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Woman is holding my mid arm during conversation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

In the art class I do there is an older woman that I talk with and she often holds my mid arm and standing close, do anyone else have an experience of this and what does it mean in body language? We also cheek kiss which is nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say either she's a tactile person who subconsciously feels direct contact strengthens bonds, or she wants your meat. I'm often wrong though OP lol

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By *est Wales WifeCouple
over a year ago

Near Carmarthen

It's the diversionary misdirection tactic of an expert pickpocket who is emptying your wallet at the same time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would say either she's a tactile person who subconsciously feels direct contact strengthens bonds, or she wants your meat. I'm often wrong though OP lol "
That is right it can mean different thing

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Years ago a new barmaid started in my local pub. She held my hand when giving me my change and my mind went into overdrive.

I found out later that she was waiting for new contacts and didn't like wearing specs. The hand holding was to stop her dropping change all over the floor

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

She does sound tactile, I always use my hands in conversations but I am clear in my intentions with it, I don't want to send misleading signals.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

I’m a very tactical person and I do have a tendency to grab some part of the person I’m talking to. No you perves not their sexy bits their hands arms shoulders. It just something I do and I’m sure other people do the same. This woman OP may just be checking you out to see how wide your arm is just go with the flow. If she wants to fuck you, next time she will grab your cock and you’ll know for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon she’s holding your arm to stop you from walking away from her.

I often get women stand close to me that their boobs brush my arm. I always think its them but I’ve been told I could be the one moving close sub-consciously.

Therefore take what you want from it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do it all the time to virtually everyone!! I'm part Italian and extremely tactile so hello kisses are the normal natural greeting for me and when I talk to anyone I tend to touch their mid forearm! It's normal and natural for some people that's all I'd read it as or you might put your foot in it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the art class I do there is an older woman that I talk with and she often holds my mid arm and standing close, do anyone else have an experience of this and what does it mean in body language? We also cheek kiss which is nice."

Is she mainland European, we tend to get closer in for conversation and touch and hold a lot lol, I’m not sure why, I think personal space is much more up for grabs back home

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"It's the diversionary misdirection tactic of an expert pickpocket who is emptying your wallet at the same time."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t read too much into it there was a really hot young girl I worked with who

was very tactile

Was just her way

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"In the art class I do there is an older woman that I talk with and she often holds my mid arm and standing close, do anyone else have an experience of this and what does it mean in body language? We also cheek kiss which is nice."

Probably feeling a bit dizzy sounds like she's using you as a walking frame to steady herself

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"It's the diversionary misdirection tactic of an expert pickpocket who is emptying your wallet at the same time."

Would be so funny if she was

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"I often get women stand close to me that their boobs brush my arm"

I absolutely love it when women do this - just enough pressure for you to know she's there

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I used to go to an evening class in which an older lady used to rub the arm of the youngish male tutor and stand really close to him. Turned out she was very recently widowed and just wanted human contact.

I don't know why your lady is holding your mid arm. She might be trying to send out sexual signals or she might not.

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By *alleyMan
over a year ago

Eccles

Is she holding the arm of other people and standing close to them too? That may just be her way with everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My neighbour does this. She moves in really close and holds my arm when talking. Turns out her husband of over 20 years in quite deaf and its just a habit she has developed from the years of trying to help him hear her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"She does sound tactile, I always use my hands in conversations but I am clear in my intentions with it, I don't want to send misleading signals."
Yes she might be tactile as well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I reckon she’s holding your arm to stop you from walking away from her.

I often get women stand close to me that their boobs brush my arm. I always think its them but I’ve been told I could be the one moving close sub-consciously.

Therefore take what you want from it "
Yes it feels that as well that she dont want me to walk away from her, which is nice too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In the art class I do there is an older woman that I talk with and she often holds my mid arm and standing close, do anyone else have an experience of this and what does it mean in body language? We also cheek kiss which is nice.

