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questions that women want to know about men.. but have never asked

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By *abio OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

so women.... have you ever wanted to ask men a question but were afraid to ask... well here is your chance... from the mundane to the serious..... have at it!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

For those of you afraid of commitment, what's behind it, caused it, how masculine do you perceive yourself to be? And when you get frightened about to break it off, how quickly do you want sex with others?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're shy it seems so I'll ask for them.

Do you ever think about anything else than sex and motor oil

The answer is yes. We think about the sandwich you're about to make us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do some men feel the need to scratch their balls or pick their nose in front of us?

It's not appealing to watch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why can you empty a bin move your socks or put toilet seat down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you really as devoid of emotions as you make out?

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By *abio OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Why can you empty a bin move your socks or put toilet seat down"

why would you leave a toliet seat down... its meant to be up!

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London


"Why do some men feel the need to scratch their balls or pick their nose in front of us?

It's not appealing to watch."

Its an primate thing, women do it as well (sans balls of course)

Watch any of those Attenborough progs. with chimps, gorillas, etc. they all do it and to eachother its part of their socialising

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why can you empty a bin move your socks or put toilet seat down"

I do all them sorry from the seat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Listen fellas you need us more than we need you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it a thing for women to want younger fresher men?

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By *abio OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Are you really as devoid of emotions as you make out?"

i can show my emotions.... winning the world up for example ... women....nah!!!

seriously though... do you really want a man that shows emotion, because i doubt women actually do....

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke


"Listen fellas you need us more than we need you "

Not now, they’ve invented an automatic washing machine and a microwave and blow and behold, even a dishwasher.... I’ll sit back now and watch the venom come my way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why the fuck can't you see all the mess that needs cleaning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Listen fellas you need us more than we need you

Not now, they’ve invented an automatic washing machine and a microwave and blow and behold, even a dishwasher.... I’ll sit back now and watch the venom come my way "

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London


"Are you really as devoid of emotions as you make out?"

Yes, we are all programmed the same, think of all men like The Borg from Star Trek, single-minded, purely to seek out holes to poke our penises in, emotions would interfere with the Prime directive - to boldly go where no man has been (well where no man has been for the last 30 minutes at least) Resistance is futile!

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By *eddyBearBazMan
over a year ago

St Helens


"Why the fuck can't you see all the mess that needs cleaning "

No mess here i like to keep apartment clean just in case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you really as devoid of emotions as you make out?

Yes, we are all programmed the same, think of all men like The Borg from Star Trek, single-minded, purely to seek out holes to poke our penises in, emotions would interfere with the Prime directive - to boldly go where no man has been (well where no man has been for the last 30 minutes at least) Resistance is futile!"

Programmed by Ada Lovelace.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why can you empty a bin move your socks or put toilet seat down

why would you leave a toliet seat down... its meant to be up! "

U will actually find when you flush germs can get out if no lid down its there to protect. Us if it wasn't meant to be a lid it wouldnt be there in first place.. It would just be a seat

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Are you really as devoid of emotions as you make out?

i can show my emotions.... winning the world up for example ... women....nah!!!

seriously though... do you really want a man that shows emotion, because i doubt women actually do...."

I don't want to see him weeping because the prices have gone up at asda but yes, emotion is good, being expressive is good

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Why? Just, in the name of all that is holy, WHY?

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London


"Are you really as devoid of emotions as you make out?

Yes, we are all programmed the same, think of all men like The Borg from Star Trek, single-minded, purely to seek out holes to poke our penises in, emotions would interfere with the Prime directive - to boldly go where no man has been (well where no man has been for the last 30 minutes at least) Resistance is futile!

Programmed by Ada Lovelace."

Possibly with a little creative input from her Dad: Lord Byron

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, on here, why do so many of you lie?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why can you empty a bin move your socks or put toilet seat down"

I can do all of thise but have a general dislike of bins.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why can you empty a bin move your socks or put toilet seat down"

I do all these things...I'm now questioning my masculinity...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why can you empty a bin move your socks or put toilet seat down

I can do all of thise but have a general dislike of bins. "

That's rubbish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you really as devoid of emotions as you make out?

Yes, we are all programmed the same, think of all men like The Borg from Star Trek, single-minded, purely to seek out holes to poke our penises in, emotions would interfere with the Prime directive - to boldly go where no man has been (well where no man has been for the last 30 minutes at least) Resistance is futile!

Programmed by Ada Lovelace.

Possibly with a little creative input from her Dad: Lord Byron "

Speaking of men who spent their lives sticking their dicks in as many holes as they could find....

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Why can you empty a bin move your socks or put toilet seat down

I can do all of thise but have a general dislike of bins.

That's rubbish "

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By *ocothumpaMan
over a year ago

quite close to you


"Why? Just, in the name of all that is holy, WHY?"

You know

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Ok, on here, why do so many of you lie?"

To get sex.

Or a quiet life in many cases..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For those of you afraid of commitment, what's behind it, caused it, how masculine do you perceive yourself to be? And when you get frightened about to break it off, how quickly do you want sex with others?"

Not agraid of commitment.

But knowing we can live to bee 100 or so, why would we marry in our 20's and swear to love that one singular person forever and no one else.

For me monogamy is dead or dying and polyamoury is the sane future for all.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Why? Just, in the name of all that is holy, WHY?

You know"
I

. You know what, I think I do!

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Why? Just, in the name of all that is holy, WHY?

You knowI

. You know what, I think I do! "

Well..if you don't know! I'm not telling you

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Toxic masculinity -certain cultural norms that impact on both men and women and our society.

Stereotypes, emotional repression, role expectation, socialization of boys .. such as in the saying "boys will be boys" with regard to bullying and aggression, unrealistic Disney expectations etc etc etc etc

How has toxic masculinity impacted on your life?

