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By *alkdirty2me OP   Couple
over a year ago

20 miles south of Edinburgh

We just had 4 hours of our time wasted because people would rather lie than tell the truth

And not ridiculous lies, just stupid things

Age and non smokers

They had taken at least 10 years off their ages and one of them is a smoker

We don’t meet smokers

And as far as age goes, if you’re sexy then age doesn’t matter unless you’re claiming to be younger than you actually are which is just deceitful

We just don’t understand the need to do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We just had 4 hours of our time wasted because people would rather lie than tell the truth

And not ridiculous lies, just stupid things

Age and non smokers

They had taken at least 10 years off their ages and one of them is a smoker

We don’t meet smokers

And as far as age goes, if you’re sexy then age doesn’t matter unless you’re claiming to be younger than you actually are which is just deceitful

We just don’t understand the need to do it "
you know what frustrates me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s shit how much do you talk to them before arranging a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We just had 4 hours of our time wasted because people would rather lie than tell the truth

And not ridiculous lies, just stupid things

Age and non smokers

They had taken at least 10 years off their ages and one of them is a smoker

We don’t meet smokers

And as far as age goes, if you’re sexy then age doesn’t matter unless you’re claiming to be younger than you actually are which is just deceitful

We just don’t understand the need to do it "

I don’t understand it either surely you will have a better time knowing whoever your meeting is interested in the actual you than some made up version? And if they don’t then they’re not for you obviously?

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

It is what people do. Here and in other places, and different parts of life. It's common practice, just assume everyone is lieing until you find truth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

women lie about their age all the time cmon people its life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"women lie about their age all the time cmon people its life "

Blimey, who's lit your fire today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s usual ...

I’m a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"women lie about their age all the time cmon people its life

Blimey, who's lit your fire today"
santa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"women lie about their age all the time cmon people its life "

I haven't lied about my age since I was too young to drink!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"women lie about their age all the time cmon people its life "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"women lie about their age all the time cmon people its life

I haven't lied about my age since I was too young to drink! "
lol well you had a justifiable reason then

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire


"women lie about their age all the time cmon people its life "

I gave up lying about mine a long time ago, you get what you see now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"women lie about their age all the time cmon people its life

I gave up lying about mine a long time ago, you get what you see now "
i see i like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"women lie about their age all the time cmon people its life "

I’ve lied about mine as I don’t want my real age on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"women lie about their age all the time cmon people its life "

Not just women... as I discovered recently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"women lie about their age all the time cmon people its life

Not just women... as I discovered recently. "
luciejo welcome back you wernt gone long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"women lie about their age all the time cmon people its life

Not just women... as I discovered recently. luciejo welcome back you wernt gone long "

I was peer pressured into staying. By some lovely people, I might add.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learnt.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"women lie about their age all the time cmon people its life

Not just women... as I discovered recently. luciejo welcome back you wernt gone long

I was peer pressured into staying. By some lovely people, I might add. "

You're not allowed to leave - it's in the site rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"women lie about their age all the time cmon people its life

Not just women... as I discovered recently. luciejo welcome back you wernt gone long

I was peer pressured into staying. By some lovely people, I might add. "
awwww see you are well received

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We just had 4 hours of our time wasted because people would rather lie than tell the truth

And not ridiculous lies, just stupid things

Age and non smokers

They had taken at least 10 years off their ages and one of them is a smoker

We don’t meet smokers

And as far as age goes, if you’re sexy then age doesn’t matter unless you’re claiming to be younger than you actually are which is just deceitful

We just don’t understand the need to do it "

You know what ? That’s what frustrates us also , join the club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've learnt.

"
so have i

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"women lie about their age all the time cmon people its life

Not just women... as I discovered recently. luciejo welcome back you wernt gone long

I was peer pressured into staying. By some lovely people, I might add.

You're not allowed to leave - it's in the site rules. "

Apparently so! It really is like Hotel California....

