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By *erynaughty OP   Man
over a year ago

Derby

And why do you think that is?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Terrible for recipes currently but excellent for shagging. 5/10

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Better or worse than what?

Better or worse at what?

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I'm in my own lite fab world and I quite like it

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Terrible for recipes currently but excellent for shagging. 5/10"

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By *erynaughty OP   Man
over a year ago

Derby


"Terrible for recipes currently but excellent for shagging. 5/10"

I have an old recipe book that I’m sure you could use to knock something up

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

I don't think anything has changed in the last 5 years.

Some old faces and lots of new faces in the forum but everything else seems exactly the same to me.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

It's what you make of it really - it has it's ups and downs, but I don't think it's that different from when I first joined over 3 years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certainly better than thrusting 10p pieces into a pissy public telephone box whilst trying to read the back pages of a jizz mag in the dark.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Certainly better than thrusting 10p pieces into a pissy public telephone box whilst trying to read the back pages of a jizz mag in the dark."

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Worse....

Too many men here

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Like every other site on the net it reached its peak then got over run with all the hook up folk and went into decline.

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By *erynaughty OP   Man
over a year ago

Derby


"Better or worse than what?

Better or worse at what?

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Than it used to be...

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Worse....

Too many men here "

Wash your mouth out

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

Been here over ten years!!!!

Definitely worse!!!

O wait a minute fab is the same!!!!!!!!

The people who are getting worse. Fakes people that don’t meet. Say they will meet then ghost you.

No fab is not getting worse you all are

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Better or worse than what?

Better or worse at what?

Than it used to be..."

It's all relative. Am I better or worse than I used to be? It's a dynamic process - it's not set in stone. My experience may mean I see it was worse but someone else will experience it as better.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Think it's pretty much the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been here over ten years!!!!

Definitely worse!!!

O wait a minute fab is the same!!!!!!!!

The people who are getting worse. Fakes people that don’t meet. Say they will meet then ghost you.

No fab is not getting worse you all are "

Oh Humph. Not me Sir!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Been here over ten years!!!!

Definitely worse!!!

O wait a minute fab is the same!!!!!!!!

The people who are getting worse. Fakes people that don’t meet. Say they will meet then ghost you.

No fab is not getting worse you all are "

I know you are, but what am I?

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I still get laid...s'all good

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I’m enjoying fab right now. I have a few lovely friends and a couple of new ones. I’m pretty content.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I chat to lovely people and enjoy the forums too.

There's loads of phobic and misogynistic Fools around if I stop to listen but them aside, I'm still having a great time.

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By *ikerdude2017Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Not sure If its worse or just me. Had no recent meets where I started a few years back had quite a few meets. It's finding the ladies and couples. I can get meets with guys instantly. I'm sure can't mention other sites. Would be nice to know what other sites people sign up to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And why do you think that is?"

Too many timewasters, no interest in.meeting all talk. And far too many bi men, and TV on Fab

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands


"Worse....

Too many men here "

I agree. All the other men should be band bar me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My eyes have just been opened to the forums.. So its a whole lot better..

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Terrible for recipes currently but excellent for shagging. 5/10"

I'm gonna make some peanut butter cookies to take to the MLS next week, all recipes would be welcome as I've never made them before

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"And why do you think that is?

Too many timewasters, no interest in.meeting all talk. And far too many bi men, and TV on Fab"

Depends how you define a time waster I guess - if it's that they're not interested in meeting you, that's not time wasting - in fact the only thing I'd define as timewasting would be if someone arranged a meet and didn't show up.

As for too many bi men and TV's - if you're not looking to meet them I don't see how that is a problem?

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

The forums do make fab a funnier more interactive place

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

It's how "you" use it surely? .....take it to serious well "your" going to cry in your cornflakes......

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london


"It's how "you" use it surely? .....take it to serious well "your" going to cry in your cornflakes......"

Or porridge

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"It's how "you" use it surely? .....take it to serious well "your" going to cry in your cornflakes......

Or porridge"

Or porridge

Or bran flakes

Etc

Etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's how "you" use it surely? .....take it to serious well "your" going to cry in your cornflakes......"

Cornflakes?? Far too plain.. Cherios all the way!

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london


"It's how "you" use it surely? .....take it to serious well "your" going to cry in your cornflakes......

Or porridge

Or porridge

Or bran flakes

Etc

Etc "

Runny egg and fingers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the same as when I started. Still hard to click with anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s what you make of it. Plenty of fun to be had if you know where to look

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

About to the same for us, although we’ve only been active for 8 months or so.

It seems to go in phases, we get a load of ghosts and cancellations in a row, and then the next few weeks all goes as planned, then another batch of cancellations.