(To be clear,I'm not talking about male attributes .. this is about the harmful effects of the pressure to conform to cultural masculine ideals)

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Why? Just, in the name of all that is holy, WHY?

You knowI

. You know what, I think I do!

Well..if you don't know! I'm not telling you "
I

.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Ok, on here, why do so many of you lie?

To get sex.

Or a quiet life in many cases.. "

Why a quiet life? In what respect? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why can’t you look for things properly?

You open a cupboard for example to look for something and because it’s not staring you in the face, you say you can’t find it but all you had to do was move an object and you’d find it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Ok, on here, why do so many of you lie?

To get sex.

Or a quiet life in many cases..

Why a quiet life? In what respect? Xx"

Because if a guy said that he was married, generally he'd get flayed alive. If he's bi, he gets called dirty.

Rather than being true to themselves, many lie to avoid confrontation

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London


"Why can’t you look for things properly?

You open a cupboard for example to look for something and because it’s not staring you in the face, you say you can’t find it but all you had to do was move an object and you’d find it "

Because 9/10 a woman has put it a 'safe place'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do men come on here and pretend to be women or couples?

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By *ocothumpaMan
over a year ago

quite close to you

What is it that when you are talking about something that happened I have to know EVERYTHING about the people involved?

Why cant it be "Carol found Bob balls deep in Trevor after she had to come home from golf"

And not "Listen to this...you know my friend Carol, the one with the short, good teeth and fake tits; well ahe plays golf on Tuesdays at thisvreally fancy club that only the really really rich and really stupid play at, you know the one near that park where that sosp actor got caught dogging.....AAAARRRRRGGGGH"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why can’t you look for things properly?

You open a cupboard for example to look for something and because it’s not staring you in the face, you say you can’t find it but all you had to do was move an object and you’d find it "

Sweeping generalisation there.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Why can’t you look for things properly?

You open a cupboard for example to look for something and because it’s not staring you in the face, you say you can’t find it but all you had to do was move an object and you’d find it

Because 9/10 a woman has put it a 'safe place' "

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Are you really as devoid of emotions as you make out?"

Good question!

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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Why do men say the same thing to lots of women without seeming to understand they talk?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's because you ladies move our things. We knew exactly where we left it but by some amazing miracle the pixies/ fairies have moved it

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By *abio OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Toxic masculinity -certain cultural norms that impact on both men and women and our society.

Stereotypes, emotional repression, role expectation, socialization of boys .. such as in the saying "boys will be boys" with regard to bullying and aggression, unrealistic Disney expectations etc etc etc etc

How has toxic masculinity impacted on your life?

(To be clear,I'm not talking about male attributes .. this is about the harmful effects of the pressure to conform to cultural masculine ideals)

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i'm not..... i grew up in a family full of really strong women, so i see that women take no shit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why can’t you look for things properly?

You open a cupboard for example to look for something and because it’s not staring you in the face, you say you can’t find it but all you had to do was move an object and you’d find it

Sweeping generalisation there.

"

Not in my experience it isn’t

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"What is it that when you are talking about something that happened I have to know EVERYTHING about the people involved?

Why cant it be "Carol found Bob balls deep in Trevor after she had to come home from golf"

And not "Listen to this...you know my friend Carol, the one with the short, good teeth and fake tits; well ahe plays golf on Tuesdays at thisvreally fancy club that only the really really rich and really stupid play at, you know the one near that park where that sosp actor got caught dogging.....AAAARRRRRGGGGH""

The devil is in the detail.

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By *eddyBearBazMan
over a year ago

St Helens


"Why do men say the same thing to lots of women without seeming to understand they talk? "

Thats easy its copy and paste for some babs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it that when you are talking about something that happened I have to know EVERYTHING about the people involved?

Why cant it be "Carol found Bob balls deep in Trevor after she had to come home from golf"

And not "Listen to this...you know my friend Carol, the one with the short, good teeth and fake tits; well ahe plays golf on Tuesdays at thisvreally

fancy club that only the really really rich and really stupid play at, you know the one near that park where that sosp actor got caught dogging.....AAAARRRRRGGGGH""

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty always pays

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By *ocothumpaMan
over a year ago

quite close to you


"What is it that when you are talking about something that happened I have to know EVERYTHING about the people involved?

Why cant it be "Carol found Bob balls deep in Trevor after she had to come home from golf"

And not "Listen to this...you know my friend Carol, the one with the short, good teeth and fake tits; well ahe plays golf on Tuesdays at thisvreally

fancy club that only the really really rich and really stupid play at, you know the one near that park where that sosp actor got caught dogging.....AAAARRRRRGGGGH"

"

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Ok, on here, why do so many of you lie?

To get sex.

Or a quiet life in many cases..

Why a quiet life? In what respect? Xx

Because if a guy said that he was married, generally he'd get flayed alive. If he's bi, he gets called dirty.

Rather than being true to themselves, many lie to avoid confrontation"

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By *abio OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Why do men say the same thing to lots of women without seeming to understand they talk? "

a bit like a politican with a set out "stump speech" you work out the general outlined work, you just have to taylor it to the right crowd...

the problem with most men is they overuse the basic stump speech......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why the fuck can't you see all the mess that needs cleaning "

What mess?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it that when you are talking about something that happened I have to know EVERYTHING about the people involved?

Why cant it be "Carol found Bob balls deep in Trevor after she had to come home from golf"

And not "Listen to this...you know my friend Carol, the one with the short, good teeth and fake tits; well ahe plays golf on Tuesdays at thisvreally fancy club that only the really really rich and really stupid play at, you know the one near that park where that sosp actor got caught dogging.....AAAARRRRRGGGGH""

Okay. You’ve got me there.

