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"I guess it depends on what they’re looking for too, if they have blocked single guys, etc that might account for some " If you block single guys though, they can still look at your profile though can't they? I would fab more couples pics but I'm scared they may see it as a come on and not just an appreciation of art. | |||
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"Even a 100 or so fabs is a lot. Think I’ve barely got 50 fabs in total since being here. Some couples block single guys so there’s no point fabbing their pics so I move on " Well I guess that is the reason then, shame the pics don't get the appreciation they deserve though. | |||
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"Even a 100 or so fabs is a lot. Think I’ve barely got 50 fabs in total since being here. Some couples block single guys so there’s no point fabbing their pics so I move on " We may block single guys from messaging, but we do take note of who fabs our pics. | |||
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"I guess it depends on what they’re looking for too, if they have blocked single guys, etc that might account for some If you block single guys though, they can still look at your profile though can't they? I would fab more couples pics but I'm scared they may see it as a come on and not just an appreciation of art." It's a bit of a balancing act, while we do take note of who fabs us, we'll only contact those who we would have contacted anyway if we had come across their profile by other means. Of course, you as a third party have no way of knowing that! | |||
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"Even a 100 or so fabs is a lot. Think I’ve barely got 50 fabs in total since being here. Some couples block single guys so there’s no point fabbing their pics so I move on " It's obviously your decision but you could potentially be missing out on meets, I sometimes contact single guys who've fabbed my pics if they grab my attention, even though I have single guys blocked. | |||
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"Even a 100 or so fabs is a lot. Think I’ve barely got 50 fabs in total since being here. Some couples block single guys so there’s no point fabbing their pics so I move on It's obviously your decision but you could potentially be missing out on meets, I sometimes contact single guys who've fabbed my pics if they grab my attention, even though I have single guys blocked. " I take your point. Frantically fabbing away now lol | |||
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"we rarely get over 100 on ours in a 12 hour period. Over time it builds up though. we've never thought about why though, just assumed that's how many people like the photo " I obviously spend too much time wondering about it all then. Looking at your pics I would put money on your fabs being majorly higher if on a single ladies profile , not that you put them on for fabs, and neither do I. | |||
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"we rarely get over 100 on ours in a 12 hour period. Over time it builds up though. we've never thought about why though, just assumed that's how many people like the photo I obviously spend too much time wondering about it all then. Looking at your pics I would put money on your fabs being majorly higher if on a single ladies profile , not that you put them on for fabs, and neither do I." I think your answer lies here "I would put money on your fabs being majorly higher if on a single ladies profile" | |||
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"We might get 100 quickly if we post a new pic but the interest fades pretty quick as I guess there’s always a newer better pic " Well I'm going to fab some, you have some very pretty dresses | |||
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"Even a 100 or so fabs is a lot. Think I’ve barely got 50 fabs in total since being here. Some couples block single guys so there’s no point fabbing their pics so I move on " We do have single guys blocked, but only because 99% of the messages are of the FAF variety. We very clearly state on our profile we enjoy the company of the right single guy | |||
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"We might get 100 quickly if we post a new pic but the interest fades pretty quick as I guess there’s always a newer better pic Well I'm going to fab some, you have some very pretty dresses" Mwah | |||
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"We might get 100 quickly if we post a new pic but the interest fades pretty quick as I guess there’s always a newer better pic Well I'm going to fab some, you have some very pretty dresses Mwah " I agree, the dresses are great but, it's when they came off that my 'fabbing finger' got truely excited! | |||
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"Am I the only one that notices that some couples pictures which are seriously amazing only receive a 100 or so fabs, when obviously if it was on a female account the fabs would be in the 1000s. Why is that, do you reckon? Discuss" Very interesting question, as I've often come accross pics that have way less fabs than they deserve on accounts before. I think it might be several factors, traffic will obviously be key, so I'd imagine single girl profiles get more attention than couples profiles and location being a big part, if pics reach more people's feeds then you stand a greater chance of getting more attention and fabs. I would imagine once you have hit page 1 with a pic, then many people will hotlist you, adding to the number of feeds your pics will be on - again increasing overall fabs | |||
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"Am I the only one that notices that some couples pictures which are seriously amazing only receive a 100 or so fabs, when obviously if it was on a female account the fabs would be in the 1000s. Why is that, do you reckon? Discuss" We often post the same pics on our singles profiles as our couples one and you're right the ones on our singles profiles get way way more fabs. I guess there's more people looking for singles than their is couples on here so singles get more attention. | |||
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"Yeah very much the same for us. Gets to 100 fast and then slows down. Generally get another little spike when we post a new pic though. Other than Jack's pics. They are always slow burners! " This for my couples profile but the initial burst of interest is considerably less than 100. I suspect that is age related. I uploaded one of hubby yesterday and he said it generated fabs on pretty much every photo, apart from the one I put up. As for the original post, I think it is simply because it is mostly men who Fab and they are generally looking for single ladies, so they get more fabs. | |||
