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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A shoutout to all the kinky people on Fab!

If you love kink play. Fetish & B.D.S.M.

Give us a wave!

This is a thread to post to when you are seeking likeminded playmates!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A wave and a post for a playmate from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big wave. Spank specialist here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi hi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well hello there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *asterslittlewhoreCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A shoutout to all the kinky people on Fab!

If you love kink play. Fetish & B.D.S.M.

Give us a wave!

This is a thread to post to when you are seeking likeminded playmates!

"

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By *amfabMan
over a year ago

Luton

Wave wave

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

*waves x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good Evening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New to exploring my BDSM side but definitely enjoyed what I’ve done so far

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

Have recently discovered I love being spanked hard

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Hiiii *waves*

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By *eltic KinkstersCouple
over a year ago

Manchester/Leeds

*waves* hello all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wave -

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By *ister KinkyMan
over a year ago

Sussex

*WAVE*

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By *ucky88oMan
over a year ago

london

Hello all

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Cooeeeeyyyy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello

-Gentlemanrogue on the fetish site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha!

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By *udewhennudeMan
over a year ago

newport

Too kinky for my own good

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Hiiiii

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By *apascouseMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Newbie to kink and fetish but willing to explore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Girls in pvc treble wave x

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Monkey waves a studded paddle and gimp mask ... evening

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

Submissive female with a love of light bondage, spanking, mild asphyxiation, hair pulling etc here.

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

Yup I'm not a nilla 0;)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*waves* hello all "

Those pictures of Mrs ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" "

Sets off a flare !!!!!

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

The erotic journey through lust is as important as the destination.

Ed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great sex starts in the mind the rest happens when I hit the decks lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An ex girlfriend of mine in my teens loved being slapped (in the face). At first I was a bit anxious of hurting her, but eventually I was full on slapping her and it was so hot to see how she reacted to it and how it made her so horny.

Oh how I’d like one more go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

**waves

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I'm quite vanilla... But wave!

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By *ountryfansCouple
over a year ago

huntingdon

*waves* hi

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By *ossnsecretaryCouple
over a year ago

Epsom

Hello there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Greetings all. A few of you on our hotlist

Fuzz

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way


"An ex girlfriend of mine in my teens loved being slapped (in the face). At first I was a bit anxious of hurting her, but eventually I was full on slapping her and it was so hot to see how she reacted to it and how it made her so horny.

Oh how I’d like one more go

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Ahh I love this. But most guys are too scared.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"An ex girlfriend of mine in my teens loved being slapped (in the face). At first I was a bit anxious of hurting her, but eventually I was full on slapping her and it was so hot to see how she reacted to it and how it made her so horny.

Oh how I’d like one more go

Mate Aberdeen is bouncing with kinky folk. Pm me ill telm you how to find them.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"An ex girlfriend of mine in my teens loved being slapped (in the face). At first I was a bit anxious of hurting her, but eventually I was full on slapping her and it was so hot to see how she reacted to it and how it made her so horny.

Oh how I’d like one more go

Ahh I love this. But most guys are too scared."

If she wasn’t my girlfriend I’d have been a bit reluctant. But she was convincing and once I’d done it I reaped the rewards. Unfortunately I’ve yet to find it again!

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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago

Coventry


"A shoutout to all the kinky people on Fab!

If you love kink play. Fetish & B.D.S.M.

Give us a wave!

This is a thread to post to when you are seeking likeminded playmates!

"

A little wave from us

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

On the scale, I didn't think I was all that, but apparently I really am!

Hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ister KinkyMan
over a year ago

Sussex

Definitely bookmarking this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Evening all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Evening all "

well hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should we wave in unison

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are definitely waving xx

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Crossed that particular threshold many moons ago

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"We are definitely waving xx"

Nice outfits Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kinky switch couple here

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Big wave from us!! C is switch but mostly dom at present. I'm a brat type sub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Evening all "

Evening Midnight

Fuzz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Evening all

Evening Midnight

Fuzz"

Well hullo Fuzz.. Fancy seeing you here

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london

Surfs up

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By *urvySub87Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough

Just found a great dom to help me explore my limits. Very excited

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Sets off a flare !!!!!"

behave!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello!