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London


"Toxic masculinity -certain cultural norms that impact on both men and women and our society.

Stereotypes, emotional repression, role expectation, socialization of boys .. such as in the saying "boys will be boys" with regard to bullying and aggression, unrealistic Disney expectations etc etc etc etc

How has toxic masculinity impacted on your life?

(To be clear,I'm not talking about male attributes .. this is about the harmful effects of the pressure to conform to cultural masculine ideals)

"

Not sure it has impacted me at all, or am I just ignorant of its effects on others?

I do know, that somehow by being, white, middle-aged, middle(ish) class and male I am now in the most reviled demographic, and its absolutely OK to insult and denigrate us [sic] because we'll just suck it up without complaining like snowflakes - the above was written with tongue firmly in cheek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a thing for women to want younger fresher men? "

You wish

I do but not just out of nappies (that's tongue in cheek). In other words, not young enough to be a son.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you really as devoid of emotions as you make out?

i can show my emotions.... winning the world up for example ... women....nah!!!

seriously though... do you really want a man that shows emotion, because i doubt women actually do...."

Emotional no, emotionally intelligent yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do men say the same thing to lots of women without seeming to understand they talk? "

I think some men think aling the lines of.

Oh saying this, worked with that woman it may work with them all.

Sad i know. But it is hard to start a proper conversation on here with the fact women are almost always inundated with messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want to see emotional men, come to Glasgow tomorrow and see the floods of tears after the cup final.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of us don't lie.. Surely you girlies can tell the true ones from the fakers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why can’t men read profiles?

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London


"Why do men say the same thing to lots of women without seeming to understand they talk?

I think some men think aling the lines of.

Oh saying this, worked with that woman it may work with them all.

Sad i know. But it is hard to start a proper conversation on here with the fact women are almost always inundated with messages."

It's not difficult to start a proper (whatever that is) conversation on here, just don't be like all the others; I've yet to have a sent message deleted/unread/not replied to

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London


"Why can’t men read profiles?"

Why do women tar all men with the same brush?

We can all do massive sweeping generalisations, its not gender exclusive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't men shave their legs??

Why aren't shoes a 'thing' for men, like they are for women?

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London


"Why don't men shave their legs??

Why aren't shoes a 'thing' for men, like they are for women? "

Cyclists and swimmers do

And my shoe collection would give my wife's a good run for its money

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By *Man1263Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"Why don't men shave their legs??

Why aren't shoes a 'thing' for men, like they are for women? "

They do

They are

So some men shave but it's more for sport than look (cycling, body building competition etc)

Lots of men collect trainers etc and lots will have various shoes for various things.

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Why can’t men read profiles?

Why do women tar all men with the same brush?

We can all do massive sweeping generalisations, its not gender exclusive "

Always read profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why can’t men read profiles?

Why do women tar all men with the same brush?

We can all do massive sweeping generalisations, its not gender exclusive "

This is a thread for women to ask men questions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What’s your biggest insecurity?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't men shave their legs??

Why aren't shoes a 'thing' for men, like they are for women? "

Shoes aren’t a thing for all women.

Personally, I HATE shoes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s your biggest insecurity?"

That I'm not living up to my full potential

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Some of us don't lie.. Surely you girlies can tell the true ones from the fakers"
I

Yep.

Why do men call women "girls"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't men shave their legs??

Why aren't shoes a 'thing' for men, like they are for women?

Cyclists and swimmers do

And my shoe collection would give my wife's a good run for its money"

I stand corrected, nice profile x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s your biggest insecurity?

That I'm not living up to my full potential "

I think both sexes suffer from this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s your biggest insecurity?"

At one point my penis due to a very cruel woman I met who killed all my confidence by taking the piss out it's size.

Not insecure about it now but I generally will not meet women who have string of meets from well endowed guys. Always at the back of my mind.

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London


"Why can’t men read profiles?

Why do women tar all men with the same brush?

We can all do massive sweeping generalisations, its not gender exclusive

This is a thread for women to ask men questions "

And I answered - 'massive sweeping generalisations aren't gender exclusive' - bit like me saying, why don't women read the reply given - QED

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, on here, why do so many of you lie?

To get sex.

Or a quiet life in many cases..

Why a quiet life? In what respect? Xx

Because if a guy said that he was married, generally he'd get flayed alive. If he's bi, he gets called dirty.

Rather than being true to themselves, many lie to avoid confrontation"

Women lie just as much as men so don’t really get why this is only applicable to men.

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

If we say that we’re really not bothered about whether a guy has a massive cock, do you secretly think we’re lying to you?

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London


"Why don't men shave their legs??

Why aren't shoes a 'thing' for men, like they are for women?

Cyclists and swimmers do

And my shoe collection would give my wife's a good run for its money

I stand corrected, nice profile x"

Thank you wanna come round and look at my shoe collection

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT


"Why can you empty a bin move your socks or put toilet seat down"

There’s no need too, there are women to do those things.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Why do a lot of men refer to "the wife" instead of "my wife" or just using her name?

It's very unusual to hear a woman say "the husband"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why can’t men read profiles?

Why do women tar all men with the same brush?

We can all do massive sweeping generalisations, its not gender exclusive

This is a thread for women to ask men questions

And I answered - 'massive sweeping generalisations aren't gender exclusive' - bit like me saying, why don't women read the reply given - QED "

You answered with a question. I don’t approve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s your biggest insecurity?

That I'm not living up to my full potential "

This is mine too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If we say that we’re really not bothered about whether a guy has a massive cock, do you secretly think we’re lying to you? "

Absolutely, hence I never sent you that message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s your biggest insecurity?

At one point my penis due to a very cruel woman I met who killed all my confidence by taking the piss out it's size.