Is she mainland European, we tend to get closer in for conversation and touch and hold a lot lol, I’m not sure why, I think personal space is much more up for grabs back home "
In the group there are many nationalities and yes she is spanish as well and you are right there, they do like to get close. I dont mind it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is she holding the arm of other people and standing close to them too? That may just be her way with everyone."
No I havnt seen her hold the arm with the others. I have just noticed that she does it with me.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I touch people a lot but it doesn't mean I'll need them to shag me. You can usually suggest something more, to question another's interest type, to clarify

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the art class I do there is an older woman that I talk with and she often holds my mid arm and standing close, do anyone else have an experience of this and what does it mean in body language? We also cheek kiss which is nice.

Is she mainland European, we tend to get closer in for conversation and touch and hold a lot lol, I’m not sure why, I think personal space is much more up for grabs back home In the group there are many nationalities and yes she is spanish as well and you are right there, they do like to get close. I dont mind it."

You've just answered your own question, she's Spanish and that means for her it's just the most natural way of talking to people! I seriously wouldn't read anything into it in the slightest or it'll come across as completely you're interpreting it all wrong and she'll get embarrassed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In the art class I do there is an older woman that I talk with and she often holds my mid arm and standing close, do anyone else have an experience of this and what does it mean in body language? We also cheek kiss which is nice.

Is she mainland European, we tend to get closer in for conversation and touch and hold a lot lol, I’m not sure why, I think personal space is much more up for grabs back home In the group there are many nationalities and yes she is spanish as well and you are right there, they do like to get close. I dont mind it.

You've just answered your own question, she's Spanish and that means for her it's just the most natural way of talking to people! I seriously wouldn't read anything into it in the slightest or it'll come across as completely you're interpreting it all wrong and she'll get embarrassed "
That is right as it is their culture to do it. I like the moments we have

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Ask to paint her naked and see what she says.

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By *rjimMan
over a year ago

nr bristol


"Ask to paint her naked and see what she says."

She will probably say

" wear what you like "

j

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ask to paint her naked and see what she says.

She will probably say

" wear what you like "

j"
Yes that would be fun to do but probably best not to do that.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"In the art class I do there is an older woman that I talk with and she often holds my mid arm and standing close, do anyone else have an experience of this and what does it mean in body language? We also cheek kiss which is nice."

Do you want it to go further ?

Ask her if she'd like to go for a drink after class or you'll always think what if.

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

Maybe she thinks you have a disability and is making sure you dont fall over!

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Maybe she thinks you have a disability and is making sure you dont fall over! "

I had an older lady grab my arm at a cash point asking me if i could check her balance as she had bad eyesight

So I pushed her over

The police eventually saw that it was a genuine misunderstanding

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Should could be continental (or a luvie), this would explain the cheek kissing thing. And she maybe a little unstable on her feet so is holding onto you for support.

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By *AABMan
over a year ago

Not far

More to the point is an art class a good place for meets?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Especially those life drawing ones

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY


"Ask to paint her naked and see what she says.

She will probably say

" wear what you like "

jYes that would be fun to do but probably best not to do that."

No keep your socks on, You need somewhere to put your spair brushes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In the art class I do there is an older woman that I talk with and she often holds my mid arm and standing close, do anyone else have an experience of this and what does it mean in body language? We also cheek kiss which is nice.

Do you want it to go further ?

Ask her if she'd like to go for a drink after class or you'll always think what if."
Yes I might want to take it further not sure yet but yeah a drink with her one day would be nice too and a chat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"More to the point is an art class a good place for meets? "
Yes I would say it couod be that too.

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By *alking HeadMan
over a year ago

Bolton


"In the art class I do there is an older woman that I talk with and she often holds my mid arm and standing close, do anyone else have an experience of this and what does it mean in body language? We also cheek kiss which is nice."

If it's longer than 4 "Mississippi's", your definitely in there.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"In the art class I do there is an older woman that I talk with and she often holds my mid arm and standing close, do anyone else have an experience of this and what does it mean in body language? We also cheek kiss which is nice."

It’s a diversion technique-she’s had ya wallet, mate!

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

We need an update

Have you had another art class yet ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We need an update

Have you had another art class yet ? "
Yes I had I go few times a week and we still give each other a cheek when we start and finish the class

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