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 I'd like there to be other options for body size on here | |||
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"Risk of offending and any offense is unintentional BUT so many women on fab list themselves as bbw or bigger than average - why do we think fab women fit this profile so often?" Lots of reasons. Dress size, BMI, body image, mental health, media, peers...all affect how a woman perceives her body size. Doesn't define her as a woman, though.. | |||
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"I think you will find that according to the NHS website 64% of the adult population are overweight, so it's just a reflection on society. " I think overweight and bbw are very different things but if that stat is accurate id still say fab has disproportionate representation | |||
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"I think you will find that according to the NHS website 64% of the adult population are overweight, so it's just a reflection on society. I think overweight and bbw are very different things but if that stat is accurate id still say fab has disproportionate representation " So, for you, what's the difference between bbw and overweight? | |||
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"Yes it seems maybe 90 or 95% of women on here are over a size 10. This is echoed in clubs as well." I wouldn't consider a size 12 a BBW, would you? | |||
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"I think you will find that according to the NHS website 64% of the adult population are overweight, so it's just a reflection on society. I think overweight and bbw are very different things but if that stat is accurate id still say fab has disproportionate representation " What do you think BBW stands for, if you think it’s very different to someone being overweight? | |||
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"Yes it seems maybe 90 or 95% of women on here are over a size 10. This is echoed in clubs as well." Yes of course it is because over 45% of women are a size 16 or over. | |||
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"Yes it seems maybe 90 or 95% of women on here are over a size 10. This is echoed in clubs as well. I wouldn't consider a size 12 a BBW, would you? " Id say size 18-20 is pushing into bbw. Size 14 is about aversge? I checked the stats and am a bit shocked to learn 65%, of adults are overweight and about half of that are those who class as obese. Perhaps fab is just a reflection of society in genersl and my perception is wrong | |||
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"Yes it seems maybe 90 or 95% of women on here are over a size 10. This is echoed in clubs as well." I'd say so too as size 10 is quite small and a size 12 is hardly large. | |||
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"I think you will find that according to the NHS website 64% of the adult population are overweight, so it's just a reflection on society. I think overweight and bbw are very different things but if that stat is accurate id still say fab has disproportionate representation What do you think BBW stands for, if you think it’s very different to someone being overweight?" Being overweight could be having a bmi of 27 - youd not be thought of as big at that sort of size. | |||
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"I'd say so too as size 10 is quite small and a size 12 is hardly large. " I'd say size 6 is small, 8-10 is "normal" (little or no excess weight) and 12 is curvy. My point being that the OP is right, in that swinging now seems to be almost exclusively populated by larger women. | |||
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"Yes it seems maybe 90 or 95% of women on here are over a size 10. This is echoed in clubs as well. I wouldn't consider a size 12 a BBW, would you? Id say size 18-20 is pushing into bbw. Size 14 is about aversge? I checked the stats and am a bit shocked to learn 65%, of adults are overweight and about half of that are those who class as obese. Perhaps fab is just a reflection of society in genersl and my perception is wrong " Yes it is. And actually a size 16 has been the average size of a UK woman since the early 90s. | |||
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"I'd say so too as size 10 is quite small and a size 12 is hardly large. I'd say size 6 is small, 8-10 is "normal" (little or no excess weight) and 12 is curvy. My point being that the OP is right, in that swinging now seems to be almost exclusively populated by larger women." Ye this is the thing. For the sake of giving my opinion...id still say 14-16 rends tonbe thought of as curvey and average. Id class large as 18+ and bbw even bigger. | |||
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"Yes it seems maybe 90 or 95% of women on here are over a size 10. This is echoed in clubs as well. I wouldn't consider a size 12 a BBW, would you? " Hope not! I’d look ill if I was a 12! | |||
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"I'd say so too as size 10 is quite small and a size 12 is hardly large. I'd say size 6 is small, 8-10 is "normal" (little or no excess weight) and 12 is curvy. My point being that the OP is right, in that swinging now seems to be almost exclusively populated by larger women." Who wants to be normal  . That’s boring | |||
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"Yes it seems maybe 90 or 95% of women on here are over a size 10. This is echoed in clubs as well. I wouldn't consider a size 12 a BBW, would you? Id say size 18-20 is pushing into bbw. Size 14 is about aversge? I checked the stats and am a bit shocked to learn 65%, of adults are overweight and about half of that are those who class as obese. Perhaps fab is just a reflection of society in genersl and my perception is wrong Yes it is. And actually a size 16 has been the average size of a UK woman since the early 90s. " For the sake of argument id say average size of a fabber is above 16... | |||
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"I'd say so too as size 10 is quite small and a size 12 is hardly large. I'd say size 6 is small, 8-10 is "normal" (little or no excess weight) and 12 is curvy. My point being that the OP is right, in that swinging now seems to be almost exclusively populated by larger women." I personally think curvy is a shape rather than a size tbh. I have friends who are a size 8-10 and have some amazing curves. | |||
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"Yes it seems maybe 90 or 95% of women on here are over a size 10. This is echoed in clubs as well. I wouldn't consider a size 12 a BBW, would you? Id say size 18-20 is pushing into bbw. Size 14 is about aversge? I checked the stats and am a bit shocked to learn 65%, of adults are overweight and about half of that are those who class as obese. Perhaps fab is just a reflection of society in genersl and my perception is wrong Yes it is. And actually a size 16 has been the average size of a UK woman since the early 90s. For the sake of argument id say average size of a fabber is above 16..." You are still not getting it. Its because that is the same for the average UK woman, fabbers or not. | |||
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"I'd say so too as size 10 is quite small and a size 12 is hardly large. I'd say size 6 is small, 8-10 is "normal" (little or no excess weight) and 12 is curvy. My point being that the OP is right, in that swinging now seems to be almost exclusively populated by larger women." I disagree with this. You have to take into account height. I would not be classed as normal as a size 8 - 10. If I’m ever that size I’m probably dying and I would certainly not look “normal”. | |||
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"I'd say so too as size 10 is quite small and a size 12 is hardly large. I'd say size 6 is small, 8-10 is "normal" (little or no excess weight) and 12 is curvy. My point being that the OP is right, in that swinging now seems to be almost exclusively populated by larger women." Spot on. | |||
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"I'd say so too as size 10 is quite small and a size 12 is hardly large. I'd say size 6 is small, 8-10 is "normal" (little or no excess weight) and 12 is curvy. My point being that the OP is right, in that swinging now seems to be almost exclusively populated by larger women." Unless you're talking American sizing size 6 (even on a very short lady) would be worrying, size 8-10 height dependent is very slim/slim, size 10 slim and size 12 should be average (though again height dependent) Curvy is a shape not a size, literally can be any size and curvy as it just means the waist is smaller than top and bottom like an hourglass | |||
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"I'd say so too as size 10 is quite small and a size 12 is hardly large. I'd say size 6 is small, 8-10 is "normal" (little or no excess weight) and 12 is curvy. My point being that the OP is right, in that swinging now seems to be almost exclusively populated by larger women. I personally think curvy is a shape rather than a size tbh. I have friends who are a size 8-10 and have some amazing curves. " Yes, Iv got a friend who is 5ft, size 8 but she is definitely curvy. | |||
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"If the average height for a lady is just under 5ft5 and the average dress size is now a 16 then anyone should be able to make their own minds up on this without offending anyone! " I was this person. Just under 5ft5 and a size 16. I felt awful. I hated my body and the way I was struggling to do things. I can't understand how people let themselves get so big. Personally I was far from bbw. But was definitely a big woman. | |||
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"Yes it seems maybe 90 or 95% of women on here are over a size 10. This is echoed in clubs as well. I wouldn't consider a size 12 a BBW, would you? Id say size 18-20 is pushing into bbw. Size 14 is about aversge? I checked the stats and am a bit shocked to learn 65%, of adults are overweight and about half of that are those who class as obese. Perhaps fab is just a reflection of society in genersl and my perception is wrong Yes it is. And actually a size 16 has been the average size of a UK woman since the early 90s. For the sake of argument id say average size of a fabber is above 16... You are still not getting it. Its because that is the same for the average UK woman, fabbers or not. " I do get it. You are just being awkward. Above 16 means just that...if uk average is 16 and im saying i think fab average is above this then fab tends to used by largernthan average women. Im wondering if anyone else has noticed. | |||