Not insecure about it now but I generally will not meet women who have string of meets from well endowed guys. Always at the back of my mind.

"

There are some cruel people in this world. I’m glad you feel less insecure now.

Ps you’re a serious fuckin hottie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s your biggest insecurity?

At one point my penis due to a very cruel woman I met who killed all my confidence by taking the piss out it's size.

Not insecure about it now but I generally will not meet women who have string of meets from well endowed guys. Always at the back of my mind.

"

What a nasty bitch

It’s a shame that a nasty comment takes precedence in our minds over lots of nice, complimentary comments

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London


"Why can’t men read profiles?

Why do women tar all men with the same brush?

We can all do massive sweeping generalisations, its not gender exclusive

This is a thread for women to ask men questions

And I answered - 'massive sweeping generalisations aren't gender exclusive' - bit like me saying, why don't women read the reply given - QED

You answered with a question. I don’t approve "

Please do point out the question in the following statement - 'massive sweeping generalisations aren't gender exclusive'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Listen fellas you need us more than we need you "

Can’t argue with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What’s the best and worst thing about being a man?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If we say that we’re really not bothered about whether a guy has a massive cock, do you secretly think we’re lying to you? "

No but if you said this and had a all your veris published and every guy was well endowed I would question it. Also see my post above.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If we say that we’re really not bothered about whether a guy has a massive cock, do you secretly think we’re lying to you? "

The way some people lust after massive cocks on here I’d have to say yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't men shave their legs??

Why aren't shoes a 'thing' for men, like they are for women?

Cyclists and swimmers do

And my shoe collection would give my wife's a good run for its money

I stand corrected, nice profile x

Thank you wanna come round and look at my shoe collection "

I could bring my shoes to meet your shoes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why can’t men read profiles?

Why do women tar all men with the same brush?

We can all do massive sweeping generalisations, its not gender exclusive

This is a thread for women to ask men questions

And I answered - 'massive sweeping generalisations aren't gender exclusive' - bit like me saying, why don't women read the reply given - QED

You answered with a question. I don’t approve

Please do point out the question in the following statement - 'massive sweeping generalisations aren't gender exclusive' "

Your first response was a question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why can you empty a bin move your socks or put toilet seat down

why would you leave a toliet seat down... its meant to be up!

U will actually find when you flush germs can get out if no lid down its there to protect. Us if it wasn't meant to be a lid it wouldnt be there in first place.. It would just be a seat"

Visited many public toilets lately.

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London


"Why don't men shave their legs??

Why aren't shoes a 'thing' for men, like they are for women?

Cyclists and swimmers do

And my shoe collection would give my wife's a good run for its money

I stand corrected, nice profile x

Thank you wanna come round and look at my shoe collection

I could bring my shoes to meet your shoes "

They might end up sole(soul)mates...hey its xmas and these cracker jokes dont write themselves!

P.S. I have boots as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does gaming seem to be more popular with men than women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why does gaming seem to be more popular with men than women?

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Because us women have more brain cells to work with

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay


"Toxic masculinity -certain cultural norms that impact on both men and women and our society.

Stereotypes, emotional repression, role expectation, socialization of boys .. such as in the saying "boys will be boys" with regard to bullying and aggression, unrealistic Disney expectations etc etc etc etc

How has toxic masculinity impacted on your life?

(To be clear,I'm not talking about male attributes .. this is about the harmful effects of the pressure to conform to cultural masculine ideals)

i'm not..... i grew up in a family full of really strong women, so i see that women take no shit!"

Oh amazing .. do you feel your relationships (presuming you have them with women) are influenced positively because of your upbringing? .. having an understanding of women?

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London


"Why can’t men read profiles?

Why do women tar all men with the same brush?

We can all do massive sweeping generalisations, its not gender exclusive

This is a thread for women to ask men questions

And I answered - 'massive sweeping generalisations aren't gender exclusive' - bit like me saying, why don't women read the reply given - QED

You answered with a question. I don’t approve

Please do point out the question in the following statement - 'massive sweeping generalisations aren't gender exclusive'

Your first response was a question "

No it was an example of massive sweeping generalisations, and it was purely rhetorical

Irony (like goldy and silvery but cheaper) is obviously lost on some people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is to the black guys, do you take it as a compliment or find it to be offensive to be referred to as BBC?

To all guys, does the “size queen” demands for VWE ever get to you?

I know, as a woman, obsession with dress size drives me mad, and the insults about my only having small breasts used to get to me, so being judged on my genitalia would really annoy me- so how does it affect you, to be judged like that? x

Viv xx

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London


"Why does gaming seem to be more popular with men than women?

"

Because it uses a joystick (or at least it did last time I played Manic Miner on my ZX Spectrum) - we are genetically programmed to like playing with our joysticks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do a lot of men refer to "the wife" instead of "my wife" or just using her name?

It's very unusual to hear a woman say "the husband""

My guess is because a mani might find it harder to publicly express his feelings in front of others...

"My wife" insinuates some affection. "The wife" almost implies subconsciously that your together but more like a possession and therefore detached from admitting love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do a lot of men refer to "the wife" instead of "my wife" or just using her name?

It's very unusual to hear a woman say "the husband"

My guess is because a mani might find it harder to publicly express his feelings in front of others...

"My wife" insinuates some affection. "The wife" almost implies subconsciously that your together but more like a possession and therefore detached from admitting love. "

Great answer.

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By *ondon-guy68Man
over a year ago

London


"What’s your biggest insecurity?"

As I get older, probably career choice and financial stability.

Younger days would have been about what impression I would leave, not it’s not so important.

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By *abio OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Toxic masculinity -certain cultural norms that impact on both men and women and our society.

