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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry for 2 forum posts in the same day, only just started to read through it!

So, I have had a fat fetish for as long as I’ve been attracted to women, I was just wondering if women would find it insulting for me to say I’m attracted to them because they are fat?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Does it matter what they look like, or their personalities? Or do they just need to be fat? Also, how fat is fat? Would you date a fat woman, or do you just want to fuck one? So many questions

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does it matter what they look like, or their personalities? Or do they just need to be fat? Also, how fat is fat? Would you date a fat woman, or do you just want to fuck one? So many questions "

It does matter a little bit about what they look like, but it depends if it’s for a one time thing or if I want to date them! I would class fat as anything above like 12st? I would happily date one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it matter what they look like, or their personalities? Or do they just need to be fat? Also, how fat is fat? Would you date a fat woman, or do you just want to fuck one? So many questions

It does matter a little bit about what they look like, but it depends if it’s for a one time thing or if I want to date them! I would class fat as anything above like 12st? I would happily date one!"

I'll gather all the fatties together and you can pick who you deem good looking and fat enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yeah, women love being objectified.

Down with individuality, up with "you're fat, you'll do"

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By *xperimentalistMan
over a year ago

East Yorkshire


"Does it matter what they look like, or their personalities? Or do they just need to be fat? Also, how fat is fat? Would you date a fat woman, or do you just want to fuck one? So many questions

It does matter a little bit about what they look like, but it depends if it’s for a one time thing or if I want to date them! I would class fat as anything above like 12st? I would happily date one!"

Above 12 stone is fat????

Oh lord!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it matter what they look like, or their personalities? Or do they just need to be fat? Also, how fat is fat? Would you date a fat woman, or do you just want to fuck one? So many questions

It does matter a little bit about what they look like, but it depends if it’s for a one time thing or if I want to date them! I would class fat as anything above like 12st? I would happily date one!"

Above 12 stone is fat?? You for real???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry for 2 forum posts in the same day, only just started to read through it!

So, I have had a fat fetish for as long as I’ve been attracted to women, I was just wondering if women would find it insulting for me to say I’m attracted to them because they are fat? "

Not to mention the word ‘ fat ‘

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Ok. Who's got the popcorn?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m 13 stone so I guess that means I’m fat

Wow fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok. Who's got the popcorn? "

Me

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Ok. Who's got the popcorn?

Me "

Nudge over xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I would be offended if you said I only want sex with you because you are fat yes.

It's perfectly acceptable to have a preference but no need to shout about it, just message those you like and bypass the ones you don't.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Fatties unite!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fatties unite! "

Count me in.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Fatties unite!

Count me in. "

Well be like the avengers, just bigger and better!

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Poole, but up in lincs for a bit


"Fatties unite! "

I was hoping for a more enthusiastic "fatties assemble"

I'll take my hulk costume off now

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Fatties unite!

I was hoping for a more enthusiastic "fatties assemble"

I'll take my hulk costume off now

"

That comes later when we actually have the group sorted!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok. Who's got the popcorn? "

This has got to be the most irritating thing said on the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you were genuine about that you would put it on your profile

Instead of saying fat consider using words like voluptuous, curvy, BBW etc

Weight is not a genuine consideration when it comes to size as it is dependent on height and fitness

I noticed your still quite young, maybe consider referring to dress size is a better option e.g. size 20+ etc

You just need to understand a bit better what terminology to use so you don’t offend as well as knowing what ‘size’ or ‘shape’ of person you’re looking for

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Ok. Who's got the popcorn?

This has got to be the most irritating thing said on the forums.

"

All us fatties have the popcorn and we aren't sharing!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Ok. Who's got the popcorn?

This has got to be the most irritating thing said on the forums.

"

Nah, cake is more irritating.

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Poole, but up in lincs for a bit


"Fatties unite!

I was hoping for a more enthusiastic "fatties assemble"

I'll take my hulk costume off now

That comes later when we actually have the group sorted!"

*slowly puts costume back on whilst fat widow puts the cookies out*

"We have cookies!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's because us fat girls try harder isn't it

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Fatties unite!

I was hoping for a more enthusiastic "fatties assemble"

I'll take my hulk costume off now

That comes later when we actually have the group sorted!

*slowly puts costume back on whilst fat widow puts the cookies out*

"We have cookies!""

Whoop! Cookies and popcorn, this is how the fatties roll

Can I be fat panther?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it because its more cushion for the pushing, OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fatties unite!

I was hoping for a more enthusiastic "fatties assemble"

I'll take my hulk costume off now

That comes later when we actually have the group sorted!"

Count me in, as long as I don’t have to run x

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Ok. Who's got the popcorn?

This has got to be the most irritating thing said on the forums.

"

Awww thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a whole other website for people who have a fat fetish’s, or like to be with someone with a fat fetish. I can give you the name if you message me.

But there are women like being called fat and being objectified.

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Poole, but up in lincs for a bit


"Fatties unite!

I was hoping for a more enthusiastic "fatties assemble"

I'll take my hulk costume off now

That comes later when we actually have the group sorted!

*slowly puts costume back on whilst fat widow puts the cookies out*

"We have cookies!"

Whoop! Cookies and popcorn, this is how the fatties roll

Can I be fat panther? "

Ofcourse.

Anyone else?

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Fatties unite!

I was hoping for a more enthusiastic "fatties assemble"

I'll take my hulk costume off now

That comes later when we actually have the group sorted!

