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By *good-being-bad OP   Man
over a year ago

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It's often asked by guys "what's a good first message".

To the couples or single ladies who do proactively message others.

What do you use as a first message.

Most I receive are, lacking in substance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's often asked by guys "what's a good first message".

To the couples or single ladies who do proactively message others.

What do you use as a first message.

Most I receive are, lacking in substance "

Same, if I get a first message from a woman(its a rarity mind) it generally says little more than hello. I go to the effort of tailoring my messages and making them unique to the recipient based on what I have read in their profile or seen in their pictures. I thought this is what women prefer and therefore do themselves.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Messaging cold, I use their profile to talk about what I like about them and what we have in common. I give a genuine, non generic compliment. I respect any stated wishes on the profile. (or, I message in a way that I like to be messaged)

Off the back of a forum post is different, I'm continuing an ongoing conversation in private.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Hello,

You are honoured to receive a !message from us. Report to the following location at 19:00 hours, oiled and wrapped.

It's your lucky day.

Best regards

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Hello,

You are honoured to receive a !message from us. Report to the following location at 19:00 hours, oiled and wrapped.

It's your lucky day.

Best regards"

I thought I was special

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hello,

You are honoured to receive a !message from us. Report to the following location at 19:00 hours, oiled and wrapped.

It's your lucky day.

Best regards

I thought I was special "
I

Oh you are. All people are special, some are more special than others, that's all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where is the paste button when you want it?!

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We would say hello and use their name(s).

Then we would say what we liked about their profile, why we think we could be a good match and ask if they'd be interested in having a conversation. There would be very little of a sexual nature in it. It would mostly be about how we would get on with each other.

Then we would sign off using our names.

We think that's a pretty good template.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"Hello,

You are honoured to receive a !message from us. Report to the following location at 19:00 hours, oiled and wrapped.

It's your lucky day.

Best regards"

That would work on me (Luke) but less likely with Hannah!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello,

You are honoured to receive a !message from us. Report to the following location at 19:00 hours, oiled and wrapped.

It's your lucky day.

Best regards"

Love this

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hello,

You are honoured to receive a !message from us. Report to the following location at 19:00 hours, oiled and wrapped.

It's your lucky day.

Best regards

That would work on me (Luke) but less likely with Hannah! "

I'm not surprised

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hello,

You are honoured to receive a !message from us. Report to the following location at 19:00 hours, oiled and wrapped.

It's your lucky day.

Best regards

Love this "

Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello,

You are honoured to receive a !message from us. Report to the following location at 19:00 hours, oiled and wrapped.

It's your lucky day.

Best regards"

Love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first messages usually either contain people abusing me or complimenting my ass

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"It's often asked by guys "what's a good first message".

To the couples or single ladies who do proactively message others.

What do you use as a first message.

Most I receive are, lacking in substance "

Most messages from single females consist of Hi or Hello how are you. They get the same response we give similar messages from single males.

There is very little put into messaging we find across the whole spectrum of fab.

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