Stereotypes, emotional repression, role expectation, socialization of boys .. such as in the saying "boys will be boys" with regard to bullying and aggression, unrealistic Disney expectations etc etc etc etc

How has toxic masculinity impacted on your life?

(To be clear,I'm not talking about male attributes .. this is about the harmful effects of the pressure to conform to cultural masculine ideals)

i'm not..... i grew up in a family full of really strong women, so i see that women take no shit!

Oh amazing .. do you feel your relationships (presuming you have them with women) are influenced positively because of your upbringing? .. having an understanding of women? "

interesting question...

I don't think men will ever 100% understand women, but with the way i was brought up, i think i had a headstart in recognising more of the "rights" and more importantly, more of the "wrongs"....

i'll always be a work in progress and i have recognised a lot of the stuff that makes me wince when other guys do them to know i am of the right path....

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Why do you want -and make it clear every time possible- to have “NSA sex only” but then get in a huff when the lady you’ve been seeing fairly regularly is doing the same and seeing other people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why dont you love me?

Haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some men feel the need to scratch their balls or pick their nose in front of us?

It's not appealing to watch."

Because we are comfortable within ourselves and it's natural.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why can you empty a bin move your socks or put toilet seat down"

Same reason you can't turn a light switch off !

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Why do a lot of men refer to "the wife" instead of "my wife" or just using her name?

It's very unusual to hear a woman say "the husband"

My guess is because a mani might find it harder to publicly express his feelings in front of others...

"My wife" insinuates some affection. "The wife" almost implies subconsciously that your together but more like a possession and therefore detached from admitting love. "

Really!? Blimey. I've always disliked it when men do that and felt it to be very impersonal.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Why do a lot of men refer to "the wife" instead of "my wife" or just using her name?

It's very unusual to hear a woman say "the husband"

My guess is because a mani might find it harder to publicly express his feelings in front of others...

"My wife" insinuates some affection. "The wife" almost implies subconsciously that your together but more like a possession and therefore detached from admitting love.

Really!? Blimey. I've always disliked it when men do that and felt it to be very impersonal. "

So if a guy refers to "my car" but "the wife" does it mean he's more comfortable expressing even the tiniest hint of regard for an inanimate object.

What have we done to our men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why does gaming seem to be more popular with men than women?

Because it uses a joystick (or at least it did last time I played Manic Miner on my ZX Spectrum) - we are genetically programmed to like playing with our joysticks"

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London


"Why do you want -and make it clear every time possible- to have “NSA sex only” but then get in a huff when the lady you’ve been seeing fairly regularly is doing the same and seeing other people? "

I'd say thats just as likely to happen the other way around, some people (non-gender specific) simply don't like sharing their toys [sic], but don't mind playing with others.

Then there's the 'what if he/she is x,y or z than me?' that some people torture themselves with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why can’t men read profiles?

Why do women tar all men with the same brush?

We can all do massive sweeping generalisations, its not gender exclusive "

The idea behind the thread is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do you want -and make it clear every time possible- to have “NSA sex only” but then get in a huff when the lady you’ve been seeing fairly regularly is doing the same and seeing other people?

I'd say thats just as likely to happen the other way around, some people (non-gender specific) simply don't like sharing their toys [sic], but don't mind playing with others.

Then there's the 'what if he/she is x,y or z than me?' that some people torture themselves with.

"

This!

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

I heard a man introduce his better half like this. "This is the wife, don't laff!". Terrible.

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London


"Why do a lot of men refer to "the wife" instead of "my wife" or just using her name?

It's very unusual to hear a woman say "the husband"

My guess is because a mani might find it harder to publicly express his feelings in front of others...

"My wife" insinuates some affection. "The wife" almost implies subconsciously that your together but more like a possession and therefore detached from admitting love.

Really!? Blimey. I've always disliked it when men do that and felt it to be very impersonal.

So if a guy refers to "my car" but "the wife" does it mean he's more comfortable expressing even the tiniest hint of regard for an inanimate object.

What have we done to our men?"

It's also a lot easier to px your car for a younger model

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Menfolk ...

What advice and guidance should you be giving to our sons and daughters about a good healthy sex life?

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do a lot of men refer to "the wife" instead of "my wife" or just using her name?

It's very unusual to hear a woman say "the husband""

Or worse " the missus"

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London


"Why can’t men read profiles?

Why do women tar all men with the same brush?

We can all do massive sweeping generalisations, its not gender exclusive

The idea behind the thread is. "

I was, and did answer the question; and my question was a rhetorical one - hmm i can see a question for the other thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why can’t men read profiles?

Why do women tar all men with the same brush?

We can all do massive sweeping generalisations, its not gender exclusive

The idea behind the thread is.

I was, and did answer the question; and my question was a rhetorical one - hmm i can see a question for the other thread "

I noticed.

I ignored your question but commented on gender exclusivity. My response still remains valid.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Why don't men shave their legs??

Why aren't shoes a 'thing' for men, like they are for women?

Cyclists and swimmers do

And my shoe collection would give my wife's a good run for its money

I stand corrected, nice profile x

Thank you wanna come round and look at my shoe collection

I could bring my shoes to meet your shoes

They might end up sole(soul)mates...hey its xmas and these cracker jokes dont write themselves!

P.S. I have boots as well "

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By *ondon-guy68Man
over a year ago

London


"Menfolk ...

What advice and guidance should you be giving to our sons and daughters about a good healthy sex life?

X

"

Good communication, if it ain’t working...talk about it.

Know not only what you like and dislike, sexually but also your partners likes and dislikes...and respect that.

Make time for each other.

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London


"Why can’t men read profiles?

Why do women tar all men with the same brush?

We can all do massive sweeping generalisations, its not gender exclusive

The idea behind the thread is.

I was, and did answer the question; and my question was a rhetorical one - hmm i can see a question for the other thread

I noticed.