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"If the average height for a lady is just under 5ft5 and the average dress size is now a 16 then anyone should be able to make their own minds up on this without offending anyone! I was this person. Just under 5ft5 and a size 16. I felt awful. I hated my body and the way I was struggling to do things. I can't understand how people let themselves get so big. Personally I was far from bbw. But was definitely a big woman. "And now you’re miss perfect | |||
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"Yes it seems maybe 90 or 95% of women on here are over a size 10. This is echoed in clubs as well. I wouldn't consider a size 12 a BBW, would you? Id say size 18-20 is pushing into bbw. Size 14 is about aversge? I checked the stats and am a bit shocked to learn 65%, of adults are overweight and about half of that are those who class as obese. Perhaps fab is just a reflection of society in genersl and my perception is wrong Yes it is. And actually a size 16 has been the average size of a UK woman since the early 90s. For the sake of argument id say average size of a fabber is above 16... You are still not getting it. Its because that is the same for the average UK woman, fabbers or not. I do get it. You are just being awkward. Above 16 means just that...if uk average is 16 and im saying i think fab average is above this then fab tends to used by largernthan average women. Im wondering if anyone else has noticed." Not meaning to a pain, what size do you think the average fabber is op? | |||
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"Considering bbw/large women etc on fab are a stain on the nhs/fat/not mobile/obese people don’t half bang on about them on fab. Must be jealousy "I don’t understand this comment. Is it just me?  | |||
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I don’t understand this comment. Is it just me? "I was just about to say the same. | |||
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"Considering bbw/large women etc on fab are a stain on the nhs/fat/not mobile/obese people don’t half bang on about them on fab. Must be jealousy
I don’t understand this comment. Is it just me? "You don't often understand apparently | |||
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"Considering bbw/large women etc on fab are a stain on the nhs/fat/not mobile/obese people don’t half bang on about them on fab. Must be jealousy
I don’t understand this comment. Is it just me? "I apologise for the not perfect typos.  | |||
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"Considering bbw/large women etc on fab are a stain on the nhs/fat/not mobile/obese people don’t half bang on about them on fab. Must be jealousy
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You don't often understand apparently"Ah your mate is there not understanding with you. Again. | |||
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"Considering bbw/large women etc on fab are a stain on the nhs/fat/not mobile/obese people don’t half bang on about them on fab. Must be jealousy
I don’t understand this comment. Is it just me? "The punctuation is in the wrong place. Hes basically saying considering certain people on fab hate fat people so much they sure do talk about them alot | |||
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"Considering bbw/large women etc on fab are a stain on the nhs/fat/not mobile/obese people don’t half bang on about them on fab. Must be jealousy
I don’t understand this comment. Is it just me?
I apologise for the not perfect typos. "It wasn’t typos. I don’t get what you’re saying | |||
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"Yes it seems maybe 90 or 95% of women on here are over a size 10. This is echoed in clubs as well. I wouldn't consider a size 12 a BBW, would you? Id say size 18-20 is pushing into bbw. Size 14 is about aversge? I checked the stats and am a bit shocked to learn 65%, of adults are overweight and about half of that are those who class as obese. Perhaps fab is just a reflection of society in genersl and my perception is wrong Yes it is. And actually a size 16 has been the average size of a UK woman since the early 90s. For the sake of argument id say average size of a fabber is above 16... You are still not getting it. Its because that is the same for the average UK woman, fabbers or not. I do get it. You are just being awkward. Above 16 means just that...if uk average is 16 and im saying i think fab average is above this then fab tends to used by largernthan average women. Im wondering if anyone else has noticed. Not meaning to a pain, what size do you think the average fabber is op? " Id say a median average of 20-22 . Age etc... is a factor probably as swinging tends towards more mature people i guess | |||
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"Considering bbw/large women etc on fab are a stain on the nhs/fat/not mobile/obese people don’t half bang on about them on fab. Must be jealousy
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I apologise for the not perfect typos.
It wasn’t typos. I don’t get what you’re saying "Stain/strain. The amount of threads about bbw women and usually in a negative view. Surely that’s easy to understand | |||
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"Considering bbw/large women etc on fab are a stain on the nhs/fat/not mobile/obese people don’t half bang on about them on fab. Must be jealousy
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You don't often understand apparently"Scarlet like I said to you yesterday (privately) how about you just avoid my comments like I have done with yours for the past year. It would make it easier. I’m not here for arguments and nastiness. You seem to be the only one who has a problem with me which I accept and don’t have a problem with but don’t try and make me look a twat on the forums because that I don’t accept. | |||
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"Risk of offending and any offense is unintentional BUT so many women on fab list themselves as bbw or bigger than average - why do we think fab women fit this profile so often?" In my experience (and it is only MY experience) many of the couples profiles in my area and those I have met the women tend to be slim to average whilst the single women tend to be average to BBW. Why this is so, no idea, I could guess but I would probably be wrong. Being a stick man I tend not to focus on someone’s size | |||
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"Can't quite understand the purpose of this post. Apparently the intent wasn't to cause offence & yet it seems to be suggesting that the majority of women on Fab are above average size. " It isnt offensive to note the phenomena. I was wondering what reasons there are for it. No judgement being made | |||
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"Considering bbw/large women etc on fab are a stain on the nhs/fat/not mobile/obese people don’t half bang on about them on fab. Must be jealousy
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You don't often understand apparently"This is a totally unnecessary comment, why so rude? | |||
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This is a totally unnecessary comment, why so rude? "Hanger.  | |||
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"Considering bbw/large women etc on fab are a stain on the nhs/fat/not mobile/obese people don’t half bang on about them on fab. Must be jealousy
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This is a totally unnecessary comment, why so rude? "I thought my comment was easy enough to understand tbh | |||
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"Considering bbw/large women etc on fab are a stain on the nhs/fat/not mobile/obese people don’t half bang on about them on fab. Must be jealousy
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"Considering bbw/large women etc on fab are a stain on the nhs/fat/not mobile/obese people don’t half bang on about them on fab. Must be jealousy
I don’t understand this comment. Is it just me?
You don't often understand apparently
This is a totally unnecessary comment, why so rude?
I thought my comment was easy enough to understand tbh "I'll be honest, you missed some punctuation out so it was hard to read at first. The unnecessary comment was what scarlet said to Nora | |||
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"Can't quite understand the purpose of this post. Apparently the intent wasn't to cause offence & yet it seems to be suggesting that the majority of women on Fab are above average size. It isnt offensive to note the phenomena. I was wondering what reasons there are for it. No judgement being made" Its not a phenomena though, if you dont like bigger women then avoid them. There are plenty of slim women on here | |||
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"Considering bbw/large women etc on fab are a stain on the nhs/fat/not mobile/obese people don’t half bang on about them on fab. Must be jealousy
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You don't often understand apparently
This is a totally unnecessary comment, why so rude?
I thought my comment was easy enough to understand tbh
I'll be honest, you missed some punctuation out so it was hard to read at first.
The unnecessary comment was what scarlet said to Nora"Oh I’ll remember to only comment when I use auto type next time. I’m bad  | |||
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"Why should we be negative about a woman or even a larger mans size we all enjoy sex just get on with it if you don't like what you see then move on "That would be too easy | |||
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"Considering bbw/large women etc on fab are a stain on the nhs/fat/not mobile/obese people don’t half bang on about them on fab. Must be jealousy
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You don't often understand apparently
This is a totally unnecessary comment, why so rude?
I thought my comment was easy enough to understand tbh
I'll be honest, you missed some punctuation out so it was hard to read at first.
The unnecessary comment was what scarlet said to Nora
Oh I’ll remember to only comment when I use auto type next time. I’m bad "I wasn't having a dig, I was just explaining why people struggled with it, my fat sausage fingers are always making mistakes on my phone, it happens. | |||
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"Considering bbw/large women etc on fab are a stain on the nhs/fat/not mobile/obese people don’t half bang on about them on fab. Must be jealousy
I don’t understand this comment. Is it just me?
You don't often understand apparently
This is a totally unnecessary comment, why so rude?
I thought my comment was easy enough to understand tbh
I'll be honest, you missed some punctuation out so it was hard to read at first.
