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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi there haha

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By *anni and RicCouple
over a year ago

York

Seen people on grindr and fab guys too!

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I'm too nervous to use tinder. I feel like I'm out of my depth here let alone on tinder lol

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

Isn't tinder a dating site ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None of my pics on here would also be on tinder.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Isn't tinder a dating site ? "

Supposedly so

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Isn't tinder a dating site ? "

Primarily yes but just as people develop relationships on here, some on tinder just want NSA

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Not on tinder and get no luck on here ... so I can’t see that happening

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Hi there haha

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Not sure I understand your point, OP.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not on tinder and get no luck on here ... so I can’t see that happening "

The way I see it, you have to have your finger in as many pies as possible in order to end up finding the dish you like.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi there haha

Not sure I understand your point, OP."

Well there isn’t really a pointer. I spotted them and chuckled. Just recognised and that’s that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't tinder a dating site ?

Primarily yes but just as people develop relationships on here, some on tinder just want NSA "

This

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"Not on tinder and get no luck on here ... so I can’t see that happening

The way I see it, you have to have your finger in as many pies as possible in order to end up finding the dish you like. "

So you mean going on tinder and mis leading somone looking for love to get sex ? This is why I'm single and stay away from dating sites lol x

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"Isn't tinder a dating site ?

Primarily yes but just as people develop relationships on here, some on tinder just want NSA

This "

Oh it's so confusing lol why go on a dating site looking for NSA I mean sites like this offer that Haha xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Isn't tinder a dating site ?

Primarily yes but just as people develop relationships on here, some on tinder just want NSA

This

Oh it's so confusing lol why go on a dating site looking for NSA I mean sites like this offer that Haha xx"

Not at all. I am open and honest. If you actually look at my profile on here it mentions nothing about meeting and my old one even said the same. I wouldn’t rule it out at all, but I’m looking for a relationship. It’s doubtful it’s acheiveable on here, but I rule nothing out. Plus I like the forums.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

Never been on tinder or any other dating sites x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't tinder a dating site ?

Primarily yes but just as people develop relationships on here, some on tinder just want NSA

Oh it's so confusing lol why go on a dating site looking for NSA I mean sites like this offer that Haha xx

Not at all. I am open and honest. If you actually look at my profile on here it mentions nothing about meeting and my old one even said the same. I wouldn’t rule it out at all, but I’m looking for a relationship. It’s doubtful it’s acheiveable on here, but I rule nothing out. Plus I like the forums. "

You look gorgeous ,the Ladies in Leeds must be blind

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Isn't tinder a dating site ?

Primarily yes but just as people develop relationships on here, some on tinder just want NSA

Oh it's so confusing lol why go on a dating site looking for NSA I mean sites like this offer that Haha xx

Not at all. I am open and honest. If you actually look at my profile on here it mentions nothing about meeting and my old one even said the same. I wouldn’t rule it out at all, but I’m looking for a relationship. It’s doubtful it’s acheiveable on here, but I rule nothing out. Plus I like the forums.

You look gorgeous ,the Ladies in Leeds must be blind

"

Why thankyou very much. You are too kind

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By *alkdirty2meCouple
over a year ago

20 miles south of Edinburgh

We met on tinder,

I wanted a fuck, she wanted a long term relationship

I’ve still not had my fuck

Great line from a close to the bone Aussie comedian

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Isn't tinder a dating site ?

Primarily yes but just as people develop relationships on here, some on tinder just want NSA

This

Oh it's so confusing lol why go on a dating site looking for NSA I mean sites like this offer that Haha xx"

Tinder has never really been a dating app, not truely. The whole basis of it is you essentially swipe left or right (nor or yes) based on how attractive their pics are. The bio area is so small that it's not really worth saying much. It gets used more as a nsa hookup app than it does for dating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm keeping my options open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't tinder a dating site ?

Primarily yes but just as people develop relationships on here, some on tinder just want NSA

Oh it's so confusing lol why go on a dating site looking for NSA I mean sites like this offer that Haha xx

Not at all. I am open and honest. If you actually look at my profile on here it mentions nothing about meeting and my old one even said the same. I wouldn’t rule it out at all, but I’m looking for a relationship. It’s doubtful it’s acheiveable on here, but I rule nothing out. Plus I like the forums.

