FabSwingers.com forum: My veris aren't all true

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some of my veris say we had a social but we fucked. Some people I fucked left the site so the veri can't be shown. Some I fucked but they left no veri. So my veri list is not true.

Should people trust you if your verification list is fake?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are more than their verifications, or lack thereof... but they sure help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What counts for is that someone is real, not a catfish, and not a psycho (at least not in obvious way)

The rest doesn’t matter too much

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Veris do little to nothing for me in forming an opinion about someone. I prefer to work that out myself interacting with the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve heard of people paying for them so no

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By *teve48ukMan
over a year ago

Ware

Sorry but a bit lost, can you explain catfish?

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

My veris makes me sound like a really nice guy.

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

I just think veris mean you are what you claim to be and look like the images you've uploaded and nothing more.

The words of the veri, unless they are really witty, hold little interest to me

(There are exceptions to That, if most the veris rave about bb or similiar)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My veris makes me sound like a really nice guy."

Mine too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some of my veris say we had a social but we fucked. Some people I fucked left the site so the veri can't be shown. Some I fucked but they left no veri. So my veri list is not true.

Should people trust you if your verification list is fake?"
i dont read them so dont care hope that helps

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I’ve hacked fab to give myself periodic ones like when you can time an email.

I’m really a bearded, computer geek hermit called Clive from Bristol

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

People should do what they want really. That’s the beauty of a free and fair society

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just think veris mean you are what you claim to be and look like the images you've uploaded and nothing more.

The words of the veri, unless they are really witty, hold little interest to me

(There are exceptions to That, if most the veris rave about bb or similiar) "

I had different pics when I met the people who verified me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just think veris mean you are what you claim to be and look like the images you've uploaded and nothing more.

The words of the veri, unless they are really witty, hold little interest to me

(There are exceptions to That, if most the veris rave about bb or similiar)

I had different pics when I met the people who verified me.

We are trying to trust you but you keep digging yourself deeper into a hole

I'm enjoying the view from behind though

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By *renchy19Man
over a year ago

Heathrow

Veris are a guide nothing more. No one is going to put a bad review up. That said you can get a feel for someone from the veris if there is a common theme perhaps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine all say I’m a sex kitten

I’m not a baby cat

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just think veris mean you are what you claim to be and look like the images you've uploaded and nothing more.

The words of the veri, unless they are really witty, hold little interest to me

(There are exceptions to That, if most the veris rave about bb or similiar)

I had different pics when I met the people who verified me.

We are trying to trust you but you keep digging yourself deeper into a hole

I'm enjoying the view from behind though

I think you quoted the wrong person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just think veris mean you are what you claim to be and look like the images you've uploaded and nothing more.

The words of the veri, unless they are really witty, hold little interest to me

(There are exceptions to That, if most the veris rave about bb or similiar)

I had different pics when I met the people who verified me.

We are trying to trust you but you keep digging yourself deeper into a hole

I'm enjoying the view from behind though

I think you quoted the wrong person.

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thank you

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"I’ve hacked fab to give myself periodic ones like when you can time an email.

I’m really a bearded, computer geek hermit called Clive from Bristol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve hacked fab to give myself periodic ones like when you can time an email.

I’m really a bearded, computer geek hermit called Clive from Bristol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're honest about your lies, I think it's ok.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I don't think anything you describe in the OP is a lie.

If you regard veris as part of the picture you form, and potentially but not necessarily true (various pitfalls exist), then they're a useful adjunct to your own judgement.

Critical thinking is always the answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont read vari's im not really a fan of them hence not showing mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine all say I’m a sex kitten

I’m not a baby cat "

Small pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was news report.. it would have to be accurate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some of my veris say we had a social but we fucked. Some people I fucked left the site so the veri can't be shown. Some I fucked but they left no veri. So my veri list is not true.

Should people trust you if your verification list is fake?"

who cares, lets fuck.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"My veris makes me sound like a really nice guy.

