FabSwingers.com forum: Love at first sight...

By *entileschi OP Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

Has anyone experienced this...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fascination. Desire. Lust. Even a touch of tenderness, that melting feeling in your chest making you ready to be vulnerable yet again.. But not love as I understand it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes twice and both times it ended badly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it was all consuming for the first 7 years.. But perhaps i am Just impressionable

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By *entileschi OP Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

"Fascination. Desire. Lust. Even a touch of tenderness, that melting feeling in your chest making you ready to be vulnerable yet again.. But not love as I understand it. "

Wow!

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"Fascination. Desire. Lust. Even a touch of tenderness, that melting feeling in your chest making you ready to be vulnerable yet again.. But not love as I understand it. "

I concur

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

I do believe others have experienced this upon meeting me for the very first time

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Yep .. and it’s always ended in a shit state

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Once.

It wasnt reciprocated.

Awkward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fascination. Desire. Lust. Even a touch of tenderness, that melting feeling in your chest making you ready to be vulnerable yet again.. But not love as I understand it. "

More this yes

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Can it be much, if any, more than superficial?

Some people will fuck anything - is similar true, for loving indiscriminately?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No and I don't believe it's possible. It's why I can't read chick lit where eyes meet across a crowded room/carriage/office and they just "know". It makes me mad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I don’t know about love at first sight, but I can honestly say I can clearly remember the very first time I saw Jo and after asking about her from a mutual friend I couldn’t get her out of my mind, I was a bit of a player when I was young to be honest but I always treated Jo different and when she gave me the opportunity a couple of years later I jumped at the chance

left my player days behind me and here we are 23 years later

Blessed

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Lust, definitely. To me love is actually impossible to develop without knowing someone.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Yes: my ex-husband with me. Knew from our first meeting.

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By *lueWonderMan
over a year ago

Preston.....ish

"Fascination. Desire. Lust. Even a touch of tenderness, that melting feeling in your chest making you ready to be vulnerable yet again.. But not love as I understand it. "

Definitely this

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Desire to be with someone there and then, but definitely not love

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Has anyone experienced this...? "

yep... first ever game at highbury... jan 88 millwall in the 3rd round of the cup

oh you mean women......

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Doew love at first sight not make love, at least initially, purely visual?

Parental love is different, since it also has the build up, and instinct attached to it. But I don't see how love can be formed based on sight alone, or even in the space of a single meeting.

I'm not questioning those that have/believe they have, but I can't work out how love can be formed that quickly. Surely you would need to get to know that person before such a strong emotion was formed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone experienced this...? "

Wasent love at first sight but was a big player, was when we first met the clincher and still together and very happy

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By *entileschi OP Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

"Doew love at first sight not make love, at least initially, purely visual?

Parental love is different, since it also has the build up, and instinct attached to it. But I don't see how love can be formed based on sight alone, or even in the space of a single meeting.

This has been my experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes didnt believe in love really let alone at first sight until i found it and it blew my mind

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I've thought she's pretty or nice smile/eyes but love? Not at first sight.

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Love at first site, no.

Lust, yes.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

I'm not totally convinced there is such a thing.

Lust, absolutely. Fascination, infatuation, yes. But I don't think you can truly love someone until you know them better.

Mrs TMN x

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By *LOVEpinacoladasWoman
over a year ago

East Sussex

I used to believe in love at first sight, but with the benefit of experience I realise it was out-of-control desire. Generally ending in disaster!

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I do believe others have experienced this upon meeting me for the very first time"

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By *rgr4y and squirting slutCouple
over a year ago

Chatham

"I do believe others have experienced this upon meeting me for the very first time"

Big head

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes. We had been talking for a month or so before actually meeting face to face, it lasted 11 years x

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Has anyone experienced this...? "

But lust at first site. Hell yes !

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

"I do believe others have experienced this upon meeting me for the very first time

Do you want head?

Yes please hun

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Yes. We had been talking for a month or so before actually meeting face to face, it lasted 11 years x"

This I can partially understand. Had you seen what they looked like prior to meeting though?

To me love at first sight is nothing but literally seeing them for the first time, no prior meeting, visual indication or little to no contact prior. Blank slate.

Not love at first meeting, not love at first conversation, but love at first sight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone experienced this...? "

When i first caught sight of your arse.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Yes. We had been talking for a month or so before actually meeting face to face, it lasted 11 years x

This I can partially understand. Had you seen what they looked like prior to meeting though?

To me love at first sight is nothing but literally seeing them for the first time, no prior meeting, visual indication or little to no contact prior. Blank slate.

Not love at first meeting, not love at first conversation, but love at first sight. "

We had seen pictures of each other but I didnt fall in love with those, I liked how he looked but actually seeing him in the flesh changed everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love at first site, no.

Lust, yes."

I think the big question is how do you define love? Ask 100 people likely get 100 different answers. One persons lust/infatuation at first sight is another's love at first sight.

Do you marry for love? Or learn to love after marraige?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Fascination. Desire. Lust. Even a touch of tenderness, that melting feeling in your chest making you ready to be vulnerable yet again.. But not love as I understand it. "

Don't think I could put it any better than this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone experienced this...? "

Yes..

My husband saw me on the first visit to Secondàry School and laughingly told his mates that i was the girl he was going to marry!

We have been together since i was 13 and he was 14...it took him a while to build up the courage to ask me out.

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

Yes. Beast and I met online and obviously knew what the other looked like but the second he was stood in front of me I knew that was it. I never wanted him to leave my side.

We call each other our 'zing' (hotel transylvania) and even have it tattooed on now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lust, definitely. To me love is actually impossible to develop without knowing someone. "

I agree. I don't see how you can fall in love at first sight when you know absolutely nothing about that person.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I have, I was 15 and we were together 18 yrs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do believe others have experienced this upon meeting me for the very first time"

It must be your humbleness they fall in love with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone experienced this...? "

No. Men tend to grow on me rather than knock me off my feet with love

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Lust absolutely....... love then developed very quickly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fascination. Desire. Lust. Even a touch of tenderness, that melting feeling in your chest making you ready to be vulnerable yet again.. But not love as I understand it.

Don't think I could put it any better than this

it just spilled. Thanks GM.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to believe in love at first sight, but with the benefit of experience I realise it was out-of-control desire. Generally ending in disaster!"

Aha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fascination. Desire. Lust. Even a touch of tenderness, that melting feeling in your chest making you ready to be vulnerable yet again.. But not love as I understand it.

Wow!

Is it? It's just an observation.. x but means a lot from you. I remember you write.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once when in my 20s..

Both fell quickly for each other spending lots of times together.

But quickly changed when I found out he was married..

Said he was leaving her... He never did.

After that.. Never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like a thunderclap. Just once.

Still cant forget her....

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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Yes. Married for 29 years!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes with my white Fiat Panda and my great Talbo

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Has anyone experienced this...? "
no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone experienced this...? "

i have...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and it lasted over 20 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lust at first sight when I first saw hubby

.. It turned to love but the list is definitely still there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't say I have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have , few ladies on fab #youknowwhoyouare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone experienced this...? no"

???

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

Yes, she lives on the other side of the world married to someone else now though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lust, definitely. To me love is actually impossible to develop without knowing someone.

I agree. I don't see how you can fall in love at first sight when you know absolutely nothing about that person. "

Umm wtf happened with us then

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