You look gorgeous ,the Ladies in Leeds must be blind

Dhy thankyou very much. You are too kind "

Just honest and your welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people want a relationship and use other sites but will use fab for quick nsa fun inbetween

See nothing wrong about that

OP your post come across a tad immature if you are amused at recognising someone

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Isn't tinder a dating site ? "

Swingers date too

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"Isn't tinder a dating site ?

Primarily yes but just as people develop relationships on here, some on tinder just want NSA

This

Oh it's so confusing lol why go on a dating site looking for NSA I mean sites like this offer that Haha xx

Not at all. I am open and honest. If you actually look at my profile on here it mentions nothing about meeting and my old one even said the same. I wouldn’t rule it out at all, but I’m looking for a relationship. It’s doubtful it’s acheiveable on here, but I rule nothing out. Plus I like the forums. "

Your profile dont say anything lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some people want a relationship and use other sites but will use fab for quick nsa fun inbetween

See nothing wrong about that

OP your post come across a tad immature if you are amused at recognising someone"

I’m amused at all sorts of little things.

When I take my cock out to have a wee, I laugh so much I wee all over the place......

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Some people want a relationship and use other sites but will use fab for quick nsa fun inbetween

See nothing wrong about that

OP your post come across a tad immature if you are amused at recognising someone

I’m amused at all sorts of little things.

When I take my cock out to have a wee, I laugh so much I wee all over the place...... "

maybe this is why you're single... #stayoutofmybathroom

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some people want a relationship and use other sites but will use fab for quick nsa fun inbetween

See nothing wrong about that

OP your post come across a tad immature if you are amused at recognising someone

I’m amused at all sorts of little things.

When I take my cock out to have a wee, I laugh so much I wee all over the place......

maybe this is why you're single... #stayoutofmybathroom"

I clean up afterwards.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Some people want a relationship and use other sites but will use fab for quick nsa fun inbetween

See nothing wrong about that

OP your post come across a tad immature if you are amused at recognising someone

I’m amused at all sorts of little things.

When I take my cock out to have a wee, I laugh so much I wee all over the place......

maybe this is why you're single... #stayoutofmybathroom

I clean up afterwards."

Just be careful sneezing midstream....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some people want a relationship and use other sites but will use fab for quick nsa fun inbetween

See nothing wrong about that

OP your post come across a tad immature if you are amused at recognising someone

I’m amused at all sorts of little things.

When I take my cock out to have a wee, I laugh so much I wee all over the place......

maybe this is why you're single... #stayoutofmybathroom

I clean up afterwards.

Just be careful sneezing midstream.... "

Haha it’s worse after you have either had sex a wank or even if you have a hardon. There is just no chance of getting a good aim.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi there haha

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Cool.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Isn't tinder a dating site ?

Primarily yes but just as people develop relationships on here, some on tinder just want NSA

This

Oh it's so confusing lol why go on a dating site looking for NSA I mean sites like this offer that Haha xx"

I tell them early on in conversation that I'm after NSA, as long as they know theres no problem I like to have options xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find the real world is a good place to look for sex if things on fab are quiet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Us sex monsters get everywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do better on here then on tinder . Probably helps I don't show my face on here...

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"Isn't tinder a dating site ?

Primarily yes but just as people develop relationships on here, some on tinder just want NSA

This

Oh it's so confusing lol why go on a dating site looking for NSA I mean sites like this offer that Haha xx

I tell them early on in conversation that I'm after NSA, as long as they know theres no problem I like to have options xx"

That's a good thing x

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"I do better on here then on tinder . Probably helps I don't show my face on here... "

From what I can see you look very pretty dont drag yourself down xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't tinder a dating site ?