The unnecessary comment was what scarlet said to Nora
Oh I’ll remember to only comment when I use auto type next time. I’m bad
I wasn't having a dig, I was just explaining why people struggled with it, my fat sausage fingers are always making mistakes on my phone, it happens. "Never had 2 women jump on me before so all new to me | |||
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"Considering bbw/large women etc on fab are a stain on the nhs/fat/not mobile/obese people don’t half bang on about them on fab. Must be jealousy
I don’t understand this comment. Is it just me?
You don't often understand apparently
This is a totally unnecessary comment, why so rude?
I thought my comment was easy enough to understand tbh
I'll be honest, you missed some punctuation out so it was hard to read at first.
The unnecessary comment was what scarlet said to Nora
Oh I’ll remember to only comment when I use auto type next time. I’m bad "I wasn’t having a dig either! I genuinely don’t know what you were trying to say! Have I ever had a personal dig at anyone? No I haven’t. | |||
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"Considering bbw/large women etc on fab are a stain on the nhs/fat/not mobile/obese people don’t half bang on about them on fab. Must be jealousy
I don’t understand this comment. Is it just me?
You don't often understand apparently
Scarlet like I said to you yesterday (privately) how about you just avoid my comments like I have done with yours for the past year. It would make it easier. I’m not here for arguments and nastiness. You seem to be the only one who has a problem with me which I accept and don’t have a problem with but don’t try and make me look a twat on the forums because that I don’t accept. "I don't understand what you mean. | |||
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"Considering bbw/large women etc on fab are a stain on the nhs/fat/not mobile/obese people don’t half bang on about them on fab. Must be jealousy
I don’t understand this comment. Is it just me?
You don't often understand apparently
Scarlet like I said to you yesterday (privately) how about you just avoid my comments like I have done with yours for the past year. It would make it easier. I’m not here for arguments and nastiness. You seem to be the only one who has a problem with me which I accept and don’t have a problem with but don’t try and make me look a twat on the forums because that I don’t accept.
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"Considering bbw/large women etc on fab are a stain on the nhs/fat/not mobile/obese people don’t half bang on about them on fab. Must be jealousy
I don’t understand this comment. Is it just me?
You don't often understand apparently
This is a totally unnecessary comment, why so rude?
I thought my comment was easy enough to understand tbh
I'll be honest, you missed some punctuation out so it was hard to read at first.
The unnecessary comment was what scarlet said to Nora
Oh I’ll remember to only comment when I use auto type next time. I’m bad
I wasn’t having a dig either! I genuinely don’t know what you were trying to say! Have I ever had a personal dig at anyone? No I haven’t. "Just found how 2 of you picked up on it at the same time no offence meant or taken | |||
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"Considering bbw/large women etc on fab are a stain on the nhs/fat/not mobile/obese people don’t half bang on about them on fab. Must be jealousy
I don’t understand this comment. Is it just me?
You don't often understand apparently
This is a totally unnecessary comment, why so rude?
I thought my comment was easy enough to understand tbh
I'll be honest, you missed some punctuation out so it was hard to read at first.
The unnecessary comment was what scarlet said to Nora
Oh I’ll remember to only comment when I use auto type next time. I’m bad
I wasn’t having a dig either! I genuinely don’t know what you were trying to say! Have I ever had a personal dig at anyone? No I haven’t.
Just found how 2 of you picked up on it at the same time strange no offence meant or taken " | |||
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"Considering bbw/large women etc on fab are a stain on the nhs/fat/not mobile/obese people don’t half bang on about them on fab. Must be jealousy
I don’t understand this comment. Is it just me?
You don't often understand apparently
This is a totally unnecessary comment, why so rude?
I thought my comment was easy enough to understand tbh
I'll be honest, you missed some punctuation out so it was hard to read at first.
The unnecessary comment was what scarlet said to Nora
Oh I’ll remember to only comment when I use auto type next time. I’m bad
I wasn’t having a dig either! I genuinely don’t know what you were trying to say! Have I ever had a personal dig at anyone? No I haven’t.
Just found how 2 of you picked up on it at the same time strange no offence meant or taken "Because we were reading the same comment. | |||
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This is a totally unnecessary comment, why so rude? "No rudeness. She didn't understand something I said yesterday. Why are you taking it as rudeness? | |||
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"I think the OP was just making an observation based on his experience of using the site. Couldn’t see anything negative in his observation. Funny old world eh? Anyway I shall get back in the skinny corner " Feel like i should join you at this point! | |||
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I don’t understand this comment. Is it just me?
You don't often understand apparently
Scarlet like I said to you yesterday (privately) how about you just avoid my comments like I have done with yours for the past year. It would make it easier. I’m not here for arguments and nastiness. You seem to be the only one who has a problem with me which I accept and don’t have a problem with but don’t try and make me look a twat on the forums because that I don’t accept.
I don't understand what you mean.
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I don’t understand this comment. Is it just me?
You don't often understand apparently
Scarlet like I said to you yesterday (privately) how about you just avoid my comments like I have done with yours for the past year. It would make it easier. I’m not here for arguments and nastiness. You seem to be the only one who has a problem with me which I accept and don’t have a problem with but don’t try and make me look a twat on the forums because that I don’t accept.
I don't understand what you mean.
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I don’t understand this comment. Is it just me?
You don't often understand apparently
This is a totally unnecessary comment, why so rude?
I thought my comment was easy enough to understand tbh
I'll be honest, you missed some punctuation out so it was hard to read at first.
The unnecessary comment was what scarlet said to Nora
Oh I’ll remember to only comment when I use auto type next time. I’m bad
I wasn’t having a dig either! I genuinely don’t know what you were trying to say! Have I ever had a personal dig at anyone? No I haven’t.
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I don’t understand this comment. Is it just me?
You don't often understand apparently
Scarlet like I said to you yesterday (privately) how about you just avoid my comments like I have done with yours for the past year. It would make it easier. I’m not here for arguments and nastiness. You seem to be the only one who has a problem with me which I accept and don’t have a problem with but don’t try and make me look a twat on the forums because that I don’t accept.
I don't understand what you mean.
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I don’t understand this comment. Is it just me?
You don't often understand apparently
Scarlet like I said to you yesterday (privately) how about you just avoid my comments like I have done with yours for the past year. It would make it easier. I’m not here for arguments and nastiness. You seem to be the only one who has a problem with me which I accept and don’t have a problem with but don’t try and make me look a twat on the forums because that I don’t accept.
I don't understand what you mean.
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This is a totally unnecessary comment, why so rude?
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You don't often understand apparently
This is a totally unnecessary comment, why so rude?
No rudeness. She didn't understand something I said yesterday. Why are you taking it as rudeness?
Oh come on, you know full well it was a bitchy comment. "Ok. Bitchy comment against me are allowed though yeah? Right. I get that. 4 against 1. But I must keep quiet. | |||
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I don’t understand this comment. Is it just me?
You don't often understand apparently
This is a totally unnecessary comment, why so rude?
No rudeness. She didn't understand something I said yesterday. Why are you taking it as rudeness?
Oh come on, you know full well it was a bitchy comment.
Ok. Bitchy comment against me are allowed though yeah? Right. I get that. 4 against 1. But I must keep quiet. "What? I only saw you make that bitchy comment. Honestly, there's clearly some issue going on here, I just pulled you up on that comment that I saw, I felt it was unnecessary. | |||
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"Yes it seems maybe 90 or 95% of women on here are over a size 10. This is echoed in clubs as well. I wouldn't consider a size 12 a BBW, would you? Id say size 18-20 is pushing into bbw. Size 14 is about aversge? I checked the stats and am a bit shocked to learn 65%, of adults are overweight and about half of that are those who class as obese. Perhaps fab is just a reflection of society in genersl and my perception is wrong " Thought I was a BBW but am getting into size 16 clothes now so I’m not one. Thank you for making me feel good | |||
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Oh you forumites ... "It never does as it touches on a subject which is source of insecurity and anxiety for many a person that often take offence at questions or comments that weren't intended as such, regardless of size. | |||
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"Yes it seems maybe 90 or 95% of women on here are over a size 10. This is echoed in clubs as well. I wouldn't consider a size 12 a BBW, would you? Id say size 18-20 is pushing into bbw. Size 14 is about aversge? I checked the stats and am a bit shocked to learn 65%, of adults are overweight and about half of that are those who class as obese. Perhaps fab is just a reflection of society in genersl and my perception is wrong Yes it is. And actually a size 16 has been the average size of a UK woman since the early 90s. For the sake of argument id say average size of a fabber is above 16... You are still not getting it. Its because that is the same for the average UK woman, fabbers or not. I do get it. You are just being awkward. Above 16 means just that...if uk average is 16 and im saying i think fab average is above this then fab tends to used by largernthan average women. Im wondering if anyone else has noticed. Not meaning to a pain, what size do you think the average fabber is op? Id say a median average of 20-22 . Age etc... is a factor probably as swinging tends towards more mature people i guess" Think I see a variety of sizes here tbh, and lots below the size you suggest. I've been a size 20 and I'm now at 16, and I think I'm around the average. have you thought it might be the kind of women you are drawn to, that might be biasing your opinion? | |||
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I don’t understand this comment. Is it just me?