Kinkster here

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By *ngelfireWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Big wave from me! -:D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Evening all

Evening Midnight

Fuzz

Well hullo Fuzz.. Fancy seeing you here "

Yeah I've been seeing you around places too

Fuzz

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Ello

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By *mnipotent_BehemothMan
over a year ago

near Merry Hill shopping centre

Only a little kinky..... but then I can lie with the best of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are definitely waving xx

Nice outfits Mrs x"

Thank you xx

Looks like you have a few yourself x

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"We are definitely waving xx

Nice outfits Mrs x

Thank you xx

Looks like you have a few yourself x"

One or two x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A wave or two from us and on the lookout for a playmate.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Oh gods, I’m not.

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

Hello there fellow kinksters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Submissive male looking for a mistress.

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By *ornyDubMan25Man
over a year ago

Berlin

Lot of hot people in this thread! Wave from me!

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I'm a kinky reprobate... Hi!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heyyyyyy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it, just a little.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah I’m 100% pure grade vanilla

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone here fancy a chat then drop me a message

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Mexican wave

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By *ornyguy169Man
over a year ago

birmingham

Waving

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way


"An ex girlfriend of mine in my teens loved being slapped (in the face). At first I was a bit anxious of hurting her, but eventually I was full on slapping her and it was so hot to see how she reacted to it and how it made her so horny.

Oh how I’d like one more go

Ahh I love this. But most guys are too scared.

If she wasn’t my girlfriend I’d have been a bit reluctant. But she was convincing and once I’d done it I reaped the rewards. Unfortunately I’ve yet to find it again! "

I suppose I understand it, but when I'm begging for it. I want it haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"An ex girlfriend of mine in my teens loved being slapped (in the face). At first I was a bit anxious of hurting her, but eventually I was full on slapping her and it was so hot to see how she reacted to it and how it made her so horny.

Oh how I’d like one more go

Ahh I love this. But most guys are too scared.

If she wasn’t my girlfriend I’d have been a bit reluctant. But she was convincing and once I’d done it I reaped the rewards. Unfortunately I’ve yet to find it again!

I suppose I understand it, but when I'm begging for it. I want it haha "

And get it, you would.

I ended up getting a message on here telling me not to give up my search and after a few messages they have started a fire I need to contend with.

I’m on the hunt

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way


"An ex girlfriend of mine in my teens loved being slapped (in the face). At first I was a bit anxious of hurting her, but eventually I was full on slapping her and it was so hot to see how she reacted to it and how it made her so horny.

Oh how I’d like one more go

Ahh I love this. But most guys are too scared.

If she wasn’t my girlfriend I’d have been a bit reluctant. But she was convincing and once I’d done it I reaped the rewards. Unfortunately I’ve yet to find it again!

I suppose I understand it, but when I'm begging for it. I want it haha

And get it, you would.

I ended up getting a message on here telling me not to give up my search and after a few messages they have started a fire I need to contend with.

I’m on the hunt "

Haha have fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoy it, but it's been quite a while.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Definitely bookmarking this thread "

Cool! I am pleased to see my thread has taken off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always exploring..

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By *aughtySirMan
over a year ago

manchester

Well hello all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Waving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's fair to say we fit this category...

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

?????????????? waving from the windswept moors

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

I would wave.....but my hands are tied.

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By *ncutgemMan
over a year ago

Bath ish

I love to tie and I have also made machines

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Waving to all you fellow BDSM lovers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would wave.....but my hands are tied. "

That's where my rope got to

Fuzz

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By *osmosgirlWoman
over a year ago

Wetherby

I'm in

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london


"A shoutout to all the kinky people on Fab!

If you love kink play. Fetish & B.D.S.M.

Give us a wave!

This is a thread to post to when you are seeking likeminded playmates!

Hallo waving

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

Such filth!

Down with this sort of thing!

Like I ever would?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I belong in here, I'm pretty much only here for kink! *waves*

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By *ubberclubberMan
over a year ago

Southsea

Evenin' all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great thread....

Having a nose who's posted x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well this is a certainly interesting thread

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Oh gods, I’m not. "

I just spat out my coffee!!