I ignored your question but commented on gender exclusivity. My response still remains valid. "

OK, but without the (rhetorical) question, which you chose to ignore, then the rest is out of context; so I'll revise my answer to either - 'meh whatever' or go full on male patronising mode 'yes dear'

P.S. I'm nice really, just ask my Mum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why can’t men read profiles?

Why do women tar all men with the same brush?

We can all do massive sweeping generalisations, its not gender exclusive

The idea behind the thread is.

I was, and did answer the question; and my question was a rhetorical one - hmm i can see a question for the other thread

I noticed.

I ignored your question but commented on gender exclusivity. My response still remains valid.

OK, but without the (rhetorical) question, which you chose to ignore, then the rest is out of context; so I'll revise my answer to either - 'meh whatever' or go full on male patronising mode 'yes dear'

P.S. I'm nice really, just ask my Mum "

I think we’ve proven both genders enjoy semantics

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London


"Why can’t men read profiles?

Why do women tar all men with the same brush?

We can all do massive sweeping generalisations, its not gender exclusive

The idea behind the thread is.

I was, and did answer the question; and my question was a rhetorical one - hmm i can see a question for the other thread

I noticed.

I ignored your question but commented on gender exclusivity. My response still remains valid.

OK, but without the (rhetorical) question, which you chose to ignore, then the rest is out of context; so I'll revise my answer to either - 'meh whatever' or go full on male patronising mode 'yes dear'

P.S. I'm nice really, just ask my Mum

I think we’ve proven both genders enjoy semantics"

Nah, I'm just an argumentative sod

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places


"Menfolk ...

What advice and guidance should you be giving to our sons and daughters about a good healthy sex life?

X

"

My daughter - men can be arseholes with only one thing on their mind; don't allow yourself to be sucked in by charm and well constructed romantic verse

My son - go get em boy; fuck as much as you possibly can, albeit apply caution and realise the dangers of 'beer goggles' wearing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why can’t men read profiles?

Why do women tar all men with the same brush?

We can all do massive sweeping generalisations, its not gender exclusive

The idea behind the thread is.

I was, and did answer the question; and my question was a rhetorical one - hmm i can see a question for the other thread

I noticed.

I ignored your question but commented on gender exclusivity. My response still remains valid.

OK, but without the (rhetorical) question, which you chose to ignore, then the rest is out of context; so I'll revise my answer to either - 'meh whatever' or go full on male patronising mode 'yes dear'

P.S. I'm nice really, just ask my Mum

I think we’ve proven both genders enjoy semantics

Nah, I'm just an argumentative sod "

He says, proving my point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do a lot of men refer to "the wife" instead of "my wife" or just using her name?

It's very unusual to hear a woman say "the husband"

My guess is because a mani might find it harder to publicly express his feelings in front of others...

"My wife" insinuates some affection. "The wife" almost implies subconsciously that your together but more like a possession and therefore detached from admitting love.

Really!? Blimey. I've always disliked it when men do that and felt it to be very impersonal.

So if a guy refers to "my car" but "the wife" does it mean he's more comfortable expressing even the tiniest hint of regard for an inanimate object.

What have we done to our men?"

Some men would feel awkward showing their softer side in front of others about a woman. We may feel it shows weakness. I'm not saying I'm like that or most others. Just my thinking lol

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London


"Why can’t men read profiles?

Why do women tar all men with the same brush?

We can all do massive sweeping generalisations, its not gender exclusive

The idea behind the thread is.

I was, and did answer the question; and my question was a rhetorical one - hmm i can see a question for the other thread

I noticed.

I ignored your question but commented on gender exclusivity. My response still remains valid.

OK, but without the (rhetorical) question, which you chose to ignore, then the rest is out of context; so I'll revise my answer to either - 'meh whatever' or go full on male patronising mode 'yes dear'

P.S. I'm nice really, just ask my Mum

I think we’ve proven both genders enjoy semantics

Nah, I'm just an argumentative sod

He says, proving my point "

Oh no you didn't! - well it is panto season

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"Why can’t men read profiles?

Why do women tar all men with the same brush?

We can all do massive sweeping generalisations, its not gender exclusive

The idea behind the thread is.

I was, and did answer the question; and my question was a rhetorical one - hmm i can see a question for the other thread

I noticed.

I ignored your question but commented on gender exclusivity. My response still remains valid.

OK, but without the (rhetorical) question, which you chose to ignore, then the rest is out of context; so I'll revise my answer to either - 'meh whatever' or go full on male patronising mode 'yes dear'

P.S. I'm nice really, just ask my Mum

I think we’ve proven both genders enjoy semantics

Nah, I'm just an argumentative sod

He says, proving my point

Oh no you didn't! - well it is panto season "

He’s behind you! Excellent, can I watch?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why can’t men read profiles?

Why do women tar all men with the same brush?

We can all do massive sweeping generalisations, its not gender exclusive

The idea behind the thread is.

I was, and did answer the question; and my question was a rhetorical one - hmm i can see a question for the other thread

I noticed.

I ignored your question but commented on gender exclusivity. My response still remains valid.

OK, but without the (rhetorical) question, which you chose to ignore, then the rest is out of context; so I'll revise my answer to either - 'meh whatever' or go full on male patronising mode 'yes dear'

P.S. I'm nice really, just ask my Mum

I think we’ve proven both genders enjoy semantics

Nah, I'm just an argumentative sod

He says, proving my point

Oh no you didn't! - well it is panto season

He’s behind you! Excellent, can I watch? "

Audience participation is encouraged, nay mandatory x

Ps congrats on your reindeer award

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you find it ok for women to play bi but when its two men its suddenly disgusting.

So much so you won't even meet a couple if the man is BI....

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"Why can’t men read profiles?