Filters on your messages help for sure, and a general gut feeling over how genuine some of the messages actually are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Certainly better than thrusting 10p pieces into a pissy public telephone box whilst trying to read the back pages of a jizz mag in the dark."

Ha!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"It's the same as when I started. Still hard to click with anyone. "

Click maybe I don't really know, but I've seen your threads and their never empty of posts...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And why do you think that is?"

Yes it has but I don't think it is just fab, think the whole ethos of the swinging scene has changed. Think it has changed across the board and FAB is just a casualty of the change. Attitudes have changed, we are now moving away from the scene also as are many others. With the introduction of videos and only available to supporters. FAB is in danger of becoming another adult porn site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Worse....

Too many men here "

i agree and couples ha come on you single ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Worse....

Too many men here i agree and couples ha come on you single ladies "

Nah! Being a couple trying to meet a single lady can be worse than being a man! My partner has his own profile too and it’s 50/50.

We attract a lot of women who are athletic, at least 6’ and send us pics off the internet Always want my kik details and suddenly they’re using their boyfriends account to message, haha.

Think everyone should be photo verified at least, that may help, but it’s never going to happen x

Viv x

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

No more men should be allowed to join now

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"It's the same as when I started. Still hard to click with anyone. "

When I click with someone, it usually means I've put ma back out

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Worse....

Too many men here

Wash your mouth out "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the same as when I started. Still hard to click with anyone.

Click maybe I don't really know, but I've seen your threads and their never empty of posts..."

Never results in me recieving a message though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the same as when I started. Still hard to click with anyone.

Click maybe I don't really know, but I've seen your threads and their never empty of posts...

Never results in me recieving a message though. "

Well very rarely

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Same shit, different day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like anything. There are good days and bad days. I appreciate it's tough for single guys on here but us women have a naff time on here too sometimes xx

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Your mum is, as ever, up for it.

Some things never change.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

10 years here and some big improvement. The biggest thing to make it better is ourselves and what we do with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Terrible for recipes currently but excellent for shagging. 5/10"

Really, I've got a great tip for South Indian prawn curry.. X

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Only thing i can see that's changed is the #metoo movement, and women not putting up with the same old crap and laziness. Guys struggle to know the ever moving etiquette on women.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Familiarity breeds contempt? Maybe....

The site remains the same, its the dynamics of the foot flow that change - sometimes really good - sometimes downright dreadful.

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable


"Certainly better than thrusting 10p pieces into a pissy public telephone box whilst trying to read the back pages of a jizz mag in the dark."
lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s exactly the same as it’s been for years ...

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

We've only just joined a couple of months ago and all I can say is everyone we've messaged/met have been amazing even if we've not hit it off they've been nice and polite and respectful and not had one nasty message xxx

As with anything in life you get time wasters/nasty people but on here I would say their the exception rather than the rule

Lou x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

The same it's been in my nearly two years here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined around 9 years ago, had a break for a while and have recently returned. There are more single guys nowadays, but I don't see it as getting worse or better.

The whole experience is what you make it.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

It has always been the same, the regular names get replaced by new names which in turn become the regulars new guys storm in all cock sure and after two weeks of not getting a fuck decide it’s a crap site new ladies and couples get swamped (apparently) it’s just what happens and it will never change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It has always been the same, the regular names get replaced by new names which in turn become the regulars new guys storm in all cock sure and after two weeks of not getting a fuck decide it’s a crap site new ladies and couples get swamped (apparently) it’s just what happens and it will never change "
That is right and I was about to say almost the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not enjoying it as much now tbh only here for forums when not incarcerated for crimes against grammar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"10 years here and some big improvement. The biggest thing to make it better is ourselves and what we do with it "

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Getting far worse

I am so fed up with younger people thinking and messaging me with babe cum here to daddy?

Jesus don’t they look at your age first

Daddy?? He was 21 yrs old

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

The people are whatake it. I've not been here long enough to know how it used to be. Surely it is related to what you want out of it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It must be getting worse because I'm blocking way much more than I used to years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so much better i love it now

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham


"And why do you think that is?

Too many timewasters, no interest in.meeting all talk. And far too many bi men, and TV on Fab"

seeing as we tvs are in a minority group on here I think your comment is somewhat unnecessary and unwarranted. If you don't like us the door is over there

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

It's definitely batter. I'm worried about my hearing though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Terrible for recipes currently but excellent for shagging. 5/10"

I agree. I came here to get toad in the hole, but what I got was an uncomfortable experience from a foot fetishist

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

I like it just as it is

It's when they start tinkering around with sites that it all goes wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And why do you think that is?

Too many timewasters, no interest in.meeting all talk. And far too many bi men, and TV on Fab"

You must be joking, right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its amazing now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think it’s great, the only thing we don’t like is the dick pic brigade. But you even get that on twitter now.

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