Primarily yes but just as people develop relationships on here, some on tinder just want NSA

Oh it's so confusing lol why go on a dating site looking for NSA I mean sites like this offer that Haha xx

Not at all. I am open and honest. If you actually look at my profile on here it mentions nothing about meeting and my old one even said the same. I wouldn’t rule it out at all, but I’m looking for a relationship. It’s doubtful it’s acheiveable on here, but I rule nothing out. Plus I like the forums.

You look gorgeous ,the Ladies in Leeds must be blind

"

I agree! Love the suit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't tinder for the younger generation?

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Isn't tinder for the younger generation? "

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Isn't tinder for the younger generation? "

I think they've mostly moved on to bumble

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London


"Isn't tinder a dating site ?

Primarily yes but just as people develop relationships on here, some on tinder just want NSA

This

Oh it's so confusing lol why go on a dating site looking for NSA I mean sites like this offer that Haha xx"

But this is a swinging site not nsa

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London


"Isn't tinder for the younger generation?

I think they've mostly moved on to bumble "

I met a 45 year old from bumble. First heard about it from a 55 year old guy lol

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London


"Isn't tinder for the younger generation? "

As much as sex and dating is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't tinder for the younger generation? "

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

What is tinder?

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Isn't tinder for the younger generation?

"

I met a rather gorgeous 28 year old from tinder earlier this year, had a great night and that was that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve noticed one or two in my radius on tinder, I find the profiles usually say what they are after but regardless if I am not attracted I’m not swiping haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't tinder for the younger generation?

I think they've mostly moved on to bumble "

Wtf is Bumble! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't tinder for the younger generation?

I think they've mostly moved on to bumble

Wtf is Bumble! Lol "

Bumble is an app, for dating but the difference is when you match with someone it’s up to the female to communicate first. I had it for like a day or two and didn’t match so I chucked my toys out the pram and deleted it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Isn't tinder for the younger generation?

I think they've mostly moved on to bumble

Wtf is Bumble! Lol "

I see the older generation on bumble.

Bumble is a swipe left/right app

But the woman has to message first if you match.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Isn't tinder a dating site ?

Primarily yes but just as people develop relationships on here, some on tinder just want NSA

Oh it's so confusing lol why go on a dating site looking for NSA I mean sites like this offer that Haha xx

Not at all. I am open and honest. If you actually look at my profile on here it mentions nothing about meeting and my old one even said the same. I wouldn’t rule it out at all, but I’m looking for a relationship. It’s doubtful it’s acheiveable on here, but I rule nothing out. Plus I like the forums.

You look gorgeous ,the Ladies in Leeds must be blind

I agree! Love the suit "

Thanks btw

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

*downloads bumble*

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"*downloads bumble*"

*swipes right*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*downloads bumble*

*swipes right*"

Reinstalled bumble*

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Hahahaha!!!

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London

Badoo is also quite good. Just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bumble isn’t great, lots of swiping, matches, and then messages expire... if they don’t see and respond to your message in 24 hours poof gone.

None of them are great really....

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London


"Bumble isn’t great, lots of swiping, matches, and then messages expire... if they don’t see and respond to your message in 24 hours poof gone.

None of them are great really...."

Nothing comes close to a good old approach in person. I have a mate who has tonnes of nsa sex. Isn't particularly great looking, doesn't use fab or any dating apps. He'll get chatting to girls anywhere and works his magic. Gift of the gab he calls it.

Oh and I'm not jealous at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bumble isn’t great, lots of swiping, matches, and then messages expire... if they don’t see and respond to your message in 24 hours poof gone.

None of them are great really....

Nothing comes close to a good old approach in person. I have a mate who has tonnes of nsa sex. Isn't particularly great looking, doesn't use fab or any dating apps. He'll get chatting to girls anywhere and works his magic. Gift of the gab he calls it.

Oh and I'm not jealous at all "

You mean actually talking in person

Haha yeah funny how the old fashioned approach works....

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London


"Bumble isn’t great, lots of swiping, matches, and then messages expire... if they don’t see and respond to your message in 24 hours poof gone.

None of them are great really....

Nothing comes close to a good old approach in person. I have a mate who has tonnes of nsa sex. Isn't particularly great looking, doesn't use fab or any dating apps. He'll get chatting to girls anywhere and works his magic. Gift of the gab he calls it.