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"Yeah very much the same for us. Gets to 100 fast and then slows down. Generally get another little spike when we post a new pic though. Other than Jack's pics. They are always slow burners! This for my couples profile but the initial burst of interest is considerably less than 100. I suspect that is age related. I uploaded one of hubby yesterday and he said it generated fabs on pretty much every photo, apart from the one I put up. As for the original post, I think it is simply because it is mostly men who Fab and they are generally looking for single ladies, so they get more fabs. " Not being photogenic, can be a problem, Mr M has the same issue...... | |||
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"Am I the only one that notices that some couples pictures which are seriously amazing only receive a 100 or so fabs, when obviously if it was on a female account the fabs would be in the 1000s. Why is that, do you reckon? Discuss" Probably same reason why good men's pics will hardly receive any. One of fab's mysteries | |||
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"Same could be said for guys though, there are some men who have incredible pictures, they deserve the fabs too " | |||
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"Same could be said for guys though, there are some men who have incredible pictures, they deserve the fabs too " I rest my case.... | |||
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"We notice this, I know we are no spring chickens but think most of our pics are tasteful or fun. Think there’s a few reasons for it, obviously the majority of people on here are guys so will be looking for the single female mainly and will probably think it increases their chances of a meet, people’s filters also as some do age 18 to 99 so catchment is higher than someone who does 30 to 40, we have noticed a lot of couples don’t Fab another couples pics unless your friends for whatever reason, also the people who do cam or live in a city will have more people that have them on radar than those that live in the country. We don’t browse on here but if somebody looks at us guy, girl or couple that we think their pics should be fabbed we will " I just had a look and they're amazing I always fab pics if I find them aesthetically pleasing. Don't need a motive besides general appreciation of the effort. | |||
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"I think its because maybe they dont go out of their way to get fabs like some people do" that could be the case it might also be because in our case we're not bothered about getting on to any page of hot pics | |||
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"I think its because maybe they dont go out of their way to get fabs like some people do that could be the case it might also be because in our case we're not bothered about getting on to any page of hot pics " that's what I mean | |||
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"I think its because maybe they dont go out of their way to get fabs like some people do" agreed. You never see us asking for fabs. If people like them then they like them. If they dont we dont shed any tears lol. | |||
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"I think its because maybe they dont go out of their way to get fabs like some people do that could be the case it might also be because in our case we're not bothered about getting on to any page of hot pics that's what I mean" No problem for us if people want to be in hot pics though | |||
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"Am I the only one that notices that some couples pictures which are seriously amazing only receive a 100 or so fabs, when obviously if it was on a female account the fabs would be in the 1000s. Why is that, do you reckon? Discuss" Have considered this and have noticed top fabbed pics are often face pics , that’s understandable, the higher up the most fabbed list it goes, the more people add that member to their hot list ,and so they have a wider audience from then on. We will usually get onto most fabbed but it’s only ever page 6 or 7 | |||
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"We might get 100 quickly if we post a new pic but the interest fades pretty quick as I guess there’s always a newer better pic " I find this to be so true, and it astounds me how some get so many that are distinctly not my thing, but must be somebody's thing. | |||
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"Does it have anything to do with the time they're posted? Some times of day have more people online? " Agree, tactical posting | |||
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"We might get 100 quickly if we post a new pic but the interest fades pretty quick as I guess there’s always a newer better pic I find this to be so true, and it astounds me how some get so many that are distinctly not my thing, but must be somebody's thing. " You will probably find you get lots quickly as they will be the people who have you on hotlist | |||
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"All those things the poster above listed ARE valid factors, as well as the time of upload, how many uploads there are that day and time, etc, etc...Thing is we've been on Page 1 plenty of times for blokes, couples, ladies and overall, so you'd expect all our pics to do unfeasible well, not just some of them? Yet for some reason this one, currently as our profile pic, didn't? The only other variable we can think of is how long the mods take to approve it? If it sails through in 2 minutes it tends to get plenty more fabs as it's at the top of status feeds for the initial flurry of fabs (and therefore will more likely hit the top page to accumulate more) whereas if they take a few hours over it, then obviously that is missed out on? Can't think of anything that would cause that amount of difference though really. B" Well all your pics are great, except the one with the witch from terrahawks in, I certainly wont fab that one, she gave me many nightmares lol | |||
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"Am I the only one that notices that some couples pictures which are seriously amazing only receive a 100 or so fabs, when obviously if it was on a female account the fabs would be in the 1000s. Why is that, do you reckon? Discuss Probably same reason why good men's pics will hardly receive any. One of fab's mysteries " Now you see that one is never a mystery to me, I'd fab men's pics all day long if I knew that they weren't going to take it wrongly that I'm after their bodies | |||
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"Even a 100 or so fabs is a lot. Think I’ve barely got 50 fabs in total since being here. Some couples block single guys so there’s no point fabbing their pics so I move on It's obviously your decision but you could potentially be missing out on meets, I sometimes contact single guys who've fabbed my pics if they grab my attention, even though I have single guys blocked. " If they have shouty no single men in capital letters or any other derogatory comments about men I won’t fab them. | |||
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