*slowly puts costume back on whilst fat widow puts the cookies out*

"We have cookies!"

Whoop! Cookies and popcorn, this is how the fatties roll

Can I be fat panther? "

I already have the hawkeye costume. And I'm fat

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru


"Fatties unite!

I was hoping for a more enthusiastic "fatties assemble"

I'll take my hulk costume off now

That comes later when we actually have the group sorted!

*slowly puts costume back on whilst fat widow puts the cookies out*

"We have cookies!"

Whoop! Cookies and popcorn, this is how the fatties roll

Can I be fat panther? "

I’m a cookiev

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Is that a Ukrainian biscuit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 13st.. Does that make me a fatty too? Or are things different for males? Does that make me a thinny?

If I'm a thinny, can I be an honorary fatty?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 13st.. Does that make me a fatty too? Or are things different for males? Does that make me a thinny?

If I'm a thinny, can I be an honorary fatty?"

Yes but you have to join the fatty avengers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm over 12st, I'll go on a diet and avoid certain ppl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 13st.. Does that make me a fatty too? Or are things different for males? Does that make me a thinny?

If I'm a thinny, can I be an honorary fatty?

Yes but you have to join the fatty avengers. "

I Fat Thor!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t believe what I’m reading..

Ex fatty here for the unification of fatties!

Although I’m still over 12 stone so must still be fat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 13st.. Does that make me a fatty too? Or are things different for males? Does that make me a thinny?

If I'm a thinny, can I be an honorary fatty?

Yes but you have to join the fatty avengers.

I Fat Thor! "

So do I.

I'm trying to think of my fat fat avenger name, fat panther is already taken

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay


"I'm 13st.. Does that make me a fatty too? Or are things different for males? Does that make me a thinny?

If I'm a thinny, can I be an honorary fatty?"

you sound like you just wanna be in a gang

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a fatty can I be in the Avengers? Although, I'm not sure which one I'd be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a fatty can I be in the Avengers? Although, I'm not sure which one I'd be. "

Let’s not restrict ourselves to Marvel.

I’ll start the DC and I’ll be Fatman, the fat knight

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Poole, but up in lincs for a bit


"I'm a fatty can I be in the Avengers? Although, I'm not sure which one I'd be.

Let’s not restrict ourselves to Marvel.

I’ll start the DC and I’ll be Fatman, the fat knight "

Give this man a cake!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a fatty can I be in the Avengers? Although, I'm not sure which one I'd be.

Let’s not restrict ourselves to Marvel.

I’ll start the DC and I’ll be Fatman, the fat knight

Give this man a cake!"

I can't think of one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I be Fatty Quinn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a fatty can I be in the Avengers? Although, I'm not sure which one I'd be.

Let’s not restrict ourselves to Marvel.

I’ll start the DC and I’ll be Fatman, the fat knight

Give this man a cake!

I can't think of one. "

Been Goblin’

(Green Goblin) ??

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Don’t be shy this guys feeder, there be no popcorn here, prepare to be super sized.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

You can be any superhero you like, even a made up one.

This is a new world ladies and gentlemen, no longer will us fatties be shunned and mocked! We shall unite and be The Fat Clan!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can be any superhero you like, even a made up one.

This is a new world ladies and gentlemen, no longer will us fatties be shunned and mocked! We shall unite and be The Fat Clan! "

Yayyyyyy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wanna be the fat knight/fatman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can be any superhero you like, even a made up one.

This is a new world ladies and gentlemen, no longer will us fatties be shunned and mocked! We shall unite and be The Fat Clan!

Yayyyyyy "

Just brush passed my suggested Super (sized) Hero name for you . I even made sure it correlated with Swinging..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can be any superhero you like, even a made up one.

This is a new world ladies and gentlemen, no longer will us fatties be shunned and mocked! We shall unite and be The Fat Clan!

Yayyyyyy

Just brush passed my suggested Super (sized) Hero name for you . I even made sure it correlated with Swinging.."

Opps sorry. Yes I will take that one.

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By *lbethereMan
over a year ago

Manchester

So basically you’re asking women if calling them fat is insulting, but it OK for you to say that as you might fancy them? Hmmm, that gonna go down about as much as one of those women on you mate, not at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fair play for asking the question and being honest

P

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

Thanks for the ear worm OP:

'You're the one for me, fatty

You're the one I really, really love

And I will stay

Promise you'll say

If I'm in your way

You're the one for me, fatty

You're the one I really, really love

And I will stay

Promise you'll say

If I'm ever in your way

A-hey.........."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

According to OP I'm fat.

Guess I gotta live with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but yes being called fat is insulting

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

At this point I would like to interject with a poem on this subject by the great John Hegley.

Pat

I said "Pat,

You are fat,

And you are cataclysmically desirable.

And to think I used to think slim

Was where it’s at.

Well not any more, Pat

You’ve changed that.

You love yourself.

You flatter yourself.

You shatter their narrow image of the erotic."

And she said

“What do you mean, fat?”

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By *osie xWoman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"You can be any superhero you like, even a made up one.

This is a new world ladies and gentlemen, no longer will us fatties be shunned and mocked! We shall unite and be The Fat Clan! "

Can i join and be Loki Koki?

I just like the thought of you all imagining my belly wobble as i do the dance and getting a bit of sick in your mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 13st.. Does that make me a fatty too? Or are things different for males? Does that make me a thinny?

