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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ve had sooooo many guys message me on my social media asking if this profile is me. I’m sorry but I find it soooo rude. I clearly don’t show my face on here?! Like even if you think it’s someone, surely you know they don’t want to be recognised?! Other wise I’d have face pics all over the place!

Does anyone else get this lol??!!!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

how do they find you on social media

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how do they find you on social media"

Exactly what I was wondering!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how do they find you on social media"

?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be an instant block from me. I have friends who I have met while swinging on my FB but they are people I have met more than once and value discretion as much as we do. Everyone is entitled to a private life away from this.

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By *ants cockWoman
over a year ago

lincoln

All sites are linked especially WhatsApp an Facebook. I see people I chat to on mine all the time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I honestly don’t have a clue. I’ve had two today message me on Instagram asking if this profile is me and a few on Facebook messenger last week. It’s driving me absolutely mad

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Have you asked any of them how they recognised you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No i dont use social medias

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you asked any of them how they recognised you? "

No because I don’t want to basically tell them it’s me if that makes sense . I’ve just played dumb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All sites are linked especially WhatsApp an Facebook. I see people I chat to on mine all the time "

I guess it depends how you set up your privacy settings. I don't want to be found so I've set them as necessary. I've not been found yet either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I honestly don’t have a clue. I’ve had two today message me on Instagram asking if this profile is me and a few on Facebook messenger last week. It’s driving me absolutely mad "

Do you have the same username across other platforms, or similar?. Not that this excuses unsolicited messages elsewhere.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I honestly don’t have a clue. I’ve had two today message me on Instagram asking if this profile is me and a few on Facebook messenger last week. It’s driving me absolutely mad "
do you have the same user name on there or given them your phone number

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By *incsladyandscotsmanCouple
over a year ago

North fife

I've had a mum from my sons nursery message me a couple of years back on Instagram saying she recognised me, actually ended up in us arranging to meet.. Was quite horny

LL x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All sites are linked especially WhatsApp an Facebook. I see people I chat to on mine all the time

I guess it depends how you set up your privacy settings. I don't want to be found so I've set them as necessary. I've not been found yet either. "

My Facebook and my Instagram are both private. I’ve even had guys message me on POF asking if it’s me! I know I can say no, I just think it’s so rude of people to message me on those platforms

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've had a mum from my sons nursery message me a couple of years back on Instagram saying she recognised me, actually ended up in us arranging to meet.. Was quite horny

LL x "

That actually sounds amazing haah glad it worked out like that!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I honestly don’t have a clue. I’ve had two today message me on Instagram asking if this profile is me and a few on Facebook messenger last week. It’s driving me absolutely mad do you have the same user name on there or given them your phone number"

Neither. Never give my number out to anyone and my username I don’t use anywhere else. I think they are just guessing to be honest m

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All sites are linked especially WhatsApp an Facebook. I see people I chat to on mine all the time

I guess it depends how you set up your privacy settings. I don't want to be found so I've set them as necessary. I've not been found yet either.

My Facebook and my Instagram are both private. I’ve even had guys message me on POF asking if it’s me! I know I can say no, I just think it’s so rude of people to message me on those platforms "

There's got to be something. Because how are they going to recognise you from a cleavage and a bum?! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I honestly don’t have a clue. I’ve had two today message me on Instagram asking if this profile is me and a few on Facebook messenger last week. It’s driving me absolutely mad do you have the same user name on there or given them your phone number

Neither. Never give my number out to anyone and my username I don’t use anywhere else. I think they are just guessing to be honest m"

I would shutdown both accounts, this sounds stalkerish

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All sites are linked especially WhatsApp an Facebook. I see people I chat to on mine all the time

I guess it depends how you set up your privacy settings. I don't want to be found so I've set them as necessary. I've not been found yet either.

My Facebook and my Instagram are both private. I’ve even had guys message me on POF asking if it’s me! I know I can say no, I just think it’s so rude of people to message me on those platforms

There's got to be something. Because how are they going to recognise you from a cleavage and a bum?! Lol "

Well I had a photo of my hair up, like the back of me with my hair down. Maybe that’s why. I’ve literally just hidden it tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve had sooooo many guys message me on my social media asking if this profile is me. I’m sorry but I find it soooo rude. I clearly don’t show my face on here?! Like even if you think it’s someone, surely you know they don’t want to be recognised?! Other wise I’d have face pics all over the place!

Does anyone else get this lol??!!! "

Never had this! I’m thinking you must’ve shared you’re face pic on here with someone you know outside fab (on social media) OR you have the same pics on fab profile as you do on social media

I’d say if you want to keep both separate you need to be more careful x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d imagine that would be a good filter for the block list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All sites are linked especially WhatsApp an Facebook. I see people I chat to on mine all the time "

I don’t have my sites link, just untick the link box x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve had sooooo many guys message me on my social media asking if this profile is me. I’m sorry but I find it soooo rude. I clearly don’t show my face on here?! Like even if you think it’s someone, surely you know they don’t want to be recognised?! Other wise I’d have face pics all over the place!

Does anyone else get this lol??!!!