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"women lie about their age all the time cmon people its life

Not just women... as I discovered recently. luciejo welcome back you wernt gone long

I was peer pressured into staying. By some lovely people, I might add.

You're not allowed to leave - it's in the site rules.

Apparently so! It really is like Hotel California.... "

Oooo. Can we book a room? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"women lie about their age all the time cmon people its life

Not just women... as I discovered recently. luciejo welcome back you wernt gone long

I was peer pressured into staying. By some lovely people, I might add.

You're not allowed to leave - it's in the site rules.

Apparently so! It really is like Hotel California.... "
wrong thread again thats best lyrics

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By *alkdirty2me OP   Couple
over a year ago

20 miles south of Edinburgh


"women lie about their age all the time cmon people its life

Not just women... as I discovered recently. luciejo welcome back you wernt gone long

I was peer pressured into staying. By some lovely people, I might add.

You're not allowed to leave - it's in the site rules.

Apparently so! It really is like Hotel California.... "

We’ve not had that since 69

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"women lie about their age all the time cmon people its life "

Only when people shouldn't be asking

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Because they think it'll get them what they want or your preferences don't matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"women lie about their age all the time cmon people its life

Not just women... as I discovered recently. luciejo welcome back you wernt gone long

I was peer pressured into staying. By some lovely people, I might add.

You're not allowed to leave - it's in the site rules.

Apparently so! It really is like Hotel California....

We’ve not had that since 69"
soixante neuf the summer of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because they think it'll get them what they want or your preferences don't matter. "

This.

90% of the mail I've had this week has been from men who told me my preferences are silly and I should meet them anyway because they want to fuck me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We just had 4 hours of our time wasted because people would rather lie than tell the truth

And not ridiculous lies, just stupid things

Age and non smokers

They had taken at least 10 years off their ages and one of them is a smoker

We don’t meet smokers

And as far as age goes, if you’re sexy then age doesn’t matter unless you’re claiming to be younger than you actually are which is just deceitful

We just don’t understand the need to do it "

They do it to get meets, and hope that the other don't mind in the end.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

People lie all the time for reasons only known to them my advice be honest all the time.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Pass, I dont get it myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The length people go to to get a meet or verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spoke to one guy recently who was 60 and had his age as 48. He went on about how he tells people before he meets them but it's not the point. Women set mail filters to prevent them being messaged by 60 year old men and its a dick move to message them in the first place. It's the same disregard for others preferences that's been mentioned. What really annoyed me is he claimed he was doing it to hide his identity. If you're going to be an inconsiderate pest then at least admit it ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been lied to about age.

If they lie about age then what else do they lie about? Probably everything.

I'm the other way, too honest for my own good. Hate being lied to though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s worse when you get accused of lieing about you’re age

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

People often tell lies on here, and in everyday life, for various reasons, sad but true.

Why lie about smoking though, if you meet, people are bound to be able to tell.

We are honest, it's the only way to be.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"It’s worse when you get accused of lieing about you’re age "

I just wanna ask what face cream your using lol coz its working.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same gos for woman tell you that there into you that your there type so chat an then out of the blue blocked wtf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they think everyone else is stupid and they are super-clever. Because they have no respect for other people, their feelings or their time. Sometimes they are just fantasists who think they will go through with plans, then chicken out.

Sometimes their partners find their secret Fab phone.

There are genuine people with genuine reasons though. They're just rare as unicorn poo.

Don't take it to heart though. For some people Fab is just a fantasy world where you can treat people badly and it doesn't matter - because this isn't 'real life'. I think all of life is real life. Just don't get hurt by it. There are good people on here xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because they think it'll get them what they want or your preferences don't matter. "

Yes! This!! Therefore YOU as a person don't matter and nor do your preferences. You are simply a wank-aid. We met a couple who were meant to be in their 40's. Obviously in the middle of a row. Obviously born in the 40's lol. Waste of time!!

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry

I was thinking on changing my age and pretending to be 65+.