Oh and I'm not jealous at all

You mean actually talking in person

Haha yeah funny how the old fashioned approach works...."

It most definitely works but requires alot more skill, confidence and effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is also the joy of ok Cupid...

I'm not impressed by any of them .

My place on the shelf remains

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tinder is basically a meat market.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is also the joy of ok Cupid...

I'm not impressed by any of them .

My place on the shelf remains "

Still in the shelf, eh?

*Fetches ladder*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do better on here then on tinder . Probably helps I don't show my face on here... "

That’s crazy I’m the complete opposite....

But honestly, dating apps can burn you out...

It makes you become jaded..,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m on POF and on tinder both hidden profiles as in over a year I’ve had zero dates. Every man who messaged me had one thing in mind! SEX. which is why I use here. I’m just holding out hope I’ll meet someone on here who I can have a relationship with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do better on here then on tinder . Probably helps I don't show my face on here...

That’s crazy I’m the complete opposite....

But honestly, dating apps can burn you out...

It makes you become jaded..,"

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 2 male friends who are on POF and on here! Both have more luck on POF! In terms of having sex! Why? Because it’s a dating site woman are looking for dates, my two friends just use it as a sex site. Proves men woman dynamics are skewed! On here woman can hold power on POF men seem to, just my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our male uses Tinder, he says it’s horrid and has never felt so ugly!!! It’s pants lots of people say how good it is, he never gets a match.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See a few tbf hah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw lots of the same people on both sites and also got to tell a couple of guys that if they didn't want to talk to me there then hitting me up here cos they think ill be a quick, easy fuck is a mistake of epic proportions. And wtf is it with all the fish pics?? Who gets excited by a slimey wet fish?? I certainly won't be trying Plenty of Fish... I saw more than enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have 2 male friends who are on POF and on here! Both have more luck on POF! In terms of having sex! Why? Because it’s a dating site woman are looking for dates, my two friends just use it as a sex site. Proves men woman dynamics are skewed! On here woman can hold power on POF men seem to, just my opinion. "

You’re right about men holding more power on dating apps....

I believe that comes down to more women on dating apps than on swinging sites...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have 2 male friends who are on POF and on here! Both have more luck on POF! In terms of having sex! Why? Because it’s a dating site woman are looking for dates, my two friends just use it as a sex site. Proves men woman dynamics are skewed! On here woman can hold power on POF men seem to, just my opinion.

You’re right about men holding more power on dating apps....

I believe that comes down to more women on dating apps than on swinging sites...

"

I’d say more women on here if I’m honest, and different views. Woman hold power on here as men just want sex! Where’s on dating sites woman “think” they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only heard of people using tinder for sex hook ups there's loads of people from here on there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only met one guy from Tinder, saw him a couple of times, was fun but no indication there was anything more than friendship. Then he found my old fab profile and had a total fucking meltdown. I had a veri from someone since he and I had met and he acted like i'd cheated on him. I tried to point out he had an active profile where he was looking to meet women and tvs and I wasn't sure what the problem was. But there was no way I was dealing with crap like that again so I just shut it down. I'm not sure about men holding all the power, my brother is very eligible and genuinely single and hasn't had the easiest time on a paid dating site. I just think a lot of people are confused about what they want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only met one guy from Tinder, saw him a couple of times, was fun but no indication there was anything more than friendship. Then he found my old fab profile and had a total fucking meltdown. I had a veri from someone since he and I had met and he acted like i'd cheated on him. I tried to point out he had an active profile where he was looking to meet women and tvs and I wasn't sure what the problem was. But there was no way I was dealing with crap like that again so I just shut it down. I'm not sure about men holding all the power, my brother is very eligible and genuinely single and hasn't had the easiest time on a paid dating site. I just think a lot of people are confused about what they want. "

Yes I agree, x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OKStupid and Plenty Oafish are nicknames in a group called Return to Sender that I belong to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We met on tinder,

I wanted a fuck, she wanted a long term relationship

I’ve still not had my fuck

Great line from a close to the bone Aussie comedian "

Is it Jim? It sounds like Jim

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By *ackinabox19Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

I spend all my spare time on these threads so have none free for tinder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have 2 male friends who are on POF and on here! Both have more luck on POF! In terms of having sex! Why? Because it’s a dating site woman are looking for dates, my two friends just use it as a sex site. Proves men woman dynamics are skewed! On here woman can hold power on POF men seem to, just my opinion.

