FabSwingers.com forum: Older women

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am a young, discreet, professional Male and I’m really interested in exploring the older woman, Either single or as part of a couple. I’ve been on here just over 2 weeks and seem to have got no where, I’ve got photo verified, kept my profile short and direct and uploaded a profile picture but even when I do get a reply it seems like the conversation is going ok but then suddenly dies.

There’s probably already a thread covering this somewhere but does any one have any advise or tips they could pass on?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Do a search in the forum for ‘profile advice’ and go from there. Maybe try being a tad less ‘direct’ and see what happens.

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By *J coupleCouple
over a year ago

stone

You've only been on a short while and you’ve now got a hidden profile.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

What is a professional male?

If you get paid for being male I'm due some serious beck pay

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"What is a professional male?

If you get paid for being male I'm due some serious beck pay

*back pay ... tsk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U hiding dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is a professional male?

If you get paid for being male I'm due some serious beck pay

They have a penis which can type 200 words per minute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm afraid that I'm my experience the cougar thing is a bit of a myth and most women aren't interested in younger guys. I don't consider anyone under forty and on the odd occasion I've broken that rule it's not been a success.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do a search in the forum for ‘profile advice’ and go from there. Maybe try being a tad less ‘direct’ and see what happens. "

Can’t give you much more advice as your profile is hidden. That won’t help!

Two weeks is absolutely no time at all. Be waaaaaaay more patient

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"What is a professional male?

If you get paid for being male I'm due some serious beck pay

They have a penis which can type 200 words per minute "

I use my hands for that

I must be a rank amateur male

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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago

Heaven in the Midlands

Yeah, you're profile is hidden. For me, the cougar thing is very real. Under 40s appeal to me, but not exclusively. Be patient - very patient.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah I always hide my profile when i know I’m going to be offline for a while suppose I shouldn’t, but thanks for the feedback appreciated!!

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"What is a professional male?

If you get paid for being male I'm due some serious beck pay

Will you take payment in kind

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"What is a professional male?

If you get paid for being male I'm due some serious beck pay

Will you take payment in kind

From you Belle ...

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Nothing dries me up quicker than a message telling me they want to fuck an older woman, worse if they only 2 years younger than me!! X

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I cannot think of anything worse than someone making me squirt their mission.

You might want to revise that..I appreciate that you want to make someone feel good but that is not the be all and end all.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"What is a professional male?

If you get paid for being male I'm due some serious beck pay

Will you take payment in kind

From you Belle ...

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"What is a professional male?

If you get paid for being male I'm due some serious beck pay

Will you take payment in kind

From you Belle ...

It's a lot of back pay though

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"What is a professional male?

If you get paid for being male I'm due some serious beck pay

Will you take payment in kind

From you Belle ...

It's a lot of back pay though

I'm not worried, I can only count to ten

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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago

Coventry

"I am a young, discreet, professional Male and I’m really interested in exploring the older woman, Either single or as part of a couple. I’ve been on here just over 2 weeks and seem to have got no where, I’ve got photo verified, kept my profile short and direct and uploaded a profile picture but even when I do get a reply it seems like the conversation is going ok but then suddenly dies.

There’s probably already a thread covering this somewhere but does any one have any advise or tips they could pass on?"

2 weeks is new. E have learnt a lot from here. I guess fantasy soon becomes reality on here and there's a good mix of good and bad. If u hide it profile it raises alarm bells ie. What have u got to hide? If ur single a hidden profile says different to that. We have decided club meets is the best way forward. younger man is a compliment as long as he's had the respect and Maturity an older guy has. Older values and a younger body with the stamina etc that only younger men seen to understand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You may also want to consider that some of the older women may have children your age and then that is just weird!

That would be the equivalent of sleeping with one of their mates or someone that could potentially be their boyfriend.

Just saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You may also want to consider that some of the older women may have children your age and then that is just weird!

That would be the equivalent of sleeping with one of their mates or someone that could potentially be their boyfriend.

Just saying.

I think that’s where a lot of the excitement comes from. Or in my case it does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You may also want to consider that some of the older women may have children your age and then that is just weird!

That would be the equivalent of sleeping with one of their mates or someone that could potentially be their boyfriend.

Just saying.

I think that’s where a lot of the excitement comes from. Or in my case it does."

Yeah but it makes women feel really squicky. It's why I filter my profile, I don't want guys who are the same age as my boyfriend's kids even talking to me about sex, it's skin-crawling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You may also want to consider that some of the older women may have children your age and then that is just weird!

That would be the equivalent of sleeping with one of their mates or someone that could potentially be their boyfriend.

Just saying.

I think that’s where a lot of the excitement comes from. Or in my case it does.

Yeah but it makes women feel really squicky. It's why I filter my profile, I don't want guys who are the same age as my boyfriend's kids even talking to me about sex, it's skin-crawling

I totally understand that.. luckily there are some who do not feel the same or loads of us guys would be here, fetish unfulfilled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is irrelevant, maturity and respect can often be found in lads in 20's and sometimes somewhat lacking in gents nearer my age

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Your profile doesn't tell us much about you. What sort of person would somebody meeting if they met you? We know what you are looking for but that's a very different thing.

You need to remember that if a woman doesn't want to meet you socially she is highly unlikely to want to shag you. You need to come across as somebody interesting to meet separately from what your sexual interests are.

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By *horehouseprincessWoman
over a year ago

small town near Munich

"Nothing dries me up quicker than a message telling me they want to fuck an older woman, worse if they only 2 years younger than me!! X "

This

When you message someone make it about the person not their age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you can't win whatever you do but if you want success here make your profile the best it can be including your pics always read target profiles and message accordingly be polite and send a face pic, personality in messages helps lets face it hi how are you isn't going to float their boat is it? good luck

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"you can't win whatever you do but if you want success here make your profile the best it can be including your pics always read target profiles and message accordingly be polite and send a face pic, personality in messages helps lets face it hi how are you isn't going to float their boat is it? good luck

good advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start with bungalows and flat complexes plenty old folks alive to choose from nowadays

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

There’s probably already a thread covering this somewhere but does any one have any advise or tips they could pass on?"

Do you really think an older woman wants to be "explored"? I certainly don't. I also don't find it much of a turn on to be told that someone wants to fuck me because I'm "older" - attractive or sexy yes, but not older. If I feel like that the chances are that some other women might too.

Also a two line message is not going to get you a free fuck. Get yourself to a club and show the "older women" to you're worth playing with. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The "making them squirt" and "job is done" would put me right off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I admit I have met mature women a lot younger than me.

I'll never admit that again

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Not all women squirt (or even want to) so I'd say that part of your profile is putting off countless women who don't... Which is fine as your target is clearly women who do squirt... but given that this is actually just a very small percentage of women, you can't grumble that all the rest aren't replying.

Another thing to note.... Why make an issue of 'older'? Many will be offended by being referred to as older. You know what kind of women you like, and their age is on their profile, so why even bring the age thing up?

Just talk to women you want as the beautiful desirable creatures inside and out that they are, don't make them feel like a bucket list item to be ticked off...

Older? Tick... Squirter? Tick...

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