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Waving..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Waving

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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City

Waving here

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Hi all. Would love to learn rope play. Went to a munch unfortunately alone so didn’t have anyone to practice on. Used to spank a bottom or two when I went to clubs. Hmmm you have got me all thinking. I may have to invest in more ropes, mine are shite. Any recommendations?

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge


"Hi all. Would love to learn rope play. Went to a munch unfortunately alone so didn’t have anyone to practice on. Used to spank a bottom or two when I went to clubs. Hmmm you have got me all thinking. I may have to invest in more ropes, mine are shite. Any recommendations? "
B&Q or as its known in the comunity bondage quatermasters ! the jute sashcord is a bargain and treats easily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Waves!

Just getting back in to attending sone of the local events after a break of a few years. Loving been back out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's fair to say we fit this category... "

You two may just be over qualified

Fuzz

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By *inkykat dirtydogCouple
over a year ago

Cov

We are a bit kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Waves

How did I miss this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So now that everyone has stated they are kinky its time for the questions, what kinks does everyone have?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heyyy cool post thanks OP.. I'm kinky and I know it..

D to your s... X

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By *WkinkymaleMan
over a year ago

Aberystwyth


"An ex girlfriend of mine in my teens loved being slapped (in the face). At first I was a bit anxious of hurting her, but eventually I was full on slapping her and it was so hot to see how she reacted to it and how it made her so horny.

Oh how I’d like one more go

Ahh I love this. But most guys are too scared."

Not all though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi I can be kinky when I feel like it, just hate being told what to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A shoutout to all the kinky people on Fab!

If you love kink play. Fetish & B.D.S.M.

Give us a wave!

This is a thread to post to when you are seeking likeminded playmates!

"

Oh hello there

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By *WkinkymaleMan
over a year ago

Aberystwyth

Hmmmm I think I've found a home. wave

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By *xpertiMan
over a year ago

The Dales

It's very sporadic I find anyone remotely interested in the things I am up north! Anyone fancy poking their head in my inbox!

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

How did I miss this

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By *xpertiMan
over a year ago

The Dales

I was thinking the same thing!

Other than a dungeon this could be quite a fitting place for me!

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By *amLukeMan
over a year ago

M

Waving to everyone.. dont be scared to pop up for a chat..

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By *heeky paulMan
over a year ago

South

Oh yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yooo-hooo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How did I miss this

"

You were bildfolded?

Fuzz

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By *ill-Ian KissesCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere over there

Waving!

Into flogging, paddles and just getting into rope work with hogties.

Ian not the best sub, so keen to find a regular as I have other toys that need using.

Millie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Waving!

Into flogging, paddles and just getting into rope work with hogties.

Ian not the best sub, so keen to find a regular as I have other toys that need using.

Millie "

Other toys??? Interesting

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By *essie.Woman
over a year ago

Serendipity

Love some bdsm.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Bumping the thread. So many kinksters on Fab. My faith is restored!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come get me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bumping the thread. So many kinksters on Fab. My faith is restored!"

I've always said, Fab does Fab guys and Fab swinger's, they should do FabFet for those who are just starting out in kink or don't want to to go so full on in the fet world and FL.

Fuzz

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By *WkinkymaleMan
over a year ago

Aberystwyth


"Bumping the thread. So many kinksters on Fab. My faith is restored!

I've always said, Fab does Fab guys and Fab swinger's, they should do FabFet for those who are just starting out in kink or don't want to to go so full on in the fet world and FL.

Fuzz"

Mmmmm fabfet

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton


"Bumping the thread. So many kinksters on Fab. My faith is restored!

I've always said, Fab does Fab guys and Fab swinger's, they should do FabFet for those who are just starting out in kink or don't want to to go so full on in the fet world and FL.

Fuzz"

I think there are regularly a number of useful threads helping people start in kink.

I hope I am not misinterpreting you, and would say everyone can do kink their way, (subject to consent and lack of abuse).

I would suggest that "fabfet" would not relate to people starting in kink, but end up with what I call "hedonistic kink". This is where kink (specifically bdsm) is either an excuse for sex you would find on fab, or is entwined with the type of sex you find on fab. I suspect that as this site majors on sex, fabfet would end up having little to do with people learning about kink.

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By *ubberclubberMan
over a year ago

Southsea


"Bumping the thread. So many kinksters on Fab. My faith is restored!