You don't often understand apparently
This is a totally unnecessary comment, why so rude?
No rudeness. She didn't understand something I said yesterday. Why are you taking it as rudeness?
Oh come on, you know full well it was a bitchy comment.
Ok. Bitchy comment against me are allowed though yeah? Right. I get that. 4 against 1. But I must keep quiet.
What? I only saw you make that bitchy comment. Honestly, there's clearly some issue going on here, I just pulled you up on that comment that I saw, I felt it was unnecessary. "She didn't understand something I said yesterday so I commented that she often didn't understand. True comment. Not bitchy. You took it that way for whatever reason. People seem to think it's ok to assume my intentions behind my comments. It's often unfair. But I let it go. Not this time. The forum mafia aren't putting me off posting. | |||
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Oh you forumites ...
It never does as it touches on a subject which is source of insecurity and anxiety for many a person that often take offence at questions or comments that weren't intended as such, regardless of size."Or sometimes it’s just people being unpleasant because they can be. | |||
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"Yes it seems maybe 90 or 95% of women on here are over a size 10. This is echoed in clubs as well. I wouldn't consider a size 12 a BBW, would you? Id say size 18-20 is pushing into bbw. Size 14 is about aversge? I checked the stats and am a bit shocked to learn 65%, of adults are overweight and about half of that are those who class as obese. Perhaps fab is just a reflection of society in genersl and my perception is wrong Yes it is. And actually a size 16 has been the average size of a UK woman since the early 90s. For the sake of argument id say average size of a fabber is above 16... You are still not getting it. Its because that is the same for the average UK woman, fabbers or not. I do get it. You are just being awkward. Above 16 means just that...if uk average is 16 and im saying i think fab average is above this then fab tends to used by largernthan average women. Im wondering if anyone else has noticed. Not meaning to a pain, what size do you think the average fabber is op? Id say a median average of 20-22 . Age etc... is a factor probably as swinging tends towards more mature people i guess Think I see a variety of sizes here tbh, and lots below the size you suggest. I've been a size 20 and I'm now at 16, and I think I'm around the average. have you thought it might be the kind of women you are drawn to, that might be biasing your opinion? " Def am biased to looking at s9me types of profile i guess. | |||
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I don’t understand this comment. Is it just me?
You don't often understand apparently
This is a totally unnecessary comment, why so rude?
No rudeness. She didn't understand something I said yesterday. Why are you taking it as rudeness?
Oh come on, you know full well it was a bitchy comment.
Ok. Bitchy comment against me are allowed though yeah? Right. I get that. 4 against 1. But I must keep quiet.
What? I only saw you make that bitchy comment. Honestly, there's clearly some issue going on here, I just pulled you up on that comment that I saw, I felt it was unnecessary.
She didn't understand something I said yesterday so I commented that she often didn't understand. True comment. Not bitchy. You took it that way for whatever reason.
People seem to think it's ok to assume my intentions behind my comments. It's often unfair. But I let it go. Not this time. The forum mafia aren't putting me off posting. "Are you OK? Forum Mafia? Hardly. Her not understanding something twice hardly calls for you to say she often doesn't understand things. I'm going to leave you to it now, this is far too dramatic for a Sunday evening. | |||
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I don’t understand this comment. Is it just me?
You don't often understand apparently
This is a totally unnecessary comment, why so rude?
No rudeness. She didn't understand something I said yesterday. Why are you taking it as rudeness?
Oh come on, you know full well it was a bitchy comment.
Ok. Bitchy comment against me are allowed though yeah? Right. I get that. 4 against 1. But I must keep quiet.
What? I only saw you make that bitchy comment. Honestly, there's clearly some issue going on here, I just pulled you up on that comment that I saw, I felt it was unnecessary.
She didn't understand something I said yesterday so I commented that she often didn't understand. True comment. Not bitchy. You took it that way for whatever reason.
People seem to think it's ok to assume my intentions behind my comments. It's often unfair. But I let it go. Not this time. The forum mafia aren't putting me off posting. "Who are forum mafia? | |||
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Oh you forumites ...
It never does as it touches on a subject which is source of insecurity and anxiety for many a person that often take offence at questions or comments that weren't intended as such, regardless of size.
Or sometimes it’s just people being unpleasant because they can be. "This too. | |||
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Nothing to do with the thread, just wanted to share my disappointment with you all "Would you like a hug? | |||
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Nothing to do with the thread, just wanted to share my disappointment with you all " | |||
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Nothing to do with the thread, just wanted to share my disappointment with you all
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I don’t understand this comment. Is it just me?
You don't often understand apparently
This is a totally unnecessary comment, why so rude?
No rudeness. She didn't understand something I said yesterday. Why are you taking it as rudeness?
Oh come on, you know full well it was a bitchy comment.
Ok. Bitchy comment against me are allowed though yeah? Right. I get that. 4 against 1. But I must keep quiet.
What? I only saw you make that bitchy comment. Honestly, there's clearly some issue going on here, I just pulled you up on that comment that I saw, I felt it was unnecessary.
She didn't understand something I said yesterday so I commented that she often didn't understand. True comment. Not bitchy. You took it that way for whatever reason.
People seem to think it's ok to assume my intentions behind my comments. It's often unfair. But I let it go. Not this time. The forum mafia aren't putting me off posting.
Are you OK? Forum Mafia? Hardly. Her not understanding something twice hardly calls for you to say she often doesn't understand things.
I'm going to leave you to it now, this is far too dramatic for a Sunday evening. "Thanks. I'm not sure why you felt the need to pull me up on a comment that was nothing to do with you anyway. No drama where I'm concerned just wondering why other people are jumping on one comment. | |||
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Would you like a hug?
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I don’t understand this comment. Is it just me?
You don't often understand apparently
This is a totally unnecessary comment, why so rude?
No rudeness. She didn't understand something I said yesterday. Why are you taking it as rudeness?
Oh come on, you know full well it was a bitchy comment.
Ok. Bitchy comment against me are allowed though yeah? Right. I get that. 4 against 1. But I must keep quiet.
What? I only saw you make that bitchy comment. Honestly, there's clearly some issue going on here, I just pulled you up on that comment that I saw, I felt it was unnecessary.
She didn't understand something I said yesterday so I commented that she often didn't understand. True comment. Not bitchy. You took it that way for whatever reason.
People seem to think it's ok to assume my intentions behind my comments. It's often unfair. But I let it go. Not this time. The forum mafia aren't putting me off posting.
Are you OK? Forum Mafia? Hardly. Her not understanding something twice hardly calls for you to say she often doesn't understand things.
I'm going to leave you to it now, this is far too dramatic for a Sunday evening.
Thanks. I'm not sure why you felt the need to pull me up on a comment that was nothing to do with you anyway. No drama where I'm concerned just wondering why other people are jumping on one comment. "Probably because it was uncalled for and put in a way to offend. You call it stating a fact but most would call it rude. Just like the forum mafia comment really. You often refer to forumites in negative terms, even though you’re one yourself and hang around in here just like everyone else. I didn’t understand his comment either | |||
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I don’t understand this comment. Is it just me?
You don't often understand apparently
This is a totally unnecessary comment, why so rude?
No rudeness. She didn't understand something I said yesterday. Why are you taking it as rudeness?