If I'm a thinny, can I be an honorary fatty?

Yes but you have to join the fatty avengers.

I Fat Thor!

So do I.

I'm trying to think of my fat fat avenger name, fat panther is already taken "

I’m blunderwoman, going to borrow the costume off Bella Emberg x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it matter what they look like, or their personalities? Or do they just need to be fat? Also, how fat is fat? Would you date a fat woman, or do you just want to fuck one? So many questions

It does matter a little bit about what they look like, but it depends if it’s for a one time thing or if I want to date them! I would class fat as anything above like 12st? I would happily date one!"

12.1 stone is fat? Wtf how life has changed

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I'm 16st.....

Body composition can differ you know

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"You can be any superhero you like, even a made up one.

This is a new world ladies and gentlemen, no longer will us fatties be shunned and mocked! We shall unite and be The Fat Clan!

Can i join and be Loki Koki?

I just like the thought of you all imagining my belly wobble as i do the dance and getting a bit of sick in your mouth "

Is that as in...

You put the left cock in,

The right cock out,

In, out, in, out,

You shake it all about.

You do the Loki Koki and you turn around.

That's what it's all about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be offended if you said it to me. I don't like the word fat because it's always used in a derogatory manner.

I don't think there is anything wrong in being attracted to women who are bigger but you do need to be careful about how you throw labels around and words like fat, chubby etc can be offensive.

I wouldn't go around calling people fat because they are over a certain weight too, why does it matter what weight they are? If you are attracted to them then leave it at that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also not to mention we are all different shapes and heights and build so two people can look considerably different even if both weigh 12 stone or whatever weight!

Also, what you might consider “ fat “ someone else might not. And as someone pointed out, maybe use kinder words and do some research before being insulting!

Ok rant over

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Hooray! I'm fat!

OP, I'd reconsider your wording and your definition of fat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If women have one they can have my man fat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbf I'm in two minds over this. The OP sharing his desire of the larger lady is no bad thing, if he had said that he really had a thing for gym fit ladies or ladies with the classic hourglass busty with slim waist and rounded hips then I can't imagine many ladies fitting those specs being up in arms about it being a factor in him fancying them, though he probably would have been shot at for being shallow.

It doesn't seem in this case that there are many jumping to his defence with the old fab adage of "but those are preferences, everyone is entitled to preferences" as so many often do when it comes to finding those of a different race more appealing or ladies fancying gym fit men more?

However...Where he didn't help himself in coming a cropper IMHO was by making two errors; he bracketted all ladies he thought of as 'fat' as over 12 stone, a figure arrived at hastily, but not taking into account height/build or muscle mass to fat ratio. Also he used the "F" word which it is a cardinal sin to do on here really, unless of course it is someone describing themselves?

B

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By *houldibedoingthis!Man
over a year ago

london


"Ok. Who's got the popcorn?

Me "

Are you above 12 stone?

Christ, this will be interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a lil bit of kink shaming going on here I’d argue.

OP maybe doesn’t understand weight very well, and he used a word -some- people find offensive.

I’m sure plenty have used offensive terms as part of their sex lives.

Just playing devils advocate...

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I have no issue with what or who anyone finds attractive, but the definition and terminology are hard to read outside of the offensive context in which they often come.

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By *cloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull

Well by OP's definition I'm definitely rocking the "fat" description. I'm also very short as well which makes me look even fatter! Does it mean I want to be described as such - I think not.

Mr KC would never call me fat though because he thinks I'm gorgeous (it's all the eyes of the beholder) & neither do any my verifications describe me as such.

I prefer being a larger lady - others have called me curves in all the right places, oozing sexiness, confident, voluptuous . . . . These makes me smile and build my belief up in myself

Why can't we all just use kinder words to share express our preferences?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is entirely within their right to govern the language that is used to describe themselves. However some get off on using derogatory terms (fat, slut, whore, even racially derogatory terms, the list is endless).

I don’t think we should shame people for their preferences.

I think OP was misguided.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like my women curvy,

That gives me lots of scope,

That extra bit of woman,

gives me plenty more to grope.

I like my women rubenesque,

a preference, not a kink,

if dress size passes 22,

I cannot help but wink.

I like my women bouncy,

a jiggle as they move,

that gorgeous peachy backside,

I just want deep in that groove.

I love the awesome BBW,

they have so much to offer.

So keep your kink shame to yourself,

I like them, where's the bother?

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Ok. Who's got the popcorn?

This has got to be the most irritating thing said on the forums.

"

For me. It’s “another one added to the block list”. Adds nothing to the discussion

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Sorry for 2 forum posts in the same day, only just started to read through it!

So, I have had a fat fetish for as long as I’ve been attracted to women, I was just wondering if women would find it insulting for me to say I’m attracted to them because they are fat? "

OP. I wouldn’t like it but if you were just attracted to me because of my size. It would be an instant turn off.

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"You can be any superhero you like, even a made up one.

This is a new world ladies and gentlemen, no longer will us fatties be shunned and mocked! We shall unite and be The Fat Clan!

Can i join and be Loki Koki?

I just like the thought of you all imagining my belly wobble as i do the dance and getting a bit of sick in your mouth "

I like belly wobble!