I've always said, Fab does Fab guys and Fab swinger's, they should do FabFet for those who are just starting out in kink or don't want to to go so full on in the fet world and FL.

Fuzz"

I like the idea of that! Fab owners, get it sorted!

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By *essie.Woman
over a year ago

Serendipity


"

I've always said, Fab does Fab guys and Fab swinger's, they should do FabFet for those who are just starting out in kink or don't want to to go so full on in the fet world and FL.

Fuzz"

Great idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I've always said, Fab does Fab guys and Fab swinger's, they should do FabFet for those who are just starting out in kink or don't want to to go so full on in the fet world and FL.

Fuzz

Great idea. "

Agreed. Having tried FL before, I'll never go back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bumping the thread. So many kinksters on Fab. My faith is restored!

I've always said, Fab does Fab guys and Fab swinger's, they should do FabFet for those who are just starting out in kink or don't want to to go so full on in the fet world and FL.

Fuzz

I think there are regularly a number of useful threads helping people start in kink.

I hope I am not misinterpreting you, and would say everyone can do kink their way, (subject to consent and lack of abuse).

I would suggest that "fabfet" would not relate to people starting in kink, but end up with what I call "hedonistic kink". This is where kink (specifically bdsm) is either an excuse for sex you would find on fab, or is entwined with the type of sex you find on fab. I suspect that as this site majors on sex, fabfet would end up having little to do with people learning about kink. "

I just find Fab very user friendly. I'm also on FL which I find, to paraphrase a friend's description, clunky. There are some profiles on FL that, to beginners, may come across as too much. I just thought if Fab did a user friendly version of FL to introduce newbies to the lifestyle it might promote acceptance and diversity.

Fuzz

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By *iscreetfuncpl12Couple
over a year ago

Somerset


"

I think there are regularly a number of useful threads helping people start in kink.

I hope I am not misinterpreting you, and would say everyone can do kink their way, (subject to consent and lack of abuse).

I would suggest that "fabfet" would not relate to people starting in kink, but end up with what I call "hedonistic kink". This is where kink (specifically bdsm) is either an excuse for sex you would find on fab, or is entwined with the type of sex you find on fab. I suspect that as this site majors on sex, fabfet would end up having little to do with people learning about kink. "

Whilst acknowledging you are essentially saying each to their own, kink and bdsm, for us, isn’t an excuse for sex, it is an intrinsic part of it, as I am sure it is for many others. Having spent 20 plus years in BDSM world, I did hear of many Doms for whom BDSM seemed to be an excuse not to have sex though. We came to Fab from FL and before that CM and IC because the kink world (clubs) were so not sex positive; often leaving fetish clubs wondering how half naked people retrained and more could be rendered so deeply unerotic.

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By *apascouseMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Bumping the thread. So many kinksters on Fab. My faith is restored!

I've always said, Fab does Fab guys and Fab swinger's, they should do FabFet for those who are just starting out in kink or don't want to to go so full on in the fet world and FL.

Fuzz

I think there are regularly a number of useful threads helping people start in kink.

I hope I am not misinterpreting you, and would say everyone can do kink their way, (subject to consent and lack of abuse).

I would suggest that "fabfet" would not relate to people starting in kink, but end up with what I call "hedonistic kink". This is where kink (specifically bdsm) is either an excuse for sex you would find on fab, or is entwined with the type of sex you find on fab. I suspect that as this site majors on sex, fabfet would end up having little to do with people learning about kink.

I just find Fab very user friendly. I'm also on FL which I find, to paraphrase a friend's description, clunky. There are some profiles on FL that, to beginners, may come across as too much. I just thought if Fab did a user friendly version of FL to introduce newbies to the lifestyle it might promote acceptance and diversity.

Fuzz"

FL is the most confusing site ive ever seen

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bumping the thread. So many kinksters on Fab. My faith is restored!

I've always said, Fab does Fab guys and Fab swinger's, they should do FabFet for those who are just starting out in kink or don't want to to go so full on in the fet world and FL.

Fuzz

I think there are regularly a number of useful threads helping people start in kink.

I hope I am not misinterpreting you, and would say everyone can do kink their way, (subject to consent and lack of abuse).

