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By *lder A Wiser Passion OP   Woman
over a year ago

morecambe

Yes can be hard for all on here now these are my tips

1. always do you home work frist before sending a first message as you only 15 secounds ever to win anyone over

2. Never put up bad status as some folk will be put of by it and wont message you

3. Make friends to start with see where it leads

4.Never assume anything just let it find it own way

5.Its will happen when it happens

So come on folk lets add to my list and what do you think of my list

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Meet somebody because you want to meet them, not because you want to achieve something. People don't want to feel like they are a check box on your list. People will only want to turn your fantasies into reality if there is something in it for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should be Yoday of Passion Queen

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Be honest with the person you are chatting to

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

Don’t message with your horny glasses on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be a gentleman in success as well as rejection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just flash your tits occasionally and then when you reject every advance , see who tries hardest....

#notexactlybutclose

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By *ackinabox19Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

Definitely read others profiles before messaging and don’t be offended if you don’t get a response.

Above all just be a nice person and respect others

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

Ray

Be polite and respectful

Be bold and send that message you never know where it may lead to

Never eat yellow snow

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Patience is a virtue

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"Don’t message with your horny glasses on "

But keep your normal seeing glasses on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only say in your message what you’d say if you met the person in a bar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't assume because someone has replied to your message that they want to jump in the sack with you.

If someone has not replied and/or deleted your message, you've not lit their fire. Don't send another with a dick pic asking if they're not interested. You've already had your answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed apart from number 1

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield


"Only say in your message what you’d say if you met the person in a bar "

Very true x

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By *ucilleWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle Upon Tyne


"Meet somebody because you want to meet them, not because you want to achieve something. People don't want to feel like they are a check box on your list. People will only want to turn your fantasies into reality if there is something in it for them. "

This is a really good point. I will admit there's times in the past I've been somewhat guilty of this.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"Only say in your message what you’d say if you met the person in a bar "

I have never done that so this is not so helpful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only say in your message what you’d say if you met the person in a bar

I have never done that so this is not so helpful."

You’ve never met and conversed with someone you find attractive outside if fab ??

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