No sick in my mouth

And as I'm the thick end of 20 stone, can I join the fat superhero gang? I'll even do the running (he says smugly, having recently completed his 250th (slow) Parkrun, and got the t-shirt to prove he's dragged his fat ass round 780 miles.... )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe the main problem with a 'larger lady fetish' is that most women (and men) want to be more than a body shape. I've seen similar arguments on posts about big black cocks. Guys want to be more than just a penis size.

OP, I doubt you meant to come across as offensive and 'm sure you'll find some ladies who enjoy being called fat, but you'll have better results if you use alternative, "softer", terminology to indicate your preferences and don't make it sounds like that's the only thing you want from a partner.

Lastly, weight does not define fat. I used to be 'fat' at over 11 stone because I'm short, my 6.2 friend is 14 stone, very athletic, and far from 'fat'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry for 2 forum posts in the same day, only just started to read through it!

So, I have had a fat fetish for as long as I’ve been attracted to women, I was just wondering if women would find it insulting for me to say I’m attracted to them because they are fat? "

Fat is not a fetish!

A preference, a choice, an appreciation of a certain body type, but not a fetish!

Being a fat lass I'd find being called someone's fetish a bit insulting.

Also fat at 12 stone,,, heavens above!!!! I give up on society which encourages this view x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry for 2 forum posts in the same day, only just started to read through it!

So, I have had a fat fetish for as long as I’ve been attracted to women, I was just wondering if women would find it insulting for me to say I’m attracted to them because they are fat?

Fat is not a fetish!

A preference, a choice, an appreciation of a certain body type, but not a fetish!

Being a fat lass I'd find being called someone's fetish a bit insulting.

Also fat at 12 stone,,, heavens above!!!! I give up on society which encourages this view x"

I’m sorry but you’re wrong, it is a fetish. Access your nearest porn distributor if you’d like to find out more. Or watch My Big Fat Fetish on channel 4 for less x-rated examples.

Fat fetish isn’t uncommon.

You can have a simple preference for larger people without necessarily having a fetish, but plenty of people do have a fat fetish where they are aroused, sometimes exclusively, by fatness.

I’ve been in relationships with two men who have a fat fetish. Don’t knock it til you try it. Personally I loved being with someone who loved every part of my body and worshipped it.

There is also feederism, which is a separate but related, where people get off on someone gaining weight.

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By *0FrankMan
over a year ago

The South!

Let me add my tuppence worth...

The OP could have phrased it better... But...

Saying you only like bigger girls is wrong... Saying you only slim girls is wrong..

Size isn't important to me and I openly say that... but if I don't have a type I've been told that makes desparate.

Either way, you can't win.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear. I think the OP is running for his life or blubbering quietly in the corner while sucking his thumb. Honestly though. I don’t think he meant to be negative, just didn’t choose his words correctly and probably isn’t familiar with weights..

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By *oreboteeeCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"Fatties unite!

I was hoping for a more enthusiastic "fatties assemble"

I'll take my hulk costume off now

That comes later when we actually have the group sorted!

Why has this comment turned me on far more than it should of lol ????

*slowly puts costume back on whilst fat widow puts the cookies out*

"We have cookies!""

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By *H and HJCouple
over a year ago

Bangor


"Does it matter what they look like, or their personalities? Or do they just need to be fat? Also, how fat is fat? Would you date a fat woman, or do you just want to fuck one? So many questions

It does matter a little bit about what they look like, but it depends if it’s for a one time thing or if I want to date them! I would class fat as anything above like 12st? I would happily date one!"

Over 12 stone?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s a lil bit of kink shaming going on here I’d argue.

OP maybe doesn’t understand weight very well, and he used a word -some- people find offensive.

I’m sure plenty have used offensive terms as part of their sex lives.

Just playing devils advocate..."

Agreed. Maybe the OP would have been safer in stating he likes ladies of a certain dress size or above. As weight can be so varied depending on if someone weighs 12 stone in body fat or 12 stone of pure lean toned muscle!

Also height of a person really factors in this too!

12 stone carried on a tall frame can mean the person is slim!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s a lil bit of kink shaming going on here I’d argue.

OP maybe doesn’t understand weight very well, and he used a word -some- people find offensive.

I’m sure plenty have used offensive terms as part of their sex lives.

Just playing devils advocate...

Agreed. Maybe the OP would have been safer in stating he likes ladies of a certain dress size or above. As weight can be so varied depending on if someone weighs 12 stone in body fat or 12 stone of pure lean toned muscle!

Also height of a person really factors in this too!

12 stone carried on a tall frame can mean the person is slim!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh dear. I think the OP is running for his life or blubbering quietly in the corner while sucking his thumb. Honestly though. I don’t think he meant to be negative, just didn’t choose his words correctly and probably isn’t familiar with weights.. "

Honesty, just very poor with guessing weights, and a very poor choice of words, I’ve not really even bothered to read through the replies because I realised it was taken the wrong way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see any kink shaming at all.

The OP asked if people would be offended by it and some are saying yes and some no.

I feel very strongly that people can and have on this thread just given their opinions.

The OP has used some unwise words and definitions but I don't see anyone shaming him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't see any kink shaming at all.

The OP asked if people would be offended by it and some are saying yes and some no.

I feel very strongly that people can and have on this thread just given their opinions.

The OP has used some unwise words and definitions but I don't see anyone shaming him. "

I absolutely agree that I used some poor choice words, I just wanted to find if women would find it offensive that I am attracted to their body type. From this thread I’ve taken it as a no but I’ve got to word it right. Sorry to anyone I’ve offended, I would apologise to them individually but I’m out of most of their preferences.