I would suggest that "fabfet" would not relate to people starting in kink, but end up with what I call "hedonistic kink". This is where kink (specifically bdsm) is either an excuse for sex you would find on fab, or is entwined with the type of sex you find on fab. I suspect that as this site majors on sex, fabfet would end up having little to do with people learning about kink.

I just find Fab very user friendly. I'm also on FL which I find, to paraphrase a friend's description, clunky. There are some profiles on FL that, to beginners, may come across as too much. I just thought if Fab did a user friendly version of FL to introduce newbies to the lifestyle it might promote acceptance and diversity.

Fuzz"

I find FL more an informative site as opposed to hook up. I’ve spoke to many from the kink scene and learnt so much, great for knowledge.

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By *WkinkymaleMan
over a year ago

Aberystwyth


"Bumping the thread. So many kinksters on Fab. My faith is restored!

I've always said, Fab does Fab guys and Fab swinger's, they should do FabFet for those who are just starting out in kink or don't want to to go so full on in the fet world and FL.

Fuzz

I think there are regularly a number of useful threads helping people start in kink.

I hope I am not misinterpreting you, and would say everyone can do kink their way, (subject to consent and lack of abuse).

I would suggest that "fabfet" would not relate to people starting in kink, but end up with what I call "hedonistic kink". This is where kink (specifically bdsm) is either an excuse for sex you would find on fab, or is entwined with the type of sex you find on fab. I suspect that as this site majors on sex, fabfet would end up having little to do with people learning about kink.

I just find Fab very user friendly. I'm also on FL which I find, to paraphrase a friend's description, clunky. There are some profiles on FL that, to beginners, may come across as too much. I just thought if Fab did a user friendly version of FL to introduce newbies to the lifestyle it might promote acceptance and diversity.

Fuzz

FL is the most confusing site ive ever seen "

Agreed

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Another kinkster here. I'm an active switch, but I'm also happy to turn it off for vanilla partners.

While sex remains my primary focus, BDSM can be delightful foreplay.

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By *ill-Ian KissesCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere over there


"Waving!

Into flogging, paddles and just getting into rope work with hogties.

Ian not the best sub, so keen to find a regular as I have other toys that need using.

Millie

Other toys??? Interesting"

Have some others that I’ve not really used and would like to as well as expanding shopping list

Millie

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland


"Bumping the thread. So many kinksters on Fab. My faith is restored!

I've always said, Fab does Fab guys and Fab swinger's, they should do FabFet for those who are just starting out in kink or don't want to to go so full on in the fet world and FL.

Fuzz

I think there are regularly a number of useful threads helping people start in kink.

I hope I am not misinterpreting you, and would say everyone can do kink their way, (subject to consent and lack of abuse).

I would suggest that "fabfet" would not relate to people starting in kink, but end up with what I call "hedonistic kink". This is where kink (specifically bdsm) is either an excuse for sex you would find on fab, or is entwined with the type of sex you find on fab. I suspect that as this site majors on sex, fabfet would end up having little to do with people learning about kink.

I just find Fab very user friendly. I'm also on FL which I find, to paraphrase a friend's description, clunky. There are some profiles on FL that, to beginners, may come across as too much. I just thought if Fab did a user friendly version of FL to introduce newbies to the lifestyle it might promote acceptance and diversity.

Fuzz

FL is the most confusing site ive ever seen "

What do you find confusing about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *rungeguyMan
over a year ago

leeds

I’d like a bash at it one day

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

A wave from me. Been a domme since 18. I'm unshockable and have dipped into the extreme side of sadism many a time.

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

Never tried that sort of kink. People feel free to come show me the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Waving!

Into flogging, paddles and just getting into rope work with hogties.

Ian not the best sub, so keen to find a regular as I have other toys that need using.

Millie "

Come out on the scene. Those subby boys will be falling over themselves to serve you.

Thwre is a brand new club night in Glasgow starting this friday it sounds like it will be very good.