Oh come on, you know full well it was a bitchy comment.
Ok. Bitchy comment against me are allowed though yeah? Right. I get that. 4 against 1. But I must keep quiet.
What? I only saw you make that bitchy comment. Honestly, there's clearly some issue going on here, I just pulled you up on that comment that I saw, I felt it was unnecessary.
She didn't understand something I said yesterday so I commented that she often didn't understand. True comment. Not bitchy. You took it that way for whatever reason.
People seem to think it's ok to assume my intentions behind my comments. It's often unfair. But I let it go. Not this time. The forum mafia aren't putting me off posting.
Are you OK? Forum Mafia? Hardly. Her not understanding something twice hardly calls for you to say she often doesn't understand things.
I'm going to leave you to it now, this is far too dramatic for a Sunday evening.
Thanks. I'm not sure why you felt the need to pull me up on a comment that was nothing to do with you anyway. No drama where I'm concerned just wondering why other people are jumping on one comment.
Probably because it was uncalled for and put in a way to offend. You call it stating a fact but most would call it rude. Just like the forum mafia comment really. You often refer to forumites in negative terms, even though you’re one yourself and hang around in here just like everyone else.
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I don’t understand this comment. Is it just me?
You don't often understand apparently
This is a totally unnecessary comment, why so rude?
No rudeness. She didn't understand something I said yesterday. Why are you taking it as rudeness?
Oh come on, you know full well it was a bitchy comment.
Ok. Bitchy comment against me are allowed though yeah? Right. I get that. 4 against 1. But I must keep quiet.
What? I only saw you make that bitchy comment. Honestly, there's clearly some issue going on here, I just pulled you up on that comment that I saw, I felt it was unnecessary.
She didn't understand something I said yesterday so I commented that she often didn't understand. True comment. Not bitchy. You took it that way for whatever reason.
People seem to think it's ok to assume my intentions behind my comments. It's often unfair. But I let it go. Not this time. The forum mafia aren't putting me off posting.
Are you OK? Forum Mafia? Hardly. Her not understanding something twice hardly calls for you to say she often doesn't understand things.
I'm going to leave you to it now, this is far too dramatic for a Sunday evening.
Thanks. I'm not sure why you felt the need to pull me up on a comment that was nothing to do with you anyway. No drama where I'm concerned just wondering why other people are jumping on one comment.
Probably because it was uncalled for and put in a way to offend. You call it stating a fact but most would call it rude. Just like the forum mafia comment really. You often refer to forumites in negative terms, even though you’re one yourself and hang around in here just like everyone else.
I didn’t understand his comment either
Another one. Thank you. Anyone else feel the need to tell me how awful I am? "I’m not saying you’re awful at all. I’m saying it wasn’t a nice comment or two that you made. | |||
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I don’t understand this comment. Is it just me?
You don't often understand apparently
This is a totally unnecessary comment, why so rude?
No rudeness. She didn't understand something I said yesterday. Why are you taking it as rudeness?
Oh come on, you know full well it was a bitchy comment.
Ok. Bitchy comment against me are allowed though yeah? Right. I get that. 4 against 1. But I must keep quiet.
What? I only saw you make that bitchy comment. Honestly, there's clearly some issue going on here, I just pulled you up on that comment that I saw, I felt it was unnecessary.
She didn't understand something I said yesterday so I commented that she often didn't understand. True comment. Not bitchy. You took it that way for whatever reason.
People seem to think it's ok to assume my intentions behind my comments. It's often unfair. But I let it go. Not this time. The forum mafia aren't putting me off posting.
Are you OK? Forum Mafia? Hardly. Her not understanding something twice hardly calls for you to say she often doesn't understand things.
I'm going to leave you to it now, this is far too dramatic for a Sunday evening.
Thanks. I'm not sure why you felt the need to pull me up on a comment that was nothing to do with you anyway. No drama where I'm concerned just wondering why other people are jumping on one comment.
Probably because it was uncalled for and put in a way to offend. You call it stating a fact but most would call it rude. Just like the forum mafia comment really. You often refer to forumites in negative terms, even though you’re one yourself and hang around in here just like everyone else.
I didn’t understand his comment either "I’ll be more careful on punctuation next time I post. I see comments I don’t understand all the time but just past then by. Better then drama | |||
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"Considering bbw/large women etc on fab are a stain on the nhs/fat/not mobile/obese people don’t half bang on about them on fab. Must be jealousy
I don’t understand this comment. Is it just me?
You don't often understand apparently
This is a totally unnecessary comment, why so rude?
No rudeness. She didn't understand something I said yesterday. Why are you taking it as rudeness?
Oh come on, you know full well it was a bitchy comment.
Ok. Bitchy comment against me are allowed though yeah? Right. I get that. 4 against 1. But I must keep quiet.
What? I only saw you make that bitchy comment. Honestly, there's clearly some issue going on here, I just pulled you up on that comment that I saw, I felt it was unnecessary.
She didn't understand something I said yesterday so I commented that she often didn't understand. True comment. Not bitchy. You took it that way for whatever reason.
People seem to think it's ok to assume my intentions behind my comments. It's often unfair. But I let it go. Not this time. The forum mafia aren't putting me off posting.
Are you OK? Forum Mafia? Hardly. Her not understanding something twice hardly calls for you to say she often doesn't understand things.
I'm going to leave you to it now, this is far too dramatic for a Sunday evening.
Thanks. I'm not sure why you felt the need to pull me up on a comment that was nothing to do with you anyway. No drama where I'm concerned just wondering why other people are jumping on one comment.
Probably because it was uncalled for and put in a way to offend. You call it stating a fact but most would call it rude. Just like the forum mafia comment really. You often refer to forumites in negative terms, even though you’re one yourself and hang around in here just like everyone else.
I didn’t understand his comment either
I’ll be more careful on punctuation next time I post. I see comments I don’t understand all the time but just past then by. Better then drama "No one cased a drama, just asked you what you meant | |||
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"Can't quite understand the purpose of this post. Apparently the intent wasn't to cause offence & yet it seems to be suggesting that the majority of women on Fab are above average size. " Me neither!! What is the point of this thread: are we discussing whether the larger lady on fab is a good thing or a bad thing? Are we complaining or bragging? Who cares!!! Enjoy swinging, play with who you want to play with, leave everyone else to do this own thing. | |||
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"Considering bbw/large women etc on fab are a stain on the nhs/fat/not mobile/obese people don’t half bang on about them on fab. Must be jealousy
I don’t understand this comment. Is it just me?
You don't often understand apparently
This is a totally unnecessary comment, why so rude?
No rudeness. She didn't understand something I said yesterday. Why are you taking it as rudeness?
Oh come on, you know full well it was a bitchy comment.
Ok. Bitchy comment against me are allowed though yeah? Right. I get that. 4 against 1. But I must keep quiet.
What? I only saw you make that bitchy comment. Honestly, there's clearly some issue going on here, I just pulled you up on that comment that I saw, I felt it was unnecessary.
She didn't understand something I said yesterday so I commented that she often didn't understand. True comment. Not bitchy. You took it that way for whatever reason.
People seem to think it's ok to assume my intentions behind my comments. It's often unfair. But I let it go. Not this time. The forum mafia aren't putting me off posting.
Are you OK? Forum Mafia? Hardly. Her not understanding something twice hardly calls for you to say she often doesn't understand things.
I'm going to leave you to it now, this is far too dramatic for a Sunday evening.
Thanks. I'm not sure why you felt the need to pull me up on a comment that was nothing to do with you anyway. No drama where I'm concerned just wondering why other people are jumping on one comment.
Probably because it was uncalled for and put in a way to offend. You call it stating a fact but most would call it rude. Just like the forum mafia comment really. You often refer to forumites in negative terms, even though you’re one yourself and hang around in here just like everyone else.
I didn’t understand his comment either
Another one. Thank you. Anyone else feel the need to tell me how awful I am?
I’m not saying you’re awful at all. I’m saying it wasn’t a nice comment or two that you made. "My observation that she often didn't understand was no more bitchy than someone's observation that my comments are often negative. | |||
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"I’ve been here three years and I have never read a size thread where it has ended well and here we go again
Oh you forumites ... "Lol, too right. I generally ignore the forums and this is one of many threads that reminds me why | |||
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"Considering bbw/large women etc on fab are a stain on the nhs/fat/not mobile/obese people don’t half bang on about them on fab. Must be jealousy
I don’t understand this comment. Is it just me?
