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How perceptive are you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

On here or in the real world, are you perceptive?

Do you discover things like relationships that were being kept under wraps for example?

I recently worked out two people I work with were seeing each other. They’d kept it quiet and not told anyone.

I’m not really sure how I realised it but messaging one of them on WhatsApp to ask if they were single and seeing the other come online straight afterwards was fun

They know I know and I’ve kept it secret too.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke


"On here or in the real world, are you perceptive?

Do you discover things like relationships that were being kept under wraps for example?

I recently worked out two people I work with were seeing each other. They’d kept it quiet and not told anyone.

I’m not really sure how I realised it but messaging one of them on WhatsApp to ask if they were single and seeing the other come online straight afterwards was fun

They know I know and I’ve kept it secret too."

No that’s devious and nosey lol

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By *aintsGirlWoman
over a year ago

Rushden

I'm ridiculous at picking up on anything, I need things spelled out for me lol. I also am really bad at trying to be subtle too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"On here or in the real world, are you perceptive?

Do you discover things like relationships that were being kept under wraps for example?

I recently worked out two people I work with were seeing each other. They’d kept it quiet and not told anyone.

I’m not really sure how I realised it but messaging one of them on WhatsApp to ask if they were single and seeing the other come online straight afterwards was fun

They know I know and I’ve kept it secret too.

No that’s devious and nosey lol "

I am nosey I admit it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can smell a "wrong un" from a mile away... good sense to have in business.

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By *ottielayWoman
over a year ago

by the bay

I don’t talk much

But I notice things

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I used to think I was incredibly perceptive; in a work capacity I definitely am but I'm perhaps not as good outside of it as I once thought. I've been wrong a couple of times lately about something but that's probably because my own bias came into play.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke


"I used to think I was incredibly perceptive; in a work capacity I definitely am but I'm perhaps not as good outside of it as I once thought. I've been wrong a couple of times lately about something but that's probably because my own bias came into play."

Work is a different place cuz there’s always sharks but in yr private life u can get mislead .. cuz u let yr guard down .. but u know real friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spend a lot of time in pubs and restaurants we can always spot the first dates and the swingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually know female friends/ colleagues are pregnant.. They have a glow about them

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I am yes ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im good at picking up on little things, seem to spot an early pregnancy, flirtations between people and I see a lot of shop lifters

I'm rubbish at seeing the obvious big red warning signs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm known for it.

I'm hyper vigilant and notice things others don't.

I'm normally spot on but I do get it wrong sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I over analyse every situation including everyday conversation and I have already gone through what I think someone will answer in my head.

A lot of times I’m bang on but when I’m not I’m miles away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually know female friends/ colleagues are pregnant.. They have a glow about them "

Me too.

Iv told a couple of they pregnant before they even knew.

It's a gift, just a bit of a useless one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm online is easier as you can see patterns, and people give away a lot without really knowing. So it’s not hard to spot things or pick up on things. Real life is a tad harder. Im not bad in picking up things with others but I am bit clueless when it comes to myself.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Very.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres a hell of a lot of people, who take small bits of information and fill in massive gaps to satisfy what they think they know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmm online is easier as you can see patterns, and people give away a lot without really knowing. So it’s not hard to spot things or pick up on things. Real life is a tad harder. Im not bad in picking up things with others but I am bit clueless when it comes to myself. "

Oh see I find it the other way round. I'm better at "reading" someone in person.

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By *Man1263Man
over a year ago

Stockport

Nope.

Needs to be on a post it note.

Then pointed out to me.

Put in big letter's, which are back lit.

Typed onto motorway sign's.

So, yeah, not very

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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Yes, there aren't many people that I can't read, especially when it comes to negative things

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Spend a lot of time in pubs and restaurants we can always spot the first dates and the swingers "

I bet that’s loads of fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would you say women are better at being perceptive than men?

Women’s intuition and all that ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to be too perceptive for my own good! Since the horrible excuse for a human being I met on here who abused and hit me,I lost confidence in myself. But I'm back on the ball now. I am enjoying catching people out once more

.... and letting them did their own graves lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you say women are better at being perceptive than men?

Women’s intuition and all that ? "

Well, more women on here seem to say they have a better feel of whats going on.

Unless i actually see the two interacting, i wouldnt know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was called perceptive today. I shall take that.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm pretty good, to the extent that people blindly miss things that I take as really obvious. I'm not a good person to lie to as I'll typically know and not believe it. I see the patterns amongst large groups of people and organizations, as well as within individuals. It's interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I act like I am a retard (which is easy for some reasons) and ppl will do anything and everything in front of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I act like I am a retard (which is easy for some reasons) and ppl will do anything and everything in front of you. "
good monging dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I act like I am a retard (which is easy for some reasons) and ppl will do anything and everything in front of you. good monging dude "
this

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I act like I am a retard (which is easy for some reasons) and ppl will do anything and everything in front of you. "

You mean you're not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I act like I am a retard (which is easy for some reasons) and ppl will do anything and everything in front of you.

You mean you're not "
. I actually don't know so feel free to do anything and everything in front of me.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

This is a subject that’s ripe for confirmation bias.

We tend to remember the things we get right and there are lots of occasions where we never know for sure.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I act like I am a retard (which is easy for some reasons) and ppl will do anything and everything in front of you.

You mean you're not . I actually don't know so feel free to do anything and everything in front of me. "

Now there's an offer I'd hate to refuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see camel toes underwater in the swimming pool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am always the last person to know if someone likes me but I can pick up on when people like each other.... don’t figure

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Spend a lot of time in pubs and restaurants we can always spot the first dates and the swingers "

I’d challenge you to pick a swinger couple out of ten sat in a pub.

Firsts dates is easy if you can hear what they are talking about.

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