Pm for details if interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to work in an adult fetish club best in Bristol UK, one evening I was asked if I wanted to try the table being tied down so I couldn't move freely. I've seen this happen and I'm up for a new experience, we discussed our safe words and I was happy to join in. But the other person took advantage I used my stop safe word 5 times he still continued to do what he wanted to do. I was basically violated on the dance floor surrounded by people watching. this has put me off the BDSM fetish scene. I'm guessing people thought it was a show as it was in a public event area. you have to put the trust in the person you are with. strong advice from me is to get to know the other person well before you choose to do anything like that.

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford


"I used to work in an adult fetish club best in Bristol UK, one evening I was asked if I wanted to try the table being tied down so I couldn't move freely. I've seen this happen and I'm up for a new experience, we discussed our safe words and I was happy to join in. But the other person took advantage I used my stop safe word 5 times he still continued to do what he wanted to do. I was basically violated on the dance floor surrounded by people watching. this has put me off the BDSM fetish scene. I'm guessing people thought it was a show as it was in a public event area. you have to put the trust in the person you are with. strong advice from me is to get to know the other person well before you choose to do anything like that. "

What he did was NOT ok.

Under any circumstances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi from a simple domestic submissive from sunny Belfast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

WAVES would love a sub to play with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting

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By *upapaMan
over a year ago

Burnham On Sea

Waves, hello kinky as you like here, mainly being trampled but open to most things haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting"
really x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*waves* Hello, my name is Halo and I am BDSN Kinkster, I have been for nearly 15 years.

Thank you.

*sits back down*

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By *ddit...Man
over a year ago

Land of the giants... ;-)

A little tied up right now... so can't wave

So... a nod to the sexy crew..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to work in an adult fetish club best in Bristol UK, one evening I was asked if I wanted to try the table being tied down so I couldn't move freely. I've seen this happen and I'm up for a new experience, we discussed our safe words and I was happy to join in. But the other person took advantage I used my stop safe word 5 times he still continued to do what he wanted to do. I was basically violated on the dance floor surrounded by people watching. this has put me off the BDSM fetish scene. I'm guessing people thought it was a show as it was in a public event area. you have to put the trust in the person you are with. strong advice from me is to get to know the other person well before you choose to do anything like that. "

I am appalled that this happened and your advice is spot on. Get to know and trust the person you are playing with.

I would say that at the point you used for safe word is stopped being BDSM play and because assault, once consent is withdrawn and it carries on it becomes a criminal matter.

I am fully aware that it is easy to preach about reporting it to the police and a very different thing doing it. I do hope you are okay and that horrific experience hasn’t stopped you enjoying a safe, sane and consensual BDSM session.

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By *ill-Ian KissesCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere over there


"Waving!

Into flogging, paddles and just getting into rope work with hogties.

Ian not the best sub, so keen to find a regular as I have other toys that need using.

Millie

Come out on the scene. Those subby boys will be falling over themselves to serve you.

Thwre is a brand new club night in Glasgow starting this friday it sounds like it will be very good.

Pm for details if interested"

Hi I’m booked in for going on Friday. I’ve had a few subs approach (including Liverpool) so it’ll be good fun.

Millie

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"A shoutout to all the kinky people on Fab!

If you love kink play. Fetish & B.D.S.M.

Give us a wave!

This is a thread to post to when you are seeking likeminded playmates!

"

Hi sorry shouting loud I'M HERE

I am only 1.63cm so usual i'm always the litle girl one in the room who needs to shout

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A shoutout to all the kinky people on Fab!

If you love kink play. Fetish & B.D.S.M.

Give us a wave!

This is a thread to post to when you are seeking likeminded playmates!

Hi sorry shouting loud I'M HERE

I am only 1.63cm so usual i'm always the litle girl one in the room who needs to shout "

Do you mean inches or actualy only 1.63cm

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Don’t know how we missed this thread.

Definitely both on the kink spectrum and enjoy pushing our boundaries.

D/s here but B is a bratty, switchy sub which can be lots of fun.

B&J x

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

Wave

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Hello friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Waving with a warm hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*waves*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy Friday to all

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By *weet-cheeks100Woman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happy Friday to all "

And to you too

Fuzz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another wave and nod to my fellow kinksters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy Friday fellow kinksters

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By *adyinred696969Couple
over a year ago

Brecon

hello, we arent really perverts...well, not much

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Happy friday and waves

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By *octor DeleriumMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough

I'll raise my Jolly Roger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm waving

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