You don't often understand apparently
This is a totally unnecessary comment, why so rude?
No rudeness. She didn't understand something I said yesterday. Why are you taking it as rudeness?
Oh come on, you know full well it was a bitchy comment.
Ok. Bitchy comment against me are allowed though yeah? Right. I get that. 4 against 1. But I must keep quiet.
What? I only saw you make that bitchy comment. Honestly, there's clearly some issue going on here, I just pulled you up on that comment that I saw, I felt it was unnecessary.
She didn't understand something I said yesterday so I commented that she often didn't understand. True comment. Not bitchy. You took it that way for whatever reason.
People seem to think it's ok to assume my intentions behind my comments. It's often unfair. But I let it go. Not this time. The forum mafia aren't putting me off posting.
Are you OK? Forum Mafia? Hardly. Her not understanding something twice hardly calls for you to say she often doesn't understand things.
I'm going to leave you to it now, this is far too dramatic for a Sunday evening.
Thanks. I'm not sure why you felt the need to pull me up on a comment that was nothing to do with you anyway. No drama where I'm concerned just wondering why other people are jumping on one comment.
Probably because it was uncalled for and put in a way to offend. You call it stating a fact but most would call it rude. Just like the forum mafia comment really. You often refer to forumites in negative terms, even though you’re one yourself and hang around in here just like everyone else.
I didn’t understand his comment either
I’ll be more careful on punctuation next time I post. I see comments I don’t understand all the time but just past then by. Better then drama "No drama from me. If I don’t understand I just move on by. | |||
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"Considering bbw/large women etc on fab are a stain on the nhs/fat/not mobile/obese people don’t half bang on about them on fab. Must be jealousy
I don’t understand this comment. Is it just me?
You don't often understand apparently
This is a totally unnecessary comment, why so rude?
No rudeness. She didn't understand something I said yesterday. Why are you taking it as rudeness?
Oh come on, you know full well it was a bitchy comment.
Ok. Bitchy comment against me are allowed though yeah? Right. I get that. 4 against 1. But I must keep quiet.
What? I only saw you make that bitchy comment. Honestly, there's clearly some issue going on here, I just pulled you up on that comment that I saw, I felt it was unnecessary.
She didn't understand something I said yesterday so I commented that she often didn't understand. True comment. Not bitchy. You took it that way for whatever reason.
People seem to think it's ok to assume my intentions behind my comments. It's often unfair. But I let it go. Not this time. The forum mafia aren't putting me off posting.
Are you OK? Forum Mafia? Hardly. Her not understanding something twice hardly calls for you to say she often doesn't understand things.
I'm going to leave you to it now, this is far too dramatic for a Sunday evening.
Thanks. I'm not sure why you felt the need to pull me up on a comment that was nothing to do with you anyway. No drama where I'm concerned just wondering why other people are jumping on one comment.
Probably because it was uncalled for and put in a way to offend. You call it stating a fact but most would call it rude. Just like the forum mafia comment really. You often refer to forumites in negative terms, even though you’re one yourself and hang around in here just like everyone else.
I didn’t understand his comment either
Another one. Thank you. Anyone else feel the need to tell me how awful I am?
I’m not saying you’re awful at all. I’m saying it wasn’t a nice comment or two that you made.
My observation that she often didn't understand was no more bitchy than someone's observation that my comments are often negative. "And calling people forum Mafia isn’t offensive? | |||
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"Considering bbw/large women etc on fab are a stain on the nhs/fat/not mobile/obese people don’t half bang on about them on fab. Must be jealousy
I don’t understand this comment. Is it just me?
You don't often understand apparently
This is a totally unnecessary comment, why so rude?
No rudeness. She didn't understand something I said yesterday. Why are you taking it as rudeness?
Oh come on, you know full well it was a bitchy comment.
Ok. Bitchy comment against me are allowed though yeah? Right. I get that. 4 against 1. But I must keep quiet.
What? I only saw you make that bitchy comment. Honestly, there's clearly some issue going on here, I just pulled you up on that comment that I saw, I felt it was unnecessary.
She didn't understand something I said yesterday so I commented that she often didn't understand. True comment. Not bitchy. You took it that way for whatever reason.
People seem to think it's ok to assume my intentions behind my comments. It's often unfair. But I let it go. Not this time. The forum mafia aren't putting me off posting.
Are you OK? Forum Mafia? Hardly. Her not understanding something twice hardly calls for you to say she often doesn't understand things.
I'm going to leave you to it now, this is far too dramatic for a Sunday evening.
Thanks. I'm not sure why you felt the need to pull me up on a comment that was nothing to do with you anyway. No drama where I'm concerned just wondering why other people are jumping on one comment.
Probably because it was uncalled for and put in a way to offend. You call it stating a fact but most would call it rude. Just like the forum mafia comment really. You often refer to forumites in negative terms, even though you’re one yourself and hang around in here just like everyone else.
I didn’t understand his comment either
Another one. Thank you. Anyone else feel the need to tell me how awful I am?
I’m not saying you’re awful at all. I’m saying it wasn’t a nice comment or two that you made.
My observation that she often didn't understand was no more bitchy than someone's observation that my comments are often negative.
And calling people forum Mafia isn’t offensive? "
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"Considering bbw/large women etc on fab are a stain on the nhs/fat/not mobile/obese people don’t half bang on about them on fab. Must be jealousy
I don’t understand this comment. Is it just me?
You don't often understand apparently
This is a totally unnecessary comment, why so rude?
No rudeness. She didn't understand something I said yesterday. Why are you taking it as rudeness?
Oh come on, you know full well it was a bitchy comment.
Ok. Bitchy comment against me are allowed though yeah? Right. I get that. 4 against 1. But I must keep quiet.
What? I only saw you make that bitchy comment. Honestly, there's clearly some issue going on here, I just pulled you up on that comment that I saw, I felt it was unnecessary.
She didn't understand something I said yesterday so I commented that she often didn't understand. True comment. Not bitchy. You took it that way for whatever reason.
People seem to think it's ok to assume my intentions behind my comments. It's often unfair. But I let it go. Not this time. The forum mafia aren't putting me off posting.
Are you OK? Forum Mafia? Hardly. Her not understanding something twice hardly calls for you to say she often doesn't understand things.
I'm going to leave you to it now, this is far too dramatic for a Sunday evening.
Thanks. I'm not sure why you felt the need to pull me up on a comment that was nothing to do with you anyway. No drama where I'm concerned just wondering why other people are jumping on one comment.
Probably because it was uncalled for and put in a way to offend. You call it stating a fact but most would call it rude. Just like the forum mafia comment really. You often refer to forumites in negative terms, even though you’re one yourself and hang around in here just like everyone else.
I didn’t understand his comment either
Another one. Thank you. Anyone else feel the need to tell me how awful I am?
I’m not saying you’re awful at all. I’m saying it wasn’t a nice comment or two that you made.
My observation that she often didn't understand was no more bitchy than someone's observation that my comments are often negative.
And calling people forum Mafia isn’t offensive?
If the cap fits then clearly it is. "Name calling of any sort is what bullies do in my experience. | |||
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"At this point when quoting, can we edit the quote down to the last message? it's getting a bit long to scroll down now, kind of kills the pace of the action. What action? "He's masturbating while fantasizing about an in person cat fight. | |||
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"I'd say so too as size 10 is quite small and a size 12 is hardly large. I'd say size 6 is small, 8-10 is "normal" (little or no excess weight) and 12 is curvy. My point being that the OP is right, in that swinging now seems to be almost exclusively populated by larger women. Unless you're talking American sizing size 6 (even on a very short lady) would be worrying, size 8-10 height dependent is very slim/slim, size 10 slim and size 12 should be average (though again height dependent) Curvy is a shape not a size, literally can be any size and curvy as it just means the waist is smaller than top and bottom like an hourglass " | |||
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"I'd say so too as size 10 is quite small and a size 12 is hardly large. I'd say size 6 is small, 8-10 is "normal" (little or no excess weight) and 12 is curvy. My point being that the OP is right, in that swinging now seems to be almost exclusively populated by larger women." Curvy is a shape not a size. These threads annoy me because women bodyshame others and there is no need for that. I'm short and fat I have curves, size 14, I would never class myself as a bbw. However I have been called one. | |||
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He's masturbating while fantasizing about an in person cat fight."Don't tell everyone! | |||
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"Considering bbw/large women etc on fab are a stain on the nhs/fat/not mobile/obese people don’t half bang on about them on fab. Must be jealousy
I don’t understand this comment. Is it just me?