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By *cloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull


"I don't see any kink shaming at all.

The OP asked if people would be offended by it and some are saying yes and some no.

I feel very strongly that people can and have on this thread just given their opinions.

The OP has used some unwise words and definitions but I don't see anyone shaming him.

I absolutely agree that I used some poor choice words, I just wanted to find if women would find it offensive that I am attracted to their body type. From this thread I’ve taken it as a no but I’ve got to word it right. Sorry to anyone I’ve offended, I would apologise to them individually but I’m out of most of their preferences. "

Just use the description in your username & you won't go too far wrong I reckon!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see any kink shaming at all.

The OP asked if people would be offended by it and some are saying yes and some no.

I feel very strongly that people can and have on this thread just given their opinions.

The OP has used some unwise words and definitions but I don't see anyone shaming him.

I absolutely agree that I used some poor choice words, I just wanted to find if women would find it offensive that I am attracted to their body type. From this thread I’ve taken it as a no but I’ve got to word it right. Sorry to anyone I’ve offended, I would apologise to them individually but I’m out of most of their preferences. "

I don’t think there is anything wrong if you put that you have a fat fetish on your profile. That to me makes sense as it is a known concept. Just don’t mention weight hahaha...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see any kink shaming at all.

The OP asked if people would be offended by it and some are saying yes and some no.

I feel very strongly that people can and have on this thread just given their opinions.

The OP has used some unwise words and definitions but I don't see anyone shaming him.

I absolutely agree that I used some poor choice words, I just wanted to find if women would find it offensive that I am attracted to their body type. From this thread I’ve taken it as a no but I’ve got to word it right. Sorry to anyone I’ve offended, I would apologise to them individually but I’m out of most of their preferences. "

Absolutely no need to apologise in the slightest.

I think that actually there isn't the need to say its a fetish. What I mean by that is just message the woman you find attractive for whatever reason.

Have you considered going to a BBW night at a club?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't see any kink shaming at all.

The OP asked if people would be offended by it and some are saying yes and some no.

I feel very strongly that people can and have on this thread just given their opinions.

The OP has used some unwise words and definitions but I don't see anyone shaming him.

I absolutely agree that I used some poor choice words, I just wanted to find if women would find it offensive that I am attracted to their body type. From this thread I’ve taken it as a no but I’ve got to word it right. Sorry to anyone I’ve offended, I would apologise to them individually but I’m out of most of their preferences.

Just use the description in your username & you won't go too far wrong I reckon! "

Which part?

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By *uncpl187Couple
over a year ago

Ramsgate

I'm lucky enough to have married one and get to fuck her when she lets me lol

Happy Xmas all xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see any kink shaming at all.

The OP asked if people would be offended by it and some are saying yes and some no.

I feel very strongly that people can and have on this thread just given their opinions.

The OP has used some unwise words and definitions but I don't see anyone shaming him.

I absolutely agree that I used some poor choice words, I just wanted to find if women would find it offensive that I am attracted to their body type. From this thread I’ve taken it as a no but I’ve got to word it right. Sorry to anyone I’ve offended, I would apologise to them individually but I’m out of most of their preferences.

I don’t think there is anything wrong if you put that you have a fat fetish on your profile. That to me makes sense as it is a known concept. Just don’t mention weight hahaha... "

That's a good idea. Then people know and everyone knows the score.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't see any kink shaming at all.

The OP asked if people would be offended by it and some are saying yes and some no.

I feel very strongly that people can and have on this thread just given their opinions.

The OP has used some unwise words and definitions but I don't see anyone shaming him.

I absolutely agree that I used some poor choice words, I just wanted to find if women would find it offensive that I am attracted to their body type. From this thread I’ve taken it as a no but I’ve got to word it right. Sorry to anyone I’ve offended, I would apologise to them individually but I’m out of most of their preferences.

Absolutely no need to apologise in the slightest.

I think that actually there isn't the need to say its a fetish. What I mean by that is just message the woman you find attractive for whatever reason.

Have you considered going to a BBW night at a club? "

I’m still relatively new to all this so I’m not sure how I’d find one! However it does sound like my dream night haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see any kink shaming at all.

The OP asked if people would be offended by it and some are saying yes and some no.

I feel very strongly that people can and have on this thread just given their opinions.

The OP has used some unwise words and definitions but I don't see anyone shaming him.

I absolutely agree that I used some poor choice words, I just wanted to find if women would find it offensive that I am attracted to their body type. From this thread I’ve taken it as a no but I’ve got to word it right. Sorry to anyone I’ve offended, I would apologise to them individually but I’m out of most of their preferences.

Absolutely no need to apologise in the slightest.

I think that actually there isn't the need to say its a fetish. What I mean by that is just message the woman you find attractive for whatever reason.

Have you considered going to a BBW night at a club?

I’m still relatively new to all this so I’m not sure how I’d find one! However it does sound like my dream night haha x "

Have a look in the club review section and see what clubs are near to you.

Also the swingers club section of the forums might be worth a look.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I don't think the OP has been offensive and if fat people turn him on that's perfectly fine. Yeah, his definition of fat is abit skewed and maybe his wording hasn't been great but he's meant no offense and hasn't caused any to me.

I also don't think there's been kink shaming, I think it's just been a discussion and people being abit shocked about the 12 stone thing, which is understandable.