You’re right about men holding more power on dating apps....

I believe that comes down to more women on dating apps than on swinging sites...

I’d say more women on here if I’m honest, and different views. Woman hold power on here as men just want sex! Where’s on dating sites woman “think” they are. "

Touché

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have 2 male friends who are on POF and on here! Both have more luck on POF! In terms of having sex! Why? Because it’s a dating site woman are looking for dates, my two friends just use it as a sex site. Proves men woman dynamics are skewed! On here woman can hold power on POF men seem to, just my opinion.

You’re right about men holding more power on dating apps....

I believe that comes down to more women on dating apps than on swinging sites...

I’d say more women on here if I’m honest, and different views. Woman hold power on here as men just want sex! Where’s on dating sites woman “think” they are.

Touché

"

I’d say 70% of men come on here thinking “ I won’t have to date, wine dine” I can just fook, woman are gagging for it...... but no. Completely different story on here. Woman are more empowered on here they aren’t looking for dates or love.

If you think like a woman you’ll do well!

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By *ackinabox19Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

I think it’s a mindset thing also and down to the individual, it does sound like it’s harder to get a meet on here than tinder but is the quality of meet as good ? Tinder sounds like a hook up for a quick shag site so probably perfect for most guys on here being honest, fab for me is more of a lifestyle choice and also connecting with others who have a similar mind. If I wanted a pointless quick fuck I would not be on here or tinder I would simply go out on a weekend and pull. That’s just not what I’m looking for but again that’s just my opinion on it !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s a mindset thing also and down to the individual, it does sound like it’s harder to get a meet on here than tinder but is the quality of meet as good ? Tinder sounds like a hook up for a quick shag site so probably perfect for most guys on here being honest, fab for me is more of a lifestyle choice and also connecting with others who have a similar mind. If I wanted a pointless quick fuck I would not be on here or tinder I would simply go out on a weekend and pull. That’s just not what I’m looking for but again that’s just my opinion on it !! "

You say you simply go out of a weekend and pull? I’m 40 I don’t ever go out! So when I do want sex I’ve no option but to use fab !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s a mindset thing also and down to the individual, it does sound like it’s harder to get a meet on here than tinder but is the quality of meet as good ? Tinder sounds like a hook up for a quick shag site so probably perfect for most guys on here being honest, fab for me is more of a lifestyle choice and also connecting with others who have a similar mind. If I wanted a pointless quick fuck I would not be on here or tinder I would simply go out on a weekend and pull. That’s just not what I’m looking for but again that’s just my opinion on it !!

You say you simply go out of a weekend and pull? I’m 40 I don’t ever go out! So when I do want sex I’ve no option but to use fab !"

And I’m not saying my age is a factor at all. More so circumstantial.

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By *ackinabox19Man
over a year ago

Harrogate


"I think it’s a mindset thing also and down to the individual, it does sound like it’s harder to get a meet on here than tinder but is the quality of meet as good ? Tinder sounds like a hook up for a quick shag site so probably perfect for most guys on here being honest, fab for me is more of a lifestyle choice and also connecting with others who have a similar mind. If I wanted a pointless quick fuck I would not be on here or tinder I would simply go out on a weekend and pull. That’s just not what I’m looking for but again that’s just my opinion on it !!

You say you simply go out of a weekend and pull? I’m 40 I don’t ever go out! So when I do want sex I’ve no option but to use fab !"