You don't often understand apparently
This is a totally unnecessary comment, why so rude?
No rudeness. She didn't understand something I said yesterday. Why are you taking it as rudeness?
Oh come on, you know full well it was a bitchy comment.
Ok. Bitchy comment against me are allowed though yeah? Right. I get that. 4 against 1. But I must keep quiet.
What? I only saw you make that bitchy comment. Honestly, there's clearly some issue going on here, I just pulled you up on that comment that I saw, I felt it was unnecessary.
She didn't understand something I said yesterday so I commented that she often didn't understand. True comment. Not bitchy. You took it that way for whatever reason.
People seem to think it's ok to assume my intentions behind my comments. It's often unfair. But I let it go. Not this time. The forum mafia aren't putting me off posting.
Are you OK? Forum Mafia? Hardly. Her not understanding something twice hardly calls for you to say she often doesn't understand things.
I'm going to leave you to it now, this is far too dramatic for a Sunday evening.
Thanks. I'm not sure why you felt the need to pull me up on a comment that was nothing to do with you anyway. No drama where I'm concerned just wondering why other people are jumping on one comment.
Probably because it was uncalled for and put in a way to offend. You call it stating a fact but most would call it rude. Just like the forum mafia comment really. You often refer to forumites in negative terms, even though you’re one yourself and hang around in here just like everyone else.
I didn’t understand his comment either
Another one. Thank you. Anyone else feel the need to tell me how awful I am?
I’m not saying you’re awful at all. I’m saying it wasn’t a nice comment or two that you made.
My observation that she often didn't understand was no more bitchy than someone's observation that my comments are often negative.
And calling people forum Mafia isn’t offensive?
If the cap fits then clearly it is.
Name calling of any sort is what bullies do in my experience. "Just how it feels with you all digging your oar in over a comment that was taken way out of context and actually is none of anyone else's business. So when you all wade in, yes it does feel a bit like mafia involvement. Not name calling and really hardly bullying when it's me against the rest of you | |||
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"At this point when quoting, can we edit the quote down to the last message? it's getting a bit long to scroll down now, kind of kills the pace of the action. What action?
He's masturbating while fantasizing about an in person cat fight."Kinky! | |||
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"Considering bbw/large women etc on fab are a stain on the nhs/fat/not mobile/obese people don’t half bang on about them on fab. Must be jealousy
I don’t understand this comment. Is it just me?
You don't often understand apparently
This is a totally unnecessary comment, why so rude?
I thought my comment was easy enough to understand tbh "It was | |||
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"I think the OP was just making an observation based on his experience of using the site. Couldn’t see anything negative in his observation. Funny old world eh? Anyway I shall get back in the skinny corner " No need for corners, come play in the middle with me  | |||
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He's masturbating while fantasizing about an in person cat fight.
Kinky! "
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"Considering bbw/large women etc on fab are a stain on the nhs/fat/not mobile/obese people don’t half bang on about them on fab. Must be jealousy
I don’t understand this comment. Is it just me?
You don't often understand apparently
This is a totally unnecessary comment, why so rude?
No rudeness. She didn't understand something I said yesterday. Why are you taking it as rudeness?
Oh come on, you know full well it was a bitchy comment.
Ok. Bitchy comment against me are allowed though yeah? Right. I get that. 4 against 1. But I must keep quiet.
What? I only saw you make that bitchy comment. Honestly, there's clearly some issue going on here, I just pulled you up on that comment that I saw, I felt it was unnecessary.
She didn't understand something I said yesterday so I commented that she often didn't understand. True comment. Not bitchy. You took it that way for whatever reason.
People seem to think it's ok to assume my intentions behind my comments. It's often unfair. But I let it go. Not this time. The forum mafia aren't putting me off posting.
Are you OK? Forum Mafia? Hardly. Her not understanding something twice hardly calls for you to say she often doesn't understand things.
I'm going to leave you to it now, this is far too dramatic for a Sunday evening.
Thanks. I'm not sure why you felt the need to pull me up on a comment that was nothing to do with you anyway. No drama where I'm concerned just wondering why other people are jumping on one comment.
Probably because it was uncalled for and put in a way to offend. You call it stating a fact but most would call it rude. Just like the forum mafia comment really. You often refer to forumites in negative terms, even though you’re one yourself and hang around in here just like everyone else.
I didn’t understand his comment either
Another one. Thank you. Anyone else feel the need to tell me how awful I am?
I’m not saying you’re awful at all. I’m saying it wasn’t a nice comment or two that you made.
My observation that she often didn't understand was no more bitchy than someone's observation that my comments are often negative.
And calling people forum Mafia isn’t offensive?
If the cap fits then clearly it is.
Name calling of any sort is what bullies do in my experience.
Just how it feels with you all digging your oar in over a comment that was taken way out of context and actually is none of anyone else's business. So when you all wade in, yes it does feel a bit like mafia involvement. Not name calling and really hardly bullying when it's me against the rest of you "I hadn’t commented on this thread until after the mafia comment and the reason I did is because its not right for you to be able to say that. There is no forum mafia there are just people that disagree with you and you don’t like it. Several people found your comment unpleasant. | |||
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"Yes it seems maybe 90 or 95% of women on here are over a size 10. This is echoed in clubs as well. I wouldn't consider a size 12 a BBW, would you? Today I learnt I'm a BBW "Like hell you are! | |||
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"At this point when quoting, can we edit the quote down to the last message? it's getting a bit long to scroll down now, kind of kills the pace of the action. What action?
He's masturbating while fantasizing about an in person cat fight.
Kinky!
Filthy perv that Kietonel "OK, well that's not a secret! | |||
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"I think the OP was just making an observation based on his experience of using the site. Couldn’t see anything negative in his observation. Funny old world eh? Anyway I shall get back in the skinny corner No need for corners, come play in the middle with me "I knew I was in this thread for a reason. “Harold.......Harold!! I’ve pulled!” | |||
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"Considering bbw/large women etc on fab are a stain on the nhs/fat/not mobile/obese people don’t half bang on about them on fab. Must be jealousy
I don’t understand this comment. Is it just me?
You don't often understand apparently
This is a totally unnecessary comment, why so rude?
No rudeness. She didn't understand something I said yesterday. Why are you taking it as rudeness?
Oh come on, you know full well it was a bitchy comment.
Ok. Bitchy comment against me are allowed though yeah? Right. I get that. 4 against 1. But I must keep quiet.
What? I only saw you make that bitchy comment. Honestly, there's clearly some issue going on here, I just pulled you up on that comment that I saw, I felt it was unnecessary.
She didn't understand something I said yesterday so I commented that she often didn't understand. True comment. Not bitchy. You took it that way for whatever reason.
People seem to think it's ok to assume my intentions behind my comments. It's often unfair. But I let it go. Not this time. The forum mafia aren't putting me off posting.
Are you OK? Forum Mafia? Hardly. Her not understanding something twice hardly calls for you to say she often doesn't understand things.
I'm going to leave you to it now, this is far too dramatic for a Sunday evening.
Thanks. I'm not sure why you felt the need to pull me up on a comment that was nothing to do with you anyway. No drama where I'm concerned just wondering why other people are jumping on one comment.
Probably because it was uncalled for and put in a way to offend. You call it stating a fact but most would call it rude. Just like the forum mafia comment really. You often refer to forumites in negative terms, even though you’re one yourself and hang around in here just like everyone else.
I didn’t understand his comment either
Another one. Thank you. Anyone else feel the need to tell me how awful I am?
I’m not saying you’re awful at all. I’m saying it wasn’t a nice comment or two that you made.
My observation that she often didn't understand was no more bitchy than someone's observation that my comments are often negative.
And calling people forum Mafia isn’t offensive?
If the cap fits then clearly it is.