My Fat Clan comments were just abit of lighthearted fun, I was just trying to lighten (hohoho) the tone.

Anyways, OP, some people don't like being called fat, maybe just say voluptuous like in your fab name.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think the OP has been offensive and if fat people turn him on that's perfectly fine. Yeah, his definition of fat is abit skewed and maybe his wording hasn't been great but he's meant no offense and hasn't caused any to me.

I also don't think there's been kink shaming, I think it's just been a discussion and people being abit shocked about the 12 stone thing, which is understandable.

My Fat Clan comments were just abit of lighthearted fun, I was just trying to lighten (hohoho) the tone.

Anyways, OP, some people don't like being called fat, maybe just say voluptuous like in your fab name. "

12 stone was a bit off I agree, I’m not too good at knowing weights because it’s just something I’ve never noticed. I will go on using voluptuous I guess haha x

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"I don't think the OP has been offensive and if fat people turn him on that's perfectly fine. Yeah, his definition of fat is abit skewed and maybe his wording hasn't been great but he's meant no offense and hasn't caused any to me.

I also don't think there's been kink shaming, I think it's just been a discussion and people being abit shocked about the 12 stone thing, which is understandable.

My Fat Clan comments were just abit of lighthearted fun, I was just trying to lighten (hohoho) the tone.

Anyways, OP, some people don't like being called fat, maybe just say voluptuous like in your fab name.

12 stone was a bit off I agree, I’m not too good at knowing weights because it’s just something I’ve never noticed. I will go on using voluptuous I guess haha x"

Good idea lol

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By *cloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull


"I don't see any kink shaming at all.

The OP asked if people would be offended by it and some are saying yes and some no.

I feel very strongly that people can and have on this thread just given their opinions.

The OP has used some unwise words and definitions but I don't see anyone shaming him.

I absolutely agree that I used some poor choice words, I just wanted to find if women would find it offensive that I am attracted to their body type. From this thread I’ve taken it as a no but I’ve got to word it right. Sorry to anyone I’ve offended, I would apologise to them individually but I’m out of most of their preferences.

Just use the description in your username & you won't go too far wrong I reckon!

Which part?"

We are voluptuously delicious!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuxk me I’m nearly 16stone and here’s me thinking I was the new age average

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fuxk me I’m nearly 16stone and here’s me thinking I was the new age average "

That’s my mistake, I’m not very good with weights! Sorry x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like voluptuous. I prefer curvy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't like voluptuous. I prefer curvy."

It doesn’t matter to me, they’re all beautiful

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

If anyone wants to look smaller - stand next to me. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me a woman with shape is sexier than a bean pole

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"To me a woman with shape is sexier than a bean pole"

Oh, you've gone and done it now

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South


"To me a woman with shape is sexier than a bean pole"

*facepalm*

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To me a woman with shape is sexier than a bean pole

Oh, you've gone and done it now "

I thought I’d finally resolved the misunderstanding ffs

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

Above 12st is fat think you'll not get the response your looking for after that comment

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"To me a woman with shape is sexier than a bean pole"

Bloody hell

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Above 12st is fat think you'll not get the response your looking for after that comment "

Read up, I’ve got a terrible judge of weight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did I say the wrong thing?

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"Did I say the wrong thing? "

I'm guessing you're new here, aren't you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To me a woman with shape is sexier than a bean pole

Oh, you've gone and done it now

I thought I’d finally resolved the misunderstanding ffs"

Haha you have.... not yours this time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Variety shapes, sizes and colour bring out the Beauty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New in the forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should we be grateful..........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"New in the forum "

For past 6 weeks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I referred to bean pole I was meaning a woman who is skin n bone. I k ow it's probably the wrong phrase so I will leave while I still can x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the record you are beautiful xx

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"When I referred to bean pole I was meaning a woman who is skin n bone. I k ow it's probably the wrong phrase so I will leave while I still can x "

You can like a certain type of person without referring to something you don't like with unkind words.

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By *osie xWoman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"You can be any superhero you like, even a made up one.

This is a new world ladies and gentlemen, no longer will us fatties be shunned and mocked! We shall unite and be The Fat Clan!

Can i join and be Loki Koki?

I just like the thought of you all imagining my belly wobble as i do the dance and getting a bit of sick in your mouth

Is that as in...

You put the left cock in,

The right cock out,

In, out, in, out,

You shake it all about.

You do the Loki Koki and you turn around.

That's what it's all about. "

A new take on it but hey ho, in for a penny

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By *osmocoupleMan
over a year ago

East Sussex

Your pictures look great...but you lost me at the word 'fat'. There are much nicer terms to use....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your pictures look great...but you lost me at the word 'fat'. There are much nicer terms to use...."

If you’re talking to me then I’ve got to say sorry, that’s what this post was to find out. Now I know what women prefer and how I should phrase things better x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuxk me I’m nearly 16stone and here’s me thinking I was the new age average

That’s my mistake, I’m not very good with weights! Sorry x"

I'm the same weight but I'm only 5ft whereas phenix is tall.

So often weight is just a number, because of the hight difference we are very different body shapes although the same weight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hold up! I'm just going to get the Gateau. Bugger the popcorn.

I'd try using a little bit more decorum in your wording, while describing us fat women.

