FabSwingers.com forum: Pre meet nerves?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Okay so tomorrow I'm meeting a lady that is basically my ideal woman if I had to describe what I wanted. And I'm shitting myself haha. I don't normally get nervous.

Any pre meet advice? How did you get over your pre meet nerves?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Be yourself. Stay sober. Nerves are normal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nerves are part of the experience and like the good lady above said, be yourself. Good luck x

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Just remember, she's probably nervous too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Few cans of Stella to steady the ship. You'll be the best you.

Go get 'em tiger.

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

It's never ever as bad as you imagine

You'll be fine after a few minutes in each others company

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Okay so tomorrow I'm meeting a lady that is basically my ideal woman if I had to describe what I wanted. And I'm shitting myself haha. I don't normally get nervous.

Any pre meet advice? How did you get over your pre meet nerves? "

Tell her you're nervous, nothing to worry about then

Almost definitely she'll say that she is as well

Ice broken, no pretending needed

Good luck

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By *ikerdude2017Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Be good to get a meet to get nervous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Okay so tomorrow I'm meeting a lady that is basically my ideal woman if I had to describe what I wanted. And I'm shitting myself haha. I don't normally get nervous.

Any pre meet advice? How did you get over your pre meet nerves?

Tell her you're nervous"

Ermmm.. No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always find once the conversation is glowing you forget about the nerves and well you know what happens then

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By *ackinabox19Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

I love that nervous excited feeling

and then when you make eye contact for the first time that excitement becomes even more intense. Hope all goes well for the both of you

You’ll have to let us know how it goes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love that nervous excited feeling

and then when you make eye contact for the first time that excitement becomes even more intense. Hope all goes well for the both of you

You’ll have to let us know how it goes "

Yes I'll report back haha

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Okay so tomorrow I'm meeting a lady that is basically my ideal woman if I had to describe what I wanted. And I'm shitting myself haha. I don't normally get nervous.

Any pre meet advice? How did you get over your pre meet nerves? "

You’ll be fine - promise!

You’re a great guy - she’d be mad not to like you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Okay so tomorrow I'm meeting a lady that is basically my ideal woman if I had to describe what I wanted. And I'm shitting myself haha. I don't normally get nervous.

Any pre meet advice? How did you get over your pre meet nerves?

You’ll be fine - promise!

You’re a great guy - she’d be mad not to like you!

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Few cans of Stella to steady the ship. You'll be the best you.

Go get 'em tiger."

No stella!!

Make sure you smell nice, but not overpowering x

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Is it a social (social)?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is it a social (social)?"

Um kinda but with option for more after lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Okay so tomorrow I'm meeting a lady that is basically my ideal woman if I had to describe what I wanted. And I'm shitting myself haha. I don't normally get nervous.

Any pre meet advice? How did you get over your pre meet nerves? "
pull yourself together man, don't drink and just be yourself trust me she'll be more nervous than you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Don't try and hide your nerves .. weird shit happens if I ever try to do this!

Just confess .. it's sweet and flattering, be you xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He probably will be nervous himself

Hope it goes well

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't try and hide your nerves .. weird shit happens if I ever try to do this!

Just confess .. it's sweet and flattering, be you xxx "

What's kind of weird shit lol

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By *aughtyboytmMan
over a year ago

Burgess Hill

Tell us more about her. And good luck

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Deep breathes, smile, and just be yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"He probably will be nervous himself

Hope it goes well

Thanks man

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Tell us more about her. And good luck"

Um gorgeous petite blonde

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London

Being nervous means it's important to you. It's a good thing and helps you for the day.

Whenever I do public speaking, if I'm nervous before, it goes well, if I'm not nervous, I fuck it up.

Enjoy the nerves and have a great time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all get nervous, even when we already know the person. It's all normal. Take a look in the mirror and say to yourself "she wants to meet me and I'm looking good". Smile, be happy. I wish it was me

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By *uv2kiss2Couple
over a year ago

Norwich

Nerves are perfectly normal and part of the ‘buzz’ for us . If you’re not nervous or emotionless it’s the time to give up in our book . Just be yourself , you’ve done something right in the first place by arranging to meet up !

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Nervousness and excitement are part of the same thing, our mind and body's response - the key difference is our own interpretation. We can reinterpret nervousness as excitement, as a good start.

Anything that builds relaxation is calming, so I'd pick what works for me. I do some exercise when I'm very excited or nervous, as it works my body and the chemicals in it to good purpose. A short walk, run or gym workout is fine.

Breathing is the instant key to change my state of mind. Slow breaths, exhale twice as long as inhaling.

And the other absolute winner is to pick wisely what I focus on. Pick positive things that will enhance your confidence etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi there what kind of location are you meeting at and have you discussed on here what you are both looking for ?. Are you both meeting for a drink then heading off and to meet again or you thinking you might go somewhere if you both get along well and maybe something come of your meet up ?.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The time is now. I'm ready and waiting haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The time is now. I'm ready and waiting haha

Yaaay we are all excited for you x

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"The time is now. I'm ready and waiting haha

Have fun

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"The time is now. I'm ready and waiting haha

Enjoy

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I love those butterflies lol.

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By *urtyGentMan
over a year ago

eastleigh

Go for the “There’s something about Mary” approach and you’ll be golden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The time is now. I'm ready and waiting haha

Don’t forget the condoms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look forward to the pre meet nerves - they usually bode well for a great meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck OP!

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Can you strap a go pro to your head and do a live stream

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

So it went well?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone woke up with a smile

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I've just seen this, nice.

Hope it went great OP

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Pre meet nerves are normal and part of it for us.

The day we don't get nerves is the day we will stop swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve also just seen this! Glad you’re smiling. I’m a nosy cow so I want details ...

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Pre meet nerves are normal and part of it for us.

The day we don't get nerves is the day we will stop swinging."

True that.

I am meeting a old friend from fab tonight. I really like him, I am really excited and have to admit to a few butterflies

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

"I’ve also just seen this! Glad you’re smiling. I’m a nosy cow so I want details ..."

Me too

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I’ve also just seen this! Glad you’re smiling. I’m a nosy cow so I want details ..."

This..I'm a nosy cow too

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"I’ve also just seen this! Glad you’re smiling. I’m a nosy cow so I want details ...

Me too

Well the veris are up! Looks like it went well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve also just seen this! Glad you’re smiling. I’m a nosy cow so I want details ...

Me too

Well the veris are up! Looks like it went well!

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can i have pre-meet nerves peachy?

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