting a couple you like who might like you back. Gotta be in it to win it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My advice would be go to an organized socials, there's usually a lot of couples there, you get to meet a lot of people all at once and have a good night out with like-minded people, and a chance of meeting a couple you like who might like you back. Gotta be in it to win it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got the same problem mate. Its hard out there. Really difficult to stand out. Hard to find the right words to say sometimes. Especially when about 2% respond. If you find any willing couples let me know

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I got the same problem mate. Its hard out there. Really difficult to stand out. Hard to find the right words to say sometimes. Especially when about 2% respond. If you find any willing couples let me know

Oh i will mate. Same to you!

Haha x

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Not sure why you say "without going to a club". We play with all the single guys we want in clubs - not only can we see what we're getting before we commit to playing, it's also a safe anonymous environment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure why you say "without going to a club". We play with all the single guys we want in clubs - not only can we see what we're getting before we commit to playing, it's also a safe anonymous environment."

Same. No message ping pong,can instantly decide if theres attraction or not and if everyone is on the same wave length, and if everyone is happy straight to a private room. So much easier for everyone I'd have thought.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok. I will go to a club.

Updated my profile too.

We are getting somewhere people.

Thank you very much for the advice once more. X

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By *eordiesCouple
over a year ago

newcastle

In Leeds you have the choice of 2 clubs.

Just go to a club and be chatty to people there.

Don't expect a shag, if it happens it's a bonus !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In Leeds you have the choice of 2 clubs.

Just go to a club and be chatty to people there.

Don't expect a shag, if it happens it's a bonus !"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be yourself and do things the right way and if all requirements are met by all parties then you have success.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Knock on the door of a couple and say yr canvassing for a opinion poll of cops into swinging .... bingo, you’ve met a cpl and u never know, they could be the one

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