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout


"I’m 13 stone so I guess that means I’m fat

Wow fab. "

Feck, I'm 14. I best wobble on down to slimming world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no Words

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

Helluva lot of lads with their shovels out today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hold up! I'm just going to get the Gateau. Bugger the popcorn.

I'd try using a little bit more decorum in your wording, while describing us fat women. "

I think you need to read the whole thread.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hold up! I'm just going to get the Gateau. Bugger the popcorn.

I'd try using a little bit more decorum in your wording, while describing us fat women.

I think you need to read the whole thread. "

Wish I could just delete half this thread because it’s just being taken wrong

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By *ecky2000Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

I'd rather people be honest , I like tall men with big dicks , he likes big / fat / large women it means the same thing doesn't offend me one bit ! Happy fabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I referred to bean pole I was meaning a woman who is skin n bone. I k ow it's probably the wrong phrase so I will leave while I still can x "

You can send all the bean poles my way....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hold up! I'm just going to get the Gateau. Bugger the popcorn.

I'd try using a little bit more decorum in your wording, while describing us fat women.

I think you need to read the whole thread.

Wish I could just delete half this thread because it’s just being taken wrong "

For what it's worth OP, you asked a question because you wanted to know how people would take it, how to express your desires without being offensive. People jumped on the subject rather than the fact you wanted to NOT be offensive hence asking the sodding question. I think you were honest and I tip my hat to you.

You didn't know something

You admitted you didn't know and asked.

Nowt wrong with that.

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hold up! I'm just going to get the Gateau. Bugger the popcorn.

I'd try using a little bit more decorum in your wording, while describing us fat women.

I think you need to read the whole thread.

Wish I could just delete half this thread because it’s just being taken wrong "

Seriously don't worry about it. You have explained what you meant.

I think people need t to remember that everyone is new to this at some point and you have taken on board what people have said and been very respectful. X

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Hold up! I'm just going to get the Gateau. Bugger the popcorn.

I'd try using a little bit more decorum in your wording, while describing us fat women.

I think you need to read the whole thread.

Wish I could just delete half this thread because it’s just being taken wrong "

I think there is a way as I have seen others posts deleted.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hold up! I'm just going to get the Gateau. Bugger the popcorn.

I'd try using a little bit more decorum in your wording, while describing us fat women.

I think you need to read the whole thread.

Wish I could just delete half this thread because it’s just being taken wrong

For what it's worth OP, you asked a question because you wanted to know how people would take it, how to express your desires without being offensive. People jumped on the subject rather than the fact you wanted to NOT be offensive hence asking the sodding question. I think you were honest and I tip my hat to you.

You didn't know something

You admitted you didn't know and asked.

Nowt wrong with that.

P"

It’s just new people to this thread that haven’t read through, they probably think I’m a dick

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Hold up! I'm just going to get the Gateau. Bugger the popcorn.

I'd try using a little bit more decorum in your wording, while describing us fat women.

I think you need to read the whole thread.

Wish I could just delete half this thread because it’s just being taken wrong

For what it's worth OP, you asked a question because you wanted to know how people would take it, how to express your desires without being offensive. People jumped on the subject rather than the fact you wanted to NOT be offensive hence asking the sodding question. I think you were honest and I tip my hat to you.

You didn't know something

You admitted you didn't know and asked.

Nowt wrong with that.

P

It’s just new people to this thread that haven’t read through, they probably think I’m a dick "

Ignore them, you've done nothing wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hold up! I'm just going to get the Gateau. Bugger the popcorn.

I'd try using a little bit more decorum in your wording, while describing us fat women.

I think you need to read the whole thread.

Wish I could just delete half this thread because it’s just being taken wrong

Seriously don't worry about it. You have explained what you meant.

I think people need t to remember that everyone is new to this at some point and you have taken on board what people have said and been very respectful. X"

I’m really thankful for those of you who helped me to realise what I did wrong, hoping I can be better from now on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hold up! I'm just going to get the Gateau. Bugger the popcorn.

I'd try using a little bit more decorum in your wording, while describing us fat women.

I think you need to read the whole thread.

Wish I could just delete half this thread because it’s just being taken wrong

For what it's worth OP, you asked a question because you wanted to know how people would take it, how to express your desires without being offensive. People jumped on the subject rather than the fact you wanted to NOT be offensive hence asking the sodding question. I think you were honest and I tip my hat to you.

You didn't know something

You admitted you didn't know and asked.

Nowt wrong with that.

P

It’s just new people to this thread that haven’t read through, they probably think I’m a dick "

Then that's on them, and their being quick to judge and jump to conclusions.... not you

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hold up! I'm just going to get the Gateau. Bugger the popcorn.

I'd try using a little bit more decorum in your wording, while describing us fat women.

I think you need to read the whole thread.

Wish I could just delete half this thread because it’s just being taken wrong

I think there is a way as I have seen others posts deleted. "

You can only do that for a few minutes after you post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hold up! I'm just going to get the Gateau. Bugger the popcorn.

I'd try using a little bit more decorum in your wording, while describing us fat women.

I think you need to read the whole thread.

Wish I could just delete half this thread because it’s just being taken wrong

Seriously don't worry about it. You have explained what you meant.

I think people need t to remember that everyone is new to this at some point and you have taken on board what people have said and been very respectful. X

I’m really thankful for those of you who helped me to realise what I did wrong, hoping I can be better from now on x "

You didn't do anything wrong, just maybe used unwise wording but you live and learn. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP: Well credit to you anyway as the majority of people get very defensive about people’s reactions. So kudos to you as you did not.