I’m not saying I simply go out and pull at all far from it, I was simply stating that if I wanted a pointless fuck that’s what I would do rather than use tinder or here, but I’m certainly not looking for quick pointless fucks !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s a mindset thing also and down to the individual, it does sound like it’s harder to get a meet on here than tinder but is the quality of meet as good ? Tinder sounds like a hook up for a quick shag site so probably perfect for most guys on here being honest, fab for me is more of a lifestyle choice and also connecting with others who have a similar mind. If I wanted a pointless quick fuck I would not be on here or tinder I would simply go out on a weekend and pull. That’s just not what I’m looking for but again that’s just my opinion on it !!

You say you simply go out of a weekend and pull? I’m 40 I don’t ever go out! So when I do want sex I’ve no option but to use fab !

I’m not saying I simply go out and pull at all far from it, I was simply stating that if I wanted a pointless fuck that’s what I would do rather than use tinder or here, but I’m certainly not looking for quick pointless fucks !! "

But that’s my point! I don’t go out at all. My last night out was over 2 years ago!! Not everyone is lucky enough to go out socially every weekend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s a mindset thing also and down to the individual, it does sound like it’s harder to get a meet on here than tinder but is the quality of meet as good ? Tinder sounds like a hook up for a quick shag site so probably perfect for most guys on here being honest, fab for me is more of a lifestyle choice and also connecting with others who have a similar mind. If I wanted a pointless quick fuck I would not be on here or tinder I would simply go out on a weekend and pull. That’s just not what I’m looking for but again that’s just my opinion on it !!

You say you simply go out of a weekend and pull? I’m 40 I don’t ever go out! So when I do want sex I’ve no option but to use fab !

I’m not saying I simply go out and pull at all far from it, I was simply stating that if I wanted a pointless fuck that’s what I would do rather than use tinder or here, but I’m certainly not looking for quick pointless fucks !! "

Well at least people know you don’t want sex lad unless commitment is involved.

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By *alkdirty2meCouple
over a year ago

20 miles south of Edinburgh


"We met on tinder,

I wanted a fuck, she wanted a long term relationship

I’ve still not had my fuck

Great line from a close to the bone Aussie comedian

Is it Jim? It sounds like Jim "

Nope

It’s Mac Star, great comedian, hasn’t been on the circuit much over the last number of years but fuck me his jokes and one liners are excellent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s a mindset thing also and down to the individual, it does sound like it’s harder to get a meet on here than tinder but is the quality of meet as good ? Tinder sounds like a hook up for a quick shag site so probably perfect for most guys on here being honest, fab for me is more of a lifestyle choice and also connecting with others who have a similar mind. If I wanted a pointless quick fuck I would not be on here or tinder I would simply go out on a weekend and pull. That’s just not what I’m looking for but again that’s just my opinion on it !!

You say you simply go out of a weekend and pull? I’m 40 I don’t ever go out! So when I do want sex I’ve no option but to use fab !

I’m not saying I simply go out and pull at all far from it, I was simply stating that if I wanted a pointless fuck that’s what I would do rather than use tinder or here, but I’m certainly not looking for quick pointless fucks !!

Well at least people know you don’t want sex lad unless commitment is involved. "

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I have 2 male friends who are on POF and on here! Both have more luck on POF! In terms of having sex! Why? Because it’s a dating site woman are looking for dates, my two friends just use it as a sex site. Proves men woman dynamics are skewed! On here woman can hold power on POF men seem to, just my opinion.

You’re right about men holding more power on dating apps....

I believe that comes down to more women on dating apps than on swinging sites...

I’d say more women on here if I’m honest, and different views. Woman hold power on here as men just want sex! Where’s on dating sites woman “think” they are.

Touché

I’d say 70% of men come on here thinking “ I won’t have to date, wine dine” I can just fook, woman are gagging for it...... but no. Completely different story on here. Woman are more empowered on here they aren’t looking for dates or love.

If you think like a woman you’ll do well! "

Haha this is a good point. On dating sites they use dating/wining and dining to get sex. On here they have to convince us they're worth having sex with just for the sake of the sex .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s a mindset thing also and down to the individual, it does sound like it’s harder to get a meet on here than tinder but is the quality of meet as good ? Tinder sounds like a hook up for a quick shag site so probably perfect for most guys on here being honest, fab for me is more of a lifestyle choice and also connecting with others who have a similar mind. If I wanted a pointless quick fuck I would not be on here or tinder I would simply go out on a weekend and pull. That’s just not what I’m looking for but again that’s just my opinion on it !!

