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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m starting to think that having a face pic on my profile might be doing me more harm than good.

Other profile threads where guys talk about how successful they are, none of them have face pics. But then again they have better bodies than me. As mediocre as my face is, it’s probably my best feature.

What to do?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

You haven't got a mediocre face. You're smiling and look very approachable, you're a good looking guy

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Eh? What do you think they do when they meet then, wear a paper bag?

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

My arse is better than my face apparently. That’s why my profile pic is my bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eh? What do you think they do when they meet then, wear a paper bag? "

Only when requested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve also took you’re advice op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jorgy ya handsome devil keep your face out if ya want.

I know some people find it off putting as they see it as a sign if a lack of discretion though so may thats a part of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eh? What do you think they do when they meet then, wear a paper bag? "

Or a Bill Clinton mask.. Point blank reference..

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By *ackinabox19Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

You should do what you feel comfortable with, personally when I joined I had a face picture on my profile but found that I just got random messages where now I actually get messages from people who take the time to actually read the text and understand me a little better. Obviously I get far less mail but I’m not here to get pointless messages I’m here to connect with people who have a similar mind set and I actually prefer choosing who I send it to or let see it.

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"Eh? What do you think they do when they meet then, wear a paper bag?

Or a Bill Clinton mask.. Point blank reference.. "

Smithy long time no see!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather see a face pic then the typical cock pic OP,and you look great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd rather see a face pic then the typical cock pic OP,and you look great"

I agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Eh? What do you think they do when they meet then, wear a paper bag? "

Well, the idea was to share a face pic once we’d chatted a bit. Giving them “the goods” from the off doesn’t seem to me working out for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You haven't got a mediocre face. You're smiling and look very approachable, you're a good looking guy"

You’re very kind, thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (fem) don’t think there’s anything wrong with your face. People will ask for a photo of it anyway and it’s good that you feel comfortable posting it publicly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You should do what you feel comfortable with, personally when I joined I had a face picture on my profile but found that I just got random messages where now I actually get messages from people who take the time to actually read the text and understand me a little better. Obviously I get far less mail but I’m not here to get pointless messages I’m here to connect with people who have a similar mind set and I actually prefer choosing who I send it to or let see it.

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You see where I’m coming from, and will most likely adopt your approach

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd rather see a face pic then the typical cock pic OP,and you look great"

Well, I wouldn’t have gone down that route, but thank you for the advice, and the compliment

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"Eh? What do you think they do when they meet then, wear a paper bag?

Well, the idea was to share a face pic once we’d chatted a bit. Giving them “the goods” from the off doesn’t seem to me working out for me"

Their going to see the goods sooner or later OP....

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"Eh? What do you think they do when they meet then, wear a paper bag? "

Omg that made me laugh more than it should have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eh? What do you think they do when they meet then, wear a paper bag?

Well, the idea was to share a face pic once we’d chatted a bit. Giving them “the goods” from the off doesn’t seem to me working out for me"

Most wont wanna chat till they have seen a clear face picture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eh? What do you think they do when they meet then, wear a paper bag?

Well, the idea was to share a face pic once we’d chatted a bit. Giving them “the goods” from the off doesn’t seem to me working out for me

Most wont wanna chat till they have seen a clear face picture. "

Yep. I won’t chat unless I’ve seen a clear face pic.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don’t show my face. I’d like to get past the initial ‘fuck off steve’ and have more chance sans visage.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

You're doing fine op, don't leave our exclusive club just yet. Hang in there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're doing fine op, don't leave our exclusive club just yet. Hang in there."

Your location made me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find going as far as the top lip works for me

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By *incsladyandscotsmanCouple
over a year ago

North fife

I do much prefer being able to see a guys face from the get go, but also fully respect those that don't want too.. I often don't have any on public . Seems you have nothing to worry about with yours op

L x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find going as far as the top lip works for me "

Eyes are a huge game player for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a face picture as my profile and public as you want the women your speaking to see you stand out from all the dick pics ha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont have mine as my profile pic, but have some in my private photos and always happy to send a live one to prove I am who I say I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a face picture as my profile and public as you want the women your speaking to see you stand out from all the dick pics ha!"

I like a handsome face, but I like a beautiful cock! I love a personality which can suit! But more so some one who is confident and knows what he’s doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a face picture as my profile and public as you want the women your speaking to see you stand out from all the dick pics ha!

I like a handsome face, but I like a beautiful cock! I love a personality which can suit! But more so some one who is confident and knows what he’s doing. "

Where do we sign up?

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By *r GreyfoxMan
over a year ago

Newport

I think it’s a difficult decision

Do you keep your privacy and not get much attention or do you put your face on view for all the weird and wonderful x

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

I have had a face photo as profile photo for some months . It works for me. It means less messaging that goes nowhere and much easier after meeting people in clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eh? What do you think they do when they meet then, wear a paper bag?

Or a Bill Clinton mask.. Point blank reference.. "

Do you mean break !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I play it safe because of my job

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