Just wish people would actually read the thread before commenting. Also stop apologizing now as you have done it enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hold up! I'm just going to get the Gateau. Bugger the popcorn.

I'd try using a little bit more decorum in your wording, while describing us fat women.

I think you need to read the whole thread.

Wish I could just delete half this thread because it’s just being taken wrong "

***Hold up! I'm just going to get the Gateau. Bugger the popcorn.***

This bit was a reference to the *get's the popcorn* remarks. I'm fat I like cake, more than popcorn. Lol

***I'd try using a little bit more decorum in your wording, while describing us fat women.***

This bit wasn't a dig at you, directly, although it comes across like that over the inter web. The same way yours came across the wrong way to begin with. It's easily done! Don't worry about it.

Don't take what's said on here to heart. People will be offended, no matter what you say or do!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hold up! I'm just going to get the Gateau. Bugger the popcorn.

I'd try using a little bit more decorum in your wording, while describing us fat women.

I think you need to read the whole thread.

Wish I could just delete half this thread because it’s just being taken wrong

***Hold up! I'm just going to get the Gateau. Bugger the popcorn.***

This bit was a reference to the *get's the popcorn* remarks. I'm fat I like cake, more than popcorn. Lol

***I'd try using a little bit more decorum in your wording, while describing us fat women.***

This bit wasn't a dig at you, directly, although it comes across like that over the inter web. The same way yours came across the wrong way to begin with. It's easily done! Don't worry about it.

Don't take what's said on here to heart. People will be offended, no matter what you say or do!

"

If we were together in person, there wouldn’t be these miscommunications xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hold up! I'm just going to get the Gateau. Bugger the popcorn.

I'd try using a little bit more decorum in your wording, while describing us fat women.

I think you need to read the whole thread.

Wish I could just delete half this thread because it’s just being taken wrong

***Hold up! I'm just going to get the Gateau. Bugger the popcorn.***

This bit was a reference to the *get's the popcorn* remarks. I'm fat I like cake, more than popcorn. Lol

***I'd try using a little bit more decorum in your wording, while describing us fat women.***

This bit wasn't a dig at you, directly, although it comes across like that over the inter web. The same way yours came across the wrong way to begin with. It's easily done! Don't worry about it.

Don't take what's said on here to heart. People will be offended, no matter what you say or do!

If we were together in person, there wouldn’t be these miscommunications xx"

I very much doubt, there would be sweetie!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So the op didn’t know calling people over 12st fat and referring to slim ladies as bean poles would offend anyone, but now that’s been pointed out it’s ok ..........

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By *osmocoupleMan
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Your pictures look great...but you lost me at the word 'fat'. There are much nicer terms to use....

If you’re talking to me then I’ve got to say sorry, that’s what this post was to find out. Now I know what women prefer and how I should phrase things better x"

Yes that was directed at you. Thank you for replying. I know I'm not thin, never will be, but doesn't mean I want reminding. I can still have fun!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So the op didn’t know calling people over 12st fat and referring to slim ladies as bean poles would offend anyone, but now that’s been pointed out it’s ok .......... "

It was not the OP who referred to people as bean poles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So the op didn’t know calling people over 12st fat and referring to slim ladies as bean poles would offend anyone, but now that’s been pointed out it’s ok ..........

It was not the OP who referred to people as bean poles.

"

Oh apologies

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

Would you be offended if a had a pig ugly guy fetish??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you be offended if a had a pig ugly guy fetish?? "

No not at all, it’s all about your personal preferences .......

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Would you be offended if a had a pig ugly guy fetish?? "

It's not really the same thing though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you be offended if a had a pig ugly guy fetish??

It's not really the same thing though. "

Please don’t kink shame her....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you be offended if a had a pig ugly guy fetish?? "

You have to use more acceptable language than that. What you have is a "guy considered unattractive by the vast majority of people on the planet" fetish.

B

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By *OXO2018Couple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"Sorry for 2 forum posts in the same day, only just started to read through it!

So, I have had a fat fetish for as long as I’ve been attracted to women, I was just wondering if women would find it insulting for me to say I’m attracted to them because they are fat? "

Personally no, I'd rather you where honest from the start. But then I'd probably work out you had a type from your verifications anyway.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I’m not fat - I have fat and I have lots of other things as well.

Yes I would be offended, very much so. Just as I would be if someone only wanted me because I have a vagina there has to be more.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Sorry for 2 forum posts in the same day, only just started to read through it!

So, I have had a fat fetish for as long as I’ve been attracted to women, I was just wondering if women would find it insulting for me to say I’m attracted to them because they are fat? "

Just don't tell them your reason?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve got a decent person with good morals fetish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you be offended if a had a pig ugly guy fetish??

You have to use more acceptable language than that. What you have is a "guy considered unattractive by the vast majority of people on the planet" fetish.

B"

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle


"Would you be offended if a had a pig ugly guy fetish??

You have to use more acceptable language than that. What you have is a "guy considered unattractive by the vast majority of people on the planet" fetish.

B

"

Oh my bad.. lol what she said

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By *laclkguyMan
over a year ago

Pontefract


"Does it matter what they look like, or their personalities? Or do they just need to be fat? Also, how fat is fat? Would you date a fat woman, or do you just want to fuck one? So many questions "

i would definetly date a fat woman

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