You say you simply go out of a weekend and pull? I’m 40 I don’t ever go out! So when I do want sex I’ve no option but to use fab !

I’m not saying I simply go out and pull at all far from it, I was simply stating that if I wanted a pointless fuck that’s what I would do rather than use tinder or here, but I’m certainly not looking for quick pointless fucks !!

Well at least people know you don’t want sex lad unless commitment is involved.

"

it was for the newbie

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By *ackinabox19Man
over a year ago

Harrogate


"I think it’s a mindset thing also and down to the individual, it does sound like it’s harder to get a meet on here than tinder but is the quality of meet as good ? Tinder sounds like a hook up for a quick shag site so probably perfect for most guys on here being honest, fab for me is more of a lifestyle choice and also connecting with others who have a similar mind. If I wanted a pointless quick fuck I would not be on here or tinder I would simply go out on a weekend and pull. That’s just not what I’m looking for but again that’s just my opinion on it !!

You say you simply go out of a weekend and pull? I’m 40 I don’t ever go out! So when I do want sex I’ve no option but to use fab !

I’m not saying I simply go out and pull at all far from it, I was simply stating that if I wanted a pointless fuck that’s what I would do rather than use tinder or here, but I’m certainly not looking for quick pointless fucks !!

Well at least people know you don’t want sex lad unless commitment is involved. "

If by commitment you mean being able to hold a conversation and have an attraction and spark rather than just wanting to fuck instantly then your absolutely right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have 2 male friends who are on POF and on here! Both have more luck on POF! In terms of having sex! Why? Because it’s a dating site woman are looking for dates, my two friends just use it as a sex site. Proves men woman dynamics are skewed! On here woman can hold power on POF men seem to, just my opinion.

You’re right about men holding more power on dating apps....

I believe that comes down to more women on dating apps than on swinging sites...

I’d say more women on here if I’m honest, and different views. Woman hold power on here as men just want sex! Where’s on dating sites woman “think” they are.

Touché

I’d say 70% of men come on here thinking “ I won’t have to date, wine dine” I can just fook, woman are gagging for it...... but no. Completely different story on here. Woman are more empowered on here they aren’t looking for dates or love.

If you think like a woman you’ll do well!

Haha this is a good point. On dating sites they use dating/wining and dining to get sex. On here they have to convince us they're worth having sex with just for the sake of the sex ."

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s a mindset thing also and down to the individual, it does sound like it’s harder to get a meet on here than tinder but is the quality of meet as good ? Tinder sounds like a hook up for a quick shag site so probably perfect for most guys on here being honest, fab for me is more of a lifestyle choice and also connecting with others who have a similar mind. If I wanted a pointless quick fuck I would not be on here or tinder I would simply go out on a weekend and pull. That’s just not what I’m looking for but again that’s just my opinion on it !!

You say you simply go out of a weekend and pull? I’m 40 I don’t ever go out! So when I do want sex I’ve no option but to use fab !

I’m not saying I simply go out and pull at all far from it, I was simply stating that if I wanted a pointless fuck that’s what I would do rather than use tinder or here, but I’m certainly not looking for quick pointless fucks !!

Well at least people know you don’t want sex lad unless commitment is involved.

If by commitment you mean being able to hold a conversation and have an attraction and spark rather than just wanting to fuck instantly then your absolutely right "

That’s better. You’re not on tinder now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We met on tinder,

I wanted a fuck, she wanted a long term relationship

I’ve still not had my fuck

Great line from a close to the bone Aussie comedian

Is it Jim? It sounds like Jim

Nope

It’s Mac Star, great comedian, hasn’t been on the circuit much over the last number of years but fuck me his jokes and one liners are excellent "

I'll look him up.

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

I hate it cos they just message on fab to say they have saw you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate it cos they just message on fab to say they have saw you "

That used to happen to me on POF

Every so called dating site is full of men just looking for a shag

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