Why do women tar all men with the same brush?

We can all do massive sweeping generalisations, its not gender exclusive

The idea behind the thread is.

I was, and did answer the question; and my question was a rhetorical one - hmm i can see a question for the other thread

I noticed.

I ignored your question but commented on gender exclusivity. My response still remains valid.

OK, but without the (rhetorical) question, which you chose to ignore, then the rest is out of context; so I'll revise my answer to either - 'meh whatever' or go full on male patronising mode 'yes dear'

P.S. I'm nice really, just ask my Mum

I think we’ve proven both genders enjoy semantics

Nah, I'm just an argumentative sod

He says, proving my point

Oh no you didn't! - well it is panto season

He’s behind you! Excellent, can I watch?

Audience participation is encouraged, nay mandatory x

Ps congrats on your reindeer award"

And congrats on your thought provoking one (I won that in 2016 last time we did the awards, it’s the best one )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why the fuck can't you see all the mess that needs cleaning "

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London


"Why can’t men read profiles?

Why do women tar all men with the same brush?

We can all do massive sweeping generalisations, its not gender exclusive

The idea behind the thread is.

I was, and did answer the question; and my question was a rhetorical one - hmm i can see a question for the other thread

I noticed.

I ignored your question but commented on gender exclusivity. My response still remains valid.

OK, but without the (rhetorical) question, which you chose to ignore, then the rest is out of context; so I'll revise my answer to either - 'meh whatever' or go full on male patronising mode 'yes dear'

P.S. I'm nice really, just ask my Mum

I think we’ve proven both genders enjoy semantics

Nah, I'm just an argumentative sod

He says, proving my point

Oh no you didn't! - well it is panto season

He’s behind you! Excellent, can I watch? "

Only if you show me your Widow Twanky!

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"Why can’t men read profiles?

Why do women tar all men with the same brush?

We can all do massive sweeping generalisations, its not gender exclusive

The idea behind the thread is.

I was, and did answer the question; and my question was a rhetorical one - hmm i can see a question for the other thread

I noticed.

I ignored your question but commented on gender exclusivity. My response still remains valid.

OK, but without the (rhetorical) question, which you chose to ignore, then the rest is out of context; so I'll revise my answer to either - 'meh whatever' or go full on male patronising mode 'yes dear'

P.S. I'm nice really, just ask my Mum

I think we’ve proven both genders enjoy semantics

Nah, I'm just an argumentative sod

He says, proving my point

Oh no you didn't! - well it is panto season

He’s behind you! Excellent, can I watch?

Only if you show me your Widow Twanky!"

You’ll want your money back!

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London


"Why can’t men read profiles?

Why do women tar all men with the same brush?

We can all do massive sweeping generalisations, its not gender exclusive

The idea behind the thread is.

I was, and did answer the question; and my question was a rhetorical one - hmm i can see a question for the other thread

I noticed.

I ignored your question but commented on gender exclusivity. My response still remains valid.

OK, but without the (rhetorical) question, which you chose to ignore, then the rest is out of context; so I'll revise my answer to either - 'meh whatever' or go full on male patronising mode 'yes dear'

P.S. I'm nice really, just ask my Mum

I think we’ve proven both genders enjoy semantics

Nah, I'm just an argumentative sod

He says, proving my point

Oh no you didn't! - well it is panto season

He’s behind you! Excellent, can I watch?

Only if you show me your Widow Twanky!

You’ll want your money back!"

Go on i'll let you rub my lamp, i'll even throw in 2 thigh slaps, a handful of magic beans and, a genuine golden egg as used in John Inmans critically acclaimed 'Mother Goose' Oxford theatre circa 1978

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By *iscreetfuncpl12Couple
over a year ago

Somerset


"For those of you afraid of commitment, what's behind it, caused it, how masculine do you perceive yourself to be? And when you get frightened about to break it off, how quickly do you want sex with others?

Not agraid of commitment.

But knowing we can live to bee 100 or so, why would we marry in our 20's and swear to love that one singular person forever and no one else.

For me monogamy is dead or dying and polyamoury is the sane future for all.

"

It depends how you define monogamy. If it is only having sexual contact with one person, then fair enough, if you are on Fab, it is not for you, though is for millions of others. If monogamy is a romantic commitment to only one then it is compatible with swinging. We are very much in love and romantically monogamous, but sharing others for our (and their) sexual pleasure is different. Polyamory, multiple romantic attachments to others, is not necessarily an antonym of monogamy.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I heard a man introduce his better half like this. "This is the wife, don't laff!". Terrible. "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Why do a lot of men refer to "the wife" instead of "my wife" or just using her name?

It's very unusual to hear a woman say "the husband"

My guess is because a mani might find it harder to publicly express his feelings in front of others...

"My wife" insinuates some affection. "The wife" almost implies subconsciously that your together but more like a possession and therefore detached from admitting love.

Really!? Blimey. I've always disliked it when men do that and felt it to be very impersonal.

So if a guy refers to "my car" but "the wife" does it mean he's more comfortable expressing even the tiniest hint of regard for an inanimate object.

What have we done to our men?

It's also a lot easier to px your car for a younger model "

true!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Why do a lot of men refer to "the wife" instead of "my wife" or just using her name?

It's very unusual to hear a woman say "the husband"

Or worse " the missus""

or "'er indoors"

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Why do a lot of men refer to "the wife" instead of "my wife" or just using her name?

It's very unusual to hear a woman say "the husband"

My guess is because a mani might find it harder to publicly express his feelings in front of others...

"My wife" insinuates some affection. "The wife" almost implies subconsciously that your together but more like a possession and therefore detached from admitting love.

Really!? Blimey. I've always disliked it when men do that and felt it to be very impersonal.

