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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it fair to ask others to share hotel costs for joining you

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I'd say so

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Yes I personally think so, if neither of you can accommodate. It shouldn't be down to you to cover all the costs

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

If I was entertaining a ladie I’d never ask. Call me old fashioned

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"If I was entertaining a ladie I’d never ask. Call me old fashioned "

But it would be polite for her to ask to contribute wouldn't it?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Is it fair to ask others to share hotel costs for joining you"

If you are booking a room specifically to meet someone, then splitting the cost is perfectly acceptable. If you’re in a hotel anyway, and invite someone over, then you had planned the stay beforehand, and were prepared for the cost either way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the ladies should foot the bill

Feed me grapes and lick warm chocolate from my balls xx

Back in the real world if you went Dutch would be a result lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's only fair for both parties to pay half, as someone above said though I wouldn't ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is always a funny one and obviously each to their own, if it’s a single guy meeting a couple, shouldn’t the cost be split three ways, rather than two?

Just to play devils...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it fair to ask others to share hotel costs for joining you"
if I am setting up the meet I will always foot the cost, however if I am invited to join a hotel meet I will always offer to contribute towards costs x

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"If I was entertaining a ladie I’d never ask. Call me old fashioned "

I'm the same.

It's the gentlemanly thing to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesnt really bother me. Im happy to foot it.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Is it fair to ask others to share hotel costs for joining you if I am setting up the meet I will always foot the cost, however if I am invited to join a hotel meet I will always offer to contribute towards costs x"

Think this is how it should be, think it's common courtesy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the past life on here and indeed with any future socials I would foot the bill on our behalf and the same apples to hotel costs if things moved on from a social but I’m all heart and a tad stupid.

Tony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once paid for accommodation on the assumption a man would pay me back half and he never did, cheeky git.

Anyway - I would always split.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it fair to ask others to share hotel costs for joining you if I am setting up the meet I will always foot the cost, however if I am invited to join a hotel meet I will always offer to contribute towards costs x

Think this is how it should be, think it's common courtesy"

I agree but would also fully understand if the other person didn’t want to contribute towards costs. I would also pay for the meal and drinks beforehand x

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

If we are traveling to meet with someone we usually make it a weekend away so we wouldn't.

Meet up have drinks/meal together and a chat then head off to the room for a few hours and then say out goodbyes till next time x

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I am happy to pay for the hotel costs as he pays for dinner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I was entertaining a ladie I’d never ask. Call me old fashioned

I'm the same.

It's the gentlemanly thing to do. "

Ok see you there lol bring them nice shoes you tart lol xxx

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I always make question to contribute and help with the costs between 3 or more even when they tell me is not necessary . I do think is polite and fair do it because if meetings is about share why not share the costs also

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Always split any costs in half - leaves no room for expectation or sense of obligation that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I was entertaining a ladie I’d never ask. Call me old fashioned "

Your old fashioned ??????

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I’d pay for the hotel and she could pay me back what the meet was worth to her.

Those 5ps are very handy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it fair to ask others to share hotel costs for joining you

If you are booking a room specifically to meet someone, then splitting the cost is perfectly acceptable. If you’re in a hotel anyway, and invite someone over, then you had planned the stay beforehand, and were prepared for the cost either way "

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"If I was entertaining a ladie I’d never ask. Call me old fashioned

I'm the same.

It's the gentlemanly thing to do.

Ok see you there lol bring them nice shoes you tart lol xxx "

I keep telling you - I'm not fucking you.

Polish your own shoes. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If we are traveling to meet with someone we usually make it a weekend away so we wouldn't.

Meet up have drinks/meal together and a chat then head off to the room for a few hours and then say out goodbyes till next time x"

Defo this make a break of it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but if we were stopping all night I would not expect half from the other people

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well you can always ask but it depends who is stating the night in the room if someone is just visiting and you are staying there its a bit of a tight arse thing to do.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Yes, it's fair.

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….


"Is it fair to ask others to share hotel costs for joining you"

Yes

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