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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

do you read the original post or just the title/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always read the OP x

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"do you read the original post or just the title/"

Both xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

Too nosey to not read the op, and all the reply posts

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Usually both but sometimes I just reply to thread title because that's what drew me to the thread.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"do you read the original post or just the title/"

Normally both.

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London

Usually read the whole thread or at least skim it so I can make a contribution that makes sense...if that makes sense...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both unless the opening post is really long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both unless the thread title is the start of a line from a song in which case I struggle to fight the urge to give everyone else an earworm.

I like to share.

P

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London

'When responding to a thread' what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Usually read the whole thread or at least skim it so I can make a contribution that makes sense...if that makes sense... "

Same

And if makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Usually read the whole thread or at least skim it so I can make a contribution that makes sense...if that makes sense...

Same

And if makes sense "

Oh the irony, I don’t make sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This isn’t going anywhere I read to respond and be responded but ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always choose both!

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"'When responding to a thread' what? "

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I posted this because a couple of time recently I've noticed that the title of a thread can elicit responses that don't directly address the content of the original post.

I was wondering to myself if it really matters...

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Both.

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London


"'When responding to a thread' what?

"

Was wondering if anyone would get it lol

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Both - the amount of times the title and the OP is mismatched, so need to understand what I’m actually responding to

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London


"Usually read the whole thread or at least skim it so I can make a contribution that makes sense...if that makes sense...

Same

And if makes sense

Oh the irony, I don’t make sense "

I finally worked out you meant

"and IT makes sense"

So now it all makes sense

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"'When responding to a thread' what?

Was wondering if anyone would get it lol"

Well, if I didn't there's absolutely no hope

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London


"'When responding to a thread' what?

Was wondering if anyone would get it lol

Well, if I didn't there's absolutely no hope "

Hahahahaha this is true!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I posted this because a couple of time recently I've noticed that the title of a thread can elicit responses that don't directly address the content of the original post.

I was wondering to myself if it really matters..."

I eat chocolate oranges in between typing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What’s this thread about OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Title and post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chocolate Hob Nobs

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Both and depending on the subject sometimes all or most of the other posts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both for me then write something and upset everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both for me then write something and upset everyone "

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

Definitely both OP

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

I like to just read the title, go to post new, then make broad sweeping assumptions based on a few words..

I also leave Amazon reviews based purely on the packaging size of the items I ordered, and restaurant reviews purely on the colour of the hand towels in the bathroom.

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I posted this because a couple of time recently I've noticed that the title of a thread can elicit responses that don't directly address the content of the original post.

I was wondering to myself if it really matters...

I eat chocolate oranges in between typing."

Whole ones?

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"What’s this thread about OP "

Fluffy kittens

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By *ackinabox19Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

Both and the responses

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I like to just read the title, go to post new, then make broad sweeping assumptions based on a few words..

I also leave Amazon reviews based purely on the packaging size of the items I ordered, and restaurant reviews purely on the colour of the hand towels in the bathroom."

Oh, me too.

I also like to read a newspaper headline and assume I know what the whole article say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read the original post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Title its more fun when it backfires plus im not arsed if its wordy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends- sometimes I just respond to the title, sometimes the OP and sometimes simply to a post that caught my eye.

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

I read both, then have a scroll down to see if it's descended into an argument yet, then respond if it's still light hearted

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By *ady PaulaWoman
over a year ago

bradford

Both and all or some of the replies x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not always sometimes the ridiculously funny thread title gets a comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read all titles and posts. But sometimes the content stirs up emotions and can miss understand miss read cos trying to reply too quickly and I type before my brain has time to catch up, only human.

Not with posts that are purely attention seeking or self indulgent, then I just post anything if get the urge

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Always both. Not easy to potentially reply with any kind of intelligent or well thought out response otherwise. (Where appropriate). I also believe that the forums are part of a persons footprint on here, with everything we say and do forming part of who we are for others to decide if we might be worthy of their time. Sometimes the subject matter demands respectful and supportive messages in reply - such as the mental health stuff recently - so nice to use the grey matter on occasion. X

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

If I can't be bothered reading the OP, I don't respond.

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I always read the title and op. I don't always respond to the op though, sometimes the threads moved away from that and I respond to a later post. I do sometimes misunderstand an opening post too

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

Depends if I'm distracted by boobs, as the official founding member of the boob appreciation club (see my forum thread) I can be distracted easily , I do look at both though.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Oh, both. Usually have a read of the thread too. Then I sometimes throw out random responses to different comments, which isn't at all confusing I'm sure!

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always read the title and op. I don't always respond to the op though, sometimes the threads moved away from that and I respond to a later post. I do sometimes misunderstand an opening post too "

Me too for all this. I usually ask if I'm not sure but not always.

I think a lot of people assume intent is X and even if the OP clarifies it is actually Y, they still rant on and accuse the OP that they really meant X.

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I always read the title and op. I don't always respond to the op though, sometimes the threads moved away from that and I respond to a later post. I do sometimes misunderstand an opening post too

Me too for all this. I usually ask if I'm not sure but not always.

I think a lot of people assume intent is X and even if the OP clarifies it is actually Y, they still rant on and accuse the OP that they really meant X. "

Yes. Often people have a particular agenda and will follow that regardless.

It hinders discussion

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Neither, just look at the OPs profile pic

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By *icecouple561 OP   Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Neither, just look at the OPs profile pic "

But how are you going to reply to that ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both. Then the replies and see if anything hooks me in!

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By *nasuitMan
over a year ago

Ruislip

I read the title and the OP before skipping to the end and missing out all the tedious crap in the middle.

Then I ususally just post something random

Yes I like cumming on a nice pair of tits too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh I like this game. I’m in and I’ve fabbed a few pics already.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Original Post. Skim a load of other posts to the end, to see the latest rant.

Decide do I really want to get inv6, then type. Then notice that a load of other people have already posted comments and my thoughts are completely insignificant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just type my response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Neither, just look at the OPs profile pic "
perv

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