Mine too"

You do make me laugh Derek.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some of my veris say we had a social but we fucked. Some people I fucked left the site so the veri can't be shown. Some I fucked but they left no veri. So my veri list is not true.

Should people trust you if your verification list is fake?

who cares, lets fuck."

I'm ok from behind.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I take veris with a pinch of salt unless I know the person who left them. I’ve met guys who had rave reviews from women they’d supposedly met for their amazing skills who in reality were terrible in bed. And I’ve seen couples verifying themselves from their solo profiles, and some profiles which I’m sure were fake with loads of veris.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My veris makes me sound like a really nice guy.

Mine too

You do make me laugh Derek."

Your accent makes my name sound funny. It's Dirk.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"My veris makes me sound like a really nice guy.

Mine too

You do make me laugh Derek.

Your accent makes my name sound funny. It's Dirk. "

Oow arrrrr.

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By *ackinabox19Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

I made a huge mistake chatting on cam with a unverified couple which resulted in me getting black mailed by them

so now I will not chat to anyone without a verification, since my bad experience I have spoken to another couple on cam to see how the conversation went and so the 3 of us could see each other and know we are who we say we are, I will look to do more of this in the future but face chats via cam only !! Not into all the cyber stuff it needs to be left for in the flesh

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"I just think veris mean you are what you claim to be and look like the images you've uploaded and nothing more.

The words of the veri, unless they are really witty, hold little interest to me

(There are exceptions to That, if most the veris rave about bb or similiar) "

With the greatest of respect - they definitely don’t mean that people look like their pictures! I’ve seen many, many people in clubs who look amazing in their pictures and barely recognisable as ‘them’ in real life!

Let’s face it - most people would be far too polite to put ‘looks bugger all like his/her pictures’ in a veri - and even if they did - who’d display it?

All veris mean is that the person is perhaps more likely to be reliable, and probably isn’t an axe murderer!

For the rest, you still have to meet the person and judge for yourself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some of my veris say we had a social but we fucked. Some people I fucked left the site so the veri can't be shown. Some I fucked but they left no veri. So my veri list is not true.

Should people trust you if your verification list is fake?

who cares, lets fuck.

I'm ok from behind.

i slabbbbbbereeeed

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

"I just think veris mean you are what you claim to be and look like the images you've uploaded and nothing more.

The words of the veri, unless they are really witty, hold little interest to me

(There are exceptions to That, if most the veris rave about bb or similiar)

Let’s face it - most people would be far too polite to put ‘looks bugger all like his/her pictures’ in a veri - and even if they did - who’d display it?

All veris mean is that the person is perhaps more likely to be reliable, and probably isn’t an axe murderer!

For the rest, you still have to meet the person and judge for yourself!

My images are of me and I get recognised even when I'm not in white jeans

Last night, in a city centre train station, no problems. He was able to recognise me and we'd never met before.

Reminds me I should ask if he wants me to do him a veri

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Some of my veris say we had a social but we fucked. Some people I fucked left the site so the veri can't be shown. Some I fucked but they left no veri. So my veri list is not true.

Should people trust you if your verification list is fake?"

Shhh. I left you a social verification. You're so indiscreet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it when people call them reviews. "I have read your reviews...."

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I like it when people call them reviews. "I have read your reviews...."

I have one verification that was written as a product review.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some of my veris say we had a social but we fucked. Some people I fucked left the site so the veri can't be shown. Some I fucked but they left no veri. So my veri list is not true.

Should people trust you if your verification list is fake?"

I know 2 of mine very well 1 for over 15 years . I do often wonder why people lie when writing veris.

Met 1 whose veri and he said he was this that. Got there n it was like watching paint dry.

Id rather not be veried falsely .

I do read them to try and get a feel for the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like it when people call them reviews. "I have read your reviews...."

I have one verification that was written as a product review.

Sucks like a dyson ?

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Ours give a hint to how we play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve heard of people paying for them so no "

I will pretend to have sex with you dear reader for just *checks bank statement* 10 thousand pounds

Deal!?

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"I’ve hacked fab to give myself periodic ones like when you can time an email.

I’m really a bearded, computer geek hermit called Clive from Bristol"

Hi Clive

Its Steve from the booth next to you.

Good this ain't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like it when people call them reviews. "I have read your reviews...."

I have one verification that was written as a product review.

Sucks like a dyson ?

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no, this ones a keeper not just for xmas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some of my veris say we had a social but we fucked. Some people I fucked left the site so the veri can't be shown. Some I fucked but they left no veri. So my veri list is not true.

Should people trust you if your verification list is fake?"

Hey, you fancy a social...?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some of my veris say we had a social but we fucked. Some people I fucked left the site so the veri can't be shown. Some I fucked but they left no veri. So my veri list is not true.

Should people trust you if your verification list is fake?

Hey, you fancy a social...?

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By *ady PaulaWoman
over a year ago

bradford

"Some of my veris say we had a social but we fucked. Some people I fucked left the site so the veri can't be shown. Some I fucked but they left no veri. So my veri list is not true.

Should people trust you if your verification list is fake?"

Its not fake, just inaccurate

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some of my veris say we had a social but we fucked. Some people I fucked left the site so the veri can't be shown. Some I fucked but they left no veri. So my veri list is not true.

Should people trust you if your verification list is fake?

I know 2 of mine very well 1 for over 15 years . I do often wonder why people lie when writing veris.

Met 1 whose veri and he said he was this that. Got there n it was like watching paint dry.

Id rather not be veried falsely .

I do read them to try and get a feel for the person."

I find they give a feel for the person who left them, not for the person they are about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some of my veris say we had a social but we fucked. Some people I fucked left the site so the veri can't be shown. Some I fucked but they left no veri. So my veri list is not true.

Should people trust you if your verification list is fake?

I know 2 of mine very well 1 for over 15 years . I do often wonder why people lie when writing veris.

Met 1 whose veri and he said he was this that. Got there n it was like watching paint dry.

Id rather not be veried falsely .

I do read them to try and get a feel for the person.

I find they give a feel for the person who left them, not for the person they are about. "
they mean nothing really, a lot would walk away from you based on who you met

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Some of my veris say we had a social but we fucked. Some people I fucked left the site so the veri can't be shown. Some I fucked but they left no veri. So my veri list is not true.

Should people trust you if your verification list is fake?

I know 2 of mine very well 1 for over 15 years . I do often wonder why people lie when writing veris.

Met 1 whose veri and he said he was this that. Got there n it was like watching paint dry.

Id rather not be veried falsely .

I do read them to try and get a feel for the person.

I find they give a feel for the person who left them, not for the person they are about. they mean nothing really, a lot would walk away from you based on who you met

People have lost meets because I have verified them. It stopped me meeting single men for socials to give them their first verification.

People have walked away based on who I have met.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Some of my veris say we had a social but we fucked. Some people I fucked left the site so the veri can't be shown. Some I fucked but they left no veri. So my veri list is not true.

Should people trust you if your verification list is fake?

I know 2 of mine very well 1 for over 15 years . I do often wonder why people lie when writing veris.

Met 1 whose veri and he said he was this that. Got there n it was like watching paint dry.

Id rather not be veried falsely .

I do read them to try and get a feel for the person.

I find they give a feel for the person who left them, not for the person they are about. they mean nothing really, a lot would walk away from you based on who you met

People have lost meets because I have verified them. It stopped me meeting single men for socials to give them their first verification.

People have walked away based on who I have met."

I here ya sister! I’ve had the same - people removing veris from me and telling me they can’t meet me again because they were ‘got at’ for meeting me!

There’s a lot of jealousy and nastiness amongst some single women - which is ridiculous when you consider there are at least ten guys to every one of us - so more than enough to go round!

However - there are also some wonderful ladies who build others up rather than knocking them down - and they’re a large part of the reason I stay - and the reason I wish you’d stay!

I know for a fact that a lot of people - myself included - think you’re bloody lovely!

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

This reminds me, I've still not written up my veris from the last MLS... Perhaps I'll just wait until the next one...

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