Never had this! I’m thinking you must’ve shared you’re face pic on here with someone you know outside fab (on social media) OR you have the same pics on fab profile as you do on social media

I’d say if you want to keep both separate you need to be more careful x"

A few of the guys have been from my area which would make sense with the picture of my hair I had up previously. Maybe they recognise that.

I just think it’s so so rude of people to msg on other platforms, it’s driving me mad. Might make my whole profile on here private at this rate! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All sites are linked especially WhatsApp an Facebook. I see people I chat to on mine all the time

I guess it depends how you set up your privacy settings. I don't want to be found so I've set them as necessary. I've not been found yet either.

My Facebook and my Instagram are both private. I’ve even had guys message me on POF asking if it’s me! I know I can say no, I just think it’s so rude of people to message me on those platforms

There's got to be something. Because how are they going to recognise you from a cleavage and a bum?! Lol

Well I had a photo of my hair up, like the back of me with my hair down. Maybe that’s why. I’ve literally just hidden it tonight "

I think many are naive about how the various accounts and numbers are linked etc. And they tend to give too much personal info. I've set my accounts up so that no one can contact me unless they're my friends. Seems to stop randoms messaging me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve had sooooo many guys message me on my social media asking if this profile is me. I’m sorry but I find it soooo rude. I clearly don’t show my face on here?! Like even if you think it’s someone, surely you know they don’t want to be recognised?! Other wise I’d have face pics all over the place!

Does anyone else get this lol??!!!

Never had this! I’m thinking you must’ve shared you’re face pic on here with someone you know outside fab (on social media) OR you have the same pics on fab profile as you do on social media

I’d say if you want to keep both separate you need to be more careful x

A few of the guys have been from my area which would make sense with the picture of my hair I had up previously. Maybe they recognise that.

I just think it’s so so rude of people to msg on other platforms, it’s driving me mad. Might make my whole profile on here private at this rate! X"

Good plan. It will stop unwanted behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I expect they are asking you, so that you know they are on here as well.

Its a kind of work around from havingbtheir messages lost in the thiusnads you no doubt receive all the times.

If it annoys you, maybe change something on your profile so you are not as recognisable.

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london


"I honestly don’t have a clue. I’ve had two today message me on Instagram asking if this profile is me and a few on Facebook messenger last week. It’s driving me absolutely mad do you have the same user name on there or given them your phone number

Neither. Never give my number out to anyone and my username I don’t use anywhere else. I think they are just guessing to be honest m"

You must have a totally unique looking bottom and boobs. Not sure how you’re being found if your privacy setting are on etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I expect they are asking you, so that you know they are on here as well.

Its a kind of work around from havingbtheir messages lost in the thiusnads you no doubt receive all the times.

If it annoys you, maybe change something on your profile so you are not as recognisable.

"

Yeah thank you, going to have a look and see what I can do x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I honestly don’t have a clue. I’ve had two today message me on Instagram asking if this profile is me and a few on Facebook messenger last week. It’s driving me absolutely mad do you have the same user name on there or given them your phone number

Neither. Never give my number out to anyone and my username I don’t use anywhere else. I think they are just guessing to be honest m

You must have a totally unique looking bottom and boobs. Not sure how you’re being found if your privacy setting are on etc"

I’ve hidden some other pictures today, I must have a recognisable head of hair lol

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"I’ve had sooooo many guys message me on my social media asking if this profile is me. I’m sorry but I find it soooo rude. I clearly don’t show my face on here?! Like even if you think it’s someone, surely you know they don’t want to be recognised?! Other wise I’d have face pics all over the place!

Does anyone else get this lol??!!! "

I get worst they msg me asking if is me in my face pictures

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By *akemepurrWoman
over a year ago

Fife


"I honestly don’t have a clue. I’ve had two today message me on Instagram asking if this profile is me and a few on Facebook messenger last week. It’s driving me absolutely mad do you have the same user name on there or given them your phone number

Neither. Never give my number out to anyone and my username I don’t use anywhere else. I think they are just guessing to be honest m

You must have a totally unique looking bottom and boobs. Not sure how you’re being found if your privacy setting are on etc

I’ve hidden some other pictures today, I must have a recognisable head of hair lol "

Someone has used a name in your verifications. So possibly if you hair/body type fits with your location and name then they might be making the connection that way? I have mine set up so my profile doesn’t come up if they search on a search engine - don’t know if that would help? X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I honestly don’t have a clue. I’ve had two today message me on Instagram asking if this profile is me and a few on Facebook messenger last week. It’s driving me absolutely mad do you have the same user name on there or given them your phone number

Neither. Never give my number out to anyone and my username I don’t use anywhere else. I think they are just guessing to be honest m

You must have a totally unique looking bottom and boobs. Not sure how you’re being found if your privacy setting are on etc

I’ve hidden some other pictures today, I must have a recognisable head of hair lol

Someone has used a name in your verifications. So possibly if you hair/body type fits with your location and name then they might be making the connection that way? I have mine set up so my profile doesn’t come up if they search on a search engine - don’t know if that would help? X"

Oh fuuuuuucccck I didn’t even see that he used my name!!!!!!!!!!

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