So if a guy refers to "my car" but "the wife" does it mean he's more comfortable expressing even the tiniest hint of regard for an inanimate object.

What have we done to our men?

Some men would feel awkward showing their softer side in front of others about a woman. We may feel it shows weakness. I'm not saying I'm like that or most others. Just my thinking lol"

saying my wife instead of the wife is showing a softer side!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't men shave their legs??

Why aren't shoes a 'thing' for men, like they are for women? "

They are, read "Trainer's" for shoe's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I heard a man introduce his better half like this. "This is the wife, don't laff!". Terrible.

"

Maybe she enjoys public humiliation/degradation..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a seat so meant to be down

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3

Why do some men leave the empty toilet roll on the holder and when cooking use every blooming piece of cutlery and plate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Toxic masculinity -certain cultural norms that impact on both men and women and our society.

Stereotypes, emotional repression, role expectation, socialization of boys .. such as in the saying "boys will be boys" with regard to bullying and aggression, unrealistic Disney expectations etc etc etc etc

How has toxic masculinity impacted on your life?

(To be clear,I'm not talking about male attributes .. this is about the harmful effects of the pressure to conform to cultural masculine ideals)

"
I suffer from social anxiety and am about as far from "lad culture" as you can get and many times over the years I have found it quite difficult to not feel less of a man because of it.

Toxic masculinity is the worst..it forces a lot of men to pretend to be something they are not and I am glad that people are becoming more aware of it these days.

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay


"Toxic masculinity -certain cultural norms that impact on both men and women and our society.

Stereotypes, emotional repression, role expectation, socialization of boys .. such as in the saying "boys will be boys" with regard to bullying and aggression, unrealistic Disney expectations etc etc etc etc

How has toxic masculinity impacted on your life?

(To be clear,I'm not talking about male attributes .. this is about the harmful effects of the pressure to conform to cultural masculine ideals)

I suffer from social anxiety and am about as far from "lad culture" as you can get and many times over the years I have found it quite difficult to not feel less of a man because of it.

Toxic masculinity is the worst..it forces a lot of men to pretend to be something they are not and I am glad that people are becoming more aware of it these days. "

?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you really as devoid of emotions as you make out?"
. I don't understand that question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some men feel the need to scratch their balls or pick their nose in front of us?

It's not appealing to watch.

Its an primate thing, women do it as well (sans balls of course)

Watch any of those Attenborough progs. with chimps, gorillas, etc. they all do it and to eachother its part of their socialising "

I think you'll find its called flirting

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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"Is it a thing for women to want younger fresher men? "

In general I don't think so no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a man doesnt show you his emotions he isnt interested, you should move on and find someone worth your time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you really as devoid of emotions as you make out?

i can show my emotions.... winning the world up for example ... women....nah!!!

seriously though... do you really want a man that shows emotion, because i doubt women actually do...."

Yes, we do. It would be nice to know what is going on inside man's head and to know that even though something is bothering them, it's not you and you don't have to be worried why their behaviour has suddenly changed. That way we can help them get through things faster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some men leave the empty toilet roll on the holder and when cooking use every blooming piece of cutlery and plate?

"

The second thing pisses me off too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does your dick fall asleep? Like you know when your hand or foot does?

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"What’s your biggest insecurity?"

That I am, fundamentally, unlovable

When someone starts getting a bit too close emotionally, this seems to kick in and subconsciously I'll start to push them away so that, once they've left me, I can say "I knew I was unlovable" ??

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Why do you go soft when putting a condom on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does little head really override the big one at times?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"If a man doesnt show you his emotions he isnt interested, you should move on and find someone worth your time"

I have had that disproved to me a couple of times. In that men will refuse to show their emotions or discuss relationship difficulties until the relationship has completely broken down. You end it and suddenly they find their voice, way too late.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Why have men such an obsession with football and drinking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What does it feel like when you orgasm...

... Does your mind disconnect/go blank, or do you see /hear everything in high definition??

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Why aren’t you guys answering the questions?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

What’s the most romantic thing you’ve ever done?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why aren’t you guys answering the questions? "

Because we're still waiting for that sandwich

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Why aren’t you guys answering the questions?

Because we're still waiting for that sandwich "

Pointless thread.

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By *orenzoVonMatterhornMan
over a year ago

Lincoln


"What does it feel like when you orgasm...

... Does your mind disconnect/go blank, or do you see /hear everything in high definition?? "

A little bit of both, for me anyway. Anything which I find a turn on at that moment (sights, sounds, feelings etc) gets cranked up to eleven and my mind goes a little blank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do you go soft when putting a condom on? "

Its hard because our mind is focussed on you and turned on, the bloods fliwing down 'there'. Stopping to tske the condom, open it snd put it on the right way, stops the sexy sctivity, blood glow slows and johnson droops.

Gcse biology.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why aren’t you guys answering the questions? "

Answering your previous question. As aslways you ask us to do something and while we are doing it, you ask us to do another one and complain we arent doing either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do you go soft when putting a condom on?

Its hard because our mind is focussed on you and turned on, the bloods fliwing down 'there'. Stopping to tske the condom, open it snd put it on the right way, stops the sexy sctivity, blood glow slows and johnson droops.

Gcse biology."

I don't have that problem, it takes 10 seconds to put one on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why can you empty a bin move your socks or put toilet seat down"

That's easy ... because their mum's did it all for them! And noone told them why we put the lid down when we flush!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some men leave the empty toilet roll on the holder and when cooking use every blooming piece of cutlery and plate?

The second thing pisses me off too "

If cutlery and plates aren't there to be used, what is their purpose? Decoration?

The dishwashers do all the hsrd work nowadays. You cant even be bothered to load the dishwasher, get the men to do it, and still complain all the cutlery and plates are used up!

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