Name calling of any sort is what bullies do in my experience. " its ok if its not clear humour babs | |||
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"Yes it seems maybe 90 or 95% of women on here are over a size 10. This is echoed in clubs as well. I wouldn't consider a size 12 a BBW, would you? Today I learnt I'm a BBW
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"Considering bbw/large women etc on fab are a stain on the nhs/fat/not mobile/obese people don’t half bang on about them on fab. Must be jealousy
I don’t understand this comment. Is it just me?
You don't often understand apparently
This is a totally unnecessary comment, why so rude?
No rudeness. She didn't understand something I said yesterday. Why are you taking it as rudeness?
Oh come on, you know full well it was a bitchy comment.
Ok. Bitchy comment against me are allowed though yeah? Right. I get that. 4 against 1. But I must keep quiet.
What? I only saw you make that bitchy comment. Honestly, there's clearly some issue going on here, I just pulled you up on that comment that I saw, I felt it was unnecessary.
She didn't understand something I said yesterday so I commented that she often didn't understand. True comment. Not bitchy. You took it that way for whatever reason.
People seem to think it's ok to assume my intentions behind my comments. It's often unfair. But I let it go. Not this time. The forum mafia aren't putting me off posting.
Are you OK? Forum Mafia? Hardly. Her not understanding something twice hardly calls for you to say she often doesn't understand things.
I'm going to leave you to it now, this is far too dramatic for a Sunday evening.
Thanks. I'm not sure why you felt the need to pull me up on a comment that was nothing to do with you anyway. No drama where I'm concerned just wondering why other people are jumping on one comment.
Probably because it was uncalled for and put in a way to offend. You call it stating a fact but most would call it rude. Just like the forum mafia comment really. You often refer to forumites in negative terms, even though you’re one yourself and hang around in here just like everyone else.
I didn’t understand his comment either
Another one. Thank you. Anyone else feel the need to tell me how awful I am?
I’m not saying you’re awful at all. I’m saying it wasn’t a nice comment or two that you made.
My observation that she often didn't understand was no more bitchy than someone's observation that my comments are often negative.
And calling people forum Mafia isn’t offensive?
If the cap fits then clearly it is.
Name calling of any sort is what bullies do in my experience.
Just how it feels with you all digging your oar in over a comment that was taken way out of context and actually is none of anyone else's business. So when you all wade in, yes it does feel a bit like mafia involvement. Not name calling and really hardly bullying when it's me against the rest of you
I hadn’t commented on this thread until after the mafia comment and the reason I did is because its not right for you to be able to say that. There is no forum mafia there are just people that disagree with you and you don’t like it. Several people found your comment unpleasant. "I was stating a dammed fact given the last interaction I had with the woman was her not understanding a comment. I'm not sure why everyone found that so flipping offensive and have turned it into something huge. I'm not backing down in this instance because this is what you all do. Latch onto something until the other person gives in. Hence my mafia comment. So carry on if you like. Not sure what you're trying to achieve having waded in. | |||
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"I think the OP was just making an observation based on his experience of using the site. Couldn’t see anything negative in his observation. Funny old world eh? Anyway I shall get back in the skinny corner No need for corners, come play in the middle with me "Deal. Clowns to the left of us...jokers to the right...forum mafia in the shadows | |||
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"I think the OP was just making an observation based on his experience of using the site. Couldn’t see anything negative in his observation. Funny old world eh? Anyway I shall get back in the skinny corner No need for corners, come play in the middle with me
Deal. Clowns to the left of us...jokers to the right...forum mafia in the shadows"Damn it earworm!! | |||
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"I think the OP was just making an observation based on his experience of using the site. Couldn’t see anything negative in his observation. Funny old world eh? Anyway I shall get back in the skinny corner No need for corners, come play in the middle with me
I knew I was in this thread for a reason. “Harold.......Harold!! I’ve pulled!”"Get your coat, this place is about to erupt! In a bad way. | |||
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I knew I was in this thread for a reason. “Harold.......Harold!! I’ve pulled!”
Get your coat, this place is about to erupt! In a bad way. "Anyone who says “you durty old man” wins the thread. I’m off to feel some heat (think Morcambe and Wise exit stage left) | |||
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" Thanks. I'm not sure why you felt the need to pull me up on a comment that was nothing to do with you anyway. No drama where I'm concerned just wondering why other people are jumping on one comment. " Because it looked like a dig. As it looks like there is an issue between you both then that confirms it. Maybe just ignore each other please | |||
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" Thanks. I'm not sure why you felt the need to pull me up on a comment that was nothing to do with you anyway. No drama where I'm concerned just wondering why other people are jumping on one comment. Because it looked like a dig. As it looks like there is an issue between you both then that confirms it. Maybe just ignore each other please" Fine. But it's ok for others to just jump in there? | |||
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" Thanks. I'm not sure why you felt the need to pull me up on a comment that was nothing to do with you anyway. No drama where I'm concerned just wondering why other people are jumping on one comment. Because it looked like a dig. As it looks like there is an issue between you both then that confirms it. Maybe just ignore each other please Fine. But it's ok for others to just jump in there?" People can answer posts yes, if you are going to post something that looks like a dig people can call you out on it yes | |||
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" Thanks. I'm not sure why you felt the need to pull me up on a comment that was nothing to do with you anyway. No drama where I'm concerned just wondering why other people are jumping on one comment. Because it looked like a dig. As it looks like there is an issue between you both then that confirms it. Maybe just ignore each other please Fine. But it's ok for others to just jump in there?" u pull me up all the time on stuff | |||
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"Yes it seems maybe 90 or 95% of women on here are over a size 10. This is echoed in clubs as well. I wouldn't consider a size 12 a BBW, would you? " Fuck.....if I were size 12 if would be skinny and underweight | |||
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"12 more comments and the thread will close. Maybe they should move whats classed as average? Some comments on here certainly make me feel a bit on the unlovable side but everyone is entitled to a preference.... " You look amazing | |||
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"12 more comments and the thread will close. Maybe they should move whats classed as average? Some comments on here certainly make me feel a bit on the unlovable side but everyone is entitled to a preference.... " Average is just that though the average | |||
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"Make that 9 more comments. Going by BMI if most folk were to be in the ‘healthy’ bracket they’d look ill" I dont think that is necessaily true - but drastic weight loss does tend to make people look odd On a separate note you look like you have a gorgeous figure x | |||
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"12 more comments and the thread will close. Maybe they should move whats classed as average? Some comments on here certainly make me feel a bit on the unlovable side but everyone is entitled to a preference.... " 12 left? Well let me help with that. BBWs are fabulous, as are hilarious, lazy ass bitches and non-BBWs and misunderstandings and mafias of all persuasions and anyone else who knows me. You're all lovely. Xxx | |||
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"Make that 9 more comments. Going by BMI if most folk were to be in the ‘healthy’ bracket they’d look ill I dont think that is necessaily true - but drastic weight loss does tend to make people look odd On a separate note you look like you have a gorgeous figure x" I agree. I look most healthy when I'm a healthy bmi. | |||
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"Make that 9 more comments. Going by BMI if most folk were to be in the ‘healthy’ bracket they’d look ill" Not ill in the slightest just slimmer, we're just so accustomed to seeing above what it should be that we're becoming to except overweight as the normal | |||
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"Make that 9 more comments. Going by BMI if most folk were to be in the ‘healthy’ bracket they’d look ill Not ill in the slightest just slimmer, we're just so accustomed to seeing above what it should be that we're becoming to except overweight as the normal " Think I read that the average hasn't really changed much since the 90's though I may be wrong, which is a good thing | |||
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"I find it saddening and exhausting how often there are threads that seem to pit various body sizes against eachother. No one likes to feel they are inherently unattractive because of their body shape or size. Fact is, there’s someone out there who will fancy the pants off you - whatever your appearance. I wish we could remember an celebrate that more rather than tear eachother down. " | |||
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"I find it saddening and exhausting how often there are threads that seem to pit various body sizes against eachother. No one likes to feel they are inherently unattractive because of their body shape or size. Fact is, there’s someone out there who will fancy the pants off you - whatever your appearance. I wish we could remember an celebrate that more rather than tear eachother down. " I don't feel better for pulling others down, shame this wasn't universal | |||
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