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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good afternoon.

Now most of us get the 'wanna meet now messages from men women couples etc but has anyone actually followed up on one of these message. Have you thought 'sod it yea I'm free' and replied. Did it work out well or did you call their bluff.

We never have and never will.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't, but if got a sexy offer possible would ,but probably easier for a man

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

It's a huge turn off for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I havent had one of these messages before and think socials first are always the way to go, but I cant say I wouldn't be tempted with that offer from the right lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best ones are where you've been offline for hours and log in and see them.

They clearly see you're offline and have been for a while so not sure how they expect you to reply

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's a huge turn off for me "

Oh for us it's instant delete wether it be from a couple a women or a man. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm never so horny to respond to this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate the “I’m a plumber working in your area, fancy a meet?” Messages. Just what we were looking for! A random stranger to turn up stinking of s**t!

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I only seem to get them from men so I cant say that I have

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

meet now doesn't work for me. I am usually in mom, nan or work mode.

The 'Anabelle experience' takes a little work and time to prepare for

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But if you replied with 'sure I/We can meet in 30 mins' how many of the message senders would be shocked and then not reply because they wasn't expecting a reply x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hate the “I’m a plumber working in your area, fancy a meet?” Messages. Just what we were looking for! A random stranger to turn up stinking of s**t! "

I’m a sparky working in your area.. fancy a meet?

How about that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hate the “I’m a plumber working in your area, fancy a meet?” Messages. Just what we were looking for! A random stranger to turn up stinking of s**t!

I’m a sparky working in your area.. fancy a meet?

How about that one "

Always wonder where they’d get a shower, or do the keep a can of lynx Africa in the glovebox just in case?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hate the “I’m a plumber working in your area, fancy a meet?” Messages. Just what we were looking for! A random stranger to turn up stinking of s**t!

I’m a sparky working in your area.. fancy a meet?

How about that one

Always wonder where they’d get a shower, or do the keep a can of lynx Africa in the glovebox just in case?"

Plumbers is a different story but us sparkys don’t get dirty. lol

I’d assume they’re going to visit you before undertaking any horrible tasks..

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Yes. Did once. They chickened out and left Fab.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes. Did once. They chickened out and left Fab. "

See that's what we're talking about. You called their bluff x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one two weeks ago, about 20.30 on a Saturday, from a couple. Saying they were in a hotel. I saw it, checked the very basic profile, and could see they were logged out. So I couldn't respond in the moment. They didn't log in anytime later that night, and then deleted the mail at some point.

Perhaps they found someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messages I receive like that get deleted and the sender gets blocked

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By *oupleforxtrafunCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Yes I have done this and it worked out fantastic

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By *alkdirty2meCouple
over a year ago

20 miles south of Edinburgh

We must admit that our jobs do take us all over the country and yes we have been guilty of sending these messages or at least chatting with couples in the hope that they might have a social with us when we know that we are going to be around in the future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes the first time I was having a meet off here I was let down I put a status on saying I’d been let down and a couple instantly messaged and asked if I wanted to come straight over I was all ready so it worked out well... but recently I have had a few couples messaging me wanting me to go there and then usually they don’t have verifications and joined the site a few days ago so it’s a no x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had one or sent one for that matter but I'm a bit of a tart and open to offers....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only reply to tell em I'm a lesbian. It's so annoying that noone actually even looks at your profile. I have a rejection I've used so many times my phone has it in autocomplete. So no, I haven't responded with a yeah sure and I doubt I ever will.

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

No but I get it that some people will chance their arm though I would guess they are unsuccessful 99% of the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t speak Ghanaian or Nigerian so I left them alone lol

Scamalam x

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By *racy_JacksWoman
over a year ago

Derby

The best is when it’s a weekend evening. Because you know, I just spend my Friday and Saturday nights waiting for an invitation from some random dude...

I have posted a couple of events when I’ve been feeling spontaneous though- a few messages, a phone call and meeting a few hours later. One was amazing and the second stayed as a one off social

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