Just to get the pension.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

It didn't even occur to me to lie when I first joined, this site has my birthday to the day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s worse when you get accused of lieing about you’re age

I just wanna ask what face cream your using lol coz its working. "

Nivea for men

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

Liars always get caught out, so it's beyond my comprehension why they do !!!!

The only person their really lying to is themselves so why do it !!!!

Unfortunately humans are the only animals who do it and we're suppose to be the top of the chain

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"It’s worse when you get accused of lieing about you’re age

I just wanna ask what face cream your using lol coz its working.

Nivea for men "

Im getting some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people divert the truth in order to maintain an illusion that is more attractive and attractiveness in all its forms form the basis of a meet, this internet domain offers that premise for many but not all so hence the variation of factual information

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many reasons, the only good ones in my mind are when organising a wonderful surprise for someone.

I think people lie at times because they don't feel the consequences are greater than the reward. Almost a "fuck it, don't really care anyway" logic. If they knew full well the outcome would be something they'd never wish to encounter then possibly they'd think twice, or three times.

A lot is selfishness and believing they're worth more than the party they're lying to

P

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"We just had 4 hours of our time wasted because people would rather lie than tell the truth

And not ridiculous lies, just stupid things

Age and non smokers

They had taken at least 10 years off their ages and one of them is a smoker

We don’t meet smokers

And as far as age goes, if you’re sexy then age doesn’t matter unless you’re claiming to be younger than you actually are which is just deceitful

We just don’t understand the need to do it "

Not sure why people lie.

Did I ever tell you I invented the kitchen sink ?

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

What surprise me was someone who I thought wouldn't lie, has. I would rather hear the truth once then a lie over and over.

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Ultimately people lie to get what they want often with no regard to the person they've lied to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What surprise me was someone who I thought wouldn't lie, has. I would rather hear the truth once then a lie over and over."

Exactly, rather get stung by the truth than stabbed in the back by a lie

P

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Sadly the internet makes it easy for people to lie,

Many think a lie will help them meet,be it age,marital status ,sexuality

They tell people what they want to hear

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"What surprise me was someone who I thought wouldn't lie, has. I would rather hear the truth once then a lie over and over.

Exactly, rather get stung by the truth than stabbed in the back by a lie

P"

Exactly.

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax


"women lie about their age all the time cmon people its life

"

I don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos i enjoy storys

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la


"women lie about their age all the time cmon people its life "

Only time I ever lied about my age was as a teenager when I was trying to get served in pubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We just had 4 hours of our time wasted because people would rather lie than tell the truth

And not ridiculous lies, just stupid things

Age and non smokers

They had taken at least 10 years off their ages and one of them is a smoker

We don’t meet smokers

And as far as age goes, if you’re sexy then age doesn’t matter unless you’re claiming to be younger than you actually are which is just deceitful

We just don’t understand the need to do it "

I had a crap meet with a guy who said he was great at this that n everything, veris were simple non committal.

I

Laid there while he was down on me like i had Riga mortis.

Shittest time ever.

I get why he lied as no one would want him if he was honest.

Then had the cheek to ask if i wanted it on a regular basis as he followed me to my car.

It did put me off for a while.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"We just had 4 hours of our time wasted because people would rather lie than tell the truth

And not ridiculous lies, just stupid things

Age and non smokers

They had taken at least 10 years off their ages and one of them is a smoker

We don’t meet smokers

And as far as age goes, if you’re sexy then age doesn’t matter unless you’re claiming to be younger than you actually are which is just deceitful

We just don’t understand the need to do it

I had a crap meet with a guy who said he was great at this that n everything, veris were simple non committal.

I

Laid there while he was down on me like i had Riga mortis.

Shittest time ever.

I get why he lied as no one would want him if he was honest.

Then had the cheek to ask if i wanted it on a regular basis as he followed me to my car.

It did put me off for a while.

"

Hate when a guy says "im great at oral" " ill make you cum like no one esle" hang on a minute...how about i tell you if thats true lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they cant face the truth?

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