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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Happy friday forumites

Advice needed....I've lost my mojo!

Had a huge OP in July ( abdominal hysterectomy) full eviction and cervix ( sorry to the guys for TMI)

I've gone from literally screaming high sex drive when I was still in recovery an unable to do a feckin thing about it to its rapid desertion and seems like never to be seen again.....please return if found

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry to hear OP.

The first thing, although easily said and harder to do, is don't stress over it.

Maybe some not sexual interaction, close body contact, cuddles etc if there is someone who can do this for you.

Everyone is different so there won't be a right answer.

Maybe have a little play with yourself and see how you feel after.

or read some erotic fiction.

I hope you find it, sending big hugs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no advice but sending hugs and chocolates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And whether that helps or not - your pictures are stunning!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So sorry to hear OP.

The first thing, although easily said and harder to do, is don't stress over it.

Maybe some not sexual interaction, close body contact, cuddles etc if there is someone who can do this for you.

Everyone is different so there won't be a right answer.

Maybe have a little play with yourself and see how you feel after.

or read some erotic fiction.

I hope you find it, sending big hugs xx"

Thank you, some good suggestions that I'm going to look into...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have no advice but sending hugs and chocolates "

Thank you....chocolates now ya talking xxx

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

local, but not too local

Just seen your thread. I replied to your status.

Had no idea of the cause, hope things come back into kilter for you soon, I guess it’s hormonal, have you spoken to gp?

Mine is definitely hormonal and a reaction to seasons and stress and probably a bit of Male manopause on the quiet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry to hear this OP.

It's so hard when you are used to having a sex drive, to then watch it vanish. You've had some great advice on the thread, so I don't really have any advice for you....

But big hugs and don't let it get you too down!

x Niki

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi try not to worry about it and force it or over think or analyse it. It could be one of many things from health reasons, stress or maybe just a need for something different. Just enjoy the break and know you will be back with a bang ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just seen your thread. I replied to your status.

Had no idea of the cause, hope things come back into kilter for you soon, I guess it’s hormonal, have you spoken to gp?

Mine is definitely hormonal and a reaction to seasons and stress and probably a bit of Male manopause on the quiet. "

I'm on hrt (surgical menopause) but do think I may need a spot of testosterone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

So sorry to hear this OP.

It's so hard when you are used to having a sex drive, to then watch it vanish. You've had some great advice on the thread, so I don't really have any advice for you....

But big hugs and don't let it get you too down!

x Niki"

Thanks Niki it's much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi try not to worry about it and force it or over think or analyse it. It could be one of many things from health reasons, stress or maybe just a need for something different. Just enjoy the break and know you will be back with a bang ...."

Yeah could be stress too, we're in the middle of moving home too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seen it down the arndale last tuesday about 230 i only remember cos i had a dentist appointment at the same time

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"Happy friday forumites

Advice needed....I've lost my mojo!

Had a huge OP in July ( abdominal hysterectomy) full eviction and cervix ( sorry to the guys for TMI)

I've gone from literally screaming high sex drive when I was still in recovery an unable to do a feckin thing about it to its rapid desertion and seems like never to be seen again.....please return if found "

Look at my profile OP and thou shall return

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I seen it down the arndale last tuesday about 230 i only remember cos i had a dentist appointment at the same time "

Thank Blake....your a diamond

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I seen it down the arndale last tuesday about 230 i only remember cos i had a dentist appointment at the same time

Thank Blake....your a diamond "
you are welcomes

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Happy friday forumites

Advice needed....I've lost my mojo!

Had a huge OP in July ( abdominal hysterectomy) full eviction and cervix ( sorry to the guys for TMI)

I've gone from literally screaming high sex drive when I was still in recovery an unable to do a feckin thing about it to its rapid desertion and seems like never to be seen again.....please return if found "

Hey x

I had full hysto/appendectomy July last year, I totally understand your pain XXX

Libido can be a major issue afterwards. I got doc to up my eostrogen patch strength and asked for referral to menopause clinic.

It's also the main reason I'm now 420 friendly as it's a huge libido boost.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chin up recovery will take time done force it or compare before to now that can make you worse.

i understand your frustration ive been on prozac since june and my sex drive has gone from screaming to virtually stopped.. im not even interested in sex. Before id play 3 to 4 times a day have sex at anytime atleast once a day sometimes before and after work now nothing not even bothered.... its frustrating but give it time you'll be back on form

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By *ackinabox19Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

I’m sure it will come back as quick as it went

Don’t put any pressure on yourself to find it or feel like you should as it will just happen naturally x

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Happy friday forumites

Advice needed....I've lost my mojo!

Had a huge OP in July ( abdominal hysterectomy) full eviction and cervix ( sorry to the guys for TMI)

I've gone from literally screaming high sex drive when I was still in recovery an unable to do a feckin thing about it to its rapid desertion and seems like never to be seen again.....please return if found "

I’ve had the same this year. It’s just